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First and foremost, a big thank you to Cesar for his time and expertise and another huge thanks to everyone who logged on to participate or to just check out the chat! We apologize to those of you who did not have a chance to have your questions answered. We had over 4,000 submissions, which shows how many people are tuning in to learn about Cesar's training methods. To find out what Cesar said about walking your dog, stopping excessive barking, dogs and cats living in peace, and much more, log on to http://channel.nationalgeographic.com/channel/dogwhisperer/chat.html to read the entire chat transcript. Remember to tune in this Friday at 8P et/pt for an all-new episode of Dog Whisperer!
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Hello Cesar
Thank you for all that you do. I have a tiny toy poodle, who I love very much, however I am having a hard time house training her. I am not sure what to do. She knows its good to go outside and bad to go in, but she doesn't tell us when she needs to go out. I don't know what I am doing wrong. My hunsban and I both work all day, so its hard to prevent the acidents. I was just wondering if you had any advice?? and what you think about crate training? I am uneasy about it. Thank you for your time
Lindsay

Lindsay,

Cesar does not answer questions on this blog. However, there are experienced fans of Cesar's here with knowledge of Cesar's techiniques.

I can't answer your question directly, but I've only ever owned toy breeds. Toy breeds have small bladders, there's no way of getting around that fact, so they tend to have to urniate more often.
You don't say how old she is, presuming she's a puppy you're dealing with not only a small bladder, but a dog who hasn't developed the muscle control needed to hold.

If you're letting your dog have the run of the house while you're gone even when she's grown she may have accidents, again, small dog = small bladder.

I know people who have litter boxed trained their tiny dogs and one who even puts a piece of sod in a box and trained their dogs to use these areas.
You can research these ideas on the internet.

Good luck.

Lindsay,

I have had two Lhasas that were paper trained, and I'm currently training a maltese/shih tzu puppy to go on a "potty box" called the WizDog. You can do a google search for similar items. It's a plastic tray where you put newspapers or a "piddle pad". It has a plastic grid that fits on top so the puppy/dog can't shred the papers or piddle pad. My puppy has taken to it pretty well. Any accidents have been because her nose is over the potty box, but her rear end isn't. LOL I work during the day and can't come home at lunch time to let her outside. This works for us and is less stressful for my dog. She still goes outside when we go for our walks. I hope this helps.

Lindsay, I've always used the old-fashioned method of
newspapers on the kitchen floor, and a baby gate to block
off the rest of the house with my puppies. If it's an
older dog, then that would probably work too. If it is a
puppy, a good rule of thumb is however many months old the
dog is, is how many hours he can hold it. For example, a
4-month-old puppy can hold it for approximately 4 hours.
However, I have never owned toy breeds, and I would
imagine with such a small bladder, that rule may not apply.
Take her out immediately after eating and drinking to
"train" her that going out the door means that is when
she relieves herself. My dogs are large, and one of them
is so in tune about the door that he goes to the door and taps the doorknob with his nose when he needs to go out! And he was the difficult one to house-break, so it can be done.

Hi Lindsy, you can also check with Yahoo email groups to see if there is a group that might be willing to brain storm with your challenges directly!

Don't know if you ahve a secured area that you could put a small pen which you could buy outdoors for when you are gone. I have two doggie doors, one for the arcadia door and one I actually decided to put into the side of the house so I could secure my older dogs when I am gone and not be afraid they might fall into the pool. (Stroke or seizure) and just love them!

The other thing Cesar says (which sounds like you dont have but am not sure) is that a seond older wiser dog can many times teach /mentor a new dog in what to do.

Since I started adopting adult dogs, it is so much easier to not have to go through the puppy stuff I admit...especially when they are already housebroken or partially trained, with that puppy energy/chewing drained!!!

Oh my gosh! 4,000 questions!
Now I no longer feel bad for having arrived so early and not having my question answered!!!

God bless you National Georgraphic for opening this space for Cesar, and for the tremendous support you have been giving to him, both with the website AND the promotions for his program. Now if we could get a spell checker on this puppy here, life would be perfect and I would quit embarrasing my self with spelling errors!

I had Nat Geo on almost all weekend (loved the programming over Discovery waaaaaaayyyyy far better) and really noticed the frequency and style of advertising!

Go Cesar!
Go Cesar!!!

No wonder I couldn't get on! 4,000 questions! WOW!
At least I have his book now. I'm almost done with it!
Now, fill me in on what happened with The View? I heard he was booted because of politics?
Is it just me or doesn't the fact that he has like 50 problematic dogs mean something? He never slams others for their methods, just says that this works for him. This reminds me of when "Antiques Roadshow" came on PBS. The antique dealers went crazy. They slammed the show, bad mouthed all the dealers that were appraising items and just had a fit. Why? Because it was a good idea and they missed their chance to do it themselves. I know of some trainers who have problems with Cesars techniques and not one of them that I speak with can ever answer the question I ask..."Could you take 40 large, powerful breeds and keep them as balanced and save all those lives?" Not one has been able to look me in the eye when I ask that question.
Come, sit, stay are all important. But when a Rotti or a Bullmastiff sees a bird, cat, or any small, fast-paced critter running past their nose, will common commands stop them from ripping the arm out of socket without the back-bone of pack leadership? Oh I don't thiiiinnnnkkkk so.
Both my Bullies have very strong prey drives. Why is it that I - a 140lb woman - walk down the street with both of them and never once been thrown to the ground or me being taken for a walk? Hmmmmm? Because of Cesar's teachings!
It has rounded my education to where I and my dogs can share a much deeper respect for one another.
Am I ranting?
-Erin

Cesar I NEED HELP!! I have a beautiful 2year old boxer named otto, he's a great dog. He plays well with everyone. But now he is starting to bite my fiance and its whenever I'm around.
Brandon has been attached numerous time, but now otto is starting to bite him. We dont want to get rid of him but now its at the point where he sent brandon to the ER!!! Its hard to trust him now... Thank you for your time!!!

Brandon & Kim

Kim,

Cesar does not answer questions on this blog.

You have a situation that Cesar has handled with success.
I suggest you find a dog behaviorist that understands Cesar's philosophy and techniques.
I would also suggest you get his book, "Cesar's Way", and his DVD, "People Training for Dogs". Gaining knowledge from both these tools and the TV show will go a long way in helping your show your dog to submit to you and your fiance as being the pack leader.
You don't say if you walk your dog every day or if you understand the proper technique for doing this. Again, the book and DVD will help you understand it's importance and the correct way.


With the right tools there is great hope that you will not have to get rid of your dog. This is the #1 reason I admire Cesar and consider him one of my personal heros, his techiniques have saved many dogs from losing their homes or worse being put down.

Both you and your fiance need to immerse yourselves in learning Cesar's techinques and philosophy, the onus is on the dog owner to learn and apply appropriate techniques and search out a qualified dog behaviorist. Your dog depends on you, good luck.

We usually have 5 dogs in our home - four are ours and a foster. All of our dogs were brought in as puppies. They've grown up in our pack. Recently, our two oldest dogs (males) started attacking each other. It seems to be a possessive or dominance thing. I can stop the fight but, I can't predict the attack or understand the reason behind the aggression. I need help. How do I find someone in my area who practices or teaches Cesar's methods?

Hi Cyndi and Kim!
Call either a behavoirist or a trainer. Go alone (don't bring the dog because you will need to focus on the people) to a dog park and start talking to people. They will recommend people in your area. You can also ask your vet if there is anyone they recommend. There may be a trainer in your area with a good reputation too and that's a good place to start.
READ, READ, READ

Lindsay,

When you say she knows it's bad to go inside, I would like to pass on a little tip which may help you understand how your dog views the situation.

If your dog starts to relieve herself, and you yell "NO!", or reprimand her, she will associate the act itself, with your outburst, not where she did it. This can lead to her not wanting to go in front of you. Make sense? :)

I always consider an "accident" as my fault, not the dog's.

It's up to you to learn when she is most likely to need to go. Usually when they get up in the morning, and then every few hours, until she's able to hold it a little longer. Stay on your toes!

I wish I could recomend a good puppy book. I haven't read what's currently out there.

A nice long morning walk, as Cesar recommends, really helps "get it out", too.

Good Luck!


Cyndi,

Check Cesar's main site. There is a page with contact information for trainers in your area.

Erin, that was brilliantly said! You clarified for me a frustration that we have been chatting about on the list with all the documentation of his techniques coming out, so many of us soaking up every word, fighting to understand where our own patterns are, still there are people dealing with basic level understanding of the concept of leadership.

Cyndi before I forget, to take what Erin said one step further,for those who may not be as experienced with the internet, when you click on his hyperlink for the Dog Psychology center page, that that leads one to a "cover page that is actually three other sites, one for products, one for Cesar Millan Inc and one for the Dog Psychology center.

If you click on this new Dog Psychology Center link, you will actually get a new menu of links including the one listing Trainers that have worked with Cesar. Of course most of these are in Cal. but there are a few others in other locations (you didnt mention what area you are from) but also note that one of the closest affiliated trainers does do consultations by phone either individually or in groups of 6.

It is wonderful that with the touring occuring this year and next, that their priority is to be sponsored by the local rescue groups, which not only will draw attention locally to this bably needed resource on a local level, but the training that will happen to the volunteers of these groups will really escallate the greater behavior correction of potentially problem dogs which can then be placed more successfully, but also the communication with new, well meaning owners can be both more proactive and reduce "returns" from unsuccessful placements.

Wouldnt it be great if Cesar would create a "Train the Trainers School" where those that work with rescue groups could travel to get week long "intensives" and return to help pass the skills on within their own groups?

Erin,
I continue to be amazed at how much we have in common.
I'm a 140-lb woman too, with two dogs who outweigh me!
Unfortunately, I've been dragged down on the ground too
many times, and let them "walk" me to the point where
people who knew me would see me afterwards and say I look
like I'm driving a chariot LOL!!! That was the funniest
thing I ever heard, but it was like holding up a mirror.
I envy you having never been pulled by your dogs. Lucky!!
I'm getting really close to "mastering" Cesar's walk.
How could ANYONE have issues with his methods? It is the
ONLY thing that has worked for me. Nothing else works.
It always astonishes me how small-minded some people can
be! I am shocked that Cesar would've been cancelled from
that guest appearance due to "political" reasons. That
is just awful. If it weren't for a guest appearance on
another morning talk show, I never would have heard of
Cesar, and I would not be walking my dogs at all. Now
I am "out there" and enjoying life again, and it's all
thanks to him motivating me to get it right. I hope that
show will reconsider and reschedule Cesar. Life is too
short for pettiness.

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Okay, I'm confused.
What did they mean by "political reasons"? Dog training and politics? I would think those women on the View would be happy to have Cesar as a guest, he's very much for empowering women.
I would suppose that the old established school of thinking has had their egos bruised and see their pocketbooks taking a hit, is it something like that?
The truth of the matter is that it's Cesar who really is the one who is "old school", since his approach is taken from the natural world of dogs.
Shame on whoever cancelled his appearance, they obviously don't care about the welfare of dogs and their owners.

CJ,

The politics surrounding Cesar not appearing on The View, is very unfortunate. I would definately like to find out the whole story.

I've seen first hand in my own community, the damage and confusion which can be caused by just two trainers who did not agree. After spending a year on the dog boards and forums, this problem is even bigger than I ever could have imagined.

I only work with other people's dogs on a minimal basis, through word of mouth. My primary income is not based on working with dogs. It is just something I know how to do, so I help where I can. Changes in the industry as a business hasn't ever affected me much. Something new comes along, I check it out, and take from it what makes sense to me based on my own experiences, observations, and interactions with dogs. I've always been a pretty independant thinker.

But, to see a certain group of dog training professionals, refuse to even try to understand what Cesar is doing, and resort to flaming him and stirring up people's emotions, with not one shred of proof that his conclusions aren't on the mark, saddens me beyond belief. This does not put the needs of the dog, first.

If a training method fails, many people think there's something wrong with their dog. If the family gives up, the dog can then end up a shelter. More than half of all dogs in shelters are put down.

We see Cesar give a correction. We see the changes in the dogs. I've seen the changes in my own dogs, and know these dogs can be saved. What we don't see, is the needle with the "pink death", slip into a dog's leg, and his life slip away.


Deb

"What we don’t see, is the needle with the “pink death”, slip into a dog’s leg, and his life slip away"

I agree. if you've read my past responses, you will know that I am a proponent of William Koehler's training method. I always have been...and now, watching Cesar, I think they mesh pretty well. But the "positive only" trainers recoil in horror if you even mention Koehler's name. They have a LOT to learn...still...about training PROBLEM dogs.

Deb,

"We see Cesar give a correction. We see the changes in the dogs. I’ve seen the changes in my own dogs, and know these dogs can be saved. What we don’t see, is the needle with the “pink death”, slip into a dog’s leg, and his life slip away."

Well said!!!
That statement should be emblazzened somewhere so the egos who stand in the way of a dog's chance to be rehabed would be foreced to see it everytime a dog was put down.

I'm sickened that egos would stand in the way of a dog's very life.
Would that it was always the "pink death" that took these mis-understood dogs lives, but sadly, it's usually something far worse in a kill shelter.

Lindsay,

If you have a sliding glass door to a backyard, what you can do is during the day, open your sliding glass door to it and stick a long piece of cardboard or something to that effect on the top to prevent insects from coming in. Then, your do has a "gate" she can go in and out of whenever she needs.

Sabrina

Debbie,

Well said.
I had no idea there were trainers who disagreed with Cesar, or who would fight with each other. I always thought that trainers cared about dogs, and would do anything to help them. I guess I was naive.

One of the trainers (out of four)whom I asked about my two figting dogs, gave me a response that made me doubt her skills. She said that since Blackie has been hating Ruffy for a year now, she will not change, and they will always fight. There is no hope for us.
That came from the mouth of our local Petsmart trainer, who teaches all the classes. Without even seeing the dogs, she gave this verdict.
Well, we are at the point now, that both fighting dogs can be together, in the park or on a walk, enjoying the fun. This is all thanks to Cesar, and his shows. He taught me that the best way to get two fighting dogs together, is to make them walk. This trick is working beautifully. A month ago there was no way they would walk together, not to mention play off the leash together.
Now I need Cesar to make a show about how to make them agree at home.

My house feels so empty today. Ruffy went for a one day stay at a friend's house, as a way to prepare her for a longer stay this summer. She's never been away from home, and I am nervous. I know my friend will do a wonderful job with her, but I miss my dog.
Oh, the friend told me that her neighbors gave their dog away, to the shelter, after having him for two years. The reason - he was jumping on people (non agressively). The shelter keeps them for only 6 days. I can't post here what I would like to do to people like that.

About that talk show -- is it known fact the political
thing? I think it's probably not the hosts, but rather
the network or the producers or the advertisers that make
such decisions. The hosts probably don't have an awful
lot of input. Should be the viewers' input, as far as
I'm concerned. They could've gotten some high ratings with
"our" Cesar on there!

Our local animal control area is right next to our local
grocery store and you can see right into the kennels as
you drive to the store. Generally, you see a dog once,
but I noticed there is a dog who has been there for at
least a week. Looks like a beautiful dog. I can't take
on a 3rd dog because I'm still recovering from some
physical injuries, and I don't have control over my first
two to begin with. It would not be responsible of me to
adopt this dog. I don't know if our animal control
officer is a "no-kill" or a rescuer. I think she is a
rescuer, but I'm not sure. Wonder if there's anything that
can be done, short of adopting this dog myself. I want
to cry every time I drive by. It is school vacation week
here, and it is possible a family went away and the dog
ran away. I would hope it wouldn't be euthanized before
somebody else thinks about it being school vacation week
and gives it a few more days. I've never seen another dog
stay in the kennel for that long.

As a child one of my favorite series of books was Lad, A Dog by Terhune. The stories were told from the dog's viewpoint and the human character was known simply as the Master. Since the time this became politically incorrect terminology people have been losing control of their pets. Even "owner" has been replaced by guardian or caretaker. In the U.S. police K-9's have "handlers." I kind of enjoy our Canadian counterparts who still refer to K-9 Officers as "Dog Masters." To me, "master" means the human pack leader, the expert, the one in charge. If this word could become popular again and lose its stigma, maybe people would be better able to understand the role they are supposed to play. After all, Lad was a very happy dog!

"Even “owner” has been replaced by guardian or caretaker. "

I refuse to call myself, or anyone else, either one. I *own* my dogs and until someone else contributes to their care, upkeep, training, competition expenses and health expenses I will REMAIN their owner.

"In the U.S. police K-9’s have “handlers.”

Yes, but that is an accurate description of the relationship...from a legal point of view. The dogs are OWNED by the police department, they are worked i.e "handled" by their human partners.

"I kind of enjoy our Canadian counterparts who still refer to K-9 Officers as “Dog Masters.” "

This seems odd to me...but mostly because my association with the term "master" as it relates to animals is that of a person more like a "kennel manager" or "kennel master" - the person responsible for the day-to-day operations of the facility, but not necessarily for the animals themselves.

Taking an example from dog shows: As each dog is
introduced, the "owner" is named, and the "handler" is
named. Dog shows go back decades. They've never been
criticized for using what might be considered "politically
incorrect" semantics in the 21st century.

I'm a dog "owner". I didn't give birth to the dog. I'm
not a dog's "parent" for heavens' sake! Political correctness for dogs?! What?! Too many people
get much too stuck on semantics! Cesar's methods work.
Period. He is not cruel to dogs at all, if that's what
the politically-correct-minded people are trying to
imply. He is incredibly humane in his handling of dogs.
Dogs are never afraid of Cesar. Dogs respect his
authority because he projects kindness and compassion,
and uses their own psychology to mold them into being
"good" dogs.

Help! My dog knows not to jump on me and get exited when I have a toy or a ball in hand, he will immedeately sit, but at the dog beach, when he sees another dog owner throwing the ball for their dog, he becomes a completely different dog. He bolts over to get the ball, and mind you, he is faster than most dogs, so he gets to the ball before the other dog, then he will not bring it to the owner. He will just leave it far away from them, or bring it to me. He also jumps all over them and tries to grab the ball from their hand, and he does not stop following them around. He is a very well behaved dog at home and in public places, he would not dare jump on anyone, but a person with a toy in hand seems to flip some crazy switch in his head, and a few dog owners who are just trying to play ball with their dog are getting annoyed. please offer some ideas anyone...thanks

I feel that I should add that he gets long walks every day, and when we go to the beach or park, I do not enter with him until he is calm/submissive

I was wondering?
We lost our Lab last night due to old age...we had to put her to sleep. Very sad we picked her out of the liter as a puppy and she has never lived anywhere but with us...we raised both our kids with her and now one is a Junior in HS and a Freshman in College...anyway to keep her young we got a King Charles Cavilier to keep her perky...and we believe that she did enjoy the company although they are so totally different. Now our Cavilier is 5 and she has always had company as a dog...although she does seem more attached to my husband and I will she really be lonely....Today is just day one and she seems to be looking for Nala(our Lab) but...is it us just looking too deeply into.....maybe it is us who miss our Lab.???Any advise as to what we may be in for some have said our Cavillier may be sad toooo???
Thank you,
Linda Stern
Orinda, CA

As a child, I grew up reading National Geographic.

The articles on Jane Goodall always fascinated me. I watched all of her specials on her interactions with the Gahmbi chimps. Big old Flo, with her bulbous nose, tiny little Flint, Fagin...and the more recent follow-up documentaries, which showed a more disturbing side to one of our closest cousins.

Her discoveries blew her own schooling out of the water. She caused a bit of an uproar with her discovery of the chimp's tool use, to catch and eat termites. I can't remember if it was professor Leaky who said it, but I remember hearing that her research had scientists saying that now they had to redefine man, chimps, and the use of tools in the animal kingdom. Something like that, it's been awhile.

She never "trained" a single chimp in her life. Yet, she took down some walls between human beings and the animal kingdom, by living in a natural state with them.

I've seen one documentary, where she was commenting on the sad mental state of some of the chimps in captivity. You could see it on their faces.

Her breakthoughs, remind me of the work Cesar is doing, in some ways. Interesting that he ended up on National Geographic, too.

Deb

Linda-

I am very sorry to hear about your lab. Fortunately, animals are aware and do accept death as part of the natural order of things. This does not mean that they do not greive over lost pack members, because they certainly do. Naturally, they have the ability to move on faster than humans can in situations like this. They will begin to move on when the pack leader has moved on too. When I say move on, I mean to remember the good times and how fortunate she is to have lived with one family her entire life, and you must try to live in the moment with your current dog. It is best right now to let the cavalier go through the motions naturally, while you are also letting your emotions go. Then as soon as you can, continue doing things with your cavalier that you naturally do. Continue the same routine, give him the same amount of excersize, discapline, love and attention as you regularly have. This is so to keep your dog balanced, and this will help him. Someday, he may want company of another dog, but that is something that should never be rushed. Again, I am very sad to hear about the loss of a family member. Best wishes to you, your family, and your dog.

Linda,

Please accept my deepest sympathy. I too recently lost my precious dog, a chihuahua. Though we did not have another dog at her passing we do have a cat. The cat would not leave her bed for nearly two days, except to use her box.
So, yes animals do grieve the loss of their companions.

Tianna said it perfectly, there isn't anything else I can add, except to once again, express my condolences. I know too well how difficult it is to lose a beloved pet.

Linda,

I am sorry for your loss, as well. Please take care of you and yours.

Yes Tianna, very well put.

Deb

Erin,
I appreciate your ranting! I also have a very large and strong dog. I walk him without incident because I practice Cesar's techniques and I am the pack leader. My husband doesn't...he seems to feel that a good dog will "offer" respect for his master...it doesn't have to be "commanded". Yesterday my big boy drug my husband, a 250 pound man, to the ground trying to get to another dog!
Now my husband pays attention to Cesar's teachings. We were lucky no human or dog was injured in the incident, only my husband's pride. LOL

Linda, I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a pet is so difficult. I remember Cesar did a show on this -- there is a blog entry on January 25 you may want to check it out. Also, when I lost my lab-mix last summer, I found some helpful websites to deal with my grief. If you're interested, you may want to google the Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement. They are amazing people. Best wishes to you and your family (fur baby included, of course!)

Linda,
I am so sorry about the passing of your beloved Lab.
I had a Lab who lived to be 18 years old -- she was my
best friend, and I knew her longer than I knew most human
friends at the time of her death.

At the end of Cesar's book "Cesar's Way" he wrote a brief
chapter devoted to the death of our animal friends. If you
can get your hands on a copy, I highly recommend it. One
thing he notes is that humans grieve for example by pulling
down shades, putting up shrines to the pet and stuff like
that. This can influence the remaining dog who might
pick up on your energy if the humans in the household are in mourning over the lost pet. Try to spend some time
doing challenging activities with the King Charles Cav. Yes, the King Charles Cavalier will mourn, too, but they move on much more quickly than humans do.

My Lab/Shepherd was 18 months old when my 18 YEAR old Lab
passed away. Because he was so young and full of energy,
I had no choice but to continue our daily walks and play.
Having that responsibility to his well-being helped me get
past the grief of losing my most devoted friend and companion. To this day, 5 years later, if I say to Hobie "Where's Timba??" he gets up and looks around for her!!

*blush* aww shucks guys! =^_^=

K2-Thanks for your concern for the dog you spotted at Animal Control. I don't think all town regulations for dogs that Animal Control picks up are the same so hopefully you could could talk to the Officer in your area about what will happen to this dog. Sometimes town clerks or other town employees also know how long dogs are kept. In the past we have claimed dogs from shelters before they were put down and boarded them while we advertised for their owners or a new home or until we could place them with a rescue. It is expensive, but it is an alternative to consider if you can't adopt the animal yourself. Good luck.

Linda,
Yes, dogs remember their pack-mates and miss them, they grieve and they remember, if you do not believe that animals remember lost pack-mates then watch for the Katrina fosters on Ceasar's show... when he reunited that dog to his family there was not doubt in my tear filled eyes that the dog remembered.
I am very sorry for your loss, it is hard to lose a beloved companion, but you have your memories and stories that will be passed on to future generations in your family... I remember sitting my my grandmother's knee hearing stories about the animals my father grew up with... and she grew up with... and have told those stories to my own children.
Your King Charles probably will always remember his pack-mate, but don't overly worry that he will fret about it... you and your husband, his pack leaders, are still there... in a pack members come and members go... but your dog will adjust to a smaller pack as long as he is secure in his place in the pack. Some may suggest to go right out and get him a companion, but it is my thought that the pack dynamic should stablize before adding a new member... adding someone new too fast might confuse your dog... not to mention that you and your family need the time to grieve and heal before adding a new dynamic to your lives.

My husband and I have 4 shelter rescued dogs, ages 19 mos, 16 mos, 14 mos, and 7 mos. We watch The Dog Whisperer faithfully, have the DVD and the book, and am anxiously awaiting the first season to go on sale. Big thanks to Cesar and his show for showing us... our dogs aren't THAT bad after all!!!! The biggest problem we have is "the walk". Rather, attempting the walk with all 4 of them. After seeing the issues some people have with their "pack", I know that as long as we stay calm and assertive, we will master this aspect. Keep up the great work.

Ok all, I have a situation and need some advice. I'm working with my 2 yr old ES Spaniel on not pulling the lead as we walk. We walk often and he's doing better, but it's a tough neighborhood out there. Yesterday, two dogs charged aggressive at him. One is a real problem, a rescued border collie mix that the owners have no clue how to control. "Red" is usually off leash and charges across the street and any and every dog he sees. The owners and children yell his name repeatedly, and of course there is no response from their dog.

Anyway, at first I used to control my dog while someone came to retrieve the beast. I'm over that niceness and not sure what to do now. If I keep walking, Red will continue to circle and pursue my dog. My dog, Maximus shows teeth and groals at Red, but no other dogs. We've had it! How to I walk through a confrontation with an off leash, untrained, agressive dog?

Not sure where to put this, but one of the questions concerned Ceaser's cool inline skates. They're Landrollers.

Dave

Nickie,
See posts # 85, 86 & 87 on the April 14th blog that
references "Snoopy" in the title. There should be some
helpful information there which will answer your question.

You should also tell Red's owners to watch Dog Whisperer
ha ha ha!

Please help!!

I have 2 american bulldogs 8 months old one female one male, sweet as pie but when it comes to going for a walk they get soooo hyper we can barely get out the door. I have never encouraged them by announcing "lets go for a walk" etc. I simply pick up their leashes and varoom they completely change into rocket dogs. They do listen to commands in the house but when outside it gets very difficult to walk them together. I use the leash at the very highest part of the throat area as cesar explains.
Both dogs have been fixed. The female seems to be the one who is more hyper just in general.

It's very hard physically walking them because just getting out the front door they go into hyperdrive and my commands go unheard. I get tied up in the leashs than I have to start pretty much yelling sit. I really want to enjoy my dogs outside as well as inside. Please help i'm really stumped on the right way to walk 2 dogs at the same time without being knocked down.

Carolyn,
Your description could have been ME!! Get Cesar Millan's
book, DVD, and watch Dog Whisperer as much as possible to
learn how to "MASTER" the walk. In just two weeks time,
especially since reading the book, I have managed to get
the dogs to a) wait at the door; b) wait to go down the
stairs; and c) walk beside me on our twice-a-day walks.
If I can do it, anyone can! I am a 5-foot tall, 140 lb
woman and my two 80-lb, intact male dogs outweigh me. It
can be done!!! Try to watch the episode about Major
Jones and his owner Marla. Major Jones is a German
Shepherd Dog who was extremely excited about the walk
and she could not get him out the gate of their property.
When I saw that episode, it all just "clicked" for me. I
saw how you have to "claim" ("take ownership of") the
gate, the door, the top of the stairs, etc. I, too, had
the embarrassing habit of YELLING at the dogs, and I have
completely stopped doing that. What a relief to no longer
have people staring at me saying "what is wrong with HER?"
ha ha ha. I, too have complete control over my boys in
the home, but was not enjoying our time outside. It is
tons better now. Putting on the leashes is still an
issue, but I'm working on it. One thing I learned from
Cesar's book is to make the dog come to you to have the
leash put on. Don't chase the dogs around. Make them
come to you. I can't get them to be calm. As soon as I
pick up the leashes, they go wild, but it has gotten tons
better over the past two weeks. "Invite" them to come get
the leash put on, and stay consistent. That is the hardest
thing for me, because being pack leader is 24/7 and
sometimes I want to just take it easy, but every time I
do, I get dragged down on the ground. Good luck! It is
SO nice to know someone else is having the same experience
as me!! Take care!

Hi again, Carolyn,
I hope you saw tonight's episode (April 21st). It was
absolutely PERFECT for those of us who have the problems
you describe! In two of the three segments, Cesar talked
about "claiming" the door of the house. That is my new
favorite thing! I love it!!

I have been watching Cesar's television show as much as possible this season and have been working on developing a calm assertive attitude with my two dogs. I am seeing a positive difference in their behavior. I figured if it worked with the dogs, maybe I should try it at work -I am a female in charge of an all male crew (LOL).

I wanted to share a neat story that was partly a result of reading summaries of the Dog Whisperer on Cesar's website and applying some of his techniques he uses on his show. During Spring Break this year, while feeding our livestock, a very powerful looking pit/beagle mix approached me in my yard. We live in a rural community so when strange dogs come near, your first reaction is to get out of the way. Well I did try to shoo him off at first, but he looked tired and hungry. I started to watch him and then just went about my business with my chores. After an hour of us watching each other, my daughter put some food in a bowl, he ate and we became fast friends.

Long story short, when he interacted with our other dogs, he was the alpha male and would pin our pets on the ground by the neck. Luckily he respected my authority and released our dogs immediately. I put him in a kennel for the night and took him to the local animal shelter the next day (I really had no choice).

To my great relief the dog had a microchip(as do all my animals - I am a firm believer in them). Well the story ends with the dog being returned to his home. He had been stolen from his yard in town (I guess because he REALLY looked like a fighting dog). His collar with his ID had been removed and the goof balls that took him dumped him in the country >(. This unfortunately happens a lot in the community - hence the need for caution when strays approach you.

Well I thought I would share a happy ending and thank Cesar for his insight into the k-9 world.

Chris, What a wonderful story!!

I, too, use the techniques at work -- I'm one of two V.P's of our company, and I have to supervise 50+ very quirky personalities! Standing up tall (I'm only 5 feet tall!)
and being calm and assertive with my employees gets me
the respect I've always wanted.

I heartily believe in microchipping. Everyone should do
it!!

Hello everyone. I have a 6 yr old neutered male shih tso,and a 1 1/2yr old neutered male yellow lab. Both dogs are well tempered, but they do not seem to get along.We were told by the vet to allow the dogs to fight it out, and eventually they will become best buddies.However, Jake the lab thinks Ebony the Shih tso is a chew toy. I try on a regular basis to allow the dogs to play together.But, they seem to chase one another, and try to show each other who is the boss.Each dog is not willing to become submissive.Any suggestions from my fellow dog lovers. Thanks in advance

Hello,
2 weeks ago we got a 8 year old Saluki mix from the shelter. She is very good but on walks she sniffs every bush and pulls so hard to get to it that my Daughter gets tired of walking her.
Today I walked her in the street (no bushes) and that worked great for me but I can't let my Daughter do that.
My Godfather says that not letting a dog sniff is like walking a women down a mall but not let her in any stores.
What would Cesar say/do about were when and how often to let the dog sniff?
Thanks Marlies

Thanks K2. I have just started to practice a clam assertive attitude at work. I think the guys are wondering when I became a pod person. My nickname is the wired hair terrier. I can get a little aggressive when stressed and do tend not to let things go ;).

I have seen Cesar challenged more than once with the last two questions. I suggest Maria and Marlies get his DVD or catch his show on National Geographic. I have tried his suggestions with success. The most important thing for both you guys is to learn proper k9 etiquette and establish yourselves as the leader of the pack. The thing I see over and over on Cesar's shows is that it's not the animal’s behavior that needs to be corrected first. I am just a guilty as the next person of overindulging my pets:)

Does anyone have any ideas on how to get my dog to heal "properly"? My definition of "properly" is to my left and slightly behind me or even with me, NOT slightly in front of me (as though leading me).

HELP!!!!!MY COUSIN'S DOG NIKO,EATS TOILETPAPER.WHENEVER WE TRY TO TAKE IT AWAY,HE WILL ATTACK YOU!!WHAT SHOULD I DO?

i have a 7mo. old pit bull who has a serious obsesion with water, he will come running even if he hears the littlest drip, he acts as if he's always thirsty, so we tried not to limit his water intake thinking maybe he is that thirsty but he will drink until hes just standing there drinking and peeing at the same time!!!! He will stand at the glass door and huff on in to make condensation so he can like it off, we must always make sure to put toilet seats down and to shut the bathroom door after showers!! Its driving me nuts!!!! somebody please help!!!!

Sam,
That sounds like a medical problem -- I suggest seeing
your vet without delay.

Please do not give in to the "dominance" training. This is the same type of training that was formerly (in most places) used on elephants and likely is continued to be used to break horses. "Trainers" used to beat elephants into submission because they too follow a hierarchy and the "trainers" wanted to be the dominant elephant. Similarly, the "dog whisperer" wants you, humans, to be the dominant dog. You may end up producing a fearful dog who act out when least expected. Instead, seek out POSITVE REINFORCEMENT training. It uses a reward instead of punishment or negative actions.

Susan,

You are misinterpreting the word "dominance" Correctly done "dominance" training taches the dog his place in the pack, it is not brutalizing the dog. The dominance heirarchy in a dog pack is a FACT OF CANINE LIFE and Cesar's techniques incorporate that fact into the humany/canine pack and give the dogs AND the people a satisfying interaction that fulfills BOTH of their needs.

When your positive only techniques can successfully rehablitiate a dangerously human aggressive dog in the same safe way that Cesar's methods can...get back to us on it.

In the meantime, correcting a dog's behavior is NOT cruelty.

Susan has posted the exact same "warning" on this blog
in at least two different places. I wonder if Susan will
return to see what we all have had to say in reply.

Thanks K2!!

like diabetes or something? im sad!

Carolyn,
You're welcome!

Sam,
I'm no vet, so I have no idea. Extreme thirst IS a
sign of diabetes, but don't assume the worst, it could
be something simple, or that he just really likes water.
It's best to check with a vet. It will ease your mind
to know, one way or the other. Just don't assume the
worst. I always say, "The things we imagine are always
far worse than the way things really turn out to be!"

Doggone/GA - Thanks for the referral to Koehler. I'm surprised that he would be unpopular since he seems sympathetic to both the advocates for positive reinforcement and leash training from what I've seen on the website. Animal treatment seems to be a really sensitive issue. I wish people would focus more on eliminating actual animal cruelty and less on criticizing training approaches.

"I’m surprised that he would be unpopular since he seems sympathetic to both the advocates for positive reinforcement and leash training from what I’ve seen on the website."

I'm not sure what website you visited, but if you read the latest update of his first book he's a bit scathing about food reinforcement. Having said that, I have always used SOME of his method, but not all of it. I *do* use food as an intial guide and reward, but I also use proper corrections.

I get my best results using a combination of his method and the method in Patricia Gail Burnham's book "Playtraining Your Dog"

What gets Koehler so heartily disliked these day is his corrections and, most strongly, his "hanging" a red zone dog - which, as Cesar's show says, is NOT something that should be done by an amateur! But as I said on another subject: if you have a SERIOUSLY person agressive dog, is it REALLY "cruel" to hang them until they pass out? When the alternative might be euthanasia because no one can approach the dog safely?

That's not to say ALL red zone dogs are bad enough for that method of control...but I can definitely see there could be SOME cases where the dog is so out of control there is basically no choice. You can't reason with a dog that has moved over the line to the point where it is, basically, insane with the desire to attack someone. Strong cases sometimes call for strong measures.

But again and ALWAYS, such a dog needs to be in the hands of a trained professional.

Sometimes I get so confused!! I was at Petco today, and
there were about 5 people in there with their dogs (boy
was I envious -- I could NEVER get my two guys in there with all those other dogs it would be horrendous!) ALL
of the customers with dogs had them on flexi-leashes, and
flat collars, walking in front of the humans!! But then
I got a real kick out of it because the humans were doing
the same thing I always do -- if one dog was down one
aisle, the other owner of the other dog would turn around
and dart down a different aisle in a different direction to
avoid the first dog! The dogs were barking and lunging at
each other, and the humans were getting all stressed out. It was quite comical, and such a relief to know that other people have the same problems as I do! LOL I have always had this apparent mis-impression that everyone else's dogs are fully trained and perfect, and mine are terrorists! ha ha ha It's nice to know that the others turn out to be far from perfect after all! Now if only I could see that
same thing on the beach, I'd be all set! I seem to be the
ONLY idiot dog owner on the beach. Everyone else's dogs
are perfect except mine LOL!

Thanks for the input. I do watch his show, and I am trying to be the leader of the pack. It can be exhausting. I'll also try the video. Thanks Chris

K2, if it makes you feel any better, our trainer who is very similiar in technique to Cesar, always prefers dog to always be leashed especially at the beach. She recommends using a long clothsline, so the dogs can go in the water, and you have controll. Something to think about.

I have 9 rescued cats (indoors) and I have just taken in a pit/lab mix that is 2 yrs old. Wonderful personality but will chase a cat at the drop of hat. I am looking for suggestions to gain peace and be able to allow him in the house. Don't expect him to love them just remain calm when around them He desperately needs to come in for further training. Any experience with this situation. How about a crate until he gets tired of reacting. I am reading Cesar's book now and watch the show religously. I haven't seen this addressed.

Hi Maria,
Thanks for the input. I have tried EVERYTHING on the beach -- every piece of equipment known to dogs! I have long ropes that I tie them out in the yard with, and I have brought them down to the beach on the long ropes, but they have dragged me down onto the sand and I've gotten broken bones and sprains, cuts, bruises especially my ego ha ha ha. Unfortunately, the only thing that works is bringing them there separately, but that's no fun either I always feel bad! Our beach has a leash rule, so they have to be leashed, and because mine will pull my arms right out of the sockets practically, I've had to accidentally let go of the leash in order to save myself from being injured yet again -- together the dogs outweigh me by 20 lbs. People get REALLY angry at me. I can hold onto one dog, but I usually end up letting go of one. My dogs are really, really friendly, but they are so big that people get scared (understandably!) when they see them running at full speed. I always feel like such a jerk, and so ashamed that everyone else can control their dogs except me! But now that I know how to walk them the way I've been practicing all winter, I am determined to walk down that beach without being pulled and without any problematic encounters. I now know not to stand there helpless yelling "NOOOO!!!!" at the top of my lungs, with everyone staring and my arms being pulled out of their sockets! If my dogs see another dog on our walks now, and want to get to it, I make them stop, look at me, and I say "relax" in a calm voice like Cesar does, and then we continue walking once they are relaxed. It works. It will be interesting to see if it works at the beach! I also have no choice but to use choke collars. They are the only piece of equipment that seems to work for me.

K2

"Thanks for the input. I have tried EVERYTHING on the beach — every piece of equipment known to dogs!"

It sounds like what you need is a new TECHNIQUE, not new tools. I *STRONLY* advise you to get William Koehler's book the "The Koehler Method of Dog Training"...either the most recent update or the original version.

What he will give you is the proper TECHNIQUES for gaining control of your dogs.

hi, I am the proud owner of a half Jack Russell Terrier and also a chiauhua. The Jack Russell is Izzypaw and the chiauhua is Freckles, she is almost 5 months old and I believe she is going into heat. Izzypaw has been nuetered but my problem is he wont keep his nose out of her personal business and she keeps trying to mount him. I am really confused about how to handle this situation. So if anyone can help me please let me know. I have not owned a dog of my own for several years so I am really confused as how to handle this problem. trianna

K2, I never walk the dogs without a choke collars.They don't seem to get it without the collar. Just be persistant, and keep on trying. Remember to br the leader.Good Luck

I just returned from our first spring weekend at the beach, and SUCCESS!! I took the dogs to the dog park/beach (leashes required) twice. I was able to walk down the FORTY-THREE steps of the stairway with the dogs beside me, not dragging me down the stairs! (Yaaaaaayyy!!). Then, this morning, there were two LOOSE Labs (they “matched” mine — ha ha one was yellow, one black) and my dogs really wanted to run with them. I could’ve let them loose, because the rangers weren’t around and there were no other leashed dogs on the beach. It’s still cold here! But I said no, this is an opportunity to practice. Afterwards, I realized that the corrections and calm assertiveness came to me NATURALLY! Woo hoo!! Hooray ME!! LOL!! I didn’t panic at all. In the past, I have totally frozen, totally freaked out, sent the dogs bad, bad, negative energy and got all tensed up. It would end up that I had to let go of Hector and let him run loose in order to prevent me from being dragged. This time, he was making his “devil dog” sounds (I swear one day he is going to form words LOL!) and I just made him stand there and I kept blocking his line of vision. I put the choke collar way up high on his neck and we walked toward the water while the other two dogs were all over the beach running wild. Hobie was very easy to correct. One correction, and then he was done freaking out. I am so proud of myself, I’ve been on cloud nine all day! (The last time I was at the beach was last November, BEFORE I had found Dog Whisperer — so I had been using buckle collars, and just screamed and yelled and let the dogs loose if they saw another dog) What a difference with the Dog Whisperer techniques and the choke collars! I am completely in charge! It was awesome. I can’t wait to go back again! We can enjoy the beach with our dogs for the first time ever!

Great Job K2, I left a comment under April 26 Blog. I have only been watching Cesar Milan's show for 2 months, and I found it by chance. Good thing I did. I've been encouraging friends with dogs and similiar problems to begin watching it.

Hi Maria,
Thanks for the encouragement!! I found the show by chance, too. I saw Cesar as a guest appearance on Regis & Kelly, and the following week was the Thanksgiving marathon of Dog Whisperer on NGC. I spent the whole day watching it, and I was HOOKED!!! I have learned SO much from Cesar! I tell everyone to watch it. What's funny is, I have to co-workers that I've worked with for 100 years, they both came in to my office on two separate occasions and asked me if I'd ever seen DW!! "Seen it?" I said, "I'm addicted!" ha ha ha Now we talk about it at work all the time. I think we drive the non-dog people nuts! ha ha ha

I have a part german shepherd that I got at the shelter when she was around three. She is now seven. I do a half hours walk 5 or 6 days a week. I walk her using cesar's instructions and use a back sometimes also. My problem with her is outside she is on a long run, but if she breaks loose from her run, she runs off and won't come back until she is ready. Also, my two neighbors raises chickens, and she will always chase them and kill a couple. This is what she was picked up for by the kennel. We don't know how long she had been on her own. What can I do to break her from running off? Please help.
thank you Donna

well, well,well.... my short earlier comment from last month wasn't addressed at all....sniff !

I'm hoping someone can offer advice on my leash aggressive Chocolate Lab, Sasha. Sasha is a rescue from a local county animal shelter. She is approximately 18 months old and I've had her for 9 months. She was totally unsocialized when I adopted her. I was not able to bring her around other dogs....even the sight of another dog sent her into hysterics. She spent 4-weeks at a dog training ranch where a pack of 25-50 dogs are forced to socialize in an open area 80% of the day. This worked wonders. However, the trainers there were never able to replicate her leash aggression....it only happened when I was around. It's been 4 months since she left the ranch and while she is able to play off-lead with no issues, the minute she in on lead and we encounter another dog so becomes hysterical and in some cases quite aggressive. I am an avid Dog Whisperer watcher and have tried all methods with no sucess. Any suggestions? Thanks!

To Sam with Pit pup; Don't worry about the water situation. Your pup is just like my 2 Pits. As soon as, they hear the water being turned on, here they come. My pup plays & jumps in the water, has a good time. Sounds like your pup is a little anxious, so when it drinks the water, it gos potty. If you play & walk the pup, you'll tire it down. Then, it won't be so overly excited. Hope this helps.

I have a Golden Retriever who goes crazy when people approach. I have done all I can to control him with with a prong collar high on his neck, Cesar's sound, the hand like a jaw to get him to sit and I have to wrestle him to the ground. Folks (including the vet) who have this breed smile knowingly and with a smile tell me its the breed and aren't they wonderful. I am in a wheelchair and am afraid he will knock guests over and me out of the wheelchair...I am not smiling about it. I love him and am successful as pack leader with the two dogs unless he sees any person approaching and it all goes out the window and I can't control the whole world of people out there! Maybe someone can share what has worked for them. I can stand on the leash but that and two "trainers" didn't give any help at all. Lots of "dog trainers" are not good trainers!

"I am an avid Dog Whisperer watcher and have tried all methods with no sucess. Any suggestions? Thanks! "

If you tried Cesar's methods with no success...you aren't doing them right! One thing I wish Cesar would have a show about is TIMING. If you are waiting until she becomes hysterical to use Cesar's methods you are waiting WAY too long. You need to focus on HER 100% and the instant SHE focuses on the other dogs you need to break that concentration.

Correct her, get between her and the other dog, turn her away from them, even make her submit by laying her down...whatever it takes. The problem you are dealing with is that she thinks SHE is the leader and it's the leader's job to protect the pack. You have not...yet...proven to her that YOU are the pack leader.

Jody and Chrissie, sometimes just being on leash can be the problem. I would suggest keeping the leash on her when you are at home just doing regular, everyday activities. Doggone GA suggested this for me, and it worked really well! (Thanks Doggone!!) Just hook the leash on her and sit around watching TV or doing chores with her on leash. Get her used to having that leash on under other circumstances other than just the walk. Try to get a copy of Patricia McConnell's books, which I highly recommend -- she uses similar methods to Cesar Millan, but she goes into good technical detail about how to handle the leash -- in particular, we humans tend to pull back, and there is a way to stop doing that! I've done it successfully, and with two 80-lb Lab mixes, that is a big deal! It seems to me that all Labs/Retrievers go a little nutso over seeing strange people, dogs, cats, etc. Mine just want to "greet" everyone -- they aren't a danger, except that they look scary to the strangers, and they can hurt ME by pulling me down on the ground. Also, what Doggone said about being alert to her alertness BEFORE or "just as" it happens is key. I no longer use my walks as relaxation time after work. Can't do it because I have to be "on duty" 100% of the time, otherwise, if I turn my eyes away for a SECOND, my dogs are lunging after some new person or dog or cat, squirrel, food on the side of the road, what-ever! You have to be one step ahead of them, and alert to every possibility -- but NOT NERVOUS. Your energy has a lot to do with it, too. Do what I did and "study" Cesar's TV shows and read the book a couple of times. Really study it like you would study for a certificate or a degree -- or like a class that you really want to excel in. It took me 6 months -- so it is not "instant" even though it can appear that Cesar gets things done instantaneously, remember it is television, and they only have so much time to edit down the episode. The clients of Cesar are given the assignment of practicing, and that's what we all have to do. If your dog is too much to handle safely, seek the help of a professional, too.

I have a question on the choke collars. I am very interested in Ceaser's walking techniques but I have a very high energy dog that I run with every day (in addition to two daily walks). He is "reasonably" good but we definatly need improvement. Does anyone have any input on running with your dog and still incorporating good techniques? Is it necessary to use a choke collar to get results?
Thank you!!
Lisa

"Is it necessary to use a choke collar to get results?"

I can't help with running techniques, but to me a choke collar is essential. You get the best kind of correction with it, and, unless it breaks or you drop the lead, no matter what happens the dog can't get out of it.

I will say, though, as I said in another reply elsewhere, don't get one that is too big. If it's WAY big the dog CAN get out of it by simply lowering his head and letting it drop off. Get one that is JUST big enough to slide over the ears - maybe even a tad snug over the ears.

Also, when it fits as I suggested, it stays higher on the neck even when it's "relaxed" - giving you just that bit more control over a collar that falls to near the shoulders.

I cannot find the illusion collor anywhere on your site. I am really interested. I own everything else. Can you tell me how to get one. Thank You for all you do for our wonderful furry friends. Sincerely Peggy Berry

I have a 6 month old min pin/chi mix. She has a crate we keep her in at night, we confine her during the day and leave her crate open for her to go potty. She did wonderfully the first 2 weeks, now has an accident everyday. I dont know what to do. She knows she is not supposed to pee on the floor, she runs in her crate. When she does do this on the floor, i put her in the cage for a few hours. But then when i let her out, its right back to the floor. I dont want to keep her in the cage so long, but dont know what else to do. She knows she is not supposed to pee on the floor, she always runs and hides.
help please someone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Peggy Berry, the Ilusion Collar is not yet available. It is supposed to be available this month. Check Cesar's Dog Psychology Web site for details. I think you can get on an email list to be notified as to when it's available.

I stumbled upon Cesar’s program on National Geographic about 5 months ago. Interestingly enough, it was after our 13 year old Labrador died. I view the program several times a week. It helps me with my grief over loosing our dog, Buddy. I learned so many things that I did incorrectly, but I also became aware of lots of ways I shared my life with my Buddy appropriately.

Two weeks ago we got a 7 week old puppy. His name is “Bentley”. He already knows who owns the door and everything else around him. At 9 weeks old (this week) he began some “rough play” and those baby teeth hurt! I tried various methods that were ineffective. I found what worked for a dog his age was to walk away and ignore him or pick him up without saying a word put him in his crate for a time-out. (10-15 minutes)

I have enjoyed reading all of your comments. I send warm regards!!

Jennifer, I've never used crates. Do you think you're confining her too much? Are you walking her at all? With you as the pack leader, that is. Also, are you sure you're not misinterpreting her behaviour (i.e.,she "knows" she's not supposed to pee on the floor?) Maybe she just "knows" you are upset with her and that's why she runs away to hide. Dogs can't reason like humans can, so it seems more logical that she just knows she's in trouble about something, but not necessarily about peeing on the floor. Also, peeing on the floor could be a nervous reaction to her picking up on your energy. If you're anticipating that she will pee on the floor, you're projecting nervous or negative energy, and the dog will pick up on that. If she is even the slightest off-balance, then she'll pee on the floor out of being nervous or afraid because of your energy. I would suggest taking her on structured walks every day. Read Cesar's book, watch the Dog Whisperer, and get the DVDs. If you can't take her on a walk outside, a treadmill is a great option for so-called "indoor" dogs. I'm not a fan of crates, and I don't want to sound like a jerk, but I think it would be best to use the crate as little as possible. Just my opinion, however!

I have become a major fan of Cesar and his methods. I enjoy the show and attempting to incorporate his methodology into my pets training. I have a seven month old Black Lab who is mostly well behaved , crate trained, properly walked and exercised and well loved. My only problem which I havent seen on the show or discussed is Her constant " grazing" of our countertops . I have heard upside down mousetraps may work but I have not tried this as of yet . Any suggestions would be helpful

Hi Bruce!
They do have great noses for hunting down any crumb they can find. My last lab could smell the treats on the top shelf at the Vet's office with a lid on the jar. I never tried mousetraps, but I did keep the countertops food free. Buddy would only "graze" when left alone where food was present. He never begged for food, you could eat anything,anywhere right in front of his face without a
problem. I will be anxious to learn what sort of responses you receive.
Pat

The term "guardian" is actually a good thing.
And in no way do I or anyone else consider me to be politically correct.

The reason guardian is better is because it allows for state laws to give better protection to pets. Most states view the family dog as a posession of little value. In fact here in TX if someone decided to kill my dog(God forbid) the maximum criminal penalty is a $300 fine.
This is ridiculous.

town meeting at the city building in Anderson,IN.
They tried to get an ordinance on pit bulls only. $300,000.00 insurance policy per pit for anyone that owns a pit. the crowd stopped it for now but it will be back I'm sure. i was wondering what your take is on this. thank you.

I have bee working out of my home for the past 4 months since my dog has been with me. She is a one year old Pit-Bull mix. I am going to be starting a new job which will take me away from home for 9-10 hours a day. I have a nice backyard but feel it is cruel to leave the dog at home all day alone. Am I being overly concerned?

Thanks for the help, i never looked at it like that!
When i walk her she doesnt go potty. She doesnt like to go out. So other then the walk, what do i do when she pees on the floor? i really dont like the newspaper on the nose thing, since the nose is very important to dogs.
I keep her on the hardwood floor in the dining room. I leave paper down and her cage open. What do i do when she does have an accident? ignore it, or i was thinking putting paper down on the spot so she might think paper + potty. am i right or wrong? thanks again!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hi
I'm just wondering a couple things about my 3 year old golden retriever, Milly. Sometimes when we come home, she does not greet us at the door. My family and I were wondering if that is a sign of dominance. She has been through puppy classes and is over all well behaved besides when she's around food. Thanks.
Terri and family

Hello,
Thank God for Cesar. We have 4 rescues. Three Affenpinschers (Bug, Harry and Millie) and what we believe is a Schnauzer/Terrier mix (Hank).
We rescued the first Affen, Bug, 11 years ago (her age was estimated to be 1-5 at the time). She is still graceful, playful and going strong. She is so incredible, that we decided we had to have another.
In 2001, we found Harry online...he was 3 and still in the puppy mill when we filled out the adoption application. Poor Harry... he's was a very sad case when we got him.
By 2004, Harry had come so far that we started looking for a third Affenpinscher to rescue (ok, the truth is that I was the one looking-my husband was just humoring me...). I filled out an application with the Affenpinscher Rescue Society and, within 2 weeks they contacted us with an Affen needing a home. Millie was an Affen from a good family who just could not care for her any longer. However, they wanted her to go to a home who knew the breed so they contacted the rescue society, who contacted us, and 3 yr old Millie joined our pack.
6 months later, I was yearning to balance out the pack with a nice gentle male. I saw a picture online of a humble looking fellow described as a full grown,1 year old terrier mix. Hank, when we got him, was obviously less than a year and still had some growing to do. He stunk worse than any dog I had ever smelled but I was on the mark about the humility. Sweet, smart, loving and humble...that is Hank.

Cesar has put everything into perfect perspective. My dogs have always 'followed' me in the sense that they go wherever I go but sometimes they would 'follow' in front of me; anticipating my path. This can be dangerous, especially on the stairs. Thanks to Cesar's methods, I took control and taught them to follow. Doorways (where they would pause to make sure of my direction) and stairs are no longer a hazard. In all things now, we take control so there is no doubt who the pack leaders are. We love the simple, sensible methods. They work and we have taught them to our daughter and grandson. To see a 9 year old control 4 dogs and to impress our daughter (who thinks we are crazy to have 4 dogs) with our well behaved pack is wonderful. She has even begun to work with them herself.
"Calm, assertive" and "calm, submissive" are important keywords in applying these methods. Simple, quiet commands work incredibly well.

We do not, yet, have complete control in all situations (it still sounds like the ASPCA kennel when the doorbell rings and putting on my shoes still causes Bug to whine, Harry to dance and Millie to spin in circles while Hank watches, and wags, on the sidelines) but, thanks to Cesar, we have hope!

Bonnie

I would appreicate a program on dogs that are shy with people other than myself and my husband. How can we help her as she is a 10 month old White Germain Shepherd. She has never been abused since we got her a 9 weeks old.

If there will be a program on this problem,please email the time and date it will be done. We are frustrated by not being able to have our dog be friendly with other people.

Thanks so much,

I have a 6 mo. old Shih Tzu. Who we are trying so hard to potty train. We take her out at daybreak and she is good about relieving and eliminating at this time. The problem is she only wants to urinate outside the rest of the day. She poops inside and then either plays with it or "gag" eats it. I have tried, when she was younger, using the medicine "forbid" on her food, but the minute I stopped the "forbid" (at 6 dollars a day I can't afford to do this forever)she starts eating her feces again. She does get walks and time outs in her crate when she has accidents.It does not seem to do any good. Please help. We are senior citizens and have considered giving her away, but I don't want to give her up!

I have a 3 yr old min pin (Wilson) frisbee/agility dog who is the sweetest brother to his 2 yr old mixed terrier (Lulu), but is vicious to other dogs. Cesar's walking techniques (E, D, then A) have been awesome for all other behavior/social issues, but nothing prevents his viciousness to other dogs. Two local behaviorists have tried, (1) forcing Wilson to walk with lage and then small dogs and (2), using a pinch collar (only barks louder). Still nothing. In post-katrina New Orleans, there aren't many options for forced dog-pack social training. Please, anyone have ideas?

To DIXIE,
I had a chihuhua/terrier mix that would poop indoors and then hide/eat. We left her out indoors while we worked all day, hence the accidents. I realized she was eating/hiding because she knew I'd fuss at her once home (HENCE: problem occured b/c of the dog owner not the dog). We also free-fed our dog, another source of the problem.

As Cesar says, dogs should work for their food (not free feed, if you do). Excercise, Discipline then Affection (includes feeding). Try (1) getting your dog on a regular eating schedule: morning walk, let eat and pick up, then potty again. And (2) crate your Shih Tzu when you leave the house or if you have things to do. My dogs have to potty/poop usually 15-30 minutes after eating.

best of luck

I have two White West Highland Terriers. Kelsey and Katie have opposite personalities and differnt issues. I find it hard to train both at the same time. When I am trying to correct one for bad behavior the other acts up. Any suggestions?

I was told by a dog trainer in my area that keeping dogs outdoors is cruel. I own 2 dogs and live with a man that does not feel the same way about dogs as I do (which is why the dogs live outdoors). The trainer I spoke with refuses to work with me and my dogs unless my goal is to have them indoors. She asked me to find the dogs a new home if this was not my intent. I do spend time with my dogs everyday. We play fetch, run and walk our ten acres and they seem pretty happy to me. Am I being cruel by keeping my dogs outdoors?

I must relay this comment as I am a Cesar Milan disciple and have read his book cover to cover. I watch the program whenever I possibly can and will be eternally grateful for his invaluable guidance. I have two Westies, both approximately one year old. Thanks to Cesar, I have actually gained control over these ACTIVE pups, and attempt to lead my pack daily. We walk in my neighborhood each evening and I lead my pack on these adventures. Tonight as I passed an upscale home on the next street from my home where some children were playing behind a ficus enclosure, one of the children said to her friends,"There she goes, she is the 'dog walker. Look, see, she really exists and there she is!" I laughed all the way home because Cesar may be the Dog Whisperer but I am the "Dog Walker". Thanks forever. CL, Ft. Lauderdale, Fl.

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Dear Ceasar,

I have a yellow lab. named Levi who is a very good dog but, he is not wanting to settle down in our home and he runs from room to room. We do have a 4 year old who adores alot and she does well with him outside but he pushes her around and lays on her in her bed. He is house broken and loves us dearly and no matter what we try he will not settle down. Please help us we would love to have him in the house more often.

Thank you Theresea

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I have a 7 mo. old, 65lb black Labrador Retriever, named Brady. We absolutely LOVE this dog and he has a fantastic personality. HOWEVER, he is very dominant. Whenever someone comes into the house or approaches him on the street, he becomes a bucking bronco just to say, "hi." It is SOOOOO annoying.
The icing on the cake was when he jumped up on an 8 year old girl and scared the heck out of her...that's just completely unacceptable behavior.
I have just ordered a soft-touch harness for walking, which is also supposed to curb jumping. However, I have not seen a reduction in that behavior.
If I stand between him and the person at the front door, he sits fairly quickly and leaves them alone.
However, the second I walk away, they are fair game.
WHY is he harassing everyone so much??
Any helpful hints to stop this annoying behavior?
Thanks in advance!
p.s. I love Cesar and wish he'd start making trips to the East Coast ;)

I am a fan of Ceasar's show also. We also recently purchased the cd's. However, I have not seen anything addressing the issue of dogs getting to the countertops or table tops. We have not fed the dog people food, and still we get this constant occurance.
We have a 20 month old Basset hound female. She is low to the ground when on all 4's. But when she gets up on two paws, she actually can retrieve things from almost 12 inches into the counter. I wish Ceasar would do a show on this particular problem. Help!!!!

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