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Bringing Home a Newly Adopted Dog
In my work, I get to meet the most wonderful people and I try not to be too hard on them when they are my clients, but usually I'm telling them exactly what they don't want to hear - that they are usually the reason for their dog's problems and they need to change the way they relate to their dogs for their own good.
It is hard to resist wanting to spoil a new pet, especially if you have just adopted a homeless animal. Owners will bring their new friend home, constantly hug the dog, stroke the dog, bring the dog to bed with them, and tell it, "It's all right. You're safe now."
The problem is the dog doesn't feel safe at all. It will sense it is with a person who doesn't have a "plan," knowing that they are not with an assertive leader. One of two things will happen: The dog will develop an issue stemming from that insecurity -or existing issues will get worse-or the dog will immediately take the leadership position so that at least someone is in charge! Remember that the majority of shelter dogs are already stressed and nervous or afraid and can become aggressive if they don't feel they have that strong, calm-assertive leader at their sides.
In the wild, when a new dog joins an existing pack, they already have a position for it. It will either be a leader or follower. The new dog knows what's expected of him, and what to expect. Most people don't have such a plan, and when a dog finds himself in front of owners who do not assert themselves correctly, the dog is going to create the plan for them.
The right way to bring a rescued dog into your home involves understanding the leadership role. The first thing you must do upon leaving the kennel or shelter is to take the dog for a walk. This will rid him of some of his anxious energy. Resist the urge to coddle it. Affection must come later, when the leadership role is fully established. And don't worry that you are hurting the dog's feelings by withholding affection. You are not. The most important thing it needs to know is where it belongs in the new pack.
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I have been waiting for this one Cesar. Thank you. I watched last weeks show and was left wanting more. I have a Corgi and am waiting for a German Pincher. I really want to introduce her into our family the right way. I will be at your seminar this weekend. I cannot wait. I tell everyone about your show. I have learned so much from you. I must admitt I was guilty of being a poor dog parent. So many of us are. Keep up the good work and thank you again. Oh by the way, my friend and I walk our dogs everyday for at least 45 mins. We love it as much as they do.
I wish I'd seen this episode two years ago, when I brought a new dog into a household that already had one in residence. I did everything wrong (I see now) and the dogs responded badly. Things went from bad to worse and eventually, I had to find new homes for both of them. This broke my heart, but at the time, there was no other solution available to me.
Now I know better. Now I watch the show every week and learn (and put into practice) what I see. Thanks for the knowledge and understanding! My new dog also thanks you!
Like Linda I wish I knew about it a few years ago. That is a great advice, and when I'll bring a new rescued dog home (I will as many as I can) in the future, things should go much better than they are now.
There is nothing I wannt more than to brinjg more rescue dogs into my life but befoe I can do that we have to move so that we have more land . This will happen in a couple of years when my son graduates from high school. Thank god I discovered Caesar before we rescue more rotties so we will be the best dog owners we can be for these guys. I have two rsecue rotties that I am working with at this time and I (and my family) are establishing our leadership role. We did somethings right so its been pretty easy following the 3 golen rules: walking, leadership, and love.
Thanks again for being there for all the dogs that have so much to give and have so much to teach us. Petra
Cesar,
I appreciate the path you have taken for the benefit of the animal world. As a new owner of a Coton de Tulear, I can not get enough of your advice and techniques. I wish you would bring a seminar to the state of Washington! Would you ever consider taking a couple minutes of even one show to speak about the harmful effects of puppy mills and how purchasing pets from pet stores can fuel these puppy mills? Keep up the good work.
Great info in this episode. Worked well for me when I brought a rescue into our home that already had a resident dog. Glad I had found Cesar first.
However, I have a complaint about this episode - while Cesar was talking I noticed the background music was way to loud and made it difficult to hear Cesar. My suggestion is when Cesar or clients are talking - cut the music completely! This is becoming a major problem in many tv shows and movies. Don't really care in those instances but I don't want to miss a word when Cesar talks.
Buenas a Cesar el milagroso con los animalitos and to the rest of you, his faithful followers. I reside in Kansas City. In my home I have 2 female beagles and a male chihuahua. And in my boyfriends home, we have a lab/shepard mix named OSO whom is the most obedient, submissive and playful dog. The 45 minute walks are taking us a bit longer since he just cannot fully snap out of pulling. Its rather hard controlling a 100 pound fella when I myself weigh right around there. But it is not him I am concerned to much about. Two days ago we returned from Sunday brunch to find a loose pitbull running around our fenced yard as though it was her home all along. Since Oso is my boyfriend's first dog, and all I am used to is raising medium dogs, I havent the first clue as to how to approach her. Based on the bad repor that the media has given that breed I have become a bit leary but regardless she is still an animal and deserves her fair chance at life.
We contacted the owners and they denied ever owning a dog only after they confirmed the info on the tags!! It turns out someone dumped her in our lawn. Some of our neighbors know that we are huge advocates for Sheltered animals and vlunteer to socialized sheltered animals as well as fundraise for them!
My largest concern is that she tends to "snap" in to this very aggressive behavior towards Oso and Oso is becoming leary of even walking near her in fear of bothering her. With us, she is a sweet then a bowl full of suger. She even let us bath her and immediatly give her her anti flea drops and etc. The Kennel club has asked us to foster parents since they are over filled at the current time but I am worried she will do something bad while we are both at work. Today I had the day off to observe her and for her to get to know me and understand that I am the Alpha, and she responded well but she continues to bully our dog and my neighbors husky whom is used to being the alpha dog in the pair. Please anyone, I would like you advice for this poor little pitbull named DD. I just want to help prepare her so her future owners dont get discouraged and return her to us or possibly get rid of her in another way.
Help Help Help! You can reach me at casasm@umkc.edu
Love your program, Cesar. Wish I had this information before my beloved Buster and his pack pal, Homer, passed away. They would have, without a doubt, been much happier and well adjusted dogs. Now, I eagerly share your program with all the dog owners I meet on my walks, and any dog owner I know. I pray you will continue your work and show for a very long time.
I have two miniature dachshunds, one is a short-haired, and one long-haired. I live in the cold state of Michigan and I find it difficult to take these two small dogs outside in the freezing cold (especially the short-haired one)everyone morning before work. When I have taken them out on occassion the short-haired one just tries to jump up on me wanting to be held and he's shivering so badly. I've put sweaters on him before but it doesn't help that much. He is paper trained, but I would still like to have him go outside. And the long-haired isn't paper trained so that makes it worse because he just goes where ever he wants inside the house. Does anyone have any suggestions?
Is this blog also in reference to a NEW PUPPY?
I am prepping to bring one home and would appreciate
all of the advice I can get. I have had dogs in the past
and they got the "New Baby" treatment, which I now know is wrong. I work 3pm-11pm and have yet to see the show. Can't wait for season 1 to go on sale!
Thanks!
My wife and I adopted a rescue dog just last Saturday. After one week with no incidents she has taken CONTROL of our futon, and she has snapped at me when I try to take her off the couch. My wife is now frightened of the dog, and is not comfortable around her. After reading this post I realized that I did just about everything wrong, and that my ignorance caused this problem. I am depressed and embarassed about how things happened, and I really hope it is not too late to remedy the situation.
I love the show...I wish I heard about it sooner.
We have a non-aggressive female (a rescue, of course) and want to adopt another dog. Any suggestions on my following questions:
1. Would it be more compatible to have another female;
2. Would same gender "clash";
3. Is it "best" to adopt a male, instead?
4. Any suggestions on adopting a "senior" dog, male or female?
This is an outstanding website and extremely informative. Many thanks to Cesar; we LOVE your advice (and I agree with a comment above to eliminate the music so we won't miss a word that Cesar says).
Two weeks ago, I took in a 6 month old male Dobie pup who was in need of rehoming. He was "mishandled" by a man who also "mishandled" his mistress. He is very active, as a 6 month pup should be, respectful, loves his people and is smart. He stays kenneled during the day while I am at work. We have a good walk and he gets yard play time before spending time in the house with us. He has learned to "wait" to go outside of the house, sit when told sit when stopping from a heel, to wait to have a treat given to him, only takes it when I say he can, wait to have his leash put on and taken off.
I really would like for him to have the full run of my fenced in yard with my three other dogs, so he could have some companionship, but am concerned as to how to introduce them. All rescues: One is a 4 YR F/lab/Saint mix (harmless)and very well mannered, one a 7 YR M/Aussie/Chow? Mix (avoids confrontation, but will back himself up if need be, likes his space) one 12 year old aussie (who would like to rule the roost). The lab/Saint is really the one in charge. All spay/neutered. The Dobie is set to be neutered before I place him in a new home. Any suggestion as how to make this work? I don't have a Ceasar pack.
Marsha,
I'm sure male or female would do well together as long as you are a strong leader and make sure one is not over the other. Oh and make sure that they are spayed or nuetered.
~Chantel
Hi, I'm in desperate need of advice. My puppy (possibly a Rotty from the pound, 12 wks old) is biting, trying to dominate, and seems to get in aggressive behaviour at night. This idea of trying to make a dog submit, does it apply to a puppy? I wish someone would tell me or make a distinction. She bites and I try to make her go on her back, which she does momentarily then she throws a fit and gets even more angry. I need to stop it and learn a new technique. Is there a show or article on puppy biting and aggressiveness? It must be something I'm doing wrong.
We are rescuing a stray 6 month old lab/beagle mix, and I am already working on a plan to introduce him to our current dog (a 13 year old female German Shepherd mix) using the information that I have learned from Cesar. I am also buying your DVD "People Training for Dogs", in order to show my mother (our dog's "Grandma") how we are going to have to treat them in order for this new setup to work. I think she will appreciate learning that you don't have to coddle the dog and submit to its every whim to make it happy and healthy.
Thank you Cesar!
Puppy father,
We have a 4 mo. old female Am. Staffordshire Terrier puppy
who also gets in an agressive, biting mode late in the afternoon, she will not listen to "no" as she usually does and trying to stop her only seems to make her more angry. It seems she does this when she is overly tired and if I can get her to "settle down" and take a nap, she wakes up very calm. I would be interested in any other techniques in stopping this biting, jumping behavior.
I only wish I knew this info before I got my new dog. I have a 12 year old Beagle, and we adopted a 9 month old Bullmastiff at the time. Well I brought the Beagle up to the Bullmastiff (he was on a chain connected to a tree) and right away there was a scuffle. I think that has truly affected their relationship how they live now. My beagle doesn't really want anything to do with the Bullmastiff. Most of the time my Beagle just grows to keep my Bullmastiff away. I'm constantly corrected my Beagle and making him submitt to me, and at the same time he's submitting to me, he's growling at my Bullmastiff. I wish I would have introduced them the right way. I should have taken the new dog for a walk and then when he was calm submissive, had my old dog join in the walk and have them meet like that. Now it's been a little less than a year, they still have scuffles, but they can walk next to each other and be with each other, but if my Beagle doesn't want to play or doesn't want the bullmastiff by him, he'll let him know by showing his teeth and lounging foward at him. He even cut open his skin a few times. Any suggestions, how I can fix this problem.
I'm a huge fan of Cesar's, love his shows and refer all dog lovers to him. That said, I really can't stand this "blog" and don't know why you folks are calling it that. Blogs are Web Logs written by a person, that allows others to respond to the writer's comments. And the originator of the Blog DOES answer back. What you have here is a sort of poor amalgamation of forum and blog. Why not put up a forum and let people use it the way a forum should be used (an exhange of information absent of a "host")? Get yourself some good forum software! Don't use the term "Blog" if Cesar isn't hosting one. Just put up a forum.
For anyone who likes the idea of rescueing dogs, and has the time and the patience, please considering a rescue foster program. I know there are organizations all over the country that desperately need foster families for dogs and puppies (check petfinder for lists). My husband and I are relatively new to this, and so far we have fostered 18 puppies. It can be hard, but it is so rewarding. These are animals that are pulled from the pound and would certainly be euthanized otherwise. I just wanted to get the word out to people who love dogs too! :)
I have a household of 5 cats that were originally raised with a dog. Unfortunately my beloved dog Honus has passed on. I would like to get another dog and would like to know if I should raise him/her from a pup or if a rescue canine could/can successfully join my pack of felines. We have been without Honus for 2+ years. My fur family loved playing with Honus and he loved chasing and playing with them as well. Thanks for any assist anyone can offer. AJ
Help I have just gotten a rescue poodle that is 2 years old. He is a mini about 12 lbs and chocolate in color. The problem that we are having is he connected with me withing a few days now 3 weeks into having him in our home he still is scared of my husband and runs from him when he tries to pet midnight. My husband has never been mean to him, actually he loves him as much as I do. What can we do to get midnight to bond with my husband just like he has bonded with me.
how do u get your dog to listen to you without a leash outside.
Beaubian:
What has worked for me is starting out training with a short leash. Gradually moving up to a flexi-lead. This gradually, I think, gives the impression that regardless how far away they can get from you, you are still in control. I then work my dogs in fenced in area using all the leash commands. It takes practice, time, and consistency. Manners (obedience) is something you have to work on every day! Good luck!
Beaubian:
PS: Regardless of how well my pets behave off leash, I do prefer them onleash at all times. You never know what new situation you will run into that will cause them to react differently. For your pets safety, I say "stay leashed".
cesar,
I absolutely love your show and love your complete understanding of dog psychology. I also love how you don't mince words with the clients and tell it like it is to them. very refreshing.
This weekend I found the absolute perfect dog at a shelter. I spent half hour with him and he was calm-submissive. Never showed so much as hint of aggression when we walked. I was crushed when they would not let me have him because he was diagnosed at being too "nervous" to be around my nine-month old boy. Why are so many so-called professionals so quick to put a label on dogs and recommend things such as putting them down or them not being fit for kids? Are there that few people who don't understand dog psychology?
My boyfriend and I just adopted a dog from the shelter. He was in the shelter for 6-7 months, and was the favorite of the staff. Per the trainer or employees at the shelter he never demonstrated any aggression. When we brought him home, I now see I made the mistake of coddling him, but it didn't seem to affect him negatively. We started him in a group obedience class in which he did great the first few sessions. Then all of a sudden he started showing aggression towards people, growling and lunging. We could get him to stop with a strong verbal correction, but our trainer feels that he should have never been adopted out, that he is dangerous and unpredictable. We really love him, and want to give him a chance, but there are many vunerable people in our lives. What do we do? Does anyone have any suggestions for training, or been through this before? He is a pitbull mix, so he is already negatively viewed by people. He is an amazing dog with us, and my boyfriend is definately the Alpha dog, but how do we get him over his fear, and subsequent aggression?
Hi Cesar,
I havbe the most perfect Am. Staff. named Magic. He's beautiful obedient,well mannered and almost too boring. I have usually had at least 2 dogs at any given time in my life and have enjoied the interaction they would exhibit and find living with 1 dog not as rewarding. The problem I have is that we live as a family with my boyfriend and he likes things on the perfect side. He's not really adverse to another dog it just has to be like Magic. No digging,or accidents in the house, and get along with Magic, who truly likes other dogs.My question is what would be the best way to find such a dog and or do you ever place members of your pack in new homes ? Because Eddie,my boyfriend thinks 1 of your dogs would be fine.
sincerely Mary 818 989 5528
My 1-year-old female GSD was rescued from the pound last July. She is a beautiful, dominant GS female who was quite "kennel bound" when I brought her home. First thing I did was let her run, play, jump in her pool, and play with the hose while I observed her stake her claim to the yard and house. Then we put the leash on and started out for a walk...like most young, untrained dogs, she started pulling like a John Deere. I circumvented her pulling by using a Halti head collar, which was a new device for me. It works like a charm, but the idea was to use it only to stop the pulling while she learned her manners.
Now, she walks at "Follow"....she can't walk in front of me and I thank Cesar for this lesson. She is working well in Agility class and is fast and fearless on the obstacles. She really seems to love flying over the jumps and tunnels.
She will still mouth when she's excited...not a good thing at her age, breed, and size. Years ago I watched a mother dog discipline her pups as they grew...when they nipped at her with their puppy teeth, she would snap at them and pin them on their sides...of course, not to hurt them, but to get her point across and that was to back off and stop biting her. I resurrected that idea, which is Cesar's basic premise, and for the last week have done the same when my dog would grab my hand with her teeth (usually occurs when I'm luring her through the weave poles.)After 3 corrections, she 'got it" and now I can actually see her "adjust her thinking" when she's about to grab me with her mouth. The correction was to pull her up short, NO BITE! and put her on her side until she became calm. It works and she's been going through the weave poles on her own the last 2 days and no longer tries to grab my hand with her teeth.
I always walk her for about an hour before we go play on the agility course so she's calmer and ready to listen rather than have all that pent up energy. The times I haven't walked her first have been frustrating for the 2 of us....so her walk is of primary importance. I repeat Cesar's mantra often, Exercise, Discipline, Affection and my dog is displaying the positive effects of this approach. The agility course is actually the Affection part of the equation and earler I thought it was Exercise...she loves the playtime we have together doing it. I have been guilty of humanizing my dogs and allowing them to get away with bad behaviors because it was cute, or because I was too lazy to be consistent with their training. Now, by consistently using Cesar's methods, it is a pleasure to own this dog, and I should tell you that the shelter staff was fearful for her future as her dominance made her a difficult placement.
Cesar's show is a great motivator and I learn something new from every episode. My dog and I are better for it! Keep 'em coming, Cesar!
Saw Dog Whisperer last night (2-24) for the first time. Excellent show!
Amazing how we don't realize that simple, ordinary body language & emotions can affect how an animal behaves, and how easily we inadvertently reinforce bad behavior.
My husband & I are picking up our shelter dog later today. Gypsy is a 9 mo. old, female, medium sized terrier mix, maybe some Pit Bull, seems to have a good disposition, got along well with the dogs inside PetsMart. We can tell that she has had some training, but will still get obedience training after she has gotten acclimated to us. My husband will be the Alpha because he has a part-time job and will be spending more time with her, I work 10 hr. nights and will be the Beta.
I am going to order the DVD "People Training for Dogs".
I understand that it is not a dog training video, however, from what I saw on the show, if we can train ourselves to be "calm-assertive" then we can better train our dog. I also intend to get the book "Cesar's Way" when it comes out.
Is Cesar ever going to have a seminar in the Pittsburgh, PA area? I would actually take off from work to attend.
Will his shows ever come out on DVD?
hey cesar what happen to the one show with the dog and the cat. The dog didnt get along with the cat also the dog went hiding under the chair you never showed that one yet. I saw it advertise on tv. just wondering when you gonna show it? Hi Michelle friday night show was also on the friday before lol. So cutie pie needs to get busy and make new ones up hehehe. I hope cesar can help out my friend too michelle with his dog. cya Danessa
hi. i just adopted a new dog from a breeder. she was supposed to be the breeder of minipins, but on the first litter hav a c section and they had to spay her, so they had to get rid of her. they send her from me from arkansa (in a ford taurus with around 10 other dogs in the car) and she is just so scared of everything. I did hug and cuddle her but also the first thing i did(without knowing) was taking her out for a walk, but the poor thing just got even more scared (i live in a city and she was from a rural area) so after 2 attempts i haven't taken her out anymore because she gets even more scared and does not kno=w how to walk on a leash.
what's worse is that she hides under my bed all the time. she sleeps in my bed, but i have to drag her out the bed after she cries because she wants to go up.... i have no ide what to do
please help
Hi, I have a problem and just wondering if you could help me out. I have had rylie (my beagle) for almost 4 years now, but he needed a little buddy. So i got this golden retreiver x border collie x bernese as a puppy (libby). She's almost 10 m. now. But over the course of time they've created a strong bond, and with libby being a puppy and all made things worse cuz she got attached to rylie. So today i was coming back from a walk and the dogs got out of the gate. Rylie often runs away but ALWAYS comes back. I think its becuase its the beagle in him, anyway, so they both got out, but libby looked back to see if i was coming, and so i called her. She's great with recall, but lately she hasn't been listening. So in the end she decided to go running off with him. I'm just so mad becuase i've worked with her soo much but the bond is to strong.. what can i do to make her more attached to me? Im really sad! :( :( :( :( :( !!!
Sincerely, Alexis.
I am in serious need for advice. Four years ago I allowed my son to bring home a blue healler. The pup was only five weeks old. I was home during the day so I got to do most the house breaking which went beautifully. I don't know where we went so wrong. He became the alpha, and we became the dog. He is possesive, aggressive, jealous of other people and of other animals. Its almost like he is a person. His dislikes include other animals that get to close to whom ever he is paying attention, he does't like to to have a door closed between him and what or whom ever, he removes the door knobs. When around the family I demand he wear a muzzel,just because the potential is there. My son has married,and has gotten two other dogs. A female healer, and a male pit bull. Rocky(the healer in question)has come back to live at my home with me and my husband. Though an alpha,he is very loving with me and I dearly love him. If he were someone elses dog I would be fearful of him. But I know his snapping point. When my son and his wife come to visit he loves to see them but wants no commands from either one of them. My husband at one time was the alpha, but now he challenges my husband. The vet will not treat him or come into the same room with out a muzzel. I think muzzels are cruel but in his case necessary. At bed time he has he own room where the muzzel comes off and he gets his bones and rawhides. But again,he hates the door shut. When the door is open in the daytime he gets aggressive if another pet goes into his room. He even pins female dogs to the floor which I totally do not comprehend. Even if they submit first. I am really at a loss as to what to do. Also my daughter-in-law is expecting and I am relly worried about how he will respond to the new baby that will be made over.I just cannot bring myself to put him to sleep. Help Please!
We just took in a young adult male dog (Max) that a friend of a friend found on the street. After two weeks, Max is now starting to learn sit-stay and walking "politely" on a leash. He will even sit (with some guidance) before crossing the street. Our biggest problem is that Max freaks out when he sees other dogs or other creatures a block away. Help, please!
Max will pull on the leash and despite our efforts to get him to sit, he will not listen. For the most part, he usually ignores us when we ask him to sit or calm down. He is just so fixated on the other dog. A few days ago, I thought he may have calmed down a bit, so I let him met a neighbor's dog on the street. When he was within three feet of the other dog, he lashed out at it.
We would like to take him to obedience school but it looks like we may have to look to one-on-one training for Max. Is there anything else we can try before resorting to this option? Every piece of advice we have seen online generally assumes 1) the owners have caused this aggression toward other dogs; 2)the owners have established themselves as the leader; 3)the dog likes treats and attention outside.
Is it just a matter of time for Max to get used to us? Do we let him pass other dogs on the street and act nonchalantly when he is barking and instigating the other dogs? Advice would be greatly appreciated!
I have yet to see the show but have heard great things. Unfortunatley I need help NOW! A week ago I got a rescued terrier/corgie mix and she is fine with me and my 6 yr old but is afraid and aggresive w/my husband. We tried some of the basics with treats and such but it does not seem to help. I have had trainers tell me that she will never bond w/him. Is that true? People are telling me that it is hopelss. Is it? Please respond soon beacause we are getting ready to find her a new home.
thanks, liz
I rescued Mollie from the local ADL two years ago. She had been found under a portable school building with seven pups. She was undernourished and showed signs of having been pretty badly abused. I "visited" her over a three week period, both to let her recuperate and to get to know her before I finally decided to take her home. Socializing her went slowly; she still has anxiety around strangers. We have a very large fenced in yard and Mollie loves to be outside so I rationalized that I didn't need to teach her to walk properly when leashed. While I've trained dogs in the past, I've never encountered one whose primary response was peeing on herself. I decided to just love her and give her a good home. Big mistake. Suffice it to say, several trips to the vet showed Mollie to be, shall we say, a bit uncooperative. The vet suggested I watch The Dog Whisperer and since then, I've been hooked. I've also begun trying to teach Mollie some of the finer points of walking. As she is quite large and strong (and I am quite small and not-so-strong), I might seek the aid of a professional trainer in the area. The point of all this rambling? I was one of many (I would guess) who thought I was doing my dog a "favor" by being a softie. Time to shape up, Mollie-girl! Thanks much ...
Mr. F***
If you are looking for advice on training your dog, get a trainer!
I had adopted a dog who i had brought home and we were doing fine. Then she got into a fight with my other dog and we wound up getting rid of ner. She was adopted now I just went on the website of the shelter and she's back there. I feel really bad and want to take her home again. Do you think I would be able to get these two girls to get along? HELP ME!
Cesar I need your help!! My wife and I bought a puggle from a breader and have had her since she was about 9-10 weeks old. She (Dakota) is now about 7 months old. She has been our little "baby" until this past Friday (03/10/06) when my wife and I adopted a pug (Murphy) who is about 8 or 9 months old. We will be his 3rd home.
We have found that Dakota is an Alpha dog and is constantly "playing" with Murphy. Murphy appears to be a Beta dog and is much more relaxed and laid-back than Dakota. He is on his back about 90% of the time they play.
My fear is that Dakota is playing too rough with Murphy which can lead to an injury of some kind to either dog. How can I stop Dakota's aggressive play? My wife and I are contemplating giving Murphy back to his previous owner and my wife would be heart-broken. Please help.
Please help me with a problem with a car chasher...... When we are out on a walk or she has a leash on she is a perfect sheltie. However when she get out of her leash if she get past us at the door she chases cars. I have tried several things and she has come a long way form the abused pup we got 6 months ago. But I can not get her to STOP. Help.. Otherwise I will have to send her away. I could not live with my self if she got out and caused an accedent on the road. I do not want anyone hurt. thanks debbie
I am really interested in being on the dog whisperer. I have 2 labs, both a little over a year. To tell you what the problems are would take forever..one bites and growls, one whines, one chews up baby toys, ones eates other dogs feces...it goes on. Please let me know how to apply for the show.
Gretchen
My dog is just jumping on everybody knocks them down i need advice.
I need to know the effects of leaving your dog on a chain, malnourished and neglected? Obviously I know some causes but I need to know what really happens. All the possible effects. Thanks for your time :)
Mr. F,
If you command you dog like you write no wonder it does not listen....I wouldn't either. My suggestion is for YOU to seek help and control of yourself first before you expect an animal to listen to you. But then again, maybe it IS listening to you and acting just like you!
Ditt ditt duhhhhaaaa.
My husband and adopted a 5yr shih tzu from a rescue about 2mos ago. She is a very sweet girl, and has bonded with us but is very afraid of others, particularly kids. I have 4 small grandsons and I would like her to get used to kids. She goes behind me, between my legs! Any suggestions? There is absolutely no aggressiveness, just scared! Thanks!
My boyfriend and I adopted a sweet, very affectionate,
Non-aggressive English pointer/border collie mix from the Shelter about 6 months ago, she is currently one year old.
Our problems however are severe; she absolutely cannot be alone without destroying anything in her site! She has ripped the roof off my car, furniture, escaped out of our backyard by jumping the fence twice within two days of moving in, dug holes. The list goes on and on. We currently have a kennel in our garage that she goes into when we leave. She hates it however, we've tried making it more appealing by playing games but she stills gets upset when we leave.
I really would love to be able for her to be outside in the yard but she just cannot handle it without destruction.
I don't know what to do and I feel like she needs a home with lots of acreage and other dogs!
If anyone has any advice please help!!!
Adopting is all fine and good, but 48 hours later the magic wears off and you have my problem: Seperation Anxiety.
I walk my dog 15 minutes briskly in the morning before he's even allowed to put his nose down to sniff...let alone potty.
He gets another potty time at noon and when I get home...another brisk 15 minute walk. (Well, there's my 30 minute work out.)
My Miniature Pinscher started crying something fierce when I left him this morning.
I would like to see a show dealing with a shelter/rescue dog and a realistic way to deal with their anxiety.
I have about a week to get a handle on this or I will not be allowed to keep him.
This little and lovable small dog appears in my yard and decided to stay, although I didn't feed him. After contact the SPCA (he has a number, was adopted and run away three months ago. The family doesn't want him)I would like to keep it in my house. The problem is that when I am not around. When leaved inside, he was destructive wanting to get out. When leaved outside, he was destructive wanting to get in. How can I trained this dog to overcome his separation anxiety? I have a crate. Should I put him inside it without causing damage?
I just broought home a rescue dog-a male lab mix who is about 7 years old. He was neutered on Tuesday last as well as having a tumor in his rectum removed. Then the holding shelter called to tell me he has heartworm. I find he is drinking copius amounts of water as well as peeing all over everything. Could the inside peeing be a result of his surgeries or are they realted to the water drinking only. I have left him out in the fenced pen for awhile and I will bring him in to sleep in our unfinished family room. My resident 8 yr old Chessie is not keen on sharing our affections, but he has never been an only dog and we got this other guy to be a companion as well as because he was in a kill shelter and his time was up. I am afraid this is going to turn out badly and I need advice before I make a total mess of it. Can anyone offer advice, please/
hi i feel that with the puppies and dogs you should be as nice as posible thank you.
i think you should be as nice as posible as much as you can to the animals
UGH! I can't take it anymore! Posted questions are obvously not being answered on this site and it breaks my heart to hear about some of these dog owners HUGE problems. My advice is to contact your local animal shelter for referrals to animal behaviorists in your area that can visit your pet and give an evalutation. Posting your problems on this site is a total waste of time. National Geographic - please recatagorize this site as "Comments" not Blog!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am a dog lover - I have two. But you know what I really, really despise? It's people like "MR FUCK"! This uneducated, low life, trailer park mentality comes from people whom are clearly cowards. I feel sorry for any animal that has to live with you. Your dog doesnt need help honey!,... YOU DO! Perhaps you should be writing to the "People Whisperer" about YOUR issues, you seem to have quite a few.
This site is beneficial to most except of course, those whom want to use it like losers and rant on about nothing.
Keep up the good work, ignore idiots like MR FUCK ED UP.We'll keep watching.
A true dog lover.
my dog keeps jumping up and scraching the doors and furniture
I have a5year old mini- Schnauzer who has moved around alot with me, because of that he is very timid of other dogs. It has now become a major issue because he cannot walk near a dog with out barking incessantly. I live in the base of the Hollywood foothills and there are many dogs being walked in the Runyan canyon area. And also in the apartment when we are not home he crys and barks. We have had several complaints from our neighbors. We may be evicted.
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i need to know how to get a bullmastiff to attack
I have a 12 week old pitbull and I want to learn the correct ways to train her, as this type of breed can become aggressive when not trained/treated correctly. I am not a first time dog owner, but i am having trouble with potty training her, so Im wondering if anyone has any ideas? I've also heard that physical punishment is NOT the way to go with this breed. Im also having trouble with "playful nipping and biting." I want to get her to stop doing this, because as she gets older, her teeth will cause much more pain than she does now. Anyone have an ideas..? Anything would be appreciated =) Thanks.
I want to thank you for this article. You don't know how grateful I am that you made this information available to me.
I just got a new puppy - pit, rott & black lab. "Lucy" is extremely intelligent. I think more with my heart than my head so I was overly cautious about hurting Lucy's feelings. I know I don't have to tell you what a mess THAT created!
She's in obedient classes but the info in your article is so much more helpful! Training is necessary, I know, but I don't think it does much good unless you can also understand WHY a puppy does the things it does.
Understand WHY a puppy does the things it does has opened up a whole new world for me.
Everything has come into focus & I'll forever be grateful for this knowledge. Lucy & I thank you VERY much!
Nice colors. Keep up the good work. thnx!
Nice colors. Keep up the good work. thnx!
Dear Ali,
If you go to peteducation.com you can get alot of great dog training tips (free). Check out the problem solving tips.
Nana Noodle
PS Mr Fuck- Get a life.
Our puppy is 11 months old. She will NOT potty train and we are having a lot of problems with her. She is good if we are watching her all the time. She even goes outside to go if we are paying attention, but as soon as we are not paying attention or get busy, she runs off to a room and poops in it. She is crate trained and will not go in her crate but I hate to keep her in that when we are at home. I want a nice house dog that will go out when she needs to using the doggy door. HOW can we accomplish this?
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