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A Pack Leader's Work is Never Done
Like Megan Traver, who you'll meet in the "School for Shelties" segment, many of my clients are successful people who excel at very difficult jobs. Megan is a junior high school teacher who is able to transform whole classrooms of hormone-ridden, pre-teens into calm and submissive students everyday. I don't know about you, but I am in awe of that! Yet when Megan comes home, she is unable to handle her two little shelties. What's up with that?
When people come home from a long day at work, they tend to want to be done being the authority figures. They have spent the day using their physical and psychological energy to the fullest and are usually exhausted. All they want is to relax and fulfilling their own emotional and spiritual needs. And who better to share the soft side of themselves with than the animals who unconditionally loves them?
There lies the problem. I remind my clients, there's no time clock to punch at the end of the day when it comes to being your dog's pack leader. Despite your own mental state, your dog still has his needs - exercise first, discipline second, and lastly, affection. No matter how tired we are at the end of the day, we can't put our own needs ahead of our dog's time and time again and expect them to be balanced and stable.
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I would love to walk my Dog every gday but i go t lost of pitbull in my neiborhood and most of them are uninspected by their owners, and i got a problem I LOVE DOGS IN GENERAL.. but im afriad of other peoples dogs. how can i control others peoples dogs if they atack mine?
HELP CESAR.....
That is a big problem...people were angry with me but, I reported owners of aggressive dogs off or on leash. I think that if your dog is out of control and it runs around loose or you cannot handle it, you should not have it around the public. Unfortunatly, it usually takes a horrific incident happening before the problem is addressed.
Hello, I loved this episode. I have 150 lb malamute. I did not originally want him as he was extremely violent and had been abused. His only recourse was of course to be put down so after much serious consideration and reading and studying I accepted him into my home. At first he was very violent and reactionary. He tore my home apart and tried to kill every dog and most humans that came within his range even if he wasn't frightened. Every day was an "encounter" and a trial. If Mighty and I were going to make it I was going to have to display "pack" dominance and so that's what I did. During this time I always displayed dominance, down played aggressiveness and violence, and even though I personally "inside" shook, I never let Mighty know that. I staid the top dog in our "pack" and with the help of my good friends who also teased him gently out of his violent fixations, and his "girlfriend" Hannah the Banana Malamute he has now become a love "slut" a far different cry from the days when his nickname was "Satan" and the "Evil One" when I used to try not to cry as he would snap aggressively at me. Literally out weighing me you can see how my need for dominance in our pack was imperative. But if you stick with a Power Breed or any Breed if you stay true to yourself and calm as well as have faith in your leadership abilities you can save any dog and find your best friend...Now I don't even have to give him command for him to do "behaviors" he knows I expect of him. He just does what he should because he loves being a good dog and he knows as his master this pleases me. He's all about pleasing me and that's good. Though I often go many places and leave him on a lead it isn't because I have to anymore. He won't leave my side a far cry from the days he would bolt and take off! All you need to do is be strong and gentle, never harsh, never aggressive but always assertive and remember no animal should ever be foresaken. And unlike humans animals can always be rehabilitated! (People could too if they believed but often people foresake themselves) Best to all. Its not luck its work so get to work!
Can I ever relate to this situation!
My pack consists of a husband, a 9 year old boy, a 6 year old girl, a bassett hound, a papillon, a newfoundland, and a sheltie. (I know.. what a mix!)
My paying job is being a nurse, so after taking care of sick people all day, I am sometimes very drained when I get home.
However, I would never consider not caring for my children or spending quality time with them just because I have had a long day. I am so glad that I finally understand that the same philosophy applies when caring for my four legged children.
Before I understood the power of walking my dogs and becoming a positive leader of my pack, my house was in chaos. We were even considering finding new homes for some of our dogs.
Now, not every day is perfect, but I usually get more challenges from my human children than from the canine ones!
Cebelina,
What a wonderful tale of success! I love it! Bless you for not giving up!
Juan,
Loose, "unbalanced" dogs, can be a tough one to deal with.
I have a local beach where I walk my dog and also work with my client's dogs. Maybe because I consider it MY beach, (or I'm just "bossy" and confident around dogs!), but I'm very used to stopping dogs while they are at a distance from me and the dogs I'm with, and getting them to back-off or leave. I'm not saying this is an easy thing to do for most people, and it does require confidence and attitude.
Yes, it's unfortunate when people don't obey the leash laws, and put other humans and dogs, (plus their own dogs), at risk. If the owners are vilating these laws, I would report any dangerous situation before someone gets hurt.
On the topic of consistant leadership, even when we're tired:
I don't look at "training" or "rehabilitating" a dog as something you do in small scheduled segments, only when we can fit it in. It's an ongoing process, just like raising kids. Kind of like when Cesar mentioned a period when he was not functioning as part of the "home-team" with his family, after working all day with a pack of dogs, so he and his family made some changes for the better. :)
Opportunities to teach, interact, and lead, pop-up all day, everyday. Taking an opportunity to interact as the leader and teacher as the situation presents itself, is ideal. Even if it means putting off dinner or putting your feet up, for a few moments.
When a situation arrises naturally, the teaching becomes part of the natural flow of the day-to-day interactions. I love it when everyday activities provide us with a chance to co-mingle leadership, teaching, and bonding with our loved ones, including our dogs.
I don't look at "it" as something you just turn on and off, when dealing with family members. I would hate to miss an opportunity which could save me a lot of effort later, just because I was too pooped to address an important learning/leadership situation which happened naturally.
Walking our dog after a long day at work, is also a great way for us to unwind, too!
Deb
Hi All- I am finding this out more and more everyday-I get up at 4am and I'm out the door by 5am, I don't get back home until 6:30 in the evening. My husband works nights as a police officer-we chose this schedule purposely so the dogs wouldn't have to be stuck in the house and not be able to go to the bathroom. He leaves for work about 1pm on most days. I"m usually exhausted at the end of the day but I spend the time doing frisbee, ball, running some obedience exercises, and then we take a long walk when I get home. We live in a wooded rural area, and normally in the past if my 2 girls saw something they didn't like or another animal, they would take off running and literally drag me along with them holding on to their leashes. Last night they saw something and went to dart off-I just said "Hey!" and they both stopped dead and looked at me waiting for me to tell them what to do.
It was amazing to me.
Our big test will be on Monday when they go to the vet for their shots. Now I'm curious as to how they will behave instead of dreading the behavior I expected in the past.
Cesar's blog for today repeats his "exercise, discipline, affection" mantra, and "exercise" emphasizes the 45 minute (minimum) daily walk. Is a 25 minute walk in the morning and a 20 minute walk later in the day as effective as a single 45 minute walk? Or is there a significant benefit from one, continuous long walk?
Hi Richard,
I think the importance of a long power walk in the morning, is to help take the dog's energy down before they are left alone for the day, by people who work.
It also follows the natural progression of walking and earning their breakfast before being fed, as Cesar mentions.
Although I personally prefer to get Tia out for a long morning walk, sometimes this is hard to accomplish every single day. Tia, does go to work with me, and gets exercise breaks all day. So, this works okay when a long morning walk is missed. But, it not ideal, and I do notice she does best with a longer walk, earlier in the day.
Deb
HI Richard I think you had asked me about why I prefer to play with them before our walk.
I find they are calmer when we do take our walk, and the reason is just like last night when they went to pull away-they were more tired and not as anxious to persue whatever was in the woods. My routine is as follows-as soon as I get home I let my 2 girls out, I put up something to eat and then I play frisbee or ball with them for a bit. After I eat I take them down to my basement one at a time where I put their leash on and we do obedience drills for a while, after that I play frisbee with them again, and then I let them have free time playing with a hanging tug while I lift weights.
After I give them both time alone with me, I take them for a 1/2 hour walk, sometimes longer. I find that I spend about an hour and half total with them before I can relax.
I think every dog is different, just like people and if you break your walks up that should be fine. I would add in some play time before or after their walks. I find with my 2 german shepherds, they are so high energy that the more I do with them the better for them-they are calm and satisfied for the entire night, and thats better for me so I can relax and enjoy petting them and cuddling with them.
Other than walking your dog. What are other ways to show your dog you are the pack leader?
Hi Vic- I found that if I see behavior I don't like I can step in front of my dogs and block them from doing what they want to do, with that I usually snap my fingers and point at them. When I do this they immediately sit and look up at me. Alot of being the pack leader is an attitude and your body language and the energy you exude more than anything else I could describe to you. My dogs are also obedience trained and they know I will correct them on leash or by grabbing their scruffs if I see behavior I REALLY don't like. However the walk is important for bonding and practicing being able to let your dog know you are the pack leader-like if he goes to pull away and you put a stop to that right away. After a while the dog will learn you are the pack leader.
I was wondering if anyone knew if the 45 min per day walk applied to chihuahuas too?
It seems after 30 mins my chi is pretty tuckerd out and is ready to stop.
Should I force him to continue?
He's not a high energy boy and really poses no problems or exhibits any behavior problems at all.
But, I still want to do what's best for him all the same.
Thanks.
Hi Sarah,
For smaller dogs yes the walk can be shorter. They are definetaly taking a lot more steps than say 60 pound dog would be taking.
To Vic,
Other ways to show you are the leader is to work with Discipline with your dog. So basically just work with rules, boundaries and limitations with your dog. If your dog wants you to pet him, you have him sit for you or have him atleast do something for you first. You never let your dog control you. You are the one to decide when you play, where he sleeps, when and where you walk, where he can goto the bathroom.
It's basically just making sure he's always doing something for you if he wants something. Remember as the leader the dog always comes to you, the leader never goes to the follower.
When you first come home, ignore the dog for 5-10 minutes, first that'll keep the dog calm and second you'll be able to walk in with a calm assertive energy and the dog will be able to feel that and he'll know that you are the leader. Remember by you walking in and the dog greets you and you greet him back, then you are just giving the dog what he wants on his terms. AFter 5-10 minutes or when the dog is calm/submissive you call the dog over to you and you greet him that way.
*Just remember your dog must earn everything. Never just give him what he wants w/o doing anything for it. It might seem harsh but remember this is Dog Psychology, NOT HUMAN PYSHCOLOGY we are working with here. In the end it'll make you happy and most importantly your dog well-balanced.
HI John-SInce I have been watching Cesar I had been doing everything except ignoring my dogs when they come in-I found it so hard because they both go insane and do their happy dance. I couldn't resist just joining in the chaos with them, but I have recently started to ignore them both, it's rough but I know I have to do it, so far they calm down alot faster-I make them both sit after a few minutes and then I pet them.
God Morning!
Yesterday my daughter called me on my way home and I told her to take the dog for a walk because I was exhausted (bad idea!lol)....I get home in about 30 minutes and there they are at home, I asked/remarked that she did not spend very much time with him and her reply was that as soon as he starts yanking on her she turns around and comes home.
Welp, that got me ruffled as I have been spending a lot of time AND money on what is supposedly "her" dog to train him and she has not taken the time to read and work on the information we have been doing with him.
So I take off my heels, throw on some shoes, and tell her come on I'm going to show you how its done (another bad idea!lol)....she of course is whinning while I am walking as fast as I can (2 back surgeries) and is behind both me AND the DOG!grrrrrr!lol I stopped and told her to catch up, and told her when she complained about her "knee" and that I shouldn't be walking so fast because of my back, that it's not about her or me, but the dog....that we are going to have a 180lbs dog in about 6 months and if he doesn't get what he needs now, it will be a deadly situation later! That if she can't do what is necessary to learn or put forth an effort to learn, then don't undo what I've been working so hard on doing (My daughter is 21 by the way and VERY lazy!), as the whole time we were "power walking" he didn't yank me once but stayed right next to me the whole time. I asked if she saw how I was doing it, she said yes, I told her to go home as she is making the experience a bad one for all of us, and I continued on.
When I came home at first, the dog was being a nut case...out of control and just not the dog I am used to him being when she is not around!....when I walked back through the door the dog was frothing panting and I had worn him out some and me for sure!lol
It's so hard to get the balance I have when my daughter is home that I have when she is....how do I fix that??? KathyB
KathyB -- strange but true: dogs are much easier than our children LOL. Recently, my mother and brother moved in with me, for financial and health reasons. Their little dog was manipulative yet very cute, but had some behavioral problems that they would complain about. They've noticed a change in their dog's behavior since moving in. (I treat their dog the same way I treat mine - exercise, discipline, affection.) Maybe your daughter will notice the difference in the dog also and she will then jump on the bandwagon. Good luck!
Kathy,
Well, my daughter is 12, which I think it old enough to walk at least one of our three dogs, but it's always hard to make her do it. I guess when the kids see that moms will do all the work, they will avoid it, coming with a million of excuses. No matter how tired I am after work (I don't have a sedentary job), I will walk my dogs (three of them, separately), because no one else will.
My husky mix walks very well when she is just with me (except that she tries to charge at some dogs, while she is fine with others, we are working on that). However if my kids join us for a walk, she pulls constantly, and generally is not the same dog. Why is it? I am teaching my kids to walk, not run around or jump, but Ruffy is still not calm.
KathyB
Based on your posting, it sounds like it is you who has a dog but your daughter just lives there.
If she is not going to participate in the proper care and walking of your dog, she should stay away. It is very stressful for you and the dog if the whole family is not on the same page. And seeing as you are going to have a very large dog on your hands, it is essential that all hands are on deck. It is not fair to you or your furfaced baby for your daughter to behave in this manner. If SHE can afford it, have her hire a dog walker so your big guy can get the exercise he needs. A big dog needs all the help he can get or it can turn into a dangerous situation.
Good Luck!
Ewa,
Since you are the Mom, you can assign any chores that need to be done and done properly (that's why you are the Mom). Walking the dog(s) should be high on the priority list. I'm sure your daughter was begging to have a dog and now that you have 3, it seems that you are the only Pack Leader - she wants to be a follower. What's wrong with this picture. I hope your daughter re-thinks this out and understands that dogs are not here forever and they love unconditionally. She should be wanting to walk her dog(s) with a proud look on her face and there will be a look of total devotion on the face(s) of your dogs.
Good Luck.
I have been walking my 88 pound lab the way Cesar teaches. He trots right along for the most part. However, some times he doesn't like the direction I'm trying to go so he just sits down. I've tried pulling him, which causes him to choke. I've tried treats, but he only walks far enough to get the treat. I've tried pushing him from behind and lightly pinching his back side but this doesn't help. Last night, he not only sat down but he rolled over and wanted a belly rub. How can I keep him going on the walk?
If humans are always supposed to be the pack leader, why in some episodes does Cesar allow the dogs to run in front of him? In one episode after just meeting a very shy brown down, the dog runs in front while Cesar is pulled on roller skates. On other episodes he runs with the dog next to or behnd him to tire the dog out.
Bernard,
I don't think "releasing" a dog to move out in front to pull or jogging a dog does any harm to Cesar's leadership status. The dog is still participating as directed.
Getting a dog's energy down, does help set them up for success. I also will jog a dog to take the edge off.
My own dog knows when she is released from the heel position, she is free to move ahead to relieve herself, play with another dog, or explore. It only takes a word, a look, or even a change of my body language and attitude, and she's right back at my side, leash or not.
If a dog views you as the leader, a lot of times you just have to communicate what you want, and they will gladly comply. If you're still establishing the leadership position, it will be more of a challenge to get that compliance.
Hi Julie-SInce he's on leash-try either using a chain collar or pinch collar and when he doesn't comply with you give him a quick correction on the leash-tell him to "heel" while he is walking and praise him-when he pulls this sitting down business tell him "no" while giving him the correction and then tell him to heel. The correction is a quick snap with the wrist, it simulates the "touch" that Cesar talks about when a dog is misbehaving his touches the dog with his fingers simulating a dogs mouth. You can also try a side step with your leg-it's the fartherst from your dog, sweep your across and touch him with your leg-you use the opposite leg so the dog doesn't see it. Any touchor correction refocuses your dog. I hope this helps........
Hi Bernard I was wondering the same thing-I guess with dogs that are really problematic, just getting them to comply in any way shape or form is an improvement, you can always work on having the human goes first later on-at least thats my take on it.
The episode you are talking about was the dog that was very fearful of things on the street-just to get him to run feely was more important than the smaller things like that.
Cockers x 3
Thank you for your comment. I think pointing to my daughter that the dog will not be here forever might work. All my kids love the dogs more than they love me (I have no problems with that), but when it comes to work, that's a different story.
Julie,
My chow mix used to do the same thing. If she didn't want to go somewhere, she just stood without moving, giving me the look saying: I don't want to go there. In the beginning, since I didn't care where we would walk, I just let her choose. But now I know better, and I don't let her be the leader. Since Blackie is a very well behaved dog, instead of pulling her I take her leash off for a moment and go where I want to go. She follows me immediately, and I clip the leash back on her. It's only when she's on the leash she would object to a certain direction. She ALWAYS follows me off the leash. Does your dog follow you off the leash?
Thanks for the pointers, Shari and Ewa. I will try some of your suggestions. Ewa, my lab doesn't always follow me off leash. He's four years old and I really didn't give him much correction until about 4 months ago after going to a Cesar conference. He has improved a lot since November, but I don't have him to the point where he will follow me off leash. I hope to be at the point by this summer!
Hey Everyone,
I have been having a hard time. My dad wants me to get a small dog, but it's so hard to find small dogs at shelters, and the right small dog. Personally I want a BIG dog like a Samoyed (that would be awesome!) but of course I live under my dad's roof with his rules. The only small dogs that I have seen have been beagles at Humane society. I don't know much about them but my dad...ya, you know the rest. My dad is picky but I guess it's for my own good. I just want to find the right dog through Humane Society or other rescues and shelters. I'd be good with any dog, but my dad. hehe. I guess when the time gets closer to get my dog (this summer) I'll find the right dog. I'm just worried that's all, this being my first dog.
~Chantel
Hi Chantel,
Define "small". Under 30 pounds, under 20 pounds? Sometimes wonderful "small" dogs think they are big but are just height challenged. Have you tried Petfinder.Com? You can enter the info you want and they will list dogs (with pictures) from the west coast to the east coast. Since this is your first dog, you would do best with a dog that is a couple of years old and probably already housebroken. A puppy will be very hard for a first-timer. Beagles are great but they "bay" because they are hounds.
I know you will have love in your heart for whichever dog you choose and it will be a very lucky little dog to have you.
Good Luck!
Hi Chantel!
Due to your interest in Cesar's work, would you and your dad consider a medium sized, young adult dog?
I personally think adult shelter dogs are a breeze, due to their need to belong. Even when they've had a bad start.
You may not want to begin with an unsocialised dog with a lot of issues, but there are a lot of wonderful, small to medium sized dogs with minor behavior problems from their last environment, which would love to have a wonderful young leader such as yourself.
I am so impressed with your passion for dogs. I wouldn't be surprised if you continue with this as a vocation. If this is where you think you may be headed, tell your dad this. Most parents are thrilled to have a daughter passionate about anything...other than boys! Ha-Ha!
I never had kids of my own, yet seemed to end up "rehabilitating" a lot of teenage boys, thanks to my stepsons and their friends! I know helping a young person find their passion, and turning it into a lifelong dream can be the key to a more fulfilled life. Even when their start may have been a bit rocky at first.
I'm glad you are here on this blog, and always enjoy reading your posts. You are a very caring, compassionate, and wise, young person.
I was lucky myself as a young girl, to have a neighbor who ignited my interest in dogs at a very young age.
What can I say?...You go girl! :)
Deb
Hi Chantel,
Yes, I agree with everything Debbie and Cocker said. I know you will be an awesome mom to your dog. I wish more kids would love dogs so much, I see too many times they get puppies as Christmas or birthday gifts, and when the puppies grow up, nobody wants them anymore.
Beagles... my neighbor has one (unfortunately unneutered). It's a nice dog, but his bark is terrible. I can hardly stand it. And he barks all the time. Plus he escapes. Of course he is never walked, spends all his time in the backyard.
Thanks Deb!
I am very passionate towards dogs, and animals. I am glad to talk to you. You seem to be very passionate about dogs also. I love reading your entries. You give very good advice.
I think my dad would consider a medium sized dog. He has actually become more open to other dogs now that he knows about Cesar and his work. He is more comfortable now that he knows any dog can be a well trained dog no matter what background. I am trying to teach him and my entire family how to be a good pack leader so we can be a balanced pack (my brother is going to take a while. Heeheehe). It's funny, every time I start to talk to my family it is usually about dogs so they are fully aware of my love for dogs. I think they are getting sick of it :). It seems that all of my siblings are very strong in one subject that they will constantly be talking about. My oldest brother is so knowledgable about cars and is constantly talking about them. My other brother is extremely smart when it comes to computers, and that's all he talks about. Me, I am just crazy about dogs and Dog Whisperer. My cousin and I are both crazy about dogs and have a ball just talking about them when we get together.
I am hoping to volinteer at Humane Society or another shelter when I turn 16 in two years. Some poeple working at those places need to be educated. The volunteers who walk the dogs are being dragged this way and that, and I think it would be a great way to help the dogs and spread the word about Cesar.
I have been thinking alot about my career when I get older. I was thinking of starting a rescue program. I don't know. Any ideas? I don't know if that would be a proffeting career, but it would be fun and rewarding.
All I want right now is my dog. Sence I can't wait to come to the rescue of a dog and make him balanced and happy.
Thanks for the comments Deb, your awesome :D
~Chantel
Cocker x 3,
Thanks for the comment. I have been to ptefinder.com, but do you know how much each dog is? I would also like to meet my dog before I get him.
I am not sure what exact size but my dad will let me know when we look at dogs. Not too small because I would be afraid of it getting hurt so easily.
Thanks again.
~Chantel
Hey Ewa,
My cousin had a beagle. Of course she was in first grade I believe and did not train her. She told me she will never get a beagle again because of so many things:
Daisy(her beagle) howled alot and would charge at you.
She ran away alot and had to be captured.
Once my cousin took Daisy for a walk while roller blading and she saw a cat and started dragging my cousin on the ground.
All those problems can be trained out of a dog, but it would be hard and take persistance.
~Chantel
Chantel-
you rock! I am also inspired by your compassion for dogs. I am 24 and I worked at the Humane Society for a year. You do not have to be 16 to volunteer, but I do think that your dad would have to sign a paper for you or something like that. I am not sure if many people know this or not, but (this is just a suggetion) you can volunteer to be a foster family for a dog that is sick or has minor behavioral issues, then you can get a feel for the dogs temprament and see if it is something you want to handle for the rest of its life, and if not, you are still really helping a dog to become adoptable to a loving home, especially with your knowledge. It is always rewarding to adopt/save a dog in which you have already personally rehabilitated. Foster families are always needed, and so hard to find. Props to you for having the heart to rescue and use your power for good!
Chantel,
The dogs on Petfinder are all rescues...some of them are in foster care and some are in high kill shelters. The prices vary from $100 to $200. If you get your dog from a rescue that has non-profit status, then you can use that as a tax deduction. You can find rescues right in your neighborhood and they always want volunteers to help walk the dogs. I found my first cocker spaniel that way. I was a volunteering at a local rescue and was walking this beautiful blond cocker and it was instant love. Being a volunteer, you get to see all the dogs that come from the pound first and it's almost like getting your pick of the litter. All the dogs listed are available for you to see and in rescue situations, the people running the rescue will have observed the dog's behavior and can tell you something about it. The only thing they can't tell you for sure is why the dog was taken to the pound in the first place. Most of them have been abused or abandoned. People move and take their precious pet to the pound on the way or they buy a puppy and once it's older, they take it to the pound and get another puppy. Some people are really sick.
I have been volunteering at a local rescue for 15 years and it's the most rewarding thing I have ever done. To see families come with or without kids and sit down and choose a family pet or they bring their dog with them so they can get a companion for their dog (actually they leave it up to the dog to choose who it likes).
Shelter dogs need to be rescued but the only problem with that is you don't know what you are getting, temperment-wise. At a rescue, all dogs have been bathed and evaluated and are ready for placement. Either way you go, you really can't loose and it's a win-win situation for the dog and you'll have a wonderful family companion in the end.
I look forward to hearing how it turns out.
Good luck.
PetFinder also has a "classified" section- not jut rescues.
I once got a Himalayan from the ads.
Good Morning All! :)
Welp....I had a short day yesterday, so I loaded up my "basket" of water bottles, water bowl, some toys, and off we went to the park!....all I want to say at this point is DUMB DOG!lol
I have an SUV and it took some training to get him to jump up in the back as my ex never trained him to jump up in the back of his truck, but would litrally pick up his back end and hoist him up....seems a little rediculous that a man would help a 90lb Rott up into the back of a truck, but thats another story!lolol
ANYWAY.....took the dog to the park and walked around the entire walking/running area (probably a mile?) and you would have thought I took the dog on a 100 mile run!!! He was panting like crazy and acted like I ran him for 5 hours! Gave him some water, let him cool down for about 15 minutes abd then I said ok, time to go home...he would NOT jump up into the back of the SUV to save my life!!!!!
I finally had to let him into the back seat and even THAT was work!!!!.....what the heck????? He is great getting in when we go somewhere, but is a complete turd when its time to get back into the car!!!!! WHY???????? HELP!lol
I didn't want to push/force him too hard because to be truthful, I am not sure how hard to "push/force" him to do what I want...I don't really feel like getting bit, or pushing/fgorcing him to do what I want when he seems stressed!
I was so aggravated, and it makes me not want to go to the park again as it took 30+ minutes to get him back into the truck! And that is just flat out rediculous in my opinion!!! Why in the world would he not get back into the car?????lol
I can say for sure he did get a great walk!lol
KathyB
KathyB,
Boy, you are gonna have some interesting times teaching him to jump into the SUV!!! It kinda reminds me of the time I took my dog (1/2 jack russell, 1/2 blue heeler) to the vets for his skin infection. Anyway, I had a heck of a time just getting him on the scale to weigh him (68.2 lbs). It took me several minutes of trying to pick him up and placing him on the scale but would get off of it any chance he got. Finally, it occurred to me to show him by example. Silly me, figured if I just got on the scale myself maybe he would get on the scale. Once I got on the scale, he followed automatically by himself onto it. I felt so stupid for struggling with him to get him on the scale when all I had to do was get on it myself.
So all in all, I was thinking if you got into the back of your truck yourself and try to coax him to get in he might jump in after you. Fortunately for us when we switched from a car to a SUV we didn't have to teach him to jump in, he figured it out for himself. I hope this helps a bit. I love reading your posts and everyone elses here!
Hi Linda P.!!!
hahahhahaaaaa....I tried that!
He just would NOT get in!grrrrrrrr
I know he can jump up in the car....he's done it 20 times before....I am beginning to think he isn't doing it because he doesn't WANT TO!lol
He did it to me at the vets too....then the two tech's came out, got him excited and BAM, up he went!
To be quite honest....I have only had him here with me for about a month and I am a little catious of him....he is HUGE (97lbs) and he is displaying signs of trying to be dominant at times (just turned a 1 year old 2/27)...I of course always win and when I am with him he would never know I am a little afraid of him, but I also do not know how far I can "push" him to get him to do what I want. OK....so there's the truth of it!lol
I would like to think he was worn out and just too "tired" to jump up, but thats flat out rediculous and while he was walked long & hard he could have jumped up in the back. He even tried to lay down when I was trying to get him in the back of the SUV which got a very strong check by me, as he was laying right down in nothing but dirt!lol
He is just flat out stubborn!lololol
Heeeeeeelp!lololol
I am more than willing to take MY lazy, get out of the office chair, 2 back surgeries, go to all the effort to go to the park self, but after yesterday......I would like to figure out a solution to that problem before I go and do it again!lol
Maybe I should bring a blanket and just chill for 30 minutes after our walk?????
I throughley enjoy reading yours & everyones posts also!!!! :) KathyB
UPDATE!lol
I just talked to my trainer & we have come to the conclusion because my walk with him was so structured that he was over-heated and tired.
That I need to bring a blanket, bring a book, and plan on chilling out for awhile to give him time to cool down and relax (which suits me just fine as a good book, blanket and park all sound awesome to me!LOL
My "walks" are not just walks with him, but very structured and very learning intensive with him, so I think I am going to give the park another whirl and do what my trainer says and see what happens!
And since I am being weird about him and aggression, my trainer said I am confusing dominance with aggression and with him working with my dog, he cannot fathom him getting aggressive with me, as I am very loving while still being a good pack leader. He let me know that a dog who is getting ready to become aggressive will close his mouth and stare, and my trainer told me what to do if that ever happens (which he assured me would never happen, as I only have a HUGE puppy!lol)
Just thought I would share! :) KathyB
Hi i recently bought a seberian husky he was about 6 months old when i got him, the other owner had him in a kennel all day everyday with his brother, he (the original owner) got rid of both of them. when i brought him home i thought for sure i'd have a hard time getting him use to being in the house after all i was getting a pet to be kept outside, right? that's just non sense to me. anyways once i got home much to my surprise he didn't seem to mind the house at all the only thing i found was that every little noise like a cupboard being close or something of the matter he got scared and he still is? he seems very jumpy to me. should i be concern or is there anything i can do to help him get use to it? i tell him it's ok when i notice he seems to be a lil frightne by something but that doesn't seem to help.
Angele,
Cesar said that the best thing to do for a dog with low self-esteem, like your dog, you should never comfort him when in an unbalanced state of mind, such as being afraid. By comforting your dog when he is scared it is only magnifying his fear and not helping at all. The best thing to do is let them go through it but do not pitty and try to distract by giving him a shoosh or snap the fingers. When he calms down and is in a balanced state then you can share affection. This will inforce that balanced state is the state that you want him to be in.
You also need to make sure that you are being a good pack leader in all areas of his life, such as the walk; is he walking beside you and not pulling, concentrating on you. Are you having him work for food. Do you excercise Cesar's philosaphy: excercise, disapline, and then affection in that order? By you being the pack leader he will be more confident and happy all around. He won't feel like he needs to step up and take the leadership role if you are strong already in your leasership role. Well I hope this bit of information helps you out. Good luck. :D
~Chantel
Re: Playing before walks
I, too, used to play fetch with my Aussie before walks because it would make him calmer during the walks and he would not tend to pull. It wasn't until I noticed he was "expecting" to play ball before our walks that I put a stop to it. One day it had been raining heavily so I decided to skip the ball throwing so as to not to tear up the lawn. (I usually will throw in intermittent jogging in our walks if he doesn't get ball fetching in). As soon as he saw me going for the leash, he had a spaz. He nipped at my heels, displayed what might be considered play bowing except he was showing his teeth. I suspect this is more like challenging behavior. He has done this before inside the house when he wants attention and I'm busy doing something else.
Does anyone have any suggestions on how to deal with challenging behavior?
I am working on not engaging myself emotionally. Cesar's post in the past re: correction/punishment helped a lot in this respect.
It is hard, though, to detach myself emotionally when he exhibits this challenging behavior.
Thanks so much Chantel i appreciate the advise, to be quite honest i hadn't heard of Cesar until today a friend to me about his site i haven't seen his series yet but i can't wait to find it on T.V. im not sure if it's even televised here but i'll be keeping my eye open for it, Ozzie is a very gentle dog but has some behaviors im not sure of like when i forst got him he didn't seem to want anything to do with either my mother or I as for my son and brother he was fine with so i slowly let him approach me today i can't seem to go anywhere in the house or outside without him, lol which i don't mind at all. thing is now take for instance when he's tied outside and a male figure comesin the yard he lays down but he's fine when a women approachs is there a way to correct that? sorry for aksing so many question but having a pet is all new to me he's now a lil over a year so i'd like to correct him as soon as i can , thanks a gain
KathyB,
Didn't even occur to me that he could have been real over heated, especially since he was not used to being walked regularly. You really have a big job ahead of you! I know when my dog gets that way, he won't do anything but lay down on the spot, whines and yips cuz he wants to play but is way tooo winded. I commend you for giving it your all to get your rottie calm submissive. Like alot of people here have been saying, other people just don't have a clue as how to take good care of their dogs. Good Luck with training!!
Linda P.,
Actually I walk him at least once a day....just not completely around the park.lol
I think that I need to give myself a break (so my trainer says!lol) and realize that I am doing a great job as I work my dog very hard mentally even though I may not walk him a long time or run him. So he said that my walking is very exhausting to him because he is always having to think and watch me.
lololol....You gotta love em don't ya!lol It's so hard to not give in at times when they are being cute, but I am doing my very best to do what is the very best for him, so I never do. He is also breaking my very slight OCD on a perfectly clean house because as soon as I sweep & mop my entire house made up of white tile...in he comes from the yard....black hair and paw prints everywhere!heehee :D
I am again excited about going to the park, and I think next time....I'm not parking in the dirt!hahahahaa KathyB
I'm glad that you have found Cesar, he is truly remarkable. If you have cable or dish you can watch Cesar's show on the National Geographic Channel. It is broadcasted on fridays in the evenings. I just barely got done watching Dog Whisperer (3 episodes of it). The newest episode was great. If you are not able to watch it on TV, can buy last year's episodes and Cesar's book and DVD. (Book:Cesar's Way, DVD:People Training For Dogs) Just look around on this sight, you'll see it.
So this is your first dog. I have never even had a dog, but I am very passionate about them and will be adopting one this summer. I can't wait!!! I will let you and everyone else how it goes. I am very excited because I have been saving my money for over a year. It will all be worth it soon. I am trying to get prepared for it by studying Cesar and his wonderful technics.
I'm sure that any problem with your dog can be solved. Good luck
~Chantel
I love watching his show. He's amazing. I wish I could afford to have Ceaser work with my boxer. She 8 months old and a beautiful fawn color.
My pack consists of my 26 yr old bf Rob and my 9 yr old son Nate and my 6 yr old daughter Abby. Maxine aka Max is a very sweet dog and when we found her she was 4 months old and not being fed. Getting into neighbors trash and people were ready to call the pound on her. Her and I seem to be having power struggles though. She thinks she's got the power and I imagine that I'm feeding into that. She always gets in between Rob and I when we are together on the couch.
I just want to get to where we all have a healthy relationship together. I didn't know that Ceaser had a dvd out so I'm going to order it and see if we can make some progress.
I wanted to know if anyone could give me some advice? I have a yorky/chihuahua cross,his name is max. He is such a great little dog!I take him to work with me every day,their is a golden retreiver there who is his best friend.He loves people and other dogs.Now to get to my problem,when we are home in the evening and someone knocks at the door he barks none stop!When the person comes in he is still barking,he dosnt stop ussually until I pick him up and introduce him to the person even if he already has met this person before.When I take him on walks and he sees another dog across the street or a person he barks up a storm then to untill he is introduced to them.How can I get him to not bark so much it really makes people nervous and other dogs also.I dont think he is doing this in an agressive manner he is just trying to say hey look at me!
Good Morning jennifer!
I don't know if you have seen the show where Cesar worked with the school teacher that had the dog who attacked and barked at her vacum and hair dryer???....I would try and see if you can catch that episode and try that on your little one....It's trully amazing what Cesar can do with a dog!!!! And he says we can do it too!!!
I bet if you did the technique he showed her, you would solve your problem in no time.
My trainer and I have been working on mine and the front door. My dog is not allowed to answer the door...he has an invisible line (its about 5 feet away from the door) he must say behind when I go to the door and cannot cross that line until I sat "free". I do not get very many visitors, so we are still working on that one. KathyB
Hi Everyone!
KathyB... I am the school teacher from last night's show! First, thank you for watching it and sharing in what was an amazing and powerful experience in my life! As I watched the show last night I was reminded of just how severe Jake's problems with the hair dryer, etc. were. I am so pleased to share that the techniques Cesar taught me that day REALLY WORK! Jake, Nugget and I have come such a long way. Life is so much better now. I think, too, that Cesar really nailed it when he spoke and wrote about those of us who give so much in our jobs and then we want to come home and just relax... We do! But we owe it to our dogs to come home and still be the pack leader. Like the way you do, KathyB, when you limit your dog to the invisible line by the door. (That is so cool!) Once I understood that I needed to be the pack leader at home, too, Jake, Nugget and I gained a balance in our lives that we had not had since Jake arrived in our family. That was all a real eye-opener to me.
Anyway, hope everyone got a lot out of the show last night. I am hopeful that the things I learned can be shared with others with similar situations. I will try to check-in to this blog if any of you have any questions.
All the best,
Megan
I also have a barking dog. Tanner is a great dane mix. He loves to play outside in our fenced in back yard. When someone passes by with or with out a dog he will start barking very loudly. I try to call him in when this happens and he wants nothing to do with it. He is normally very good about coming in when I call unless there is somthing for him to bark at.
Some friends have said maybe a bark collar would work. I am trying not to use it cause i believe it hurts him, and doesnt really work. please help....
AHHHHHHHH Megan Trevor!!!!!!!!
You celeb you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D
The show rocked and I learned alot from it! It must have been AWESOME to actually work with him!!!!!!! He seems so mellow and sincere and it blows me away to watch him work with dogs!
I am so glad to hear your doing great with the two furry ones!!!!! I loved the show! :D KathyB
Great postings on this blog stream!
First --- comment to Bernard and the other who discussed why Cesar showed a dog running ahead in front of him while Cesar roller bladed. Prior to doing that, Cesar spoke with the dog's owner and stated that he first needed to tire the dog out before he could work at the dog's fearful insecurities (this was the country dog who was afraid once they moved to the city). The owner had said that he hoped to eventually be able to rollerblade with his dog, so Cesar used that opportunity to combine rollerblading for tiring out a dog. After the dog was tired they then did some rehabilitation work while the dog was calm and tired. In other episodes and writings I've read, Cesar mentions that a dog going out in front is OK if the dog is told to do so, such as sled dogs, farm dogs who go out to round up sheep, etc. It's part of their 'job' and the human is making the decision to send the dog out ahead.
Second --- Kathy B... I'll trade you dealing with your daughter versus dealing with my husband. He loves the dogs to death, doesn't discipline until they do something to annoy him too much, is never consistent, and we're constantly battling because he can come home from work and in five minutes 'undo' all the progress I've made during the day. The dogs see him as their friend, not their leader. They will only do something for him when asked if he has a treat for them. If he asks them to do something and they don't, he gives up or asks them a half dozen times before he gives up. It's mentally exhausting for me. I'm far from perfect when it comes to the dogs..... I screw up too, but I'm trying really hard to train myself to do the right things and have the right responses to situations with the dogs' behavior. Yes, my husband has watched many Dog Whisperer episodes and he thinks Cesar is awesome, but he just doesn't have the desire or drive to work at helping me get the dogs more balanced. He sees the dogs as being happy because they'll play and act cute with him whenever he wants. But he does acknowledge that he and the dogs don't have anywhere near the same relationship as the dogs and I have. They don't respect him. To them he is just another dog in the pack 'the dog who comes home from work at 5 pm, plays tug of war with us, and cuddles with us on the couch at night and shares popcorn with us'. I have a friend who has similar issues with her husband and their dog. She says that her dog thinks her husband is 'the dog who drives the car'.
Luckily my dogs are not out of control regarding aggression, but they do have behavioral issues which I am working hard at to rehabilitate. As Cesar indicated in another blog listing, a dog can sense when various members of the family are not all on the same page and it causes confusion and imbalance because the dog is not confident that the humans are in charge.
Aussie Owner,
I just kicked my ex to the curb right after Christmas so Thanks but no Thanks!lol :D
I think our dog see's me daughter the same way, however my daughter also see's me as the leader so when I tell get get up and do this, stand straight when doing this (all when it comes to the dog) she "obeys"!hahahahhaaaa Kinda like havin two puppies!heehee :D
She is doing better I guess, but I am still the one who has most of the responsibility with him and thats fine by me actually, because she is never home and when she is, she doesn't spend hardly any time with him, so basically he is turning into my dog. And if she thinks she's taking him when she graduates she's CRAZY cause I have totally fallen in love with my boy and think he deserves a good balanced life, and at this point she does not have the time, ability or desire to give him any of that.
Good luck with hubby....I've talked with my trainer about my issues with my daughter...kinda the same as your hubby, and they say to not worry about it. That as long as he knows I AM the pack leader then thats all that matters. KathyB
MEGAN TRAVER,
Your soooo lucky!!!!!!!!! You got to meet Cesar Millan!!!!
I'm so jealous!! :D Is he like so awesome!?!?! How do you stay so calm in front of the camra? Good luck with your two Shelties, they are adorable. :D
~Chantel
Chantel, KathyB.... It is so crazy to me to realize that there were people out there really watching the episode I was on! It is just a bizarre concept - even though I understand how popular the show is!
As for Cesar... I just don't know where to start in describing him. He is so calm, down-to-earth, gentle, loving, sincere and authentic. For how popular he is, I just couldn't have imagined that he would be so real, genuine and kind. He is truly passionate about his work in helping people and their dogs. And he has found his niche! He is just as amazing in person as he appears on the television show. He has a gift and he is sharing it with all of us - and we are so lucky for that!
Katie - I am feeling a little concerned about the shock collar you got. I believe that you can train your dog without it because there are other ways... You just need to dedicate yourself to the other options. You know Cesar's "rules, boundaries and limitations" saying? Well, it is true - even if you are just in the yard with your dog. Keep your dog on the leash and teach him how to behave - even if it is in your backyard. Also, your dog sounds like he needs a lot more exercise. That might help him to get rid of some of the energy he is expending in the backyard.
Just a couple of ideas. Hope they help.
Megan
Megan,
I wish I could meet Cesar Millan. I've only seen the show for a few months but I love it!
I agree with the shock collar. It works and all,but I think the correcting should come straight from the pack leader. Also I have heard of dogs actually getting used to shock collars and just keep barking like it doesn't effect them. My cousin's neihbor's dog barked alot so they put a shock coller on him. The dog wouldn't stop barking so they made the shock higher(some shock collers you can ajust how big the shock) but he still wouldn't stop barking and eventually got all these soars on his neck.
Katie, your dog probably isn't THAT extreme of a barker and the shock collar would probably work but I'm just trying to talk you out of it/LOL :D.
~Chantel
For those battling dogs who bark a lot...One training method I've seen used successfully and have tried a couple of times on my own dogs is to create a 'shaker' can. Take an empty can (soda, vegetable, fruit, dog food, etc) and put in a few pennies then tape up the top so the pennies don't fall out. When your dog does unwanted behavior give the can a shake. Don't yell anything, just shake the can once or twice, just enough to get the dog's attention. The noise is meant to break the dog's focus and break that escalating frenzy so that he/she momentarily stops and looks at you with a 'Huh?' look. At that split second when they stop doing the unwanted behavior you then reward the dog. I've seen this method used in person and on some other tv shows geared towards solving behavioral problems. And I've used it in certain situations with my own dogs.
Good Morning All!
Megan....yes you are a celeb!heehee :D
I so wish trainers would start taking his courses (if Cesar has training courses for trainers) as I would LOVE LOVE LOVE so have people all over the country who are trained by HIM, so they may be able to come help train owners like ME!lol
I love my trainers and they have helped me so much, but some of their techniques are different than Cesar's and I LOVE how Cesar works with training!!!
Have a blast with your furry ones and congrats on getting to work with Cesar!!!!! :) KathyB
Kathy B,
I am eagerly awaiting the day Cesar offers a seminar for trainers and rehabilitators. I would LOVE to get together with other canine professionals who use Cesar's techniques. It would be great if it was a two day event, near his center, so those who attend could all have an evening to hang out and share stories and experiences, after the first day.
I bumped into one guy on the net who really "gets it". He is a dog rehabilitator and trainer. There are very few points we don't agree on, and even then it's more an individual perspective and the difference between a male and female point of view. He also supports Cesar's work, and had the same reaction as I did, when I first saw Cesar's show...well, I don't know if he actually jumped up-and-down going "YIPEEEE!". :)
Chantel,
You're welcome and thank you back!
Have you checked out Cesar's seminar schedule? Maybe he will be coming to a city near you. He was here in WA, but I went to the one in Paso Robles CA last April 30th, because I also wanted to meet his friend, Cheri Lucas. She is the lady who runs the Second Chance at Love Humane Society. She was featured on the episode with the Katrina dogs. She was very kind to me when I first found Cesar's show and just HAD to talk with someone about it.
Take it easy!
Deb
Hi. My 5 year old balck and tan chihuahua was attacked by a german sheppard last night. She is now at Red Bank Vet. Hospital in North Jersey fighting for her life. I am so angry! I don't blame the dog, I blame the owners. I have heard this dog barking, howling, crying and it has bothered me ever since the first time I heard her. She broke off her chain last night and came on to my back porch and viciously attacked my baby. The puncture wound in her abdomen has been operated on and fortunately no other damage to organs or intestines. On the other hand the puncture wound on her back has left her paralyzed in the back side including bowel and urinary tract. I HAVE to do everything in my power to help her. "SUMMER" She will have an MRI done in the morning. The doctors say her prognosis is grave and that the MRI is going to cost $2,000 on top of the $2,500 already spent. In my mind money is not an issue (even though it is when you don't have it), she is one of my kids. I am trying to find information on taking care of my baby with what she is left with. Not walking and no bowel and urinary control. If anybody has any information PLEASE send it to me at Needinsom2@aol.com. Thank You!
Casey,
I am SO SORRY to hear about your baby!!!! My heart goes out to you so much!
I do not know anything or anyone I can direct you to, but I did want to offer my sympathy for what you are going through!!!!
The sad part is your right...its not the dogs fault, but it is the owners and I think they should be held responsible!
I swear I think EVERY large dog owner (myself included!!!!) should HAVE to go through training!!!!!!
Again I am so sorry to hear about Summer. :(
KathyB
Since I started working with dogs and Ceasar is my idol, i wish to one day to be able to work with Ceasar for like a year and learn under his guidance. That would truly be a dream come true for me, especially I really believe I have found what I want to do with my life. If anyone has any suggestions on how I could make that happen feel free to email me, JohnnyRu131@sbcglobal.net.
*Dreams really do come true
Our thoughts are with you and Summer tonight, Casey. I am so sorry to hear about what happened and for what you must be going through right now. I will keep my eye out for information on your pup's condition.
Casey,
My heart goes out to you and Summer. I hope she will survive and recover as much as she can.
I have seen on TV a dog that was paralyzed. The owners were riding him on a wagon. It was a bigger dog.
Please, let us all know how Summer is doing.
Casey,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and Summer.
Legally, the owner of that dog is responsible for all the medical bills. If you know who the owner is, present the bill and if he doesn't pay, you may have to go through small claims court (but you will win). If the owner owns a home and they have homeowners insurance, then that should cover all of your vet bills - ALL OF THEM. I would also report him to the local animal control center so he can be fined for having his dog OFF LEASH. You do have some level of protection here and I hope you will avail yourself to it. That owner does not deserve to have that dog. He is doing it a great disservice by not protecting his own dog from doing harm to another dog or person.
I hope you both recover from this and the owners get what is coming to them. It is illegal to tether a dog (either by rope or chain).
Stay strong, Summer needs all the help she can get.
Peace!
Hey Deb,
I wish I could go to a seminar. checked out the schedule and there is one in St.Goerge, UT.(I live in Salt Lake City,Ut). It's the closest one near me. The only problem is that I only have enough money for my dog that I will be adopting, and it's on the second to last day of school. It is about 85 dollars which isn't too bad but I would have to pay for it (my parents make me pay for everything that I want, which is good). I would love to go to a seminar but I don't think my parents would let me get out of school for that. I don't know. I don't want to be in debt. I have 300 dollars right now. My dog will cost $75 from shelter, medical $150, crate $25, food $25(for the first month), leash collar and other stuff $25. (unconditional love from my canine...priceless/LOL :D)
I'm pricing it a little over. I can get treats, and a crate from my cousin, depending on the size of my dog. I'm just not sure if I'll have the money or if my parents will let me get out of school. I might have to wait to go to another one maybe later this year or next year. I may have all those expenses but it will be totally worth it! I just can't wait!
I will be going to my cousin's house, who lives in Roosevelt this next Wednsday. I'm so excited. I'm very close to alot of my cousins. She has a dog and I'm hoping to give her some pointers on training. It will be fun. I'll tell you how it turns out.
~Chantel
Good Morning Chantel! :)
Firstly I commend your parents for having you buy the things you want on your own, as you have a greater respect for how much it really costs to live and buy things then most. May I suggest...(if your as awesome with your school and stuff as you seem on this blog :) )maybe you could ask if you could take that day off and have them pay for it (the seminar) as an early birthday present???? Just a thought!lol KathyB
Casey- I am so sorry about what happened to your baby. Thats horrible, please post Summer's progress. I have 2 german shepherds and I know if you don't have control over them they can wreak havoc. Those owners should help you out with Summer's bills.
I hope they at least offered.
Hello. I just recently started watching cesar's show this past friday. I was in tears. I just thought about all those dogs that could have been saved from death. The show, with that dog Wendall in it....well, im alot like that women that was always crying because she was afraid of what her dog may do. Except, mine arent mean or anything. My Chow is very submissive naturally. I know, a chow being submissive? lol. And shes almost 5. I have a lab mix that 14 months. I have had her since she was 5 weeks old. And when i have them out in the yard, and Princess doesnt want to come in, and Layney does, Princess will purposly start playing with Layney to get her to not come to me. Also, i just got one of those halti's...but i have read that, some will learn that when that collar isnt on..that they can do what they used to do.
My puppy used to go after the vacuum even when I would get it out to use and I used Cesar's method that he used on the show about walking in front of it and getting control back and it worked. I even used that method for the swiffer and it worked also. She even went as far as laying down in the kitchen where I was using the swiffer and didn't even bother to go after it even when I got close to her with it.
awesomeness!
I have a small dog that wails every time we leave the house. haow long I don't know but I've waited where she could not know that I was there for 30 mins. and she never stopped. She crys herself hoarse.
The kennel refuses to board her when the need arises.
HELP PLEASE.
Myrna
I think that was one of the best ideas I gained from the show -- taking long walks with the dogs, while maintaining a "leader's" role. I can see the difference in my two Shelties.
Speaking of which, what tips did Cesar give in helping Megan (the sheltie owner) when it came to the vaccum and hairdryer?
Thanks in advance!
I have 4 jack russells and we travel with them in our motorhome because my son races all over the U.S. and we have to keep them apart. the older male and the female are ok together, but when we put them all together, they fight to kill. what should we try next? We had all of them fixed thinking that would help but hasn't. We love them so much we don't want to give any of them up. Can you PLEASE HELP??
Thanks, Grace
Hello, I have a very devoted and friendly 9 year old Maltese. I am disabled and am not able to walk him each day, although he does get alot of exersise in the yard and the huge house we own. He is always busy playing and following me around. My problem is that he barks very aggresively whenever there is a knock on the door. He will charge whoever it is like he is going to bite them. It frightens people including my little grandchildren. How can I correct this behavior? He is such a loving little dog to me. Seems to like only one person, me! He does tolerate and play with my husband alot. I dont want him to hurt anyone and dont want anyone to hurt him. Thank you for any help.
Stormy McDonald
wetumpka, Alabama
To Myrna Stanecki:
Regarding you dog barking/howling when you leave her. Have you ever taken a weekend and tried practicing leaving and coming home?
By that I mean, start your day as usual. Get up, do what you normally do, let dog out, walk dog (put small back pack on her), play with her, wear her out. Do you cage her? Cover cage with just a light weight sheet to make it seem like her own little cave. Or if she's loose that okay too. Grab purse and keys and leave. And I do mean leave. Let her hear the car leave the area. I know we're all trying to be economical about gas but drive down the street and park the car take a walk, visit a neighbor or go window shopping. After about 20 minutes go back home. Go into house (NO LOOK, NO TOUCH, NO TALK). Avoid her. Repeat this process however many times a day you can do it. Saw this done on another show and eventually the dog realized that my Mom does return and I don't have to panic. You may have to do this for a few weeks but what the hey. It just might work.
Sorry Myrna forgot to add, that after a couple of weeks lengthen your time away for the house each week. See how this works. I'm sure its frustrating for you and your neighbors but ask them to be patient with you. Your trying.
I love Cesar's show and the work he's done with the dogs. I watched the episode with Megan and Jake and was interested in something he said early on. It was the comment he made about men and how they are similar to dogs in and how some women tend to pick dogs like they pick men..I am curious as to what he said and wondering if 'our' choice in men reflects that much on our choice in dogs.
Dear Angie,
I think what Cesar meant in that statement was, that Megan and Jakes owner had restablished her sense of pride and self esteem and no longer felt sorry for Jake (her rescue). Jake's owner always seemed to choose men who were needy and needed a mommy figure. No longer would she put herself in that position. There's nothing worse than putting yourself in the position of being someone's backbone and keeper. If he can't take care of himself, how in the world would he be an asset in your life?
It's true, a pack leader's work is never done. I'm sure that everyone in the world has some issues with dominant dogs, maybe even you, Cesar. But all I know is that everyone has to train their dogs constantly to get them to know that the people are the leaders.
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