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Yes, You CAN Train Your Dog
To me, animals are windows into their owners. Because they love their dogs so much, they open up to me because they believe that I can help them. Once they relax and speak honestly, their body language clues me in to how I need to work with them. For example, when people say to me, "I don't think I can do it," that says to me that they don't trust themselves.
If they don't trust themselves and lack confidence, I promise you, their animals know it. My role is to gently remind them, "Look, you CAN do this." So if a client is having problems, I'll try a certain exercise that helps to empower them and turn around their negative beliefs.
As far as dog rehabilitation is concerned, I train from the animal's perspective, which is to live in the moment. In other words, it's easy to solve problems or make things happen quickly if you quit obsessing about what's already passed. I try and help people practice that, and once they've gotten a taste of success, they know they can continue to make strides on their own.
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205 Comments
Since Cesar has come onto the scene a whole new understanding of dog behavior has opened up.
I tell everyone I know that is having difficulties with their dog's behavior that it's not too late and thier dog is not too old to be rehabilitated.
Since The Dog Whisperer, the excuses for dogs to be put down are diminishing! And for that I am so grateful.
When I've come across owners who are frustrated and have decided to put their dog down, I immediatly suggest Cesar's DVD and book that will be released next month.
I hope for more exposure of Cesar's philosophy in the hope that people and dogs will live happier lives togeather.
Thanks, Cesar!!
how can i teach my 3 year old mini pin not to pee in the house? i feel like at this point it is impossible. i walk him when he wakes up and then when i get home from work, and before i go to sleep. somehow he still manages to pee in between walks. HELP!!
Sarah- That was so well said-I agree with you whole heartedly!
Evan- I am a big believer in Crate Training-mini pins are probably too small for a dog crate, so you may have to get a cat carrier. At night after the dog does his business (make sure you priase him heavy if he goes, and make sure you use a name for the action-I use Park for #2 and Wee for #1) when you both come back in give the dog 20 minutes of "free time" then put him in the crate. The next morning take the dog out right away, and do the same thing. After you come back make sure you give him the 20 minutes free time before you leave for work. it should take about a week-the philosophy here is that the crate acts as a den, thats why you need one that isn't much bigger than the dog himself. Dogs in their den habitat will not make where they eat and sleep, so confining them in as small a space as possible will force them to not go until you let them out. Hope this helps..............
To Evan - If your mini-pincher is not already crate trained, you might start doing it. Be sure that the crate is big enough for your puppy to stand up, turn around and also be able to lay down in. I am a firm believer in the crate. It not only serves as a deterent for bad behavior when you are away from home, but it also keeps your dog safe. They also come to see their crate as a safe haven away from noise and commotion if necessary. That is why I suggest that when you are home with your puppy, leave the door to the crate open. That way he/she can enter at his/her lesiure and comfort. Good Luck.
i am watching caesar right now. i am with family in st louis. my husband was killed in hurricane katrina and my home was completely washed away with everything i own in the world. 3 of my 5 pets survived. we were all in the water, on debris field or in tree for almost 5 hrs before water subsided. our home was also a bed and breakfast inn so the dogs were socialized to other people and other dogs. now my 18 month old 85 pound border collie/newfie is having bouts of aggressiveness w one of my 45 pound chow/bordercollies to the point it frightens me. we are all each other has now and i know that i'm a mess for my dogs...and all 4 of us are depressed....but ivan seems to have post traumatic stress aggression and i don't know what to do except cry. if anyone has any practical advice for me..pls advise. and NO...getting over "it" has not been a practical solution.
diane,
I am so very sorry to hear ofthe loss of your husband! :( My heart breaks for you & your loss!
I would maybe email Cesar personally and tell him your situation????? I do know that there are alot of people who are trying to help dogs and people hit by the Katrina disaster.
I pray you will find peace soon and that Cesar will reply and help you! KathyB
I have become addicted to watching The Dog Whisperer and it has helped me with my 12 yr old Cocker. This neutered male was my husbands dog before we were married and he always had issues with following my commands. After watching Cesar and his techniques, i began to use them on Rascal and it has helped alot! We began using them on my 7 year old son's new chocolate lab puppy and he is very well behaved. It has worked so well that i have suggested Cesars show to my mom for her spoiled yorkie! Thanks sooo much Cesar!
Diane.
That is so terrible what you had to go through. I am so sorry. I would take KathyB's advise and contact Cesar Millan.
Stay strong and try to be the pack leader for your dogs. Always remember that dogs live in the present and will move on from their trama if you let them. Good luck.
~Chantel
Diane,
What a horrible thing. I am very sorry.
I really have no advice for you, as I am dealing with my own dogs fighting, but I agree with Kathy, try contacting Cesar. Maybe here: http://dogpsychologycenter.com/dsc.html
there is a box on the bottom that says send us your comments.
I really hope that you can have this problem solved.
This is sort of off topic, but concerning the walk: Does anyone know if the PACE of the walk has any effect on the dog? I took my Shepard cross Riley for an hour walk today at lunch. I purposely slowed it down from the pace at which we normally walk, and he seemed to have to work and concentrate more on staying beside me. It seemed he was more worn out from the slower pace than if I were to walk rather briskly. Any one want to take a shot at this one?
Sylvain,
I have noticed the same thing. When my dogs are allowed to run their own pace, they don't tire as much as when I slow them down (walking instead of running). However it's almost impossible to tire my dogs, as they are in great shape from daily runs.
Hi Sylvain,
Actually yes I would like to take a stab at it!lol :)
I do not "power walk" my dog often....but by the time I am done he is exhausted...why...because it takes more mental energy to pay attention to ME and watch my every move than it is to just walk fast or run.
The more "work" the dog has to do mentally, the more exhausting the walk is.
At least thats what my trainer tells me and what I see by how my dog acts after a walk. If I am "training/working" mine while we walk, he has to use more mental energey to pay attention to me so therefore I have to exert less physical energy to create the desired effect....a tired, happy dog walk!lol Hope my explaination helped! KathyB
This just happened not 20 min ago. we have a rescued great dane. We have had him since this past Sept. He is house broke, but just hiked his leg on my husbands chair and peed. because of his size he definately hit the spot. My husband is of course furious and out went the dog. (he is back in now.) What this an insult to my husband, was he marking territory, or just wanting out, let loose. My husband is very upset of course, I just want to know did we miss a signal to go out? What do you think? Before this, they were really quite good buddies. Thanks.
Dear Cesar,
My husband and I adopted an 11 yr old female Beagle, Chloe. We have her eating and/or overeating under control and she is weighting about 22 – 25 lbs and is 11.5” tall. So she is a small gal.
She didn’t come with to many issues from her previous owners (2 different families, we are her 3rd). Chloe is adjusting to our home and limitation quite well. The biggest issues we have are her food obsession, separation anxiety, and excessive barking when guest ring our door bell and enter our home. We are working on all these issues.
Luckily, Chloe is not aggressive or has an Alpha Dog personality. She doesn’t control or manipulate us, but my husband, Raul, and I are at odds regarding how each of us walks her differently. He thinks I give her to much lead at different times of my walks with Chloe. Thus allowing her to control me and dominate me.
We have been following your show religiously and practice the dog walking techniques. I am the primary dog walker and her daily walks average 45 minutes to 1 full hour.
I position her walking collar consist with your recommendations and it seems to be working. She isn’t pulling or calling the shots. I have NEVER and will not walk her off leash. I don’t feel psychologically exhausted or mentally stressed from walking her. Both Chloe and I come home tired, but a good tired.
During our walks there are some areas of the route that I have carefully selected as safe places to give Chloe a little more lead and let her walk about 3’ to 6’ maximum ahead of me. These sections of our walks are limited and never exceed more than 3 times during our walks. I feel Chloe sees me as the pack leader.
Question: Given that Chloe sees me as the pack leader and I pick routes that avoid problems like food in the street, should I ALWAYS have her close to my side throughout the entire 1 hour walk?
Sincerely, Toni
Can someone answer this one?
I usually take my dog (97lb Rott) to the bather down the street. She JUST had a bath less than a week ago and already needs another one. Thats 30 bucks a pop!!!
Is the water coming out of the outside water hose too cold to bath him in? I live in Florida and the high's are in the upper 70's. I know, I know...this is probably the dumbest question anyone has EVER asked! :D KathyB
Hi, Kathy, seems like i heard that a dog might not need regular bathing like we humans do! It may be the shampoo and whatever else the bather is using, causing a skin reaction,thus the smell. That is my guess. good luck! Marlene
Wondering if anyone knows anything about this. We got a shepherd mix from a rescue. He is about 5 now. They raved about how great this dog is and they were right. He is fantastically well behaved. Walks great, gets the newspaper everymorning, brings us our shoes on command, doesn't jump, plays nice, gets along with everyone BUT he licks like crazy! Everytime you pet him he licks. If he lays with you on the couch he licks he doesn't care who it is. We tried ignoring him when he starts licking. We tried a shake can.
Cesar, thank you so much for your spiritual insights into ME first, and second, my dogs. No more paper shredding, and I am the QUEEN of my household now. I have lost five pounds in one week of determined WALKS, my determined dog has learned tail down, my tail-down dog has learned self respect by tail-up techniques! Do you know any pig whisperers? (My pot bellies are constipated...)
I have been watching the Dog Whisperer every week. My dog is very uncontrollable. He is shepherd/husky mix, very aggressive and dominating. He does not like people or other dogs except the other dog I have which is lab/rot/sharpei mix. I cannot control this dog at times. He tries to attack my adult son. I sure wish i could get Cesar to help me out. Dog training in this area is minimal and he does not like the vet. He has tried to bite him as well. Can someone help me.
I'm new to the show and this website but have been reading it regularly ever since my family has gotten a new german shepard puppy who was 6 weeks old at the time we brought him home. A friend suggested that I watch a show called "Dog Whisperer". Since watching the show I've been walking him daily. Jake, the puppy, is 11 weeks old and he stays in the house. I have several questions since I've never had an inside pet before. First: How long do I walk him (remember his age) or better yet how long is to long or to short of a walk? Second if I want puppy to be protective -- does that mean he'll have aggression and behavior problems as shown on the show??? I would appreciate any helpful comments and sugguestions. Thanks!
Kathy,
I would say it depends how your dog tolerates cold. My chow mix loves cold and she doesn't mind the hose even when it's not too warm (she swims in the lake when it's 40 degrees). But my pit bull mix loves warm, and I would only hose her down in the middle of summer.
Wasn't tonight show great?
I feel empowered to do something with my fighting dogs. I am starting to believe that maybe we can have peace again. I know that I can't do it alone, and my husband and I have different schedules, and we hardly are home at the same time but I am determined to find a solution. We talked about it today, and we are going to start walking them together, in the beginning with muzzles, so they realize that they don't have to fight.
I love reading the blog comments and seeing all the success stories using Cesar's methods.
This is going to be a big off-topic, but I'm curious if anyone has ever met people opposed to Cesar's methods in real life? They're a dime a dozen in certain areas of the 'net (and I've seen criticism of them in one article), but I always wonder how much people do fuss away from the internet (where everyone and their brother can pretend to be an expert).
I am absolutely in awe of this guy! I literally am screaming at the tv saying "NO WAY!!!"
Cesar, you are truly amazing and deserve every second of success! What an amazing talent and skill. I am truly amazed.
I don't even have a dog of my own yet but I do love dogs and this show is just amazing tv in general.
I need help with my dog. I havent had a dog since I was a kid and Ive lost the knowledge on how to take care of a dog. My dogs problem is biting or teething. I cant even touch him because he tries to bite my hands. Sometimes it jumps on me and starts playing around by biting me. I have a dog that looks like a German Shepherd with St Bernard. Im not too sure but this dog gets really excited whenever it sees me. It has already scratched and bitten me on my hands. Please help me.
Julie,
Wow, it seems like you've got alot of dog on one leash. Do you take them on a long walk each day? By taking them on longer, pack oriented walks would probably help alot. Just try to be a better pack leader in everyway. This will hopefully help. You are probably already practicing leadership over your dogs, I would guess since you watch Dog Whisperer right? If not then start today. In every way you should be dominent and assertive. Never thinking about what happened before but demanding what you want now. Always keep your mind set on what you expect from them and not on,"oh no he's going to bite him." He will feed off your energy. Good luck.
~Chantel
Ewa,
Thanks! I think I am just going to give HIM...(I said her (LOL)) a good brushing tomorrow and leave him be and see if he can go without a bath for a few more weeks. I usually take him once a month to get a bath, so him smelling already is annoying!lololol
I just got done watching the "Dog Whisperer Marathon", I get to watch every friday night and it was AWESOME!!!!! They show all the weeks shows in one night! Man O Man Cesar ROCKS! He has truelly given me some great ideas/visuals/mental images to work on when I'm feeling anxious with my training or with my dog!
Pam,
I am going to tell you what my trainer told me...and what I seem to get from what Cesar says...your dog will FEEL your energy and protect if necessary without "teaching" him to. That any "gladiator dog" (aka pittbull, rott, german shepard, etc.) has a natural instint... any dog for that matter has the instint to protect I believe. I do not think and I was told by my trainer that you do not "teach" a dog to be protective, that he/she will feel your vibe and protect you if necessary!
tony,
I would get Cesar's dvd, but in the meantime....use the hand gesture that Cesar uses and his technique with the sound. All puppies do what yours is doing right now. Do not play with him with your hands (hands are for affection/love only, not toys)...buy as many chew toys as you can, do not play tug of war with him/her, and when correcting your puppy always be in a doominant position. Mine just turned a year old and weighs 97lbs., so I have to stand up to get his attention when I disipline. Hope that helped some!!!
Maggie,
Actually my trainer loves him, however he does disagree with how I should react to another dog coming towards us (me & my dog) aggressively...my trainer thinks I should stand still and do nothing and/or get pepper spary, while my natural instinct would be to do EXACTLY what I have see Cesar do and have had to do in the past on two seperate occasions.
K....Off to bed for this east coast girl!lol :) KathyB
thank you kathy. I will do that tomorrow and keep watching Cesar's show to learn more tips.
I LOVE this show!! I have been trying to impliment daily walks into my morning routine with my 15 mo old neutered golden retriever. I have found, however, that he is MORE hyper on the days when I take him for a long walk then on the days when I only walk him for 10 mins or so. Also, I cannot use a collar on him that goes around his neck, because he has a growth in his throat. I instead use a halter type collar that goes around his chest. I did try the "gentle leader" halti collar, but that puts pressure on the neck too. any ideas on why he is more hyper and harder to control on the days when he walks longer? he is behaved on the walk, but runs around the house like a madman upon returning home. HELP!!
I have a 7 year old male boxer and lab mix who is afraid of riding in an electric golf cart that has a large bed in the back. He can ride in the back of a truck, but is scared to death of riding in this cart. I do not take him far in it only a 1/8 mile to a river for a swim. I have to hold him in the front seat for the whole ride. I need a little advice so I can take him without care about 1 or 2 miles to a lake that we used to take him to. I would love for some advice
I am another one of those who are addicted to the show and thrilled with Cesar's philosophy. Our dog, Alex (Louisiana Catahoula Leopard Dog) just passed away, so I after about 6 weeks, I am now again able to watch the show without tearing up. We all watched Cesar's show together.
One thing I was always curious about, but never heard on the show is whether or not we should be training our dogs to potty in particular areas and then walk or walk our dogs to potty.
I know we should be walking our dogs at least 45 minutes a day. Not a problem for me, as I love to go on long walks, and as a writer, Alex was great for me, as he's always made Mommy move.
Whenever I had dog, I always walked them out of the neighborhood to the dog walk area to let h/her go potty. My significant other, Andy, has always had dogs who would potty in the yard someplace, but never learned to walk them. To him and his family, walking a dog every day, several times a day, is unheard of, whereas I think at least twice a day is the least we should walk the dog.
So...when's the potty time? During the walk? Before the walk? Completely separate from the walk? Kind of an important issue, I think.
Will Cesar cover this issue in his show anytime soon?
Thanks for the show.
Best,
Diane Faulkner
Jacksonville, FL
Someone said "do not play tug'o'war with your dog", my question is why?
I always play that game with my dog and he has a great time as do I. He tells me he's having a great time by the play growl he gives.
Also I ALWAYS make sure I win in the game. Like i'll pull him and then i'll let him pull me a little and then I'll pull him and then i'll tell him to sit and have him drop it and at the end I have the toy because I own it and it's mine. (Dog psychology) See dogs play with each other like that and I play like that with my dog to create more of a bonding experience with him.
It's also a great way to tire out a dog. He's definetaly pooped out after that.
The only thing I think people say don't do that is that it creates aggression. I can see how it might if you let it get to that point. That's why you do it for about 15 seconds and then stop and make him sit and then have him fetch it and then start the routine over again. But with my dog and I it's all fun and games.
You just have to make sure there is no aggression and that you THE HUMAN ALWAYS WINS.
*let me just point out that when I tell my dog to sit, I"m still holding the toy and then I have the dog drop it. Or i'll have him drop it first and then have him sit.
Either way i never let go of the toy and let him have it while we are doing this play or exercise.
I also saw Ceasar play a little tug of war.
tonight was the first time i have seen the show, simply amazing. I was wondering what kind of collers werebeing used? the trainers here dont like chokers or strike collers ,what is your take on that.
Good Morning John R!
It was me that said not to play Tug of war.
My reasons are EXACTLY what you are doing RIGHT as to why I said not to.
Tug of war is a dominance game and you must ALWAYS win....I never can as mine out strengthens me 1000 times. Eventually you are going to not always win. It's inevitable if you have a power breed.
It's a fun game and my dog loves it too, but unfortunatley we can't play that game. I have found that ball throwing and "thinking" games works really well for me to play with him....it wears him out and makes him think, so thats what I do instead.
Sounds like you already know you can't lose and most don't know that, and that is why I said to never play the game.
As long as you say your winning everytime then hey....Have a BLAST! :) LOLOLOLOL......mine would win everytime and I know it, so we don't play it!
Also.....I am by far no expert and just passing on advice I'm getting from my trainer, so I probably know hardly anything compared to all of you! :D
tom c,
Good Morning! I use a check collar (most call it a choke chain) and if put on properly and used properly it does exactly what its supposed to do....check them quickly and release. I did not know this until I hired my trainer but did you know that you are supposed to put the check chain on so that when it is placed on the dog it looks like the letter "p" (that made no sense!lol...I always hold the chain up and make it look like the letter p before I put it on him so I know its going on correctly and in the right direction). Put on that way it always releases when checked if walking with your dog on your left. At this point in my training, I like the check collar alot! My Rott is huge and if I did not have that edge I don't know if I could manage him as well at this point!
Man I'll tell ya something....I never realized how much I didn't know until I hired my trainers and started watching Cesar! Thank God I am at least smart enough to know to hire a trainer and realize I have a dog I need to be trained on how to act!lol
KathyB
I have wanted to be an animal trainer most of my life, and most everyone i know says I was a natural from the first day they saw me with any animal. I've taught stray cats to give high fives without claws, rats to be gentle and calm, dogs to pay attention, parrots to be quiet, baby bears to stand on thier hind legs (while i volenteered at a zoo, helping the keepers) for the sheer pleasure of hearing and feeling the joy of zoo goers, and today i caught the show where the lady you were with basically did a "the sidewalk is MY zone, so go back to your own and leave me be" to a nursing black dog in a car-sales lot. I've done that to so many nieghborhood dogs, i've made people sometimes wonder if I send phycic words straight to thier dog's brain. Enough blathering on about my pride stories! Watching your show helped me fine tune a few of my techniques, which helped me understand how to better train pocket pets, rabbits, and begin to overcome my fear of known vicious dogs. I want to know if you (or anyone else reading) have any advice on how to proceed from here towards professional animal training. Thank You.
on the dog bathing, you can use baby wipes to wipe off the dirt. it works pretty well for in-between groomer.
THIS IS MY FIRST TIME LOOKING AT THE WEBSITE BUT I DO WATCH THE SHOW ALL THE TIME. I HAVE 2 GREAT DANES AND A BLACK LAB. I AM HAVING ISSUES WITH MY DANES. FOR INSTANCE, I CANT WALK THEM ANYWHERE BECAUSE THEY WILL LITTERALLY DRAG ME TOWARD ANOTHER ANIMAL. THEY ARE SO HARD TO CONTROLL BECAUSE THEY ARE SO BIG. I JUST WANT TO BE ABLE TO WALK MY DOGS AND SHOW THEM OFF. MY MALE GREAT DANE ALSO HAS DOMINATING PROBLEMS WITH MY FEMALE DANE I CANT FEED THEM IN THE SAME ROOM BECAUSE HE WILL CHASE HER AWAY FROM HER FOOD. iF ANYONE CAN HELP .....I'M LISTENING!
Last night on the dog whisperer Cesar was working with a black german shepard who loved his family but hated the cat(who was also black). The dog also would go after anything and anyone outside of the house. I can relate to this episode because my german shepard is the same way. What I want to know isthis: how did Cesar get the dog on a leash to take him for a walk. They did not show this. I have family who would like to try to do this to get my dog used to them but it did not show his technique.
Any info. would be great.
thanks
Jennifer
I bought a book called The Dog Whisperer without looking at the author assuming it was by Cesar, but found out it wasn't when I got home. It is by Paul Owens. Are there two Dog Whisperers?
What are the levels of violence required for a dog to be ruled to be in the Red Zone? My terrier mix tries to attack any dog he meets on his walks and he jumps at their faces. He is fine with people as long as they aren't on a bike or motorcycle. I am thinking of putting a muzzle on him when I walk him. Any advice?
Wow, there are a lot of Kathy/Cathys on this thread!
I'm Kathy, but at work they call me K2, so I'll use that.
I've been watching Cesar's show for 6 months, and I have
two 80-lb male Lab mixes, un-neutered. Hobie, my 6-yr old
yellow Lab/Shepherd I spent a lot of time training, and
especially walks -- we'd walk one hour twice a day. I got
Hector, a 4-yr-old black Lab/Coonhound in 2001 when Hobie
was a year old. Hector I've had since he was 6 weeks old,
and I picked him out at the farm where he was born when he
was a week old. He was so easy in the beginning, I didn't
have to do any training. He just followed me and Hobie
everywhere. (I've always had to have Hobie on leash
because he takes off and there is a lot of dangerous
stuff here in the countryside of Massachusetts -- back
roads, woods, half-frozen ponds in winter, etc.)
When Hector reached adulthood, he started LUNGING at
other animals while on our walks. If on leash, I would
inevitably get injured. If off leash, I would get yelled
at and threatened by people (understandably). It got to
the point where I was so terrified to walk, I just stopped
walking them except for at safe times, when I knew no one
else is around (luckily I have a job that allows me that
flexibility!). There have been times when I've "tricked"
Hector into staying home, and took Hobie by myself. Poor
Hec' would howl at the top of his lungs, driving my
family and neighbors nuts.
So, I started watching Cesar's show last summer, and the
changes are amazing. But, I'm still doing some things
wrong. (Notice I said I'm doing things wrong, not the
dogs!!) When we encounter another dog on the walks, both
my dogs still lunge at the other dog. Now, I've got
Hec' under control because I have the choke collar close
to his ears and holding him close instead of out in front
of me. But the other day, Hobie was the one who pulled
so hard I had to let go of the leash and off he ran towards
the other dog. The person was really nice about it, but
I got all nervous and started shaking (and of course
yelling!). I try not "looking" at the other dog, because
I found out that by doing that I was sending a signal to
my dogs sort of "pointing" at the dog (or cat). And so
I try just looking somewhere else, and that works a bit.
Should I stand in between the two (three) dogs, so I'm
blocking them? Should I make them sit (nearly impossible
when they are so excited). Any advice -- this is the ONE
issue that is still making me afraid to walk them. I
totally related to the woman with the two dogs on last
night's show. I was crying with her!!
P.S. I had a female black Lab, Timba for 18 years -- I
did everything similar to how Cesar does, I just did that naturally. When she died, a friend said that I didn't treat her like a human all those years, and should have.
When I got Hobie and Hector, I treated them like human
kids because I felt guilty about Timba, and I have no
human kids. BIG MISTAKE!!! Don't do it. The dog will run your life!
To answer somebody else who asked about their dog being
more hyper after a long walk -- dogs need ROUTINE. After
our walks, I always feed my dogs right away. If I don't,
they are nuts. They need structure and routine, so if
you're just doing "whatever" after the walk, then he's
wondering what's going to come next. On days when you
can't do a long walk (longer is better) make sure the short
walk is followed by the same strict routine no matter
what. If you just "go through the motions" on those days
when you're too busy, or the weather is bad, it generally
works to keep them calm and submissive.
Thanks everybody! Cesar is truly gifted, and has helped
many!
Yes, you CAN train your dog.
That's the title of this blog. It (and last night's show)somehow got me to think that maybe there is a hope for my pack, that has been broken for a year now, as two of my dogs fight every time they get to meet without the gates in between.
This morning my husband and I took them together for a walk first time in a year (they walk daily, but never together, as I am the only one who walks them). It was exhausting, more mentally than physically. I started to walk with Ruffy, the dog that is being attacked, and a minute later my husband joined us with Blackie, the agressor. As soon as Ruffy saw Blackie coming, she became very tense and nervous, and started pulling towards Blackie. Blackie was very calm all the time (they were both tired from earlier walks), and she didn't pay much attention to Ruffy at all. After a few minutes Ruffy relized that Blackie is calm, and started to relax. She was never completely relaxed, but at the end was much better. We kept the distance, so the dogs couldn't touch. But they were close and saw each other all the time. I am happy with how it worked, and we just have to do it a lot, so they can relearn to bew friends again.
K2
I can relate to the woman from last night's show (the one with agressive pit bull) too, and was crying with her as well.
I found the episode showing how Patricia's past experiences and personal challenges can effect how we interact and throw our dog's out of balance, very hard to watch, but also a very important episode.
It also once again shows how Cesar's techniques can help humans overcome some of these painful memories from the past, pay attention to what the dog is mirroring in our behavior, and using living in the moment to move on.
Although it was very hard to watch Patricia's emotional reaction in the presence of her dogs, out of my concern for them, I could not help but also have compassion and hope for Patricia to move on, and become a more balance person, not be stuck in a helpless victim mode, and gain strength and confidence through leadership.
Hang in there Patricia, you can do this!
Many humans bring a lot of emotion and human psychology into their relationships with their dogs. There are even training methods which do this. Even setting a boundary for a dog, is not used by some trainers because they feel it is a "negative" thing to do.
I never became a dog "trainer", as I never found a complete philosophy that started from the dog's point of view and needs, rather than the human's. Although I do find portions of almost all of the training methods and philosophies quite useful, when applied at the correct time and for the appropriate situation.
I read the first book put out by The Monks of New Skeete, "How to be Your Dog's Best Friend", about twelve years ago. This book contained some insight I already believed in from spending a lot of time with dogs as a kid, and also reading everything I could get my hands on about wolf pack behavior.
This book did contain alpha rolls, scruff shakes, and some of the interpretations of wolf pack behavior as leadership being more "forceful/assertive", rather than "calm/assertive", which is a common mistake based on outdated interpretations of wolfpack interactions. But, other than that, this book was very helpful in forming some of the ways I now interact with dogs. The monks have revised their newer book, and regretted putting the alpha roll in the first book. I have not yet read their updated book.
Cesar, by starting with dog psychology, really hits the nail on the head. I believe if your starting point when working with a dog, (and owner), is dog psychology, then communication and leadership, and followed up with "balanced" training methods and philosophies, you have a beautiful combination.
JMHO :)
I love this show!! I am preparing to purchase a puppy. We don't have any other pets, do any other bloggers have info about the best way to incorporate a new puppy into a family to avoid any problems??
I've started watching the Dog Whisperer quite frequently, ever since happening upon it one morning. I really think that Cesar Millan is an amazing person, and it brings such hope that I can help my dog, Carrot.
My six-year old Sussex Spaniel, Carrot, has a few issues. For one, my mom doesn't allow him in the house, as he's very possessive, especially when it comes to couches. I know not to allow him on a couch when he has such a problem, but if he manages to get out of your site, that's pretty much the first place he goes. His personality changes completely, it's scary. He goes from the sweet, innocent spaniel to the dog that isn't afraid to attack.
Not only with couches, though, but he also has a problem with giving up his things when I tell him to. He's protective of me to the extent that he doesn't like other dogs. I want to socialize him, but I don't know how to go about doing so without getting into a fight. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. ^^
I'm new to the dog whisperer but I lot it!
Has Cesar ever talked about separation anxiety or addressed it in an episode? please reference me if he has.
thanks
Michelle,
I was the teacher featured on the show last night with my two shelties, Jake and Nugget. Don't know if you saw the episode or not, but it really focused on the specific challenges around Jake barking at noises and in the car. However, I wanted to share with you that one of Jake's issues used to be that he had very intense "separation anxity." He would run in circles while barking like a maniac and would then THROW himself against the door when I left. (There is a clip of that on the show last night.)
While Cesar didn't specifically address the behaviors Jake had when I would leave, he said that if I made the other changes that he had taught me that the behaviors Jake had when I would leave would probably go away, too. And, for the most part, they have!! He is simply not allowed to make a fuss when I leave. He does not run in circles anymore or throw himself against the door. Sometimes he still does a bit of barking as I walk down the stairs in front of my house, but then he stops. (Resistence is futile, Jake!)
So, the correction I give Jake when I show him that making a fuss as I leave isn't allowed is - I herd him into a corner and then point to the ground and snap. He then lies down and his shoulders relax and then he slips out of that whole chaotic mode. Also, he understands that making a fuss is not acceptable behavior. I don't know how to explain it any better than to say - you just cannot allow your dog to have the behaviors you don't want him or her to have. And it is amazing to see that Jake actually responds because I felt like I had tried so hard to correct the behaviors before.
The truth is that I just didn't really believe 100% that Jake's behaviors could be corrected. Once I saw that the behaviors could be corrected and I basically demanded that they were, Jake displayed those behaviors less and less.
Gosh - this was a long response to your question, but I just hope I could help.
All the best,
Megan
To that lady who was in tears yesterday with the pitbull and her boyfriend. I would not want her to be my nurse. If she was so freaked out about the dog, I could only imagine how she would be to see blood dripping from me. Lol I kid kid.
She needs to be in the state of mind of when she is being a nurse. I'm sure when she's a nurse she's calm and assertive.
I need help with my two cairn terriers (a male and a female) and a female malti-poo. The male cairn has starting lifting his leg on the furniture in the house, and the two females will pee and poop in the house also, if left unattended. I have a very large fenced-in back yard, and they all go out frequently. I can always tell when they have made a mess in the house, because they act guilty, so I'm sure they know it is wrong.
( I had the vet check them out, no physical issues.) All three used to potty trained, and I just don't know why they are doing this.
Any advice on how to handle this would be appreciated!
Megan,
I really enjoyed the episode with you and your dogs. I hope you can get the parents "trained", too! It sounds like you are, if they are blocking the dogs from barking when you leave.
It's so wonderful when the owners featured in the episodes, also participate on this blog, with their experiences and an update.
Good spot of Ceasar helping up with the vacuuming, too! I just love to watch a guy doing housework! Wink-wink, nudge-nudge.
Deb
Thanks again so much Ceasar and dog guardians on the past shows... my red-zone chow/bully is getting better, because I am getting better. My pack is getting better because I am getting better. Now, if I can get this energetic little pit-bully puppy under some kind of control. It takes all six dogs, six cats and me to keep her exercised. Woof, woof. Yay Daddy, Popeye... I love to see Ceasars bullies and how he helps the breed so tremendously...
Last night's show was awesome, as they all are.
Megan, I congratulate you for your progress with your Shelties! Awesome job!
JohnnyRU131, you made me laugh because I was thinking the exact same thing.... 'Man, I sure wouldn't want Patricia as a nurse...she's a basket case'. I did feel some compassion for her angst over her dogs though, but what concerned me more was her boyfriend/fiance. The difference in their personalities makes me fear for her. On the show she showed that she had a weak, helpless personality for the most part. Her boyfriend didn't exactly seem overall really supportive of working with her and her dogs to become a pack. I got the impression that he was hoping that the end result would be that the dogs would be considered a 'hopeless case' and she'd decide to give them away. I didn't like him one iota and felt he might be the type who likes being around those who are weak so that he can feel strong. Perhaps the dogs sense that too and that's why he has so many issues with dogs (hers and others in his past). I wish Patricia and her dogs luck.... they deserve happiness together.
To Diane, I'm so sorry about the losses you have recently experienced. I can't imagine the displacement and grief you and the dogs are having with the death of your husband, the destruction of your home and the loss of your other beloved animals. My heart is sad for you and I will send out lots of tonglen.
I have recently bought a basket muzzle for one of my dogs who is unpredictable with his attacks on another dog. They have lived together for four years. My husband recently took a job in another city and is gone during the week. Before that, we both went through a lot of distress with our jobs. I have six dogs all together. A lot more happened, including bring a pit bull puppy into the pack and a litter of abandoned kittens. I believe after levi left, Goose and Marlow, in their dog way, begin to fight for dominance over me, because I've never been a good pack leader. I am like the young woman last night with the the two chow mixes. I rescue people and animals based on old stuff. Ceasar and therapy have helped me out tremendously.
I would suggest the muzzle until you and your guys achieve some sort of grounding again...I know this will happen for you, however the only relief I have known after losing someone to death that I loved, has been time. And you are just at the beginning.
God Bless and may the heavens cushion your flight...
Aussie Owner,
I dunno about the nurses boyfriend...maybe he could be like some of us that are not "out going" in the spot light. If you look at his body language on the show, he is was self-assured, very confident, and I could tell by how he sat in the chair outside that he was very relaxed. Now on the couch, thats another story...but being cornered by a pitt in a kitchen is NOT fun (personal experience on that one!) especially if you are afraid of them from all the stupid hype and critisizm they get all the time on tv.
When I was living in N. Florida, we had a friend who stayed with us, who owned a pitt that was CRAZY!!!!!.... ALL the owners fault. Treated the dog horribly and the dog was beyond aggresive. The dog ended up with cancer and died, but while he was alive he had a horrible life...shot up with steroids, beaten, you name it...all in the effort to make him as mean as possible...well it worked. I think I was the only person who ever gave the dog affection and love. He was probably the only dog I was afraid of also, and for very good reason.
Every person acts differently in every situation and I would kinda ease up on both of em as I don't know how "easy" it would be to do what they did on tv.....ya know what I mean? You never know how a person REALLY is until you get to know them and spend time with them....30 minutes or 15 minutes on a tv episode does not really give a trues picture of a person. JMHO of course! :) KathyB
As others have mentioned I really felt like last nights episode was especially poignant. I felt very emotional through the entire episode but especially the one with Wendell. His owner may have seemed over the top, but people have to remember that she spent six years with a dog she didn't feel like she had any control over and obviously we didn't see the things she has seen.
Sometimes while watching the show I feel very frustrated becasue I think,"why can't I do that with my dog?" My year old German Shepherd has definitely got issues with other dogs. When I got her three months ago I didn't know she hadn't been socialized but that is obviously the case. She barks aggressively and charges dogs and will nip at their legs and necks if they react to her at all. I know I get in to an anxious state and send all my negative energy down to her when we meet up with another dog but its almost like I can't control the way I feel. When I see Cesar explain to people how they are acting and reacting and then see how tense they appear (last nights episode especially) It really makes me feel bad. I was determined today to get over it and see my dog for how I want her to be rather than what I'm afraid she's going to be. We just got back from the park where we played ball for about an hour off leash with several other dogs there and had a great time. She had a couple naughty moments but I just had to remind myself to stay calm and correct her than move on.
I hope everyone the best with their dogs think "Wendels" owner was a very compassionate but emotional person who was very lucky that she got to meet Cesar.
I loved the episode last night. I really needed to see the one with Spike, considering I have two cats(that are really fat :D). It helped me to prepare for my dog so that I can have a peaceful household after hke arives(without the cats and dog seperated)
I love how Cesar sees dogs in a different way than the public. He doesn't like to blaim one breed for the actions of a few irresponsible owners. Like the lady's fiance with Wendell. It's sad how Pitt Bulls are so feared just for a few owners. Of course Pitt Bulls are able to do alot of dammage, but that is not genetic for them to be "maneaters". They are trained that way by their owners, consiously or unconsiously. I personally have to admit that I do get a little uneasy around pitts but I'm trying to get over it. Of course when you can totally tell a dog is unbalanced it makes you a little uneasy, and that's pretty much every dog I meet. It's very rare that I find a dog that is truly balanced, in fact I have never met one. It may just be my neiborhood but there are none that I know of.
~Chantel
I like Cesar's style and I think it translates out to human psychology as well. Improve your attitude, improve your dog's attitude. I can see my hyper activity in my dog Violet (pound puppy terrior mix) who is incredibly shy, like myself, and barks a lot to look more assertive than she really is, to strangers or family she hasn't yet met. My dog Astiri (black lab/ newfi mix) is much more friendly and outgoing, lover not a fighter and definately not shy about approaching people. They are Yin and Yang.. one white the other black.
My dogs have a job... they protect my home and they do that job well. They have the neighbors fooled, and strangers. Nobody wants to be in my back yard. But around me and my family, they're sweet hearts.
I never knew that dogs were supposed to walk by your side or behind you though. I always thought that was just for fru fru dogs at dog shows, and that REAL dogs walked out front, did their business and came back home. I guess I did my first dog Odie (pure bread fox terrier) a great diservice by encouraging him to walk out front when we first got him. He used to be my buddy.. would ride on the middle bar of my bike and pull a sled and ride down the hills with me as a child. We treated him like the brother we never had.
The dogs I have now are much larger than Odie, and because I'm working, taking classes and a mom, I think I treated them like dogs and not people and my parents have noted how my dogs seem so much smarter than Odie, when I think it's not brains, it's that they're dogs not a brother with dominance issues.
I would like to add a third dog this summer to my pack, but many people have advised me against 3... that 2 is a couple and 3 is a fight. I just would like the added security.. another pair of ears and eyes out here in the desert.. I would also like to know that I was rescuing a dog and giving it a good home and plenty of land to run about and be a dog. My two dogs I have now are rescues and it's been great!
Hey Ann,
I love Cesar's style also. Some other ways that poeple train thier dogs it amazes me how mush work they have to do. Like trying to get the dog to walk beside you(I always thought it was a fru fru thing too). They have the dog on the leash and then everytime the dog walks beside them they click and give treat. It works but I really think you don't have to go that far just to have them walk beside you. I kind of see that as spoiling the dog in a way. Cesar said that when the followers do something good for the leader they don't get treats, they get respect and no corrections. I think that that is a good enough of an goal for them. Some poeple don't realize a quick tug on the leash is all you need.
If you are thinking to have three dogs I really don't see anything wrong with that, IF you are a strong pack leader and your dogs you have now know that. I see it as goinf from couple to pack. Make sure also that whe you get your dog that it has the same energy level or lower energy level as your Yin Yang dogs you have. I don't know why but that is what Cesar said on one of the episodes. I think Cesar does this so that the dog coming in won't be more dominent than the other so it won't cause tension between the dogs and your knew dog won't try and own the place before you set down the law.
I hope that you decide to get another dog. Every life counts, and I'm sure that your new dog would fit right in if you are a very strong pack leader. I am adopting a dog this summer(if you didn't already know that because I say it in all of my entries almost. I am so excited though so I just have to let everyone know!)I can't wait. It's so exciting and it will be my first dog ever! If you do get another dog I hope everything goes well. :D
~Chantel
Ann: I'll just make snippit points to your post.
-Terriers are more hyper and and Newfies are big black poofs of cuddle. It's just what they were bred for. Terriers hunt, thrush, and dig out prey for thier human. Newfies were bred almost specifically just to jump in freezing cold water to fetch humans or lines of rope, so they had to instictivly not be agressive to humans. The protection of territory is in all dogs though.
-One main reason to hae the dog behind or beside you, is if they DO decide to take off to chase something, they don't have all that leverage on you already and you have more time till they hit the end of the leash and there's no tearing them back. Even Mr. Muscles America couldn't stop a large breed dog that hit the end of the leash running.
-Adding a dog: as long as you have the space, time, finances, and patience for a new dog...the number doesn't matter. Just work with a rescue and they can help you choose a dog that would meld nicely with you current two. Then just take it slow and confident. If you ussually talk to your dogs in huge sentences, go ahead and do that with the new dog...likewise with any commands you use, like "inside", "who needs out?", and/or "go park yourself!". Don't worry over it too much and your current two will just follow your lead most likely.
I'm concern deeply about our beautiful Hauoli (means Happy in Hawaiian). He was a stray puppy when he found us. He started being afraid (heavy pantting; shrivers; pacing; digging on the carpet, the marble floor, the wooden door jams, the wooden window jams, in the yard by our fence where he got out a few times during storms and off he gone) first thunder, second lightning, and now heavy rain. Will behavior modification work on him and me? Have you done a epidsode with this topic? We've sedated him, so he's resting-asleep. Though, I don't want to do that if there's another way.
Herman,
I saw on one of Cesar's episodes where a dog was "shaking" and he said "thats good...he's releasing the tension from his body, its not because he is afraid".
I would try walking him?....release some of that tension he has? Possibly by walking him and letting him relax and realize he doesn't have to be "in control" will help with his thunder problem? I am sure someone here has much better advice to give than me!!! KathyB
I have a 9 month old female Golden Retriever who's training is going really well. My wife is handicapped and walks with a cane. I would really be interested in getting our Golden certified as a service dog. I live in the Los Angeles close to LAX. Is there any one you can recommend to me so I can contact regarding the certification process.
Thank You, Steve
My mother has told me about this show, and raves about what he can do with these dogs. I have a border collie that is 6yrs. old and is a wonderful dog/ friend. He is my daughter's dog truly he sleeps with her follows her everywhere. About 2 months ago a friend of mine showed up with a black lab/ english spaniel mix 6 week old puppy. She is beautiful. We are finally getting her house broke, but she is chewing soooo bad! She has toys of all shapes and sizes and kinds. She is banned from the bedrooms because she has a major liking for shoes and the kids toys. I was told not to give her any toys that look like the kids toys, which i have made sure not to do. I have sprayed her with the water when she is doing something wrong. That worked for a litle while, but now she could care less about it. She also bites pretty bad. I read that when they bite you to make a high pitched cry(yip) and they will acknowledge the fact that they are hurting you and will stop. Not this one... she will grab the kids' hands and feet as they walk by her. Naturally this is not good far many reasons. please if anyone has any suggestions it would be appreciated! I am going to make it a point to watch caesar's show!!! Thank you to everyone.
Amanda
Sylvain
Very interesting point about the slower walking, I had noticed that myself with my own dogs, but had wondered if I was seeing something I wanted to see! My dogs are high drive working bred dogs, and I could not possibly tire them out physically, although they will fetch a ball until they drop, this only really makes them briefly out of breath, and I actually find it hypes them up and they are not really relaxed afterwards.
If we walk at their pace - I am exhausted but they don't seem to walk any more calmly, however, now, after practicing the Cesar walk, we walk at my much slower speed, and they are not allowed to sniff, or leave my side, they also have to stop and stand still every time I stop. I had expected them to be frustrated by this, but instead they are actually calmer, it works!!
Herman:
I've known many storm-dogs. I even owned one with only a minor fear that hide under the computer desk. suggestions are: Crate training the dog so he has "a safe place", remain calm yourself so as to give the example that it's nothing to worry about, and of course rewarding calmness with praise and petting. Start small and don't expect a sudden change like on the show...this is an irrational fear based on fear of loud noise and escalated from there. Start with mild sedation so he is a little dopey, but still very awake. Have him sit or lay next to you, or in the crate, praising when he's not being frantic, such as just panting heavily. Once he's stopped being frantic about it, work on the absolute ignoring the storm. In a stormy season, this would take a month or two but not much more than that.
And try to never leave him alone, especially outside, when there's a storm coming untill he's mastered not panicing.
Steve:
Google Top Dog USA and Pets and People (.ORG). These seem to be good places to start. Most training tests can be found out through dog training schools as the first few tests are basically the test-outs of the advanced level obediance.
I've trained my parents' oldest dog to the first step towards therapy dog, his Canine Good Citizen Award, but then his health starting failing (he has a liver disorder, which i figured would add to his ability to connect to hospital patients) and i dropped the program after he finished his test with flying colors.
Amanda,
I would suggest you purchase Cesar's DVD, "People Training for Dogs", I believe that is the title.
Cesar has addressed the issues you are having with your spaniel mix on many episodes of his show. And has sucessfully rehabilitated the dogs with those type of problems.
I think it's too difficult to give the proper techniques here and your situation would be best addressed by the exact techniques Cesar most likely addresses in the DVD.
Just know all those problems can be rehabilitated. :)
I have a 1yr old male cocker Rudi. I got Rudi from a family that wanted to get rid of him, with out knowing what kind of problems that he had ... He is a barker I'm not sure how to get him to stop barking @ everything.. IF anyone has some good advise please share. I feel he is a vey smart dog but I'm just sure what the best method of training is for this issue.
Hi Jaylene,
I have 3 cocker spaniels so I know what you are going through. Cockers, like most dogs, bark excessively when they are bored. How is your walk situation. Do you play with him. Dogs bark and are distructive when they are bored. He may need a chore to do. Have you tried having a trainer come and evaluate him? Does he bark when you leave him alone? He may have separation anxiety due to so many changes in his life.
Have you crate trained him? If he is used to being in a crate and continues to bark, go outside and listen to see if he is barking. If he is, go back inside and lightly pound on the crate and say NO BARKING. You have to do this several times until he gets the hint. There is also a calming mist that plugs into the wall socket that may soothe him. You might also try leaving the radio on, so he thinks someone is home. There are several ways to go.
Good Luck!
Jaylene! Didn't you see the newest show last Friday?! You describe a problem very similar to one of the problems I had with my dog, Jake, the sheltie on last week's show. Try to catch the repeat episode this Friday at 7pm (which is just before the new one at 8pm) - You will probably get some good ideas!
Megan
I just watched Episode 9 - Spike, Jake & Nugget, and Wendell. I just have to SCREAM about the couple (Patricia and Tyler) that called off their wedding because of Wendell. Tyler should have gone running the other way because of PATRICIA!!! SHE IS INSANE!! She gives women a bad name. Oh my gosh! The CRYING!!! At least Tyler knows what he's getting into. She's just toooooo much drama for a grown woman!!!! ARRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHH!!! Whew! I feel better now. :-)
I have 3 Chihauhas. They have quite the personality. The Male thinks he is a mean big dog that will lick you to death if you get past the growling and barking. The Female she is Loving and sweet and quite till someone comes near me or comes in the house then she attacks. The puppy is Very sweet and Loving then unexpected attacker who just wants to play.
I LOVE the Dog Wisperer show I talk about Tecniques with people that own dogs but they never take my advise and so I tell them about the show I LOVE tell them to watch it their.
I have all kinds of trouble with my dogs they know no basic commands and just run wild and crazy. The female does #1 and 2 on my daugters bed almost every day regardless of the times they go out.
The show Has helped me in so many ways. Dog training is just like horse training so I understand it. Now if only I can train them to be happy healthy Disiplined Dogs LOL.
I have a toy poodle with pack leader issues, I do the walks, but I can not get the collar to stay up near his ears to have controll over him, so when he sees another dog or person he will go into the red zone and start screaming like someone is killing him. I have tried all of Ceasar's ways but I/m at a loss with this behavior. I try to be aware of my surroundings so that I can stop Mickey before he goes into the red zone but he will go from 0 to 10 with no warning. I would love any advise that anyone can give.
Sherry
I'm sorry if this comes across wrong...I mean no harm or insult by speaking my heart on this matter, so please do not be offended. ok..here goes....
I have seen alot of posts regarding Spike, Jake & Nugget, and Wendell. Everyone really needs to take a step back and not be so judgemental....until we walk a mile in someone's shoes we cannot know or feel what they feel and the trauma's they had or may have had in their childhood.
I personally think it must take a LOT of guts for ANYONE to be willing to get on a national TV show and be as honest and as open, for the world to see.
This is just my opinion of course...what I may think of an episode or the individual of any of the episodes that may be negative or judgemental, I chose to keep to myself as I always have the attitude "what if that person is reading or hearing me speak?". The words of a stranger can be hurtful.....I know how it feels to be talked about or spoken of so hurtfully and it trully can be hurtful, even if it is by someone who I don't even know.
Peace. :) KathyB
Stefani,
I agree with KathyB above. You don't know Patricia. Yes, she was crying, so what. Some people (myself included) are very emotional, and have trouble letting things go. That doesn't mean they are crazy.
I think she is a good person with a big heart for animals.
KathyB
I totally agree with you. I also think that it takes guts to open yourself up on national TV. She obviously cares about her fiance and her dogs. She called Cesar to help. She wasn't just sitting and letting everything go. She was taking active steps to change things. She was learning and she was changing. Some people just wear their heart on their sleeve. I am a nurse, and I know other nurses who cry at the drop of a hat because they care so much about people, but I can tell you, those same nurses are the ones you want there with you or your family when things go wrong.
We have a German Shephered and she likes to bite me. I do what you say but nothing works. I dont know what to do hlep
me. I live in utah.
I really don't understand what all the fuss is about Patricia. Didn't anyone else besides those who are cutting her some slack hear what she said about why she is so emotional about her dogs?
She related an incident in her childhood where she had to witness a beloved dog stay chained, ill and die, all on that chain. She witnessed family members kicking dogs. Any of that would cause trauma in a child, and it's not uncommon to take it into your adulthood.
And like others have said, she's trying to move forward and was lucky enough to get Cesar to help.
The woman has a tender heart, and deserves some understanding.
Shelby,
Please consider getting Cesar's DVD, called "People Training for Dogs".
You may need more insight than what we can offer here on this blog.
You may also need to consult a professional trainer to help with these issues.
Good luck and remember what Cesar says, "stay calm and assertive" and to apply his three principles:
1. EXERCISE
2. discipline
2. love
in that order.
When I watched Patricia, it reminded me of so many times in my younger years when changing, and learning a different way of "being" was very hard. However, I wouldn't change much of anything about my past, because I wouldn't be where I am and who I am today, without those experiences.
I think a lot of times those who "walk through the fire", into a better way of being, gain a gift of what they've learned, which they can then use to help others.
Everything then comes full circle.
Sometimes we have to break the chain of the past. Even if it was how we were raised. Patricia seemed to be trying to find a balance for the harsh the treatment of dogs she witnessed as a child, through being emotionally over sympathetic. I feel Cesar helped her find the balance in the moment, and helped her move on.
She gave her dogs the greatest gift by doing this for them.
She also gave someone else out there watching the program, hope.
If I hadn't gained a certain measure of compassion and understanding for my fellow human beings along the way, helping them with their dogs, would be a very difficult to thing to do.
Deb :)
Deb,
You could tell how much Patricia loved her dogs. She was willing to post-pone her own marriage to work things out. And I think it is really important to work things out with your fiance, even problems with dogs, to help strengthen the relationship before jumping in head first.It really touched me how strongly against she was of her earlier experiences with dogs being treated so harshly. I am really happy that Cesar was able to help her forget her past experiences for the moment and really help the dog that she has now. It could have been disasterous if Cesar had not come to the rescue of this couple and Patricia's dogs. I hope that things are going great with Patricia and that her spouse can settle in nicely with the pit.
~Chantel
Good Morning!!! :)
Life has so many challenges, and the trauma's we all may or may not have experienced as children that either help us or stop us from being who we want to be when we grow up.
I think all of us have had trumatic experiences that were devastating to us, but to someone else they would just roll their eyes and say get over it....thats what makes us all like a finger print....Uniquely different.
I applaude Patricia and all the other guests on Cesar's show, that have let us take a moment to see into their world, share their lives with us, walk their path, if only for a moment, so that I may gain a better understanding of my own actions, behaviors and trauma's, so that I too can grow and be a better, more balanced person for my dog. And BTW....I'd take a nurse like Patricia in a heart beat!!!!!! :) KathyB
I'm am a soon to be mother and my dog is spoiled, when we got her she laid in the bed with us and she listens well
but were afraid that when the baby is born we won't be able to lay the baby down on the bed or anywhere that the do might be able to reach her. I don't want the dog to lay on the baby or try to hurt her in any way. can you tell me how to break her of being on the bed or couch where we might lay the baby. I have tried to get her to lay on a blanket in the floor but she sometimes jumps back on the bed with me. can you tell me what i can do to break her of that? we try to do things with her but I just wasn't sure what to do about getting her used to the baby when she gets here.
I am a person with epilepsy. I have a dog. Her name is Cos, and she is a Siberian Husky. She is 3 and a 1/2 years old. When she was about 1 years old, she helped me. I was having a seizure in the bathroom, and she came and tapped on the door. She then came to my husband, who was in the next room, and she alerted him to some problem happening. My husband Kerry did not know that I was having a seizure, so he followed the dog back to the bathroom, and Kerry realized what had happened. He helped me off the toilet and got me dressed again.
Later, Kerry told me what had happened. I have wondered if Cos has a special talent, and I am wondering if Cesar could help me: please answer this question.
Thanks, Kim
KathyB,
Thank you for saying that in post #75. I totally agree with you. I cried like a baby the second time I saw that show. I will tell the whole world why. One day when I was 4 yrs old, my mother told me to go get everyone in for dinner. I started running out the back of the house and down the stairs, I got the words daddy daddy daddy out when out of nowhere (our yard was completely fenced in) came a big black dog and started to attack me. For most of my young life I was afraid of any big dog. Since being an adult (in my 40's now), I've learned to be calm and accepting of big dogs. I thought I was over this but when I saw this episode I figured out I still had an anticipation of am I going to get attacked way back in my subconcious. Just by acknowledging this fact has made all the difference in my relationship with my dog Heffer and our walks. Ever since Friday's episode our walks have been 100% better. I thought our walks were really good until this weekend. He has virtually ignored every dog in our path except for the one dog that was off his leash and in front of his human. I got him under control in a few seconds and he ignored the dog and quit pulling on the leash.
So all in all, people should not condemn a person until they walk a mile in their shoes.
Diane,
I'm also sorry to hear about your loss. I worked the disasters with FEMA so I am very familiar with the devastation.
I am glad to hear that you were able to hang on to some of your pets. I wouldn't think of telling you to "get over it" as I have not gotten over it myself, and I personally suffered no loss.
What I will tell you is to continue to love you pets as they love you and commit some time each day to seeing the beauty that you are surrounded by now. It may be in people, art, landscape, or thought. But finding it by intention is the way to start feeling better and creating positive change. As you change, so will your much loved pets.
Find the lesson that was meant for you through Katrina. Learn it and help others when they are in need.
God Bless!
Hi Aimee,
Maybe this dog is in your life to help you prepare for parenthood. Many couples first experience raising a dog, before raising a child.
From what I've experienced, if the dog is spoiled and running the household, the child will also follow this path. As with dogs, children are also under the influence of the adult's leadership, balance, and energy.
I recommend watching Cesar's show and getting his DVD "People Training For Dogs". There are so many hidden treasures contained in his teachings! So, pay close attention to everything...what he says, his demeanor, how he interacts with both dogs and owners, and what the owners learn about themselves in the course of the episode.
If you and your husband are both on the same page and work together, you will have a balanced dog who follows your leadership. Again, I view this dog as a gift to help you become the best dog owners and parents you can possibly be.
There may be some folks around here who can also give you some pointers or referenced reading to help you prepare your dog for the new arrival.
You want your dog to be submissive to your child, But she must be submissive to you, first.
Good luck, and congratulations! :)
Deb
I love this show. I have a 5 yr. old Jack Russell (very loud and unruly) and an active cockapoo. Recently the two of them have been "ganging up" on by-passers as we take our walk. They lunge at people, jump and bark, but wagging their tails. People have begun to back away from them, and I am ashamed of what I have allowed these two to do. After watching Cesar's show I decided to work on this problem. I have experience in obedience training and training field trial dogs, but never thought that these two little dogs needed much work - until their manners went down the tubes. I have put choak collars on them, walk them seperately, make them heel (not by my side necessarily, but never in front), and correct them if they take any interest in people we pass. Just a hiss from me puts their attention to me when needed. Now,walking together, they are much better with people. When no one is near I let them off heel so they can be themselves. We need more work, but what a change. Yesterday I came out of a store to my car where the dogs were waiting, and a man and wife sitting in the car next to me said "What's the matter with your dogs? They have been ignoring us!" Made me feel good. Thanks Cesar.
Julie
Linda P.
I just got this visual of Patricia, having an awesome experience with Cesar...learning something that has effected her and she didn't even know it, learn from it, grow from it, move past it and then come on here and see other people ridiculing or being criticle of her.
She seemed to be a very compassionate, caring, warm, sensitive person, and I would HATE to see her come here and have her feelings hurt is all.
I just wanted people to realize that the same people who are so willing to let us into their lives to watch Cesar work with them, also come here and it would break my heart if she read some of the things said and not see that there are other people here who DO relate and that DO care about what she went through and have no judgements.
I hope that if she did or does come here, she will read the positive things and let all the rest go is all.
KathyB :)
KathyB,
Amen!!!!!!! It was very couragious of her to allow us to see what she was going through. It affected us and alot of others, I am sure. I do hope that she does come here and see that there are tons of people who do care and will not judge her. I for one would thank her for making me see that I had a problem that I was holding onto for a long time and that she has helped other people by sharing her story.
My dog had his rear left leg broken when he was about a 1 1/2 yrs old. Ever since then, he has had a kaniption (is that the way ya spell it?) fit every time I try to touch his feet. He would growl, snap, bite, everything to make me stop. We've always had a hard time clipping his nails. Well it worked for all this time. The past 2 days I've been working on his feet problem. Anytime he's laying down and relaxing, I will sit down next to him and massage him and pick up his leg and hold it. I've even gone as far as putting my fingers in between his toes. Last night while holding his leg, he just about fell asleep. Talk about relaxed!! He would never have let me get that far before!! Funny thing, now that our walks are even better, he crashes when we get home, before he was still wound up. He's too tired to bark at all the cats in the neighborhood. Now I REALLY know what Cesar means by "being in the zone."
Linda P.
Jennifer,
I am Spike's mom, the Black German Shepherd you saw on last weeks episode. Spike still gets overly excited when we are ready to go for a walk and he gets overly excited when I(we) come home. It's basically the same technique - I ignore him until he calms down. When going for a walk I (we) stand by the door or gate and wait for him to come to us. He has to sit down before I will put on his leash. Eventually he realizes (he is very stubborn) that we are not going anywhere until he is sitting in front of me. When getting home he calms down very quickly. Our walks were very unpleasant until Cesar came along! We are now empowered with techniques that work, including holding his choker collar high and using short corrections. Knowing his triggers and how to correct him keep us in control and now we argue over who gets to walk him!
Cesar is an amazing force of nature. Spike sees Cesar and turns to jello. It is incredible to witness what almost seems supernatural. Cesar's knows dogs! His methods work! We need to practice them regularly and consistently.
Always remain calm and assertive and walk, walk, walk and lead the dog - don't let him lead you. The walk is not about his bodily functions (which happen in our backyard or in controlled spurts on a long walk)- It is about being the pack leader. Cesar has now trained us to put Spike on a treadmill every day. This is working incredibly well on so many levels. It shows him I am the pack leader and it is both a mental and physical challenge for him.
As for our cat issue. We had almost gotten him to ignore her and then she started lashing out at him. She makes horrible noises and calls him bad names. She has even thrown herself at him. So we are still at it. In any event, because we have more control techniques we don't lose control of the situation. Including a shaker can. We are still putting the cat in her crate for short stints and Spike on his leash and make corrections if he goes near her. We also put on his muzzle which makes him submissive. So we still try to create situations that empower the cat and make Spike feel submissive to her.
It's a long road - We watch the show and watch his video to keep us on track.
KathyB,
That right there is all I needed to hear. :D
I really think we could do without the critizism poeple. I know I would be totally humiliated if I read some of the posts on here if they were about me. Patricia really had guts to truly be honest with Cesar and with herself. That right there is true character. Her story has helped me to see, by letting go of the past you can focus more on the now and get done the things you nned to. That can really play into alot of things, not only dogs. Thanks Patricia. WE LOVE YOU. :D
~Chantel
I hope it didn't sound like I was making fun of her. That wasn't my intention. I also did say that I'm pretty sure she is calm/assertive while on her job and that's how she should be with the dogs.
I'm sorry if it sounded that way.
I was wondering if there will be a segment on puppy training, I have heard so many different things from many people. I would like a professional to show us common people how to train our pups so we can enjoy them as much as we would like.
Frustrated Owner
Tony
Tony,
I don't know if Cesar is going to do an episode on puppy training, but if you can afford to hire a trainer, now is the best time to do it!!!
My Trainers comapny is all over the country and they charge a one time fee for the life of the dog and will come out as much as you need them! I am sure there are a ton of awesome trainers who do the same thing where you live! Godd Luck and Have a BLAST with that new puppy!!! :) KathyB
Good Morning John R.!!!
Any of my posts regarding Patricia were not directed to anyone specifically. There have been a few posts that were just flat out harsh and rude...I don't think yours was one of them that prompted me to write what I did!
Hope your having a great day!!!! :) KathyB
Ande,
Thanks so much for the update on Spike. It was great hearing from someone who has acutally worked with Cesar. You gave us an opportunity to learn even more.
I know what you mean, sometimes it does almost seem like he has a "supernatural" ability with dogs! I watch each show and am always so amazed at the effect he has with these wonderful creatures.
As Cesar gains more exposure my hopes for decent lives of dogs rises and I see more "excuses" for dogs being put down diminish.
He's an answer to a dog's prayer!
Thanks again for the update, Spike is a real beauty!
Hi Ande!
Yes, so good to hear from you. I also enjoyed reading your update on Spike! Sounds like little miss kitty needs a "cat whisperer"! :)
Yay Ande,
Thanks for sharing your animals with us. I think I will invest in a treadmill...our Spike's name is Goosman, Goose for short. Thanks for your advise. It is so helpfulll!!!
walking my jack russel Patches was like flying a kite in a hurricane. Now she walks by my side looking at me. I tell everyone about the show and that it is their responsibility to stop complaining and start learning. Thanks so much. Your show and philosophy has changed my life with my dogs.
HI Ande- First I want to tell you what a gorgeous face Spike has! My husband and I couldn't stop commenting the entire show how pretty he is. I have 2 black and tan female german shepherds, and they are exremely excitable like your guy.
I never realized how important the walk was,when we moved out of the city and bought a house with a huge fenced in area for them, we thought that was all they needed-we were particularly happy about not having to walk them anymore because especially with me they behaved pretty badly. They are obedience trained but I know I would tense up when we saw certain neighbors and other dogs. SInce I found Cesar's show we have been taking long walks every evening and they come in so happy and satisfied. I never thought about it, and now I look forward to coming home and taking them on our walks. I find it relaxing and fun for all of us. They walk perfectly with me, stopping when I stop, being calm when I stop to talk to a neighbor. Cesar is amazing-especialy for dogs like Spike and my 2 girls.
Ande,
It was great seeing your segment on Cesar's show. Your Spike is one lucky guy - to have a family like yours that cares enough about him to get him the best help possible.
The fact that the techniques he teaches can be learned by anyone paying attention.
I have a pack of 3 cocker spaniels - hence my log-on name.
They are all rescues with different temperments, age and baggage. The baby, who is 1 1/2 yrs old is the dominant male, over my 6 yr. old male and my female, who is 12, is the Alpha/Queen over all of them. The puppy sumits to me only when he and I are alone. If my husband is home, the puppy thinks my husband is Alpha, then him, then me. I am having a hard time turning this situation around. When I walk Carnegie, he knows I am the leader but once we are inside, all bets are off.
I have attended a seminar of Cesar's, met him and his wonderful wife, Illusion, own and have watched the DVD many, many times and seen all of the programs but I cannot get the problem solved. Any other tips would be greatly appreciated.
BTW, Carnegie watches the Dog Whisperer with me. He recognizes Cesar's voice and "talks" back to the dog(s) (in his indoor voice).
Thanks!
Hi Ande,
I really am happy for you that you found such a good way to live with your dog!
I really enjoy the "dogwhisperer". He sur knows what he is doing.
I got a question for you: I am not sure what I saw at the episode with Spike, it appeared to me that Spike was wearing an e-collar. and the behaviour implyed that, too.
I am not against it, but this scene, when the cat was in the crtae, and Spikes bahaviour, left some open questions for me, and it looked like you could se the buckle from an e-collar but because of the black coat I couldn't be sure. I don't want to start a discussion about this. It just would answere some questions!
If you don't want to answere that I can understand because this is a well discussed subject, but would be happy if you could put some light in the dark!
Thanks KatDS
Hi Aimee!
I hope you caught tonight's episode, about the couple with a child on the way. Excellent!
Cesar did a wonderful job of helping a couple of expectant parents introduce their newborn, as another pack leader.
Deb :)
Does anyone have any suggestions about dog jumping on people? Whenever someone comes to our house our dog Nikki would just run and jump all over the person. since watching Ceasar I have since put her on a leash and have told people to ignore her. This kind of works at times, but I have to constantly remind people to ignore her. Also, when she is out in the yard doing her buisness, or chasing the sqirrels, if she sees our next door neighbor, she will job the fence and go jump and be friendly to him. This is a real hassel especially with the warmer weather starting to approach. Anybody have any ideas?? My husband thinks its funny, I do not, as I am the pack leader, he lets the dog do what she wants. I have told him we both must be in synch to make this work!
Thanks all!
Hello Cesar,
Joanie P, I have the same problem with my dog 'Poss'and I don't think it's funny either! I have been walking her Cesar's way, and she is great-stays beside me, walks past other dogs/people. BUT,When people come to the door, even though I can get her to sit back away from the door, as soon as the person comes inside she darts around me and jumps on them. I take her by the collar back to where she was sitting and say 'stay'. She stays for a minute then goes back to the person to sniff them and jump on them. It is really hard to get people to ignore her- it seems humans are programmed to greet with eye contact and high pitched greetings which seem to get Poss even more excited. I think I have to give up on changing the visitors, and would like to have Poss sit until I say she can say hello, ( and say hello without jumping). I am in Australia and we don't have the dog whisperer on tv, so I have only seen the video clips on the NG website. I saw Cesar teach Boo to sit back in the middle of the room while visitors came in the front door, but I was wondering what happened next- when was the dog allowed to greet the visitor? Did he have to wait for the visitor to ask him to come? Was he allowed to greet them at all? I think I saw in another clip that it is important for the dog to be able to sniff the visitor-is that right?
Poss also jumps out in front of me when we see someone she knows in the street, and same with kids. She jumps around like a crazy thing on the end of the leash.She is only a small/medium size dog , but jumps around with such energy that she nearly chokes herself. I ask people to ignore her until she calms down, and tell them a pat from them will be her reward for calming down. People look at me like I am crazy or cruel, and most of them ignore me and say hello to Poss anyway and she jumps all over them.
Would it be that either Poss thinks she is the boss in these situations, or that maybe she feels threatend( she does seem sort of frantic)?or maybe that she is trying to protect me?
I guess my question is - how can I make her calm down and pay attention to me? I would love her to be able to approach people calmly and to say hello gently. I know it is me not Poss who needs to learn, and I would be really grateful for some help,
Thanks everyone- this is a great blog. I have learnt alot. Really looking forward to reading Cesar's book...
Good Morning JoanieP & SophieB!!! :)
I had a HUGE problem with that, with my Rott pup....now I wouldn't have thought much about it except my dog weighs 100lbs. and the people that do come over are VERY tiny (90lbs, 4' petite women most of the time), he almost knocked two of them over he was just so excited to have "company"!lol
I have since hired a trainer (6 or so weeks ago, give or take a week) and one of the very first things we worked on was the front door.
Here is what I have learned to do....there is an "invisible line" when someone knocks on the door (its about 4 to 5 feet away from the door) that he CANNOT go past until I say free. I am the pack leader and the pack leader in a dog pack is the one who goes to the den opening to see what is out there, and the front door is the opening to our den, so I answer the door NOT him.
I do not use the word come when I am ready for him to meet the people who have come in, because according to my trainer he may not want to come meet that person and that's not a bad thing as that person may be a danger or he may not be ready to meet them. anyways....
when the someone knocks on the door we go to where the door is and if he is not already at the invisible line, I go to the line, tell him to come here and make sure he is a few steps away from our invisible line. I also have a thing posted on my door that says "please be patient, dog in training". I say just a minute as I want the person at the door to know I know they are there.
I do not EVER take my eyes off my dog as I am walking to the door, if he takes one step over or moves towards that line I have a training aid that I use to make him back up past the line (You can use Cesar's method of the sound and walking towards the dog to get him to back up), and I keep doing that until I have opened the door and let my guests in.
I do not have many guests that come to my house, so we are still working on it, but I also tell anyone coming to my house the rules of entering my house. They are not allowed to acknowledge my dog, pet my dog, look at my dog, etc. until I say he is ready and they can greet him.
It's been a process for sure on getting him to stay behind the line, but it's well worth it as my guests are not mauled by a huge puppy!hahahahaa
Even as I am opening the door and seeing who is on the other side, I still NEVER take my eye's off my dog as he will run right over if I give him an inch or a chance, so the people at my door are not as important as my dog right now. His training is top priority and everyone who walks in knows it. He tests the boundry constantly, so it's a constant training session until I say free or okay, but is well worth it as he is a much better dog for it. Hope that helps and gives you some ideas or guide lines to go by!!! Have a great Day! :D KathyB
Here is my experience, I wrote this in another part of
the blog yesterday, so I've cut & pasted it here:
when my friends arrived, the dogs barked
as they usually do (they are loud, big, and scary-sounding). My friend came to the door, and I said I
wasn’t dressed yet and come on in. She said no, we’ll
wait for you in the car so that your dogs don’t get upset.
I said, no, we’re in training, and I need you both to
come in. They came in. It was much less intense than it
usually is. I played the part of leader really well. I
even went in my room and changed my clothes, and the dogs
sat with my friends in the living room very politely –
whereas in the past they have just climbed all over people
(and furniture) and barked and usually make things very
uncomfortable. I feel very triumphant and empowered.
As Cesar said in last night’s show “JUST DO IT! YOU CAN
DO IT”
You just need to practice, practice, practice! The dog
will respect you for it, and you'll be so much happier.
Thanks KathyB and K2 your advice is really helpful. When I finally let Poss greet the visitor do I send her back to the invisible line if she jumps on them?
To the person with the smelly rottweiler..we had the same problem with our rotti, Tahli, (recently lost her to heart disease). She would also get into excessive scratching at times, creating bald spots. At first vet insisted it was food allergies and I must buy his mega-expensive food. That just wasn't possible. Then the vet recommended a sulfer shampoo....I didn't understand how we could combat the stink by using a shampoo that smelled like rotten eggs, but we tried it faithfully for a few months...not really sure if it cured Tahli's natural stink, but knew we didn't enjoy the sulfer smell. I started bathing her regularly every 3 weeks with suave lavender shampoo mixed with a few drops of tea tree oil. If we went 3 weeks and a day, she would start to scratch. Anyways, this worked wonderfully for us, and for the rest of her years she had a beautiful coat. I came to believe she was allergic to her own dander.
As far as the outdoor baths, years ago I bought (at the hardware store) an adapter for the kitchen faucet to hook the hose to it..it was like the end piece on the old portable dishwashers hose that you push down and it snaps up to lock in place..I think I heard the adapters are screw on now. I run the hose outdoors for warm water baths...since I also get wet, the warm water keeps me happy and makes for a more pleasant bathing atmosphere. In the colder months, I run the hose from the kitchen sink to the bathtub. Makes for a much easier bath, especially rinsing the belly area, and easier cleanup of the tub. Tahli didn't like the regular hose nozzle,so we used one that didn't come on so loud and fast. Also, for the outdoor baths, when we had a ramp put on our home, I had them leave a section of railing out on the flat landing area. Now the dog stays on the landing and I stand on the ground so I don't have to bend over.
When Tahli's health started failing, I used a foam waterless dog bath made by veterinarian's best -www.vetsbest.com . Also, walmart has a groomers cologne (compare to giorgio!) that works well for in between baths.
Deb W.
Good Morning sophie b!
No....you correct as soon as you start to see her try to jump. Remember the guest is not more important than the dog right now. Like Cesar says...you can see when they are getting ready to do something you don't want them to...watch for that sign and correct before it happens.
I'm glad my advice helped. I notice that when I go to the door, even to go check the mail, mine stays a distance away from the door now. So it really does work, you just have to be patient and in control.
Now if I could only get mine to not be so stobborn and jump in the back of my SUV, I'd be happy!lol
I am going to get my trainer here next week, to get him to do it as I know he can, he is just being dominant.lol
Have a great day! KathyB
Hello, I have an 11 1/2 wk old male German Shepherd pup (Giyani). I have had him since he was 8 wks old (so only 3 wks). The owner got pick of the litter for use of her stud dog & took the pup away from his mother at only 3 wks. She said she had another pup at home (4 wks older than Giyani whom he played with. THE PROBLEM: He is super aggressive. We have tried everything to correct his hard biting, jumping on things, humping my leg & my daughters' leg. He doesn't do it to my husband. We have tapped his nose w/newspaper, given him time out for biting, lain him on his back or side to calm down, held his snout to calm down - NOTHING WORKS. When he finally gets out of his cage after a few min. or longer time out, he runs out, jumps on me humping my leg & bites very hard, growling the whole time.
We are thinking of giving him up at this point. We have had 2 other shepherds in the past - & they turned out well behaved & loving.
Please advise. Thank you so much.....Josie
Josie,
Are you walking him on leash, and exercising him by
throwing a ball or whatever? Sounds to me like Cesar's
#1 rule applies: EXERCISE, DISCIPLINE, AFFECTION.
German Shepherd Dogs need lots of exercise. Any kind
of shepherd breed (sheep herder) needs to run and be
mentally and physically challenged to deplete their
energy and make them a calm, submissive dog. Humping
the leg means he is trying to be the dominant member of
your pack. He needs to be shown who the leader is (all
the humans in your household are the leaders), and then
the humping, jumping & biting will eventually stop. This
is also a sign of utter frustration. he has so much built
up energy and (it sound like) no where to expend it.
Because he is so young, you have a wonderful opportunity
to correct these behaviours now! How lucky you are!
I'm reading between the lines that the way you've been
disciplining him is to try to make him lie down, calm down,
holding him down. He needs to run, particularly at his
very young age. Tire him out, and he will be "down" for
the rest of the day and night. I guarantee it! Using the
newspaper only reinforces bad behaviour on his part -- use
gentle, firm body language instead. Watch Cesar's show,
you will be amazed at what you can do -- and a dog so
young is like a sponge, he will just soak it all up and
can grow up to be a terrific dog. Good luck!
Thanks Kathy B. Will keep working on it- Poss is staying away from the door now!
Josie, ( and I have to say I am no dog expert at all so this is just an idea)I was wondering if the problems might be because your puppy was taken away from its mother so young. Maybe it might need to be around an older dog to learn some of the things its mum would have taught it? Maybe if you know someone with an older 'motherly' dog? Not sure if this would be what Cesar would recommend though. German shepderds are such lovely dogs-we always had them as I was growing up. I hope everything turns out ok for you.
I had seen Cesar use a shock collar on one of his episodes. I was wondering what brand and model he would use as a training aid for Doberman Pinchers. I have 7 Pinchers and a Bull dog Dane mix. I use many of Cesars techniques that are effective but I belive that a shock collar would greatly improve upon some of my more stubborn dogs that have more of the gladiator edge than the others. Any info on the shock collar would be great.
Good Morning sophie b! :)
I'm glad that he's doing his job and that's listening to you!!! :)
Mine will sometimes try to jump on people too, when he get's excited to see someone....and trust me when you have a 100lb. Rottweiler jumping on you to say hi, it's not fun!lol
BUT....like I said, he is more important than my guest and I keep my full attention on him the first fifteen minutes or so, until he calms down.
I have two main problems with mine....bugging anyone and everyone who sits on the couch and not jumping into the back of my SUV.
I just bought a chaise lounge and right from the start I have made that MY space and he does not even try to bug me when I am sitting there, but the couch...OEY VEY!lol It takes a good fifteen to thirty minutes working with him to back off and leave a person be when it comes to the couch. Those are my two constant battles.lol
Have a great day!!! :D KathyB
Kathy B and all others: Thanks for the invisible line - I am trying that and it seems to work (sometimes). It is a constant re-enforcing of what pack leader wants and not dog.
Any suggestions about her going outside to do her business, she will see next door neighbor, jump the fence, and be super friendly. How do I discourage her from doing this. She is supposed to be a watch dog, not a love dog.
I wish Ceasar would open up a place on the east coast for all us dog lovers. Seminars are great ideas, but they are usually sold out.
Joanie P
Kathy B. I had the couch problem too, but tried this..Ask the person on the couch to ignore the dog- no eye contact etc. When the dog jumps up on them, licks them etc, just walk over quietly and take the dog gently by the collar- no corrections or anything. You don't speak to the dog or make eye contact either. Lead the dog over to where you are sitting and just hold it till it calms down. You talk to your guest, and both of you gove no eye contact to the dog. No speaking to it either. Then let it go when it is calm. If it goes straight back to the guest, just do the same thing again, and again etc. You need to stay calm during this- (easy for me to say-I have a small dog not a 100lb rottie!) Eventually the dog will relax and lie down. Well, that's what happened to me...
Good Morning sophie b!!!
Thank You!!!!!!! I will DEFINETLY try that!
He does it to anyone sitting on the couch...me or the guest, but I will definetly give that a try!!! KathyB
Good Morning joanie p!
I do not know if it was just a smal blip on an episode or if he went into length on the fence thing, but Cesar said something about "owning" the fence....something about the dog knowing that it's yours....don't know what episode though. KathyB
I have an 8 month old male dog that I got when he was about 2-3 months old. He was a stray so I don't know his back-ground on how he was treated. He's about as lovable and fun as a dog can be, but I can't take him on walks because as soon as you attach a leash to him he freezes and won't move, and when you try to pull him he starts yelping..Any suggestions from anyone???????
Hello,
I have a problem with both of my dogs, they don't listen to me when I tell them commands such as sit,laydown, and stay. They truly do not respect me as the pack leader or my family. They always are sleeping on the couch while I am gone and chewing stuff up or digging. They are never fun to be around because they are constantly trying to dominate anyone and anything. I've been trying the methods that I got from the book store: "How to be the pack leader" but they still are not listening and always being pains. What do I do when they ignore me? What are some things I can do to make sure that the dogs know that their cominance status is in dead last? Please please please help!
Casey
I also have a VERY HUGE AGGRESSION PROBLEM with my 15 month Lab\Dachson mix. She attacks dogs TO KILL. I've been told to put her to sleep and that the problem can't be fixed and she will never be trust worthy around other dogs ever again. Then, I found Cesar Millan, it gave me hope that I can rehabilitate her. However, I don't have enough information to take action. What do I do? personal trainers these days are way too explensive. But if I don't help soon....things can and will get worse. She's almost killed a dog before, and it scares me to death. I can barely control her she is so strong. Annnd....on top of that she thinks she's the leader! I know it is my fault that she is aggressive now because I never socialized her as a pupy. She is also aggressive with people. What do I do???? Please help!! I'm miserable my dog is like this and I'm getting complaints from neighbors and they want me to dis own her. And if I did, she would never get adopted because she would be too aggressive and then eventually put down. I'm unable to take her for walks because I don't want to have another encounter with a dog or some one she might attack, plus she is way to strong for me. We also have dogs that run loose in our area and I don't want to encounter one of them on our walks. What do I do? IS there any hope? =( Please help asap!
Miserable Dog Owner,
Casey
Hi Casey, there is a great book written by Jan Fennell called 'the dog listener'. She goes into detail about how to let your dog know you are in charge in a way dogs understand. It is a very gentle method- similar to Cesar's way of being firm and assertive, but with a different approach. I found this book after being frustrated with people saying I should be in charge, but not telling me how to do it. I know this blog is for Cesar, but sometimes its good to have all the information you can find. Good luck.
I meant calm and assertive, not firm.
This is for Julie and the licking. My Springer licks and licks like yours. When she starts to lick I tell her off in an deep voice and she only gets one lick in....try making a noise that will draw get the dogs attention on to something else. Cesar had a show on this about a year ago and the woman did made a noise and pointed her finger at her dog and it stopped. Hope this helps.
Good Morning chris!
Cesar did an episode on that....when a dog "freezes" its like his brain freezes and he can't move foward, so you have to help him. Cesar used a bag of treats to move to dog forward but did not GIVE him the treats....the scent was just to help the dogs brains move and with him moving the dog a little, not yanking or dragging, just slightly tugging and had the treats in front of the dogs nose so he could smell it, it helped the dogs brain to move or not stay freezed up and the dog began to move forward.
Thats the best I can do in explaining it!lol Try and catch that show....the dog did the same thing yours is doing and Cesar helped him. KathyB
Hi Casey,
I had the same problem with a cocker spaniel that wanted to kill every dog he came into contact with. SophieB is right, the "Dog Listener" is an excellent tool when other books and videos fail. I also used a muzzle to walk him. I first placed the muzzle over his nose then gave him a treat. After several tries, I placed the muzzle over his nose and fastened it. It's the kind of muzzle that is fabric and allows the dog to breath through its mouth. Until you get a trainer to help you deal with this situation, you must keep your dog safe and other dogs and people on the street safe. A dog bite equals a lawsuit and I'm sure you don't want that. You should also use a prong collar so the dog will not pull you and you will have more control over your dog. It's true that a puppy that is not socialized properly at an early age will give you problems in the future but all is not lost.
Please see your vet for some trainer references. Some may take into consideration that your dog is a rescue(?) and offer an evaluation at your home for free.
Good luck.
I have not only trained dogs of my own, but trained and worked with dogs of others all of my life for the last 25 years... I have a dog that is def... Completely def... I communicate with her well, but I don't know that I am doing it right... Sometimes, I just don't know how to get through to her... Does anyone have any experience with this? Ceasar or otherwise??? I would like to hear from anyone who is facing the same challenges... I love my dog with all of my heart... I want her to not be apprehensive... I want her to feel good about herself... It seems like she is always worried and trying to figure out what I want and what everyone is expecting... Please help!!! Any info would be greatly appreciated!
Shelia
You CAN train your dog no matter what age they are, my dogs are proof. I have an 8 year old,70+ lb.lab-setter mix and a 13 year old,20lb. daschund-jack russell mix. Both were terribly spoiled and had no manners. Walking them was always a HUGE chore.
I'm 38 y/o and two years ago I became disabled;I can only get around using a rolling walker. My heart was broken because my days of walking my dogs were over. Not having any discipline,(I always treated them like people not like dogs)they would PUSH me out of the way or DRAG me when I tried to take them out. This was a pretty dangerous situation using a walker!
Then I started watching The Dog Whisper and realized how wrong I've been all these years. I started following Cesar's advice and techniques about being the pack leader,how to properly walk a dog and how to command respect from them. I decided to try working with mine.
It worked THE VERY FIRST DAY! I continued to practice Cesar's advice everyday. Now I can actually walk BOTH my dogs, one on each side of my walker. All these years and I finally have two calm dogs and the three of us can get the exercise we need. I was even able to get them to stop their excessive barking all from the simple rules Exercise,Discipline and then Affection. I always keep one thing in mind, BE THE PACK LEADER!
Thank you SO MUCH Cesar!!
I have a 9 week old Great Dane and have started training her to walk on the leash and sit. When it is time to take her out to potty she will not come and will have to drag her to go out. If I do not MAKE her go out she will then wet the floor. I do not like dragging her. She is not tempted by a treat to follow me out generally. HELP
Im new to the board and was wondering can some one give me some tips and advice on raising 2 boxer puppies in a 2 br apartment?
i have a 4 yr old dalmation raised in the fire house that i work in, she has picked up alot of bad habbits like not listening when walking her outside or not coming back to me. she also feels the need to attempt to drag me down the road when i take her for walks.i am aware that she knows what i expect of her and i beleive she desides to do what she wants instead.im a firm believer in A DOG SHOULD BE TRAINED NOT TO HAVE A LEASH. i can use some help trying to break her bad habbits, she no longer lives in the fire house. please help
Please people, don't go and buy a dog from a pet store. That only encourages the horrible puppy mills that still exists. And please don't get a dog based solely on its cuteness. You need to examine what kind of lifestyle you can offer your dog, active or sedentary, so you can get the appropriate dog that will fit into your lifestyle. Thanks all.
I have a new Australian Sheppard/Blue Heeler mix. He is 7 months old. He barks all the time. I have tried a bark collar and muzzle, but not for long lengths of time, because I think they are somewhat cruel. He is in the backyard with a 6 ft. privacy fence. He loves to dig out and bark. Any suggestions before the neighbors kill him or me? Thanks.
Hi Diane,
We share the same set of circumstances. Cesar has made me use my common sense. The treadmill arrives today. My trainer thinks Cesar is "interesting", but believes treats are the way to go. Needless to say, I told her no way.
Have two male Doberman's (7 yrs old)Sara was 132 # last month. Talk about territorial urine marking-oh yeah we have got that here. They are neutered and Sara is spayed. They each have their own crate. And, I am frustrated. But, I will do this!! Treadmill, here we come.
Cesar
We have a Jack Russell, this dog is so sweet at times but when you try to correct him for being bad or even try to put on some flea and tick medicine on him he gets HIGHLY aggressive. We are possibly thinking about euthanasia because he went after me and my daughter after trying to put on the medicine the other day. We cannot train him with your techniques because he is just a one very stubborn dog. My son said that he should have been trained better as a pup and I totally agree. I don't know where to go from here but to put him down but he has been with me for a few years now. I don't have the money for a dog specialist or a trainer and was wondering where do we go from here? This dog just does not EVER listen when being corrected but gets more aggressive. Can you or anyone else help us please?
Housebreaking nightmare....my 6 month old Silky Terrier has managed to escape the lessons of doing his business outside. We have tried everything from anticipating his needs after eating/drinking, taking him outside at every opportunity, he will actully go outside for 10 minutes then come in and pee! We have been crating him, but he doesn't care if he messes up his crate...every night. We have a 2 yr old golden that we thought he would emulate, which he does sometimes, but not nearly enough. What can we do?? Help!
I have a Jack Russel pup (3months) I can't seem to get her to understand not to GO in the house. I don't know what else to do. She won't GO all night if she is let out before bed, so we've started letting her run loose at night. So far so good but during the day..??? I can't figure it out. She'll be outside for an hr or 2 then come in and 10 mins later she's peein on the floor, or poopin. Always in my room too? How can I get her to stop this?
Also she is SOOO wild with my 9 month old twins does anyone have any suggestions to calm her down? She hasn't hurt them yet just a couple scratches but I don't want it to get any worse. Thanx!
Heather
I have an 11 month old Border Collie. Very sweet except when he meets new people. I take him to pet stores, agility training, etc. He's fine with other dogs and the people at the training classes. He is at his worst when people come into the house. He barks and scoots away. I don't know how to change his behavior. He seems more afraid than aggressive. Any suggestions? Thanks...
Sharon Rowe,
DON'T GIVE UP!!!!!!
Buy Cesar's DVD and try to catch the episode on the lady who owned the rescue dog that would not let you groom her....Cesar took a good bite from her, but after much work and PATIENCE and NOT giving up, he and the owner did it!!!!!!
YOU CAN DO IT!!!!! Go into diva mode, gladiator mode, quenn of sheba mode....whatever mode you have to, to gain the EMOTIONAL being of YOU ARE IN CHARGE!!!!!
YOU CAN DO THIS!!!....Don't give up yet!....if all else fails try to find a trainer (if you can afford it....I hired one as I saw it as a NEED and not a want being the owner of a 100+lb. 12 month old Rott who had no training before he came here) and keep working on it! Good Luck!!!!!! KathyB
I am living on an island in the South Pacific where I found a dog that was starving and severely beaten. I took him hoping to fix him up and find him a new safe home, but it's been difficult due to all the stray dogs here. Anyway, now that he is feeling better and has energy, he has a horrible jumping problem - I mean this dog has springs in his feet jumping nearly 5 feet in the air. He springs all over the place. And he plays a little too rough (with his teeth). How do I get him to stop jumping? Telling him to stop with a stern voice has done nothing - giving treats has done nothing - even waving my hands has done nothing. PLEASE help. I can't find him a home when he behaves like this!!
hi
I have a dog that there is nothing else to call it EVIL!
She is a female silky terrier and she has sicological problems. She suposodly has Fear aggression but don't know. She has bitten countless people my mother, she has groulde and lunged at me father but he is to quick, she has bitten me , my 5 year old sister and my other sisters, the ages of 7,9,9. S
hi
I have a dog that there is nothing else to call it EVIL!
She is a female silky terrier and she has sicological problems. She suposodly has Fear aggression but don't know. She has bitten countless people my mother, she has groulde and lunged at me father but he is to quick, she has bitten me , my 5 year old sister and my other sisters, the ages of 7,9,9. She has bitten my elderly grandfather and my grand father and a few unknown children that she found at the park. We can not brush her we can not bath her we can't pat her unless SHE is in the mood and we can't approach her unless your quick and don't look at her. she barks and goes to it the people that come to fix things and do stuff. We have a beautiful Labrador that is the nicest dog your ever meet but The silky does not get along with her at all she bites chases the pup and it's not very nice. I personally want to put her down (the silky) and get a border collie pup as a nice and playful friend for nikki the lab but mum dosn't know what to do she dosn't want to wait till she bites my younges sister again but she needs so encouraging to make the right decision. Is there anyone that has an opinion to this?
what do you think we should do?
Plz reply if anyone wants to email me their answer plz email me at bratz_babe44@hotmail.com
thank you Cassie
Hi im a dumb dick plz fuck me up =D
WE HAVE A WEIMARANER PUPPY THAT BITES US ALL THE TIME, WE HAVE TRIED EVERYTHING CAN YOU HELP BY TELLING US WHAT TO DO.
THANKS IN KNOXVILLE BEVERLY
Dear Nathan:
What's that response to Cassie?????????
If it is the response I think it is you have no business on this website. It is a clear representation of your education and mentality. Take it somewhere else!!!!!!!!!
The people on this site are here for good reason. What's yours.
plz has anyone got any information for me?? plz I need someone to reply to question 146!
anyone that wants to be sensable that is !!
what do you think I should do?
I have two dogs that pretty much have the same problems. Should I correct one at a time or can I do both together?
Dear Cassie,
You are indeed in need of some help. Seems like no one is safe around your Silky. Here are some questions:
1. Was she purchased (breeder, per store)?
2. Was she a rescue? Did she come with baggage, issues?
3. Age when you got her? This shouldn't matter.
4. Have you taken her to any obedience classes at all?
5. Do you walk her. Use up her excess energy?
From reading your entry it sounds like she has been allowed to set her own boundaries and limitations. She's the "pack leader". You are going to have to pull up your boot straps and begin challenging her attitude. You must become the "pack leader" and in turn help your parents, grandparents, and siblings to become leaders also.
Start standing up to her, deny her the opportunity to be so nasty. Do you remember the episodes Cesar had with the Chiuchuha's and the Sheltie's who would attack the sweeper? Just say "NO" to her behavior and I mean say "NO". Approach her with the attitude you mean business and your not going to allow her to scare or hurt anyone anymore. DO YOU WALK HER? According to the description of a Silky Terrier their temperament is: They have a kneely alert air about them. They can be both shy and nervious to a fault. Please get a copy of Cesar's new book and or DVD.
I don't know if I have given you any insight or answers to your problem, but do something. Don't be afraid to be her leader. She's a lion in a Terrier's body. Be the Tamer.
Good luck.
Dear Alene,
Do the people you encounter immediately want to approach you Border Collie? Do they reach to pet him? When anyone is approaching you immediately alert them to the "no look, no touch, no talk" method. Ask them to just ignore your puppy. Even in your home, have your puppy on a leash when answering the door. Wherever you go in the house when company is there have him/her leashed and take him with you. Then put him/her in a sit/stay or down/stay position. If after awhile if he/she starts acting interested in your friends or guests do allow him to sniff them. Still "no look, no touch, no talk" until he/she feels more comforatable. Ask them to please ignore the dog. No look, no touch, no talk. Let him/her come to them.
Remember the Border Collie that was afraid to run the agility course because there were children around. What Cesar did in that episode sounds like the way you should be handling you puppy. Good luck.
Hello,
I am making a webpage on DOG training.I need all the imformaition I can get. Please help me.(You have inspiard me to make the webpage).
Hi
We are putting our vicious dog down but we can't afford the vets and we don't wan't to put her in the tick infested pound and we don't have an RSPCA in our town so where can we take her before she bites smeoneelse? ( We think we have an RSPCA office thing put no place for the animals!
help me !!
dear dog whisperer
i have a dog that is hard headed
but now with a good trainer and a lot of hard work
now hes training for rescue he is a red dobe i wood not
do this work my self it is to hard so you dog whisperer keep
up the good work from edsummitt
Help! I just took over my son's 6yr old chachawa/bordercollie mix, named Chiquita. My son has an eigth month old daughter that just loves dogs and Chiquita can be snippy when starteled or possessive with toys or food.
The major problem is that my daughter who I spend alot of time with has a female peek-a-poo, named Maggie. When these two get together, Chiquita seems to have to mark his territory in my daughers house and sometimes even here at home if Maggie has stayed in a particular room.
Chiquita is house trainned well but in these marking situations you have to keep an I on him so you can clean up the spots. Help!
Chiqhita's Grandma Jean
I have a question. I have taught my dog the come command in the house and she listens all the time and she knows what it means when i say come.But the problem is when we go outside and she accidentally gets loose and i give her the come command she doesnt listen and continutes to run wild like a crazed animal. Why is this ? pleeeeassse Help i want to get rid of this problem as soon as possible
Brittany
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I would really appreciate some advice from anyone who can give it. I rescued an Italian Greyhound/chihuahua mix about a year and a half ago. His name is Gatsby and I was very lucky with him. He was about 3 or 4 when I got him, already housebroken and very well behaved. Three months ago my husband and I decided to get another dog to keep him company. We got an Italian Greyhound puppy and we named her Sasha (she is 6 months old now). We are having two problems with Sasha. First, she is very jealous. When we call Gatsby Sasha jumps on him and bites him in order to prevent him from getting to us. We try to keep calling him, but he gets so nervous that he usually just goes somewhere else and lies down. Now if I call Gatsby and Sasha is in the room Gatsby doesn't even get up, he just gives me a nervous look. Does anyone have any ideas on how to stop the jealousy Sasha is exhibiting? I have tried telling her no and pushing her away and I have tried putting her in another room. I want Gatsby to know that he is still important even though there is a new dog in our house, but it is difficult when she does not let him get attention. The other problem we are having is with housebreaking. Sasha knows what she is supposed to do when she goes outside, but she gets so distracted by everything. Even the wind distracts her. I try to keep saying "go outside" to keep her on track, but it is only a couple of seconds before she is distracted again. Any advice is very welcome!
I have a 6-month-old ridgeback that has a chronic impulse to chew the hose. I know that this will pass because my other two (years) stopped that a long time ago. I don't think we ever had a real big problem with them because I disciplined them so the understood that it was "bad"; but with the little one, I have tried everything (as far as I know) and she has gone through 3 hoses already. I'm getting tired of this and want it to stop! Somebody Please Help Me!!
Jess,
I just got a book on chewing and one thing it says that you can do is to put a bunch of toys down on the ground with an object that is not a toy. You then say get your toy and if the dog picks the wrong object you correct them and if they pick the right object you praise them. You could use the hose as the object the dog is not supposed to pick. Later on you are suppose to be able to only put one toy and a bunch of forbidden objects and the dog should pick the toy. I don't know if this fits in with Cesar's method because I don't have the channel right now for his show. I started to try it, but my dog decided not to pick any object at all when I tried it so it didn't work for me the first time. I will have to try it again though.
Hi,
I live in england and I unfortunately can't watch the show because it's not aired on our televisions (atleast I think so otherwise what a dork) and would love to see Cesar in action, I have once seen this incredible man correct behaviours in a flash that owners have virtually lost patience in trying.
I know I'm bad but I haven't trained my Labrador much yet only as far as 'Sit' but I am making sure in the coming months I will train her hard otherwise I would have a dog that is disobedient and unpleasing for me and others to be around.
I often take my dog to a nearby park or beach and let her off I try and let her interact with as many 'friendly' looking dogs as possible, I know this would seem as a risk to many but fortunately if I am out of site or perhaps she has strolled to far away for her comfort she returns to me is this a sign of me being the pack-leader?
I play such as retrieval games (sticks, balls and toys etc.) with her but I heard someone quote in hear 'mind games' please can you elaborate thankyou.
If anyone could perhaps recommend what was success for them and how I could perhaps stimulate her little mind alot more whilst out and about, please feel encouraged to do so as I need your help drastically!
{{{{{ Jamie }}}}}
I'm very sorry about punctuation and my grammar but I've posted on here at 2:30 am looking for help regarding training.
Thanks
Hi
Can you please guide me! My dog became traped in a wire and pulled the right side of her hip out, we did an xray to make sure it was the hip and it was. The Vet placed her on pain relievers and send us home, that leg is still giving her a great deal of pain. Do you know of anyone that can push it back into place.
Help Please!
Hi,
I am having a bit of a problem with my 1 year old Australian Cattle Dog. She is getting very difficult for us to control as she cannot concentrate. We have tried agility class, not much luck there. Is it possible for her to have ADD? She has some quirky behaviors that we are worried about such as attacking the dishwasher when we open it! We have finally gotten her to pick up a toy which she shakes violently until we are done loading the dishwasher. It allows her to take out her frustration but we think she needs meds! Please let me know if you have heard of this behavior before.
Thank you
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J Money I belive you are very rude. /but any ways my dog like to hump legs what should i do? also he likes tacos and hot sauce what should i do.
Hi Deb,
Why bother with these guys I would hope that perhaps you guys could answer our questions instead of spending your thoughts on these wasters....
Hi,
I have a 7 year old sheperd mix. I have had him since he was a pup and until recently we lived in the woods where he could roam freely. Now I live in a more urban environment and he is restricted to a fenced in yard and he hates it. He tries and succeeds in biting and tearing the fence apart to escape and roam. I don't know how to stop him. The strangest thing is that when we were in the woods in the past few years he rarely went a few hundred feet from the house and spent most of his time on the porch. He wouldn't even push open an unlatched door. I could tie him to half of a cinderblock and he wouldn't pull it. Now all of a sudden he is ferociously tried to escape! I keep fortifying the fence and he finds another way. I spend time with him when he is outside encouraging him away from the fence. Anyway, if anybody has any advice I would love to hear it.
Thanks.
Jess
An easy way to solve you chewing is to sprinkle the hose with hot chillie sauce or something that tastes horible. lol unless you dog is a strange creature this will teach it not to touch the hose unless it wants a horrible taste in it's mouth
Just make sure you have water on hand!!
hope this helps
Casie
Hi, all. I have not seen the show because we don't have that channel, but I have heard of Cesar, and his work sounds amazing. But on to my question: I have just purchased an 8 week old Great Dane ( he's 9 weeks old now ) and I've heard Great Danes sometimes have dominant problems with their people and he is already starting to show some dominance with us. What can I do to make him know I'm boss? My other question is : We have a 2 - 1/2 year old Rottie/Shepherd mix. We lost her for 6 days when she was 8 months old and she is now very shy around new people. She's also submissive. We want her to be dominant over the Great Dane puppy, because when he is older he will be much bigger. How can I make her feel more dominant? Not to the point of her hurting him or anything, but just so Laredo ( the Great Dane pup ) knows that Dakota is dominant over him. We had dominance issues with our past Dane/Lab mix, which is no longer with us. I know it's something we're doing, but what is it? Thanks, guys!
hey i have a doby and it wont stop pulling when i go for a walk ... and i cant walk by other dogs with out him flipping out is there anyway u can help me
I have a nearly 2 year old Cairn Terrier and, admittedly, he has not had proper training. He will sit (when he wants), and sometimes come, and often get down. He seems to avoid my 2year old daughter's toys, but when he gets ahold of one, he dashes under the coffee table and becomes aggressive when someone tries to take it away. He'll growl and nip, and bite if we're not careful. No one has been seriously injured, but it's disconcerting to hear the anxiety! Not only that, but he also barks up the neighborhood. I'm starting to pick up on Cesar's advice about boredom and lonliness. I've also begun submissiveness training with him. I let him know my territory and expectations of him. I worry that my family doesn't like him as much as I do because of how annoying his refusal to come can be and his hyper activity when he is let in the house. Would any of you Cairn/terrier lovers recommend leash training in the house or lead training in the backyard? How can I get him to come immediately when he is called? He goes out in the morning and we need to get him back in the house before we go to work. This frustrates the boys because they are afraid of missing their bus. Also,
Would you recommend praise or treats? How much?
Thank you!!
Hi,
I have a 10 months old Doberman dog who is very shy and scared of other dogs. He does not bark or show aggression when other dogs try to attack him. He simply tries to avoid them and if they attack him, he cannot retaliate back and gets bitten sometimes. Pls suggest what can be done, cause this is not a normal Doberman behaviour. Your help will be highly appreciated.
Thanks!!!
I have a Golden that was injured and had to have surgery, afterwards she had to be confined for 8 months to a crate or on a short leash. She has rehabilitated very well but since that time when our kids approach her if she feels cornered she has bitten them - we have tried several things and not had any luck - I love her like I love my children, but I am having trouble protecting them. I want with all my heart to help her not bite them - I have worked with them as much as I know how - is there any advice?
Hi. My name is payton and I HATE shock collars and think that anyone that uses one should quit now because how would u like it if you went to school and had to wear that horrid collar so that every question you got wrong you got a painful shock! I am so happy that Cesar does NOT use them or at least i havent seen an episode where he has
Hi my name is Amy i have a 2yr old male chocolate labrador. His name is Bruno he is a very loving dog, and gets along with everything dogs and cats except our own. My cat is called Rosie, she is 3yrs old and timid she used to get on with other dogs who aren't as excitable, and back off when she hisses. He is not nasty to her it is his approach, he gets very excited ie barks , bounces around and try's to run towards her. With this it frightens her and she now doesn't leave upstairs only when we bring her down and seperate them. Please any advise as ideas have ran out.
Jess,
Sounds like your puppy is teething. Someone on this site suggested freezing wet washcloths that had been twisted and tied at the ends. Some suggesed water only and someone else suggested soaking the cloth in chicken broth and then freeze. Try reading through the entries and see if you can find the appropriate one.
I think I would do the water for indoors and the chicken broth for outdoors.
Can't hurt to try.
How do you train a dog to stop barking all day long when you're not there to discipline her and she stops when you walk in the door so you can’t discipline or reward? I’ve tried not making a big deal about my coming or goings but she barks when I take the garbage out for 2 minutes or go to work for 4 hours (then home for lunch & a walk). My neighbors have said she barks all day long when I’m gone.
I left her out and she chewed up the carpeting so no I crate her.
Hi there, im in need of some help with my 11 week old rescued pup (hes a pointer collie mix)I leave him in the kitchen when we go to bed...but he howls constantly and i end up on the sofa with him laying on me just 2 get some sleep, and so he doesnt annoy the neighbours!!! my husband wants me back in our bed!!!! Please help...im sooooooo tired!!!!!
ok...think ive got the sleeping sorted now...not that any1 replyed to me!!! now its the good old toilet trainning issue!!!! my friends have all got loads of advice on this subject.....wich mainly involves smacking...and i cant bring myself to do it!!! surely there is a way round violence!!! please help, as im not sure we have this prog in england!
Anyone know of a "Ceaser like" trainer in Northeastern, PA?
Hi beki! What was your solution for the sleeping problem?
All I can say is take your puppy outside as many times as possible and to the same spot so he learns that that is where he should go. You have a baby on your hands yet be patient. Good luck.
Dear Martin,
Have you gotten a second opinion for your puppy? Did the Vet say your dogs hip was actually dislocated? If so, I can't believe you were sent home with nothing more than pain killers. Was any attempt made to try and realign his leg or was it wrapped? If you are not satisfied with the Vet's diagnosis do not hesitate to seek another opinion.
Dear Kelli Orso,
My niece had and Austrailian Cattle dog once. What a bundle of energy. They are HERDING dogs, very ENERGETIC dogs, need LOTS OF EXERCISE type of dogs. She tries to eat your dishwasher? Did you see episode with teacher and her two Shelties? Cesar taught her how to "Block" the dogs from getting near the sweeper, back them up and not allow them near the sweeper. Stand in between him and the dishwasher, tell him "NO". Walk towards him until he retreats, removes himself from the area, or lies down.
YOU HAVE TO OWN THAT DISHWASHER!!!!!!! You may have to practice this quite a few times but just do it.
Dear Sarah,
Sounds like your Shephard mix needs LOTS OF EXERCISE!!!!!
Does he/she ever just crash? I wish I had some concrete answers for you. But all I can say is, walk, walk, walk,
play, play, and play some more.
Dear great_dane,
GET CESAR'S BOOK AND SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP. Boy I can understand your frustration. Wish I knew how to help you.
All I can do is wish you well in your attempt to correct your situation. Hope someone else comes forth with some solid info.
Dear Matthew,
That's a good name. That's my sons name. Have you ever seen where Cesar explains how to put the leash on their dogs when they are ready to walk them. It's "high on the neck" right behind the ears. Like they do in a dog show.
Make leash short. Bundle majority of leash up in your hand, keep arm straight down. Also, do not make your body
rigid. RELAX!!!!! Keep dog next to you. YOU GO OUT THE DOOR "FIRST" - HE FOLLOWS. If nothing else practice that exercise until you master it.
While walking, if you must correct him, (Pull) actually snap/tug the leash toward your leg to get his/her attention. Walk calmly and assetively. Don't forget to watch Cesar. I'm so hooked, I'm taping his show.
Dear Nikhil,
What do you mean your dog gets attacked? Where do you take him to put him in this position? Please explain!!!!!
I hope you all don't mind that I have responded to you. If you think I'm wrong in my opinion, do not hesitate to enlighten my mind.
Thanks for letting me be a part of your lives, hopes, dreams and you pets lives. I probably won't have my dog for too many more years, she getting up there. She'll be 13 this year and I probably won't be getting another pet because my husband can't wait until this one kicks the bucket. He refuses to have another pet.
GinnyC.
GinnyC.
I forgot one!
Dear Lara,
Am responding to your request regarding your Golden who had surgery and was confined for 8 months afterwards.
You say she's afraid of your children? They corner her. She bites/nips at them when they get to close. HOW OLD ARE YOUR CHILDREN? If fairly young, your going to have to monitor and train both children and dog. They must learn to respect the animal and the animal must learn to respect human. Do not let this go, supervise now.
I have big problem with my rotti. Her name is Sassy I love her to death and she does me. But when my boy friend or I scold her she gets out of back yard she crawls under our fence. We have put rocks where she gets out but she will dig and out she gose.She will not go far but some people are afriad of rotties, I dont know why they are a loving dog But how do I keep her in? We have her chained up to maybe keep her in, But tonite she got out help me. When I got her the people could not keep in but all i thought was she needed attenion but she dose it to me.
Dear Sheryl,
Sassy is a very high maintenance dog. Do you walk her and for how long? 45 mins. may not do the trick. What is your scolding method? Yelling and screaming don't do a thing for a canine. Do you have Cesars DVD, his book? If not do yourself a favor and invest in them. Watch the show as often as possible.
How big is your yard? If large enough, have you considered putting electic fencing inside your fenced area?
I read once where that if you take a layer of dirt away from around your fencing then lay down screening or a fine chicken wire and using some sort of clip (quite long) driven into the ground so wire doesn't come up so easily and then replace the dirt it could keep them from digging.
You might try this.
Ny friends dog has bitten 3 children already and sent them to the ER, Animal control has picked him up and plan to euthinize him this friday. Could this be bad behavior, strain because he is not walked enough? I mean, does he really have to get killed, he has alwasy been overly hyper and friendly but never growled at me or snapped. Please someone respond mochaluv213@yahoo.com
I have two miniature dachshunds. they can be very selfish sometimes but they are loveable. one thing i need your help is how can i train them. how can i potty train them. i try to train them and they do it but once i do it they forget. They destroy the plants they jump on new people and they bark a lot. we try many ways to show them but they dont work. sometimes we cant control them . We need you help. write me back.
Love the show! My husband, 3 children and I watch all the time! My 4 month old German Shephard puppy, Cole won't stop the tail chasing!!! I'll admit we just saw the show with the Shephard who did this for 7 years and we don't want to be like this in 7 years. We all agree we need to walk Cole more and give him a "job" but how did Cesar get that Shephard into a calm submissive state? It was not shown. Is this just a phase, he really has no other issues, he's a fantastic puppy. HELP!!!
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hello, i have a maltipoo named joey, and hes constantly trying to bite my fingers and tear them apart, even when i tell him NO! he's 3 mounths old, it first started out becaue he was teething but now its more agressive.
-brandi
I have a 6 month old pug who is adorable, until given run of the house. He is in the kitchen (12×20) during the day. When we get home we would love to spend time with him relaxing watching TV after his walk. As soon as we take the gate down, he starts to RUN and RUN and RUN. He runs in circles, he runs up and down furniture, up and down stairs. He chews and grabs anything along the way he can. It takes two of us to catch him. He will not sit down quielty with us. Is he too young to train? We have tried the techniques on TV, he pays no attention. There is not a mean bone in his body but we can’t seem to stop the “puppy biting” habit he has and the constant grabbing at us is wearing thin. I would love to see a young Pug in one of your episodes.
Anyone else with an over energetic pug puppy?
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Caesar, We have been watching your show every morning and practically every night and been using some of the techniques on our 3 year old chow retriever mix and she is responding very well but our 8 year old english Bulldog has a bad case of selective hearing and compleatly ignors us and it can be very irritating when one is trying learn and doing quit well and the other does what she wants what do we do to fix that???
Caesar,
We watch your show every morning and almost every night. we have been using some of your techniques on our 3 year old chow retriever mix and they are working quit well but we have a bit of a problem because our 8 year old English Bulldog has a very bad case of selective hearing and while we are trying to teach one to be well behaved the other dosent listen and it makes it hard to teach and learn. What can we do to improve that???
Sinceraly
Jourdan
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