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When Little Dogs are Overprotected
Most of the time, when people say they are "protecting" their little dogs, they are afraid for them. They clutch their dogs to their chest to whenever they see bigger dogs, traffic, or unfamiliar people. That's the problem since the energy they are transmitting is fear, which as you know, is negative-type energy in the animal world. Fear creates instability and can actually invite an attack from another dog, so though these owners mean well, they are not really protecting the dog at all. Instead, they are infusing the dog with weak, negative energy.
Whenever I think of an overprotected little dog, I think of Paris Hilton and her Chihuahua, Tinkerbell. Do you think a dog is happy, being carried around like a purse all day? The answer is, no. Dogs need to get around on their own four legs. They need to walk - it's in their genes. Chihuhuas and other miniature breeds that are treated like accessories are example of how overprotecting dogs can be bad for them.
It's important to remember that dog is a dog, no matter what size it is, and if we're really going to protect it, we have to respect it, first as a species. This way he will project a strong, calm-assertive energy that other animals respect.
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69 Comments
When I got my Lab/Shepherd, Hobie, I had a 17-year-old
Lab, Timba, who was still full of energy even at 17!
But, one thing I did was, when I got home from work I
liked to sit on the couch and watch my favorite soap
opera episode from that day. I remember the first day
I got home from work after adopting Hobie. I sat on
the couch, and he went crazy! Needless to say, we were
out the door and running. I actually got Hobie because
Timba could no longer go on long walks, and I was concerned
walking alone. I figured why not get another dog, and
then I'll have protection? So, Hobie's purpose in my
life was to get me out and walking again, and boy did it
work great! We'd take two 1-hour walks per day. I lost
22 pounds and trained him really well. After Timba passed
away a year later, we adopted a Lab/Coonhound mix, Hector,
from a local farm. He is very mellow, likes to stay right
in the yard, or right with us wherever we go. I think we
three are a good match as far as our level of energy goes.
Our main problem is when we see a previously-unknown dog
on our walks. Admittedly, I didn't train Hector on leash
as well as I trained Hobie all those months prior to Hector
joining our pack. Hector insists on greeting every new
dog we see. He is not mean or aggressive, he is just very
big and so friendly that his bounding energy makes people
think he's going to attack. I've been hurt several times,
and am so grateful to have Cesar's techniques to fix the
problem. It really is working great!
We are the people who like "high energy dogs" like Min Pins. We have one very energetic Min Pin. She weighs only 8 pounds but she goes for a walk twice a day for about one and a half hours total. Even after the second walk, she could go for another walk. I bet she could walk for 5 miles easily.
Needless to say, we like our dogs this way. But I could see it would drive some people crazy to have a dog like ours. We are also fortunate to be able to give enough time and attention to our dog. Some busy families would not be able to spend one and a half hours walking a dog. Cesar is right again, you need to choose the right dog for your family life style.
Is there a breed that anyone recommends for a single person who cannot be home a lot? I would have time to walk the dog daily, but I work long hours and I'm worried about not providing enough companionship.
Is it better to have 2 dogs in this kind of situation? I have heard that bulldogs can be pretty mellow and sleep quite a bit - are they a good option? I know Cesar points out that regardless of breed, you need to look at indivudual dogs' different levels of energy and dominance, as well.
Or is it more humane in my situation not to get a dog, but to buy a goldfish instead? :)
Hi Jolene,
I'm not familiar with what dogs are less energetic than others, but I do know all dogs crave the company of their humans.
Getting two dogs to keep each other company would be providing a safe place to eat, sleep and get proper health care.
But, their emotional and physical needs may never be met. Dogs are social animals.
I can see you have a good heart and want to do what's best and since you've asked for opinions; yes, it probably would be best to get a goldfish.
Having said that, I would rather see two dogs who would otherwise not have any kind of home, have a home with you.
I hope I've come across with understanding, because I really mean well. :)
Hi Jolene,
I agree with Sarah. If you don't have the time and resources to devote to your dog(s) it's best not to have one. However, if there is somebody to share the responsibility with you then having a dog might work.
I also work long hours but my husband helps out with the walking and dog care. We recently moved from a large house to an apartment and so we hired a dog walker because we no longer have a back yard for them to romp around in.
So far it is working out very well. I feed and then walk the dogs between 5 & 6 every morning. The dog walker takes them out between 11 & 12 and my husband walks them between 5 & 6 in the evening. On my days off I take them to the outdoor malls, parks, street fairs, etc. The dogs have adjusted well because we put in the effort to meet their needs. There are also "doggy daycare" centers. I don't know much about these except that they can be expensive.
Good Luck with your decision!
I have a dog that came from a rescue group. When I met her, she was very laid back and attentive to everyone who came to her crate. Then when I got her home, after a few weeks, she changed. Gone is the quiet, ladylike little dog. Instead, I now have a very hyper, easily distracted dog. I walk her once a day, and she's free to roam on our quarter acre lot for at least several hours a day.
My concern about our compatibility is not so much her unexpected high energy but our personality differences. I'd like to have a loving, friendly dog who pays attention to me and wants to be around me. She seems more interested in staking out her territory and doing her own thing. We train nearly every day and I reward her with encouragement, positive physical contact during the sessions, and she seems fine with that. But aferwards, I'd like to spend more time touching her, say at leat a few minutes, but her reaction is to simply walk away after a few moments. Honestly, my cats are more affectionate than she is.
I remember the dogs I had as a child and we really liked each other. I'm feeling rather disappointed with this new dog and unsure what to do about it.
MWD,
Some dogs just don't want much attention. I have a chow mix, and she is the same way. She doesn't like to be petted, and most of the time she likes to be left alone. I have an autistic son, and many times we joked that maybe she is an autistic dog, because they both like to be by themselves a lot.
But I have two other dogs, and they thrive on human contact, especially my pit bull mix, who wants to be with us constantly. Like someone else wrote in another post when I open the dryer or dishwasher, she has to know what's inside. She sleeps in my bed, and loves to play and be petted.
MDW - the best chance you have is to give her a reason to want your attention. Learn how to do canine massage, then start on her slowly and carefully. As you get better, she will begin to enjoy being touched and that should help a lot. Most likely, since she is a rescue, she has never had an opportunity to learn how nice it is to be touched and petted. Massage is a good way to teach her.
If anyone knows of a good website that talks about the strengths and weakness of each breed I would appreciate it since I have not successfully googled one yet.
The two comments for me is that the age is a HUGE factor in the energy level.
My 13 year old girl who has cancer is now takes her walk to the front yard with me where we sit on the grass and visit with who ever comes by on walks (the world finially comes to her). My now two year old chowwith a touch of terrier - gasp) rescue has more energy then my 52 year old body could ever take down with walks, never mind the skates like Cesar uses, so I got a bike and he does a combination sled dog for 10-15 minutes, (pulling at my side) and then I pedal as fast as possible for another 10-15 minutes and that helps soooo much!!!
The I use a gentle leader to keep control of his head which is seldom needed any more and the leash connection is just under my bike seat, which connects to his harness side, but I just discovered that Ryanspet.com has an attachment which has a safety on it that people could get
Thanks for the tip about dog massage.
I have a 1anda half year old lab/pitt mix. He was beaten as a puppy and is a bit of a nervous dog now. with me he is definately in charge, however with my husband, he is submissive/behaved. He will not play with any of our children unless I am with him. He will not go outside and play unless I go out with him. At times he won't go out and do his business for any one but me. I just learned about Cesar/dogwhisperer. can anyone suggest a particuliar episode for me to start watching to get help. I've never had a dog before. My eleven yr old son desperately wants the dog to "love" him. Help???
MDW...the other thing you need to start doing is walking your dog on a leash and the dog needs to be either next to you or behind you at all times. This is the most primal thing that you can do with your dog and he will bond to you as you will establish yourself as the pack leader. Make sure that you dont let him sniff and mark every single tree in the neighborhood as well as walking a good 45 minutes every single day. That goes for any dog you have in your life.
Becca
I'm rather new to Mr. Millan's teachings as well, but there is a commen theme that runs through each episode. That is the importance of every family member to be seen as the pack leader. The best way to achieving this is through a proper walk. Have the dog come to you to put the leash on. Make sure that you/your son/husband/who ever is the first one out the door. During the entire walk it is important that you are in front. If he tries to move ahead correct him with a quick "tug" to the side. I would say that would be a good start for you and your son to be seen as the pack leader in his eyes.
You also said that son desperately wants the dog to “love” him. If I'm understanding that correctly your dog doesn't pay too much attention to your son? If so, I have had experience with that myself. When I was younger and well before my experience with Mr. Millans teachings my family had a very independent dog. Looking back on the situation she was the leader of our family, becuase we never took that role. She paid me very little attention as well. Now that I have two dogs of my own and implement Mr. Millans teachings every day, my dogs are at my side all the time. I contribute the majority of that to the fact that they want attention from their pack leader, Me!
Hope this helps.
cj... website www.yourpurepredpuppy.com what's good/bad about lots of different breeds. it may get you started.
the link in message 14 is incorrect, try this one:
http://www.yourpurebredpuppy.com/
But take what you read with a grain of salt. I didn't read every breed there, but I did read MY breed: Whippets and I found it to be pretty fair on the whole..except about housebreaking. I've had no such problems as it taking "months" to housebreak my Whippets and on the email lists I subscribe to housebreaking problems are almost never a subject of discusssion.
Whippets are natuarlly very clean dogs and if you give them the proper opportunities they quickly learn to be clean in the house.
I used to work over an hour from home, which meant I was gone 11-12 hours a day...and because my Whippets didn't spend much time in the house they were not housebroken.
When I got my new house, and retired, I was able to have them in much more and it only took me about 3 weeks of consistent treatment to housebreak *6* INTACT males!
My boyfriend and I have two dogs that literally found us, both four years old, one a rottweiler/lab mix, and one a shepherd/shiba inu mix. The shiba mix has not been fixed, and the rott has. (the shiba will be fixed within the month) Both are sneaky maniacs! When we are around, they are docile and loving and understand their boundaries, but when no sooner do we close the door and they run to get in the trash or sneak up on the couch (not normally allowed) and jump back down when they hear us coming home.(We've watched through the window at this several times...) Also, since day one, they have been monsters on their leashes. We make time every day to play with them, and they go on (almost) daily walks, but they are bad enough that I have gotten complaints to my landlord (we have a house, we just rent) about "the girl who can't control her rottweiler"! How can we start a routine of them walking behind us?
The shiba mix can be aggressive towards other dogs at times, and is teaching the normally sweet-tempered rott his bad habits. Now both dogs bark like crazy whenever someone walks by the house or their yard. It is obvious the dogs sense our frustration and are establishing dominance, where do we start in curbing this behavior? How do we establish our leadership role? Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
Hi CJ,
Have you tried the AKC website? Also I have found books on dog breeds, like encyclopedia type books, at the local public library.
Hi Leah,
That's wonderful you have taken in two dogs that didn't have a home, I admire that.
You mentioned you play with your dogs, which is good, exept that Cesar recommends walking first and foremost. If playtime is viewed as "affection", then the order is wrong.
Cessar says, 1. Exercise 2. discipline. 3. then affection.
Walking high energy, large breed dogs is vital. It's the best way to establish yourself as the pack leader. When walking them, shorten the leash and keep them to your left side or behind. When they try and get out front, give a quick "yank" on the leash to put them back in the right place. Don't give them alot of room on the leash. And project a calm assertive energy. Dogs pick up on the energy we're projecting.
I would also recommend getting Cesar's DVD, "People Training for Dogs", and his book that is due out next month.
If you're getting complaints, then there might be trouble ahead, but all the problems you've discussed I've seen Cesar correct.
Good luck and let us know how things are going. :)
I am getting to the end of my rope. We have a Boxer, Max who is now a little over a year old. He is pretty high energy, bu that is not the issue. We have a 4 yr old daughter and a cat that grew up in the household after we had our dog for about 7 motnhs. The problem is that he is stubborn, very high-strung and anxious alot. He thrives on attention, but if he is not the CENTER of attention, he proceeds to find something to chew on and destroy. He does this on a daily basis, and I though once he grew up a bit, that he would stop doing it! But I'm still waiting...! I am getting tired of him destroying mostly my daughter's things, but ours as well. When he is left alone, we crate him, and he is usually a stressed out slimy ball of tension when we come home. He LOVES people, and the attention they show, but he can;t seem to calm down enough to get petted! It takes him about 20 minutes to settle down to that point. He is a nice dog, and we have become attatched, however, I really want to know if he will settle down and become more laid back like we are, or is he just this way forever? If there is anything we can do to change his state of mind, I welcome any advice! I don't want to give up on him, but I am getting to the poit where I feel angry with him alot because of the way he acts and the destructive things he does. There is plenty of positive reinforcement, but it doesn't seem to change anything, and he is scolded for doing the naughty things. I know you shouldn't attribute a dog with human behaviors and emotions, but it seems to me that his destructive behavior is him getting annoyed because he feels left out....Any comments? I wish Cesar would come help us!!!!!!
Leah,
Sarah is right about everything she said. If I can
change two 80-pound 4 & 6-year-old dogs just by
establishing myself as pack leader and watching/learning
Cesar's techniques, then anyone can! You can too!
Emily,
Are you exercising (walking on leash and play time) your
Boxer? If he's spending a lot of time in his crate, and
then just being let out and hanging around inside the
house with the family, he's not burning off any of that
energy. A one-year-old dog is still a puppy. Regardless
of age, all dogs need daily exercise. Cesar's #1 rule:
Exercise, discipline, then affection will probably solve
your problems. Your expectation should be that he will
stay that way "forever" unless you get him to burn off
that energy, and set rules, boundaries and limitations.
It sounds like his is bored. He needs stimulation and
challenges, plus leadership. I had an 18 y/o Lab who
was high-energy up until the very end -- she had to be
walked 45 minutes a day, or she was bouncing off the
walls.
Hi Emily,
K2's advice is spot on. Your boy needs a constructive outlet for all his energy. The walk is the best way to do this, follow Cesar's advice on how to walk a dog and you should see improvments.
The most enlighting thing I've learned from Cesar is that we can't use "human psychology" on dogs, i.e, scoldig and such. Implementing Cesar's techniques should solve all the problems your boxer is showing. Btw, I love and adore boxers!
Establishing that you and the rest of the family are the pack leaders is vitally important. Taking him on structured walks with him behind or at your side will go a long way in establishing this important role. If he does not see the family as the pack leader, he will compensate by trying to be the leader.
Good luck and I hope you'll consider getting Cesar's DVD, "People training for Dogs" as well as his book that is due out soon.
His behaviors can be corrected and you will have the joy of many years of great companionship.
Somewhat OT: anyone get Cesar's book yet? I understand my pre-ordered copy is waiting for me at Barnes & Noble. Can hardly wait to pick it up after work today. Woohoo!
Hi all, my husband and I are huge fans of Cesar and wish more people we know would start appyling his teachings :-). We have a 3 year old 100 lbs female Chesapeake Bay Retreiver. They are considered high engergy and are extremely devoted dogs - they love nothing morre than being active with their people. Fortunately we are active outdoorsy people and she gets lots of disciplined excersise - walks, retreiving, swiming retrieves, hikes, etc. We also have an 8 month old daughter and have always taken "family" walks with our dog staying next to me and behind the stroller. As a result, she adores our daughter and is very gentle and sweet around her. They are always supervised together - but we fully trust our Chessie with our little girl. All it takes is some consistency and we have a wonderful family dog! So happy to see that Cesar is developing such a large fan base and we are looking forward to getting his book. Have a great weekend!
Within the next week or so I will be taking on what my co-worker calls a "challenge from hell". She recently acquired a husky-elk hound mix pup after her border collie/collie mix pup had to be put down because her liver wasn't growing with her. He is almost 5 months old. She has only had him about a week and a half and is ready to get rid of him. I told her I would be glad to work with him, but she also has to be involved and consistent with what I teach her(not the dog). The first time I met this puppy, he was dragging her across the parking lot to see me. I caught ahold of the leash when he got to me, gave him a sharp tug, a "shhh" and finger snap and he sat down and paid attention! I was sure my co-worker was going to drop over when she saw this.
My husband is all for me working with this pup because he knows that since we can't have our own dog(yet), that I want to make sure that other people are happy with their dog(s)and that their dog(s) are happy, too. I will be taking this pup into our home for as long as it takes. My co-worker will be "visiting" to learn what "structure" and "dicsipline" mean. Calm, assertive pack leader will also be included in these lessons!
I believe that if she decides to get rid of him, the next person will not be any more educated than her. He is already displaying dominant aggressive behavior toward her, her boyfriend and her pomeranian. He will only get worse. At some point he will probably bite another person(God forbid a child) or dog and end up at a shelter only to be put to sleep. I want to head this off right now. With a little education and "tough love" I know he will turn out to be a wonderful companion. And if in the end she does still decide that he is too much dog for her...I know I can persuade my husband that he belongs with us!
Lynn,
Congratulations on being a great pack leader! I'm so happy for the dog too! Your friend is beyond blessed to have you in her life!! :)
Sounds like you'd make a great trainer! Thanks so much for shairng your story.
Good luck and let us know how things progress.
Thanks you all for the links (and the corrected link too - dang it I wish we could go in and correct our mistakes - g)
Leah - I note the age and the breed of your dogs. One thing Cesar has emphasised is that "playing with the dogs does not count in his mind as exercise/disapline. Nore does going to the dog park. He considers them rewards/affection. (Sigh - rats, I only had to watch the episode about parkparks three times before I "caught" that understanding!)
The other think he keeps saying is that with the walk - he advocates 30 minutes minimum (and sometimes as long as an hour) for high energy dogs. Also your dogs at 4 are at the prime of their life (like mine). I just can't take a whole hour, nor more frankly do I have the stamina right now so what I do instead which has worked FABULOUSLY is to "walk the dog" by riding on my bike and turn that task into a job where first he pulls me (being right by my side so I still lead, then when he starts slowing down, I pedal as fast as possible to keep the speed up before the cool down where he is just trotting on the return home (my spin on Cesar's rollerblading walks.)
Hope some of these thoughts help!
Jolene don't get a dog if you don;t have time for it, get the fish.
Hi Cesar and everyone. I need serious advice. I have a 5 year old Chihuahua that is always calm submissive. Three years age my pitbull had to be put to sleep due to failing kidneys. My pitbull was always wonderfully behaved around the chi pup and never had any problems with her. I really miss having a dog that I can take fishing and do activities with, my chi won't participate as she always shakes or gets stressed on fun outings. So I am getting a Rottweiler pup. I live naer a dog park and a beach so I can exercise and train the pup. My worry is that the rott pup may chase my chi. I have tried rescueing shelter dogs but they were older and verry aggressive with her. How do I introduce the pup without having havoc on my hands and how do you show a puppy no touch when they are so playfull? Any advice would be helpful. I have alot of exp with large dominant dogs. Maybe I am worrying too much.
I have a shy sheltie and have tried just about everything I possibly can to help him get over his fear of new places or people or children. I tried to get a trainer but one based his training on positive training is too far away from me. The other only uses electronic collars and I am told that can turn my shy and scared dog into more fear and possibly a biter, so I did not chose him.
He will be 2 in may and was raised in a pen with his alpha brother up until his 7th month of life when I got him. He is very happy and safe and plays at home but as soon as we leave his yard or home he tenses up and continues to look around for fear of ??? Even on our country walks with my other dogs, (by the way he likes other dogs fine,even strange dogs)he is constantly looking back for fear of what may be out there. I have tried using pinch collars and choke collars. I have trained him in obedience & agility and nothing works. In the past few months he is fear shaking now, when we enter a new area and he used to just hover down between my legs,or lay down really low and hide his head in my legs, with fear. I fear,I am making things worse. What do I do???
Jolene,
You might consider adopting a senior dog - 7-8 years of age for a large breed, 10+ years for a smaller dog - and of a "couch potato" temperament. S/he will still need exercise, but not to the extent a younger/more active dog would. Many senior dogs are content to nap the day away and snuggle up on the couch with you in the evening. There are also younger dogs of a temperament that would suit your lifestyle - I have a 4-year old American Bulldog boy who doesn't mind spending the days alone, as long as he can snuggled up next to me in the evenings. He enjoys a daily walk, but doesn't require any more activity than that to be content.
I think you can find a dog that fits your lifestyle, if you are patient and persistant in your search. I recommend you check with local rescue groups - both purebreed and all-breed; even if they don't have what you're looking for at the moment, they will keep you in mind and let you know when they get in a dog that would be a good match for you.
Good luck!
I see ME in this posting about overptotecting small dogs. I have two dogs, one is a Pomeranian. She was a "puppy mill" dog and had pneumonia when I got her. I started out babying her and have never stopped. Since watching the dog whisperer, though, I've been walking her everyday and do NOT pick her up when another dog comes near. She still hides when I get her leash out, but I believe she still thinks it means vet..... I have a question about my big dog too for the forum. I also have a Norwegian Elkhound, great temperment BUT likes to run up to everyone, dragging me in the process. I've been working on being a better pack leader, but in the interim was dragged to see a couple of other dogs and have a shoulder fracture now I am recovering from. I am still walking her but have been using a "gentle leader" since I am "one armed" at this time. Have any of you had any experience with these?
This is a huge pet peeve of mine. If my 120 pound Rottweiler was allowed to act like some of these little dogs do, people would have a fit. These people who own these little dogs and let them act this way anger me so much. Certainly size plays a factor in how much damage a dog can do when they are out of control, but the one underlying fact that remains is both little and big dogs can do damage. Bottom line, have your dog under control 100% of the time, regardless if the dog is big or small!
this post regarding protecting small dogs is very, very timely my having just found the Dog Whisperer on Canadian National Geographic channel on Sundays.. I have a shihtzu/maltipoo almost 5 years old that I made the mistake of carrying him around in a bag when he was a puppy.. he has turned into a dog that is very aggressive towards people although he gets along well with other dogs. since watching the Dog Whisperer last Sunday I have begun walking him twice a day on a 6 foot leash instead of a retractible leash, making him heel, something I taught him as a puppy but never followed through. thankfully, he remembered the lessons.
hopefully these changes will make him less aggressive, and I intend to keep watching and learning.. I am just so thankful for Cesar.
Carol,
Cesar recommends when getting a second dog to make sure the second dog has the same or lower amount of energy and the same amount or lower amount of submissivness.
Cesar says when we get a large breed and espically rotties we better know how to handle these dogs from "A to Z". Since you have experience with large breeds, I'm sure you know the A to Z components.
Cesar has done at least one show on introuducing another dog to the pack. He recommends walking the new dog first before he's "invited" into the home. Are you familiar with the proper way to walk a dog?
You say your chi is always calm and submissive, so I'm wondering why she gets stressed and shakes on outings?
We have had two chis, one passed in Dec., sadly but both love going places with us. Our dogs should be able to exhibit the same behaviors outside our homes as they do inside.
He also recommends the dogs meet on neutral ground.
Are you aware that Cesar says dog parks should not take the place of exercise, espically the structured walk? He says to walk the dog first, before entering a dog park and I'm sure the same applies to a beach.
Walking our dogs is the best way to become the pack leader, never allow your dog to walk in front, but rather at your side or even better, behind. Do not let the dog exit your home first, the leader exits first. If the dog does then he's walking you and taking over the role of pack leader. I hope I'm not repeating the things you all ready know...sorry, if I am. I mean well :)
I hope you'll consider getting Cesar's DVD, "People Training for Dogs" and his book due out within days.
I have a special place in my heart for chis and I would be extra careful of bringing in a large powerful breed into my home. I would only do this if I was sure of how to handle the breed and had the proper training on how to deal with two breeds and making SURE they understood I was the pack leader.
Good luck.
Sarah thankyou for helping. I actually used to teach dominant dog training. It has been awhile and I thought I lost my confidence. I miss my pitboy so much and I want another dog. People used to think I was nuts for having my pit carry my Chia in a doggy backpack, but that was his job on our walks. If the pack started slipping, he would stop then lie on his belly so I could fix it. He had a job and we all loved it. He was older when I introduced little Chi to him. I'm just not sure how to introduce a puppy to her. She is awsomely behaved around other dogs and if needed will stand her ground. I didn't get the pup yet so I have some time to figure this out. It started when I called a breeder of German Shepherds and asked if he had a litter. He said not until late summer, but told me he had a rotti pup. I told him my situation and he described the dog as a 4 month old that is way too calm for police work so I made an appt. to meet the pup. He was wonderfull EXCEPT I found out he was 5 mos. old and raised outside. I got him anyway thinking it would take a little more time to get him used to a new home, boy was I wrong. As soon as I got him home he freaked out violently. I gave it a week or so for him to adjust and he only got more scared and acted as if he were closterfobic of being in a house. He only wanted to be outside. I called the breeder and he said to return him and he will give me a credit. So I did. He said that this fear could turn to aggression because he couldn't settle down at all. So I will get an 8 or 9 week old pup that doesn't have severe fear issues. His fear got worse daily instead of getting better. I also used to train with the police dept. for search and rescue and handled both Sheps and Rotties. I cant wait till the book and dvd comes out. I think alot of Chias shaking comes from being by herself. To this day if I mention my other dogs name that passed away, she will temporarily look for him room to room. I hope I am not making a mistake by getting another large dog.
Aha! I just read Cesar's blog about transmitting
fear energy. It now makes sense! My dogs freak
out about the one particular neighbor/family because
the dog they once owned was constantly making people
and other animals afraid. The dog has been gone for
months, but the yard, house and people are probably
still associated with fear. Very interesting!
Hi Carol,
Sorry to hear you had some bad luck with the rottie puppy.
That's the bad thing about getting puppies that are born and raised outside.
I bet that was a sight to see your pitboy carrying your chi in the back pack, sounds like they had a great relationship. I'm sure you both miss him terribly, I'm so sorry.
The good news is the DVD is available now and the book in a matter of days. Maybe if you got the DVD and waited for the book before chosing another dog you will have given your best shot at making sure you're not making a mistake?
I'm sure your chi and even the new little one will both benefit from that...good luck. :)
I'm single, a workaholic and have two dogs, but I also have a well fenced in 2 acre piece of land. To Jolene who's wondering goldfish vs doggie I'd say, if getting a dog is your dream and you have the space, go for it. But if you're just renting.. I'd say go for the fish. You really need some time to establish boundries and limitations with your pet before going off and being a workaholic. I work 11 months of the year and I had at least a month to work with my dogs before getting all busy.
My dogs see me off to work, and when I return they get play time on nice days and time to rest on their pillows in the evening. But their job is to protect the property.. keep away preditors of the 2 and 4 legged type. I'd say my dogs are balanced beings. They know the rules and they don't expect a whole lot from me. Both were pound puppies. I have a 7 year old who gives them a good run about the yard... they follow him.
I'd say it's about time and space. If you have the time to research breeds and then set the rules for your home, and the space required for them to run around during the day, then go for it.
I am looking for answers with our Pomeriana dog, I disipline and he does not. He pisses on everything and I have to shampoo and clean, I have Grandkids that I have every day, he does not care on how he lives, but I do not live in a barn so if I want my family around I have to make sure things are cleaned. He thinks of the dog as his talking body, that doesen't talk back but listen's but, treats it as a kid, if only he treated his kids better, maybe we would be more of a whole family. I have more, but am very fustrated with it all, what am I to do. I am sick of shampooing or cleaning when he does nothing except gives the dog more of, it is ok to do all around the house plus some, cause mom refuses to stink like a pig.
Please Help With!
P.S. He refuses on me disapplining my way!
Thank You for reading LoraLye
LoraLye try to crate train. Sounds like the little guy has controll of the house. Also is he neutered? If not, he may smell a female somewhere in heat and he is marking. Also have your vet check for a urinary tract infection cause that will make him pee everywhere. Hope this helps. Lots of luck!
I have 2 siberian huskies, both female, they are 3months apart. I was reading about how dogs should follow you out the door. Mine pull me out the door and usually pull me for the whole walk. they are 1yr and 7months and the other is 1yr 4months. how do I break the pulling and they seem to play alot but still have dominant issues , is this true that you shouldn't have 2 females ? thanks ed
Hi, I too am interested in this subject because after years of having larger dogs we have acquired a Toy Fox Terrier puppy. I am teaching him not to bark at other dogs or strange sights and he never, ever gets to be held in my arms and behave inappropriately.
I think that one thing that people need to consider about a lot of toy dogs is that they bark more readily than bigger dogs in response to similar stimuli, at least in my opinion, so training out the bark takes more time and determination than a lot of big dog (and small dog) owners realize.
I also wish that more little dog owners would take the time to discourage rude little dog behavior and encourage good little dog social skills. My little guy heels and has done so from the first. He is used to walking on all four legs and gets lots of exercise. Sometimes I do put him in a bag for convenience sake, but he spends very little time there.
Another thing to know about putting small dogs in bags is that they can actually get spinal problems and other problems from lack of good posture and lack of muscle development that they would get naturally by walking and playing on the ground.
About three weeks ago my husband and I adopted our second dog from the same shelter we adopted our first pup. We now have an approximately 5 year old Terrier mix who looks like Benji, and a 6 month old Pekingese Mix. The Pekingese mix is the newest addition to our family, and she is where my questions are. Since we adopted her from a shelter we do not have alot of information about her beginning in life, but we understand that she and her purebred mother were relinquished to the shelter by their breeder. This breeder had placed both dogs in a very small crate, so small that the pup ended up scratching the eye of her mother. The mother ended up having to have her eye sewed shut for weeks to recover, and we understand now she has lost sight in that eye. We know that our pup's mother was a purebred Pekingese, and we do not know the bred of her dad. The pup is now about 6 months old and weighs about 6.5 pounds. After bringing our first dog to the shelter to meet her the two dogs did fine. We had to wait a few weeks for her to be spayed before her adoption could be finalized but after her procedure we adopted and brought her to our home. She appeared to be fine with our first dog, and very loving and sweet to me. However, she appeared to be abit skiddish around my husband. If her were to leave the room where she was, and then reenter, she would bark at him like he was a stranger. After about three days in our home she seemed to get over that.Over the next week or so we would take her outside to do her business, and she appeared to be doing well with that. On two separate occasions neighbors approached our yard in an effort to meet the new dog. One occasion was with a lady and her 8 year old daughter, and the second occasion was just an lady. On each occasion the dog would bark and snap as if she wanted to bite the approaching person. I have never experienced any form of aggression with any puppy I have ever owned. Has anyone experienced such a situation, and if so how did you overcome it. We have several small grandchildren who live in other cities, we do not want to be afraid for their safety when they visit us and our new dog. I would appreciate any suggestions that you may have. Thanks!
I have an 11 week old long hair chihuahua that has two major problems... he is petrified of strangers and he will fight and snarl if you try to touch the top of his head or the back of his neck.
My vet suggested finding a treat that my pup likes and keeping it with me for strangers to give him, but my puppy is not food driven... when a stranger approaches he dives into the crook of my arm and I wrestle him away from me, hold him gently and offer his side to the stranger to pet (never his head, I do not want him to snap at them out of fright), I stay calm and allow him to return to my arms and his comfort zone after the stranger leaves. The biggest problem is that he has snapped at two Vets, the first time my husband dove to his rescue and hovered over him nervously(which is a major no-no) the second time I had my husband sit down before the vet entered and when the pup went to snap I put him on his back with a firm "no" he calmed and stayed on his back while the vet checked his eye (he had run eye first into a tree and had bark in it) then let him stand and the vet even got a wag out of him when she petted him. (he was cringing and looking at me constantly but allowed it). What can I do about this people socialization problem? He has no problem with other animals, but people terrify him. I take him everywhere I can with me and remain calm and confident but to him a stranger means danger.
The other problem is the head and neck thing... we work on it all the time both in training and in play, every time I barely touch his scruff he tucks tail, snarls and bites and I put him on his side, give a firm 'no' then gently scruff him... the first times I did this I got some nasty bites, he still struggles now but gives in much faster, but every time it is a battle. If I go to touch the top of his head it is the same thing... I can play with his ears, I can play with his teeth and tongue and that never causes troubles... any suggestions?
He starts puppy kindergarden in a few days... though he was housebroken from the start (8 weeks old) and never had an accident and already knows how to sit, release toys on command and has for the most part mastered the command "steady" (comes in handy when he is weighed or his temp taken at the vets) holding still until the "ok" command is given. The only time the "steady" command fails is when it comes to strangers, when he goes frantic, and when it comes to the top of his head and the back of his neck.
Thank-you,
Penny
Do any of you have suggestions as to what Cesar would recommend to me?
Re. Patrick, a 5 yr. old neutered Scotty:
1. Continues to "mark" his spots, and he knows it's not ok.
2. Constant barking when the doorbell rings staying aggressively in that area until ordered to his house where barking continues at least for a little while.
3. Will bite the heal of strangers, only when and if they retreat; he retreats from aggression.
I'm thinking that keeping a leash on him while in the house would allow me to control items 2 & 3.
I have just found this blog site after searching the net for Cesar's show times. I think Cesar is amazing! Since getting our little maltipoo 2 months ago, I try to watch Cesar anytime I can for info. This is our first family dog and I must say I'm a bit disappointed! We love our little guy dearly, but he gets aggressive and doesn't listen sometimes. For the most part he's a good little dog but we want him to be a good little puppy all the time! First of all, he was my 9 yr old daughter's bday gift, yet he doesn't seem to care much for her. Seems to me that he sees my husband and I as "Mom & Dad" and my daughter as "big sister" - he loves her sometimes but gets annoyed and aggravated by her at other times. The problems are: he gets aggressive toward strangers. he snaps at my daughter if she is trying to remove something from his mouth that he shouldn't have and he does this to me sometimes also. He's even growled at her for picking him up, etc. (He doesn't do this to my husband at all anymore since my husband slapped his nose, which I'm not sure is appropriate, though it worked.) He also fails to listen sometimes while he is outside pottying, and last he will not stop barking even when he tell him to stop. We haven't taken him walking yet (I researched the maltese breed and they required little daily exercise which is one of the reasons we chose him, however after learning of Cesar's #1 rule of walking we are going to start that). I'm also concerned because my parents are getting a new pug who is 2years old and we spend a lot of time together, therefore we want these dogs to get along! Does anyone have any suggestions or advice for me? Also, one last thing: other day a neighbor's small dog came running into our yard, I remember Cesar saying not to snatch the dog up and "overprotect" so I just sat there and watched them. Well all of a sudden the other dog starts to bite our puppy so then I did snatch him up quickly. What am I supposed to do in this situation? We love our Tiger dearly and will do whatever it takes...
HI, i hope that somebody may recomend me a good source of where to get information about small breed dogs (maltese) i went to maltese line (nothing there), i need something that educate me about our maltese so i don't make more
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I have two little yorkies, one 6mos, and the other 12mos. My 6mo. is perfect, she is potty trained and loves interaction with other dogs and people. On the other hand my 12mo old is scared of everything, when we ride in the car she shakes uncontrollably and sometimes salivates so much that she soaks us and herself. But the biggest problem with her is her potty training. Her biggest mistake is that she will always urinate in her bed or any where she wants to lay. If I turn my head she gets on our bed and makes a "nest" of sorts by rearranging the blankets, she then urinates on them and lays down. What is going on? Please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thank you.
I have a 11 month old german shepherd and a 4 yr old rat terrier. Everytime I let the GS(Dakota) in, she goes after my RT(CeeCee). CeeCee had to get 11 stitches one time because they both went after the ball while we were playing. Now CeeCee hides under the bed or coffee table when Dakota is in the house and CeeCee will not go in the backyard because Dakota comes after her when she sees her and you can tell she wants to tear her up!! I don't know how to get them where they can be around each other and Dakota not want to tear her up and CeeCee not want to hide!! Please help!!
I M SICK!!!
Hi to you all,
I have heard nothing but great things about Cesar. We do not get cable so I have not been able to catch his show. I am very interested in what he has to say though or if any of you have advice for me. I like Misty and her malitipoo am looking for advice for my almost 3 year old mini Dauchshund. She is very loving to our family. But, she barks at people (very much part of her breed) and it doesn't matter what we do to her she continues to bark. We take her on walks of which she barks the whole time. We went through puppy school and she graduated but even the trainer didn't know what to do with her bark. She is also very aggressive (with her tail waging and the hair on her back raised) at anyone other than our immediate family. I worry that she will bite someone (possibly my neice) or bite another dog. From what I have read I see that she needs to walk next to me or behind me and never leave the house before me but what else do we do! We would also like to get another mini dauchshund but know that our mini now would be vey put out. I would love any and all advice. Thank you
Hi! I have an 8 month old lhasa apso named Rocco. He has some behaviors I am kind of concerned about. He only cares to follow me around and my kids want to play with him but he just grabs his toy(s) and walks off when they come near him. I do make him sit and let them pet him but how do I make him not be jumpy with them? He is also extremely stubborn and I've been trying to work on sit/stay but he will not stay because he feels he must see me! And the whining...how do you make a dog stop whining?? He sleeps in the laundry room (can't be trusted at night to sleep somewhere without wandering off and going potty somewhere, otherwise he is usually ok, but i keep an eagles eye on him all the time) and will whine to no end. I say "no" and "shhh" but he just keeps whining....Oh the stresses of doggy training! Thanks for any advice :)
Benward,
My dog Rocco used to urinate on his bed, towel, blanket whatever I gave him to lay on. I could leave and return 2 minutes later and he would urinate on it. So, I solved the problem by letting him just sleep on the floor! I was at my wits end so to save my sanity, he doesn't get anything to sleep on. I felt bad at first, but I don't know of any other solution :(
I have a great dog who loves everybody except one person, my neighbor - a little old lady who loves dogs, has one of her own and would love to be friends with my dog as well. The day I brought my 'rescue' Yorkie home she came over to greet him; she often carries bags when she shows up on the scene as she did that first time and they got off to a bad start - he barked & growled. We've tried different approaches (she brings him a treat which he'll begrudgingly take but the next time it's growl central again. He really seems to dislike her - any ideas?!
I would really love to work with you guys and i am a 13 year old girl who really wants to work with dogs so please can you give me a job for the weekends
"Rocco's Mom says:
And the whining…how do you make a dog stop whining?? He sleeps in the laundry room (can’t be trusted at night to sleep somewhere without wandering off and going potty somewhere, otherwise he is usually ok, but i keep an eagles eye on him all the time) and will whine to no end. I say “no” and “shhh” but he just keeps whining….Oh the stresses of doggy training! Thanks for any advice"
Well, Rocco's Mom, it is never to late to start crate training, it sounds like Rocco is king of the roost so to speak. Crate training is not cruel, the crate will become his "safe place" when it is time to go to sleep and if you have to leave the house for any extended peroid of time (not to mention that you will not find any suprises when you get back). He will not like the crate at first and will complain, but stick with it... he will soon see it as his den in the home and will even seek it out when he wants to sleep in peace.
As for the other issues, I would suggest an obedience class for Rocco, and bring the kids along, they can learn how to work with him the right way and he will learn that in the pack, they are above him and not to be ignored. He is ignoring the kids because he sees them now as inferior, if he saw them as above him he would seek them out for attention and recognition.
One thing to remember... play and praise only comes after work, just because he decides that it is time to play doesn't mean that is so, you and your family are in charge... you decide when it is time to work and when work is done, not him.
If you're interested in what type of skates Cesar uses, they're called LandRoller Skates. New CA company. Awesome product!
I have a 10 month Dalmatian. She is very small only 29 pounds. She is a jumper, can literally jump to my eye level at 5'3". Twice I have had guests over and in the course of playing with them has cut their lips. They and I thought that it was a matter of "she jumped up and they bent over and they hit heads". She never barked, growled or expressed anger, but both times their lips were cut or bruised. I recently fly her home and while she was jumping around my mother's legs it happened again, but this time when my mom straightened up from bumping faces with the dog, my mother's lip was severely severed. She and I thought they bumped heads until my mother moved he hand from her mouth. The dog never growled, snapped, or barked. My mother doesn't think the dog meant it and I love the dog, but now there is a pattern and I don't know what i did wrong or what to do. Please help.
When I got my puppy he had been beated before. I found him full of oil and skinny. Once I brought him home I noticed that when he would get scared he'd piss on the floor. He is now 7 months old and still does it. I have never hit him or anything, but I'm getting to my wits ends, What can I do??? How do I get him to stop???
We've been having difficulty with our Cockapoo, Joey, that we "rescued" when he was 7 months old from our granddaughter's home. They have a 3 year old son, live in a second story condo, and have no yard. They had no time for a dog.
We have a dog door that all three of our dogs use but Joey will mess in the house from time to time for no apparent reason. I have also discovered that he has wet here and there but I don't discover it until it's too late. Sure wish we lived in LA.
We've seen Cesar's programs where he stresses exercise. We have 10 acres and our Lab goes out with my husband when he feeds our horse and chickens and never runs off but if we let the little ones out of the fenced yard, they run. My husband walks them when the weather permits but he's found an even better solution.
My husband has discovered the treadmill. Yes, he uses it but so do our Pekinese and our Cockapoo. Two days ago, he put both of the little dogs on their leashes and the three of them got on the treadmill. The Cockapoo was a little spooked but the Pekinese took right to it. After the third time, all he has to do is walk up to it and they climb right on. Boy, did they sleep good last night.
I'm hoping that it will make a difference in Joey and his "marking" habits. Any suggestions you may have for this problem would be greatly appreciated.
I have a 2year old yorkie. He has trouble with going potty at night time. He seems fine during the day with using the doggie door and going outside. He has a walk in the morning and in the evening plus we take him outside at night time several times before bedtime to potty and get up around six a.m. in the morning but he has wet in his crate. We put lights in the backyard in case he was scared, took his water away around 7 p.m. Any suggestions?
One thought about Cesar's comment regarding small dogs being carried around in a purse. Sometimes it is because the owner likes carrying their dog in a little bag like a pack of potato chips, but sometimes it is simply the only way they get to enter a building with us.
More and more stores are no longer allowing people to stroll in with their dogs...even hardware stores...that our choice is to leave the dog home or stick them in a doggie "purse" and bring them along.
I have such a bag, which is also airline-approved, just so my toy dog can accompany me on the weekend's errands. She walks much of the time, goes for several walks and potty-breaks during the day's rounds, but instead of being left in a car (can't do that this time of year because of the heat), she comes with me into the stores.
Personally, I would much rather be able to just walk into stores with her on lead, but enough irresponsible owners abound that priviledges for the rest of us are being continually revoked. Am I the only one who finds that frustrating?
I wish everyone who owned dogs would abide by a few simple rules of responsibility:
1. Pick up your dog's poop. Every time. No exceptions.
2. Keep your dog under control. Always.
3. Socialize your dog, so it doesn't bite, snarl, jump on, scare or injure other people or pets. Ever.
4. Of course, give proper food, water, exercise and medical care to your pets. Always.
Failure to follow these simple rules is why so many "No Dogs Allowed" signs are appearing with increasing frequency. I have not done a formal survey, but personal observation indicates that rule number one is most often broken and most often the reason for banning pets (from beaches, parks, apartments, hotels, etc). My own view is, if someone isn't willing to do all of the above, then they are really not yet ready for the responsibility of pet-ownership and perhaps would be better served if they just got a plant.
We have a 5yr old Beagle that has always marked on every vertical surface in the back yard. I joke that a person who stands in one place too long becomes a target for our dog's marking but I sometimes wonder if the statement is actually a joke! At our old house, we had a large grassy area and trees/shrubs everywhere so it was not that much of a problem. At the new house, the entire backyard is mostly pool and concrete patio area. Thus, the puddles of urine are very evident and our patio furniture legs are beginning to show signs of rust. How does one "train" a dog to stop marking everywhere he pleases without creating an issue with the dog becoming afraid to urinate anywhere but a single spot in one corner of a yard, even to the point of avoiding urinating on walks, camping trips, rest areas (when traveling), etc.??
my best friend has a jug and she is 1 years old and i train the dog i feed her and walk her 7 times a day and she still has so much energy Cesar wat shud i do i read ur books and watch ur shows tell me wat to do p.s i am only 13 years old
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I have a shih-tzu mix, and, as cute as he is, I never protect him from dogs on the street, nor carry him around inside a purse like he's a toy. If the dog doesn't get introduced to other dogs or people, when he finally runs into them, he will think that the dog/person is stronger than him and he will hide from anyone he hasn't been properly introduced to. The dog will feel weak and powerless, which isn't natural, and it's not good news, either.
I have a 11 wk blue female pitbull. when i got her the guy said this is the first time she's been outside. when i picked her up she was in a dark basement. However, i take her outside on the hour and for walks with my other pitbull thinking she will follow his lead she dont at all. after a long walk and sometimes being outside for 5-20min she do not use the restroom she waits til she gets back in the house. when shes outside she just sits in the grass and lay down. i get really madd. what should i do to stop this?
Also, my female pitbull is scared of every lil movement if you walk towards her she will run behind something if u go to pick her up she will curl up. can anyone tell me what the problem is? i never put my hands on her. she asct like she beeen beating and she only 10wks
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