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Finding a Compatible Companion: The Battle for Eppie
Your dog's energy should be the same or slightly lower than yours. Before you adopt a dog, make sure the dog's energy is compatible with yours. Someone with a laid-back personality may not be well suited to a dog like a miniature pinscher, a breed known for its high energy. An athletic person who may want a running companion may not want to consider adopting the sleepy shitzu.
I feel that the dogs in my own pack have each in their own way taught me how to be a better man. There are times, however, when a person and a dog are simply not compatible. How do you know when to throw in the towel? I counsel my clients to work as hard as they possibly can on their leadership skills, their calm-assertive energy, and on mastering the walk with their dog. This needs to happen every day, for a minimum of two months. If after all that time of honest hard work, they truly cannot commit the time, energy, and discipline it takes to make the relationship work, then it may be time to think about finding a more suitable owner for that dog.
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I can always tell when Cesar is saying something I need to hear because I end up swallowing my teeth - g.
What jumped out was "make the relationship work". Ill bet most people will flinch at the minimum time involved. This last weekend my friends who foster a german shepard rescue for a group went to an interview with a woman who wanted to adopt Lady. Now Lady has severe health problems that will cost thousands of dollars to correct.
The adopting parent laid the money on the table "whatever it takes", she says. AND
the two german shephards she already has, who were brought to see how they would get along with Lady were absolutely out of control. The rescue organization gave the money back and said - "get your dogs under control and then we will talk.".
God bless all of you who work with Rescue who have the courage to take those steps.
Yet, holding the mirror up for our other human relationships, how many of our primary relationships are just put on the shelf after a few months, to run on auto pilot.
Steve came home yesterday and within thirty seconds, responded to Signal Bears desire to play enough that Signal was all wound up. I dug my heells in and told him. "before you take off your clothes, you step outside and throw that squeeker for him for 5 minutes - just 5 MINUTES!!!
When they came back in, Signal was absolutely back in calm mode. But the shocker for me, was so was Steve. In just moments, Steve had discharged all the crap, energy he brought in from work and his 45 minute commute. It was the most peaceful, enjoyable, sharing weekeday evening I can remember having in a long time. All because I took Cesar's techniques and applied it to my primary relationship as well!
Attitude seems to be a factor as well. If I see it as "work", it becomes a snarling dynamic, grudgingly done - no different then Signal pulling back on the leash cause "he doesnt wanna!!!" If it is seen as just one more ingredient, like baking a cake, then the process becomes an envoyable event to be savored!
CJ,
Well said! :)
I'm not sure who made me "swollow my own teeth" more, you or Cesar.
I hope the person who wanted Lady was forced to look at her own relationship with her dogs...if only more would.
But, with Cesar and replies like yours, maybe some progress is being made in the lives of dogs as well as people? We can hope.
Hi CJ,
Thank you for that wonderful blog!
I just love this site. It's sooooo cool to be able to chat with other dog lovers that are willing to put in the REAL time it takes to care for these lovely animals.
And your welcome for the rescue comment. I work with a rescue group and I am a very serious and commited person.
I have a interview tomorrow with a family that wants one of our dogs and I have a whole file, 4 pages of topics and concerns to discuss with them.
One of the things I do discuss with any family wishing to adopt is "do you watch The Dog Whisperer?" And then I ask them how they feel about the show? And I'll be recommending Cesar's book, along with my usual library of books that I insist they read BEFORE any dog is placed. All available at any local library. If a family isn't even willing to read a few free books, do I really think they will invest the time and everything else that really goes into rescue dogs in a responsible manner? Hmmmmmm?
I was really happy to hear that before they brought another dog into that particular house they took a look at the other dogs and how the behavior was with both the family and the dogs!
Your friends deserve a pat on the back. :) And you do too for making the positive changes! Isn't it wonderful to see and feel the diffrence?
I agree with Sarah. Progress is being made! Yeah! Yeah!
I run a rescue that mostly deals with large breeds and "pitbull" type dogs. One of the things that I see all too often is people choosing dogs for the wrong reasons. I wish people would look for a dog based on personality and compatabilty into thier situation, not based on size or breed. Everyone wants puppies, I have been doing this long enough and I know that I personally will never adopt another puppy. They are just too much work. People think that they want to get a puppy so they can "train" it, well have you ever had dog? Do you even know what to do? Everyone seems to know how to train dogs, the best analogy I have for that is "just because you own a car it doesn't make you a mecanic." I wish more people would be more open minded when looking to bring a dog into thier lives. Their are so many great dogs out there that need homes they many not be puppies or pure breeds, but they have a lot to offer. Personality, personality, personality and comapatabilty are the most important things when looking for a dog, not well my friend had a lab and it was a good dog so that would be a good dog for me.
One more note, when I am walking my "pitbull" type dogs at the park people are always so suprised how well behaved they are. I don't get why people are so shocked to see a well mannered pitbull. I would be more shock to see a well mannered chihuahua.
Yes, VERY good post, CJ! :)
"Everyone wants puppies, I have been doing this long enough and I know that I personally will never adopt another puppy. They are just too much work."
Ok, this one tickled my funny bone! Because *I* very much prefer puppies...because I can train them in very little time. I don't take adults, especially rescue dogs, because I am gone from home for too many hours a day and have too many dogs now to give to a "problem" dog the amoutn of attention and training they will need.
And that, too, goes along with choosing the right breed...knowing what you can and can't handle.
Dear Cesar:
We have adopted a Male White American Eskimo - "Sammy"
he is a big Marshmellow and is very loving towards the family. He had many "issues" when we adopted him 1 year ago. He had no socialization skills and would snap at people. We thought that he had overcome things, but recently he has started doing this again, including with me. I am afraid that he will just nipp at any quest to the house. Is there something that you can suggest. When I take him out for a walk, he spins, he attacks anyone that even comes by me.. HELP!!!! I watch your show every friday, have bought your book, but I MUST BE DOING SOMETHING WRONG.
Thanks
Darlene
Doggone- not all dogs that end up at the shelter are "problem" dogs. One of the main reasons dogs end up at shelters is people are moving. I am glad that you can be a good puppy owner,a lot of people just don't realize how much work you really need to put into a new pup.
Dear Cesar,
I have 1 year old Pit Bull "Cujo",he is the sweetest dog in the world. I had some obedience training done when he was a puppy and he learned a lot. He was crated for about 8 hours until I get home from work and he was doing really great. I never had problems with him in anything. Well, that changed recently after I moved to my parent house. Now I have all kinds of problems that I never experienced before with him. He chews everything to pieces when he gets placed in the crate, wheter it's plastic bottom, blankets, even the cage metal wire which he injured his mouth by chewing on it. since I moved to my parent house I replaced two cages. He was crated for a year and I never had problem with him chewing on his blankets or destroying the crate. Also, recently he started jumping on people, and also went potty inside the house which I never had a problem before. I can't understand the sudden behavior change. Every day for past month, he did something out of his character and it's just getting worse. Please any suggestions would be helpful!!!
Hi Heather,
I guess my chi and I would surprise you...he's very well mannered, but then I employ Cesar's techniques. :)
Sarah- Cesar's techniques make everything easier I love turning people on to his ideas. They have all become as hooked as me. Good luck with your baby it sounds like you are on the right track.
Denis, Check out the post "Home Sweet (New) Home." It sounds like the problems you're describing might have been caused by your move. He also might be bored during the day or has developed some separation anxiety. YOu might want to try using a kong stuffed with peanut butter, cream cheese, hot dogs -- any kind of treats that he'd have to work at getting out. Try giving it to him before you leave in the morning. His mind will be so occupied by they yummy food, he won't notice you're gone for a while. He might also start associating you leaving with treats.
Discipline boundaries and limitations,,,, when I think about it I need to picture them when it comes to dogs,,,, I would love to hear from you, how you apply this phylosophy to your own dogs,,, I really need examples and what works for you, and how the dogs respond to such lifestyle, because it is a lifestyle, it is a style of life where you are discipline your dog, having boundaries and limitations,,, so I hope I can get answers and lots of positive experiences, thanks.
"Doggone- not all dogs that end up at the shelter are “problem” dogs. One of the main reasons dogs end up at shelters is people are moving. I am glad that you can be a good puppy owner,a lot of people just don’t realize how much work you really need to put into a new pup. "
Oh sure, I realize that...but with 10 dogs already and no way of knowing exactly what kind of habits or training a rescue dog has...I would have to assume, until proven otherwise, that it DID have issues.
But after 25 years of raising puppies...THAT comes naturally!
Completely off-topic here -- Cesar was supposed to be on
ABC's "The View" this morning. I DVR'd the show, and the
description says he is one of the guests, but I watched
the whole show and he was not on. The hosts didn't
mention anything. Anybody know anything? I saw a list
of TV shows he is going to be on someplace, but I just
searched the web and now I can't find that list (that's
where I saw The View appearance listed for April 11th).
I never thought about energy level compatability, my dogs, 2 italian greyhounds certainly have more energy than I have. One of them is eating my couch.!!!!
They both run alot and have a huge yard to run in, do I still need to take them for a walk?
Cesar,
I have a 7 yr old shitzu that I adopted from a lady who had found the dog. Since no one was responding to her flyers to find the dogs owner, she started looking for a home for the dog. I went to visit Beauregard and it was love at first site. Beau is a very friendly, loving dog. However, I work all day, approximately 9 hours that I am away from my home, I never know what I will find when I get home. From the type of damage that Beau has done to my home, it is like he is trying to escape. I am very good to this dog.
When I get home he watches every move I make and follows. I give him lots of lovies, and pet him alot. He seems perfectly content when I am there, but when left alone it is demolition time. What is up with my little Beauregard? I mean, he has chewed the door and window trim, treatments, the carpet in front of both doors. Today I was just beside myself when I came home he had chew the grids between the window panes, loosened the glass, and it is broken all over the floor along with the chewed up window grids. He was sitting out on the deck waiting for me to get home and let him back in. I believe my dog may need doggy prosac. I am at my wits end and I love this dog. Please help. I am having new doors and windows put in my house to make my home more energy effienct, and this is a big expense that I hope I do not regret due to my dogs behavior. I am having a doggie door put in the new back door at the factory. I sure hope this ends the problem. My back yard is fenced in, but he has dug under it before. Anyone have any ideas to help my dog settle down?
I agree with the comment made. You have to metch the energy!
I have a border collie (my second one) and I would not want just anyone to own a dog like this. The dog has needs that go well beyond affection.
My dog is 1 year old, I'm 46. He has to think everyday just to catch up with me. He is cute though even when he trips over his feet!
Beau,
Start with mastering the walk with your dog. I hope you've got his book and DVD to learn the importance of walking him and the correct technique.
Cesar says a house is a crate, just a large and nice crate. Your dog needs to be walked at least 45min everyday.
Digging says he's probably very bored and exercising him with the proper walk will help.
Giving affection at the wrong time will add to his problems. Cesar says; 1. exercise 2. discipline 3. THEN affection.
Good luck and please get the tools that Cesar has provided to learn how best to deal with your dog's behavior.
Reading the blogs here will also help.
Sarah,
Thank you for your comments. However, I have tried the crate upon my veternarian suggestion. Beau, pulled on the wire door so virgoreously that he bent the doors latching prongs and now it can not be latched. I used to walk him everyday, but stopped when the weather got so bad. I will start again since it is nice again.
Where can I find Cesar's book and DVD? I need it many window blinds ago.
At this point I am very open to suggestions.
Konnie,
The answer is YES!! You must "master the walk" -- the
dog needs a structured walk every day for exercise
and discipline. Play is part of affection, it is not
considered part of exercise. Well before I ever heard of
Cesar Millan, I learned that all dogs must be walked to
burn off excess energy, such as that which is making
your dog eat furniture. 45 minutes a day, minimum.
I walk mine 45 minutes, twice a day, and sometimes that
is still not enough. Dogs were meant to walk. That's
why, if you see a stray dog, he/she is almost always
walking for many hours of each day. Playing in the
yard is another way to burn off energy, but it cannot
replace the walk, which inherently includes the
leadership factor that many humans are not providing if they just let the dog play in the yard. Part of the walk
is establishing yourself as the leader of the pack.
Read Cesar's book, and watch the Dog Whisperer TV show.
The book is fantastic. As soon as I started reading it,
everything just CLICKED in my head -- and I started using
the techniques right away, and the difference is truly
amazing (in ME, not the dogs LOL).
I see I'm repeating what Sarah said to Beau -- I just
noticed that when I scrolled back up! But it is the
same answer for both Beau and Konnie. The dog must be
taken on a structured walk daily. It might help to seek
the help of a professional trainer, as well.
Beau-Booger, I just re-read your post more carefully.
If you can try to see the episode of the Dog Whisperer
where the dog was eating everything in the house. The
dog had to be operated on because it ate almost a whole
rug (like a scatter rug that you put in front of a door
to wipe feet on). Your dog can get hurt doing the things
he is doing. Is there anyone who can come by and walk
him when you are at work? Or, can you get up earlier
in the morning or come home earlier so you can get that
45 minutes walk in? He needs exercise, not prozac.
I work very, very long days too. But I am fortunate to
live only a few minutes from home, and I am allowed to
work at home quite often. If there's any way you can
get that walk in, either by yourself or someone to help
you, it will save your dog and your windows and doors!
My dog used to eat things if I left them on the floor,
but he'd never eat windows or doors or furniture. He
eventually outgrew the obsession, and I'm sure it's because
of all the time I spend with him, especially our long walks. Having a dog is a commitment just like any
relationship. My last dog lived to be 18 years old.
I knew her longer than most people in my life when she passed! And she was the best friend I ever had. Please
don't let anything bad happen to your dog. Get some
professional assistance, and try to walk that dog. Good
luck, keep us informed!!
I had a malamute that was a very poor match to my energy level and experience with dogs. She was 5 months old when I got her & had lived in 4 homes. She was not an agressive dog, but one of her people had encouraged play biting, which made me nervous. Everyone told me, including my vet, that I should give her up. I couldn't. I tried to decrease the destructiveness with long walks everyday & lots of obedience classes. She became a wonderful dog & lived till she was 14 and a half. I really miss her.
I posted this under a previous topic that it made more sense with, but I don't know if as many people will see it since it is not on the main page so I decided to try it here as well.
I would really appreciate some advice from anyone who can give it. I rescued an Italian Greyhound/chihuahua mix about a year and a half ago. His name is Gatsby and I was very lucky with him. He was about 3 or 4 when I got him, already housebroken and very well behaved. Three months ago my husband and I decided to get another dog to keep him company. We got an Italian Greyhound puppy and we named her Sasha (she is 6 months old now). We are having two problems with Sasha. First, she is very jealous. When we call Gatsby Sasha jumps on him and bites him in order to prevent him from getting to us. We try to keep calling him, but he gets so nervous that he usually just goes somewhere else and lies down. Now if I call Gatsby and Sasha is in the room Gatsby doesn’t even get up, he just gives me a nervous look. Does anyone have any ideas on how to stop the jealousy Sasha is exhibiting? I have tried telling her no and pushing her away and I have tried putting her in another room. I want Gatsby to know that he is still important even though there is a new dog in our house, but it is difficult when she does not let him get attention. The other problem we are having is with housebreaking. Sasha knows what she is supposed to do when she goes outside, but she gets so distracted by everything. Even the wind distracts her. I try to keep saying “go outside” to keep her on track, but it is only a couple of seconds before she is distracted again. Any advice is very welcome!
Are you crate training the new puppy? That puppy as well as your older dog need some time to relax and be calm. This will help with your other dog getting attention as well. Crate training will help with the potty training, and the jealousy.
When she is distracted, get her attention and wait till she goes, there is not much more you can do then wait.
Let me know if you have any more questions about this.
Julie
Hi Jenny,
It sounds like Sasha is in charge in your house. She decides who gets attention, and she is controlling both you and Gatsby. I would suggest walking the dogs together and making Sasha wait longer for everything. That will show her that you decide who gets attention/food/treats/anything and when. I'm sure the people here have lots of great advice for you. They have been a big help to me just from reading their advice to other peoples' experiences. Good luck with your dogs. Sasha is still young so she should respond quickly.
Kate
Hello- Can anyone advise me on how to housetrain a toy peek- a-poo ? She is now 10 weeks old, we've had her for 3 weeks. She still potty's in her cage. Both poos and urinates(especially overnight). Is she still too young to make it all night? I have her out every half hour to potty during the day and she will go. But, she has once or twice a week gone in the houseas well. I do not give her water in between feedings unless she hasn't had much water at mealtime. She definitely potty's (pees) every half hour or so. I can't believe how much she goes. The lady we bought her off of said to put her food in her cage at mealtime and let her eat in there. Put water outside to drink. Does this establish for her not to potty in her cage? Any advice is appreciated!!!!
Jenny, I notice you keep mentioning that you use vocal
commands to try to get Sasha to obey you. I urge everyone
who is on this blog, who hasn't done so alreay, to get
Cesar's book. Cesar writes about using the energy
between you and your animal as a "language." It is the entire basis of his methods. You do not have to use words. Many of us have talked about this in the blog in earlier postings, perhaps not realizing that this is what we should be taking hold of and using to get our dogs to see us as their leader. You don't have to use words, you just use your internal feelings and project your energy in such a way that the animal instictually knows you are boss. I am telling you, it works like MAGIC. Poof!! Cesar uses the Doctor Doolittle story as his analogy. That's the guy who could "talk to the animals." As soon as I read that, something clicked in my head! I have been posting back and forth with a couple other bloggers about how sometimes the dogs can just sense what I want them to do. I sooo "get it" now!! That's what I'm SUPPOSED TO
be doing!
Cesar also suggests if you already practice a discipline in your life like yoga, dance, martial arts (he used judo himself) then you should incorporate the things you learn in those disciplines during your dog training. Since I take yoga classes, I have also been using the breathing methods and making sure my shoulders are down and relaxed -- stuff like that -- while working with my dogs. I now tell myself throughout the day whenever I'm with my dogs -- "time to summon my inner Doctor Doolittle" !!!! It has changed my life with my dogs in ONE DAY. I cannot urge you enough to get this book, study the methods, and practice them. It works! (by the way, it works at my
office with my employees too!! LOL I don't have kids but
I'm thinkin' it'd work with them too!)
You do not have to use vocal commands. Dogs don't speak
to each other using words. They use body language and
energy. If you are to become their pack leader, you have
to act like them.
Cesar developed these methods naturally from observing
and being with the dogs on the farm where he grew up in
Mexico. He describes this perfectly in the book that
dogs in Mexico (and other countries) are not "pets" like they are in the U.S. They're just dogs. When I read this, I knew exactly what he was talking about because I have spent time in the Caribbean where dogs are as Cesar
described, too. The point of this is, we in the U.S. are
one of the only countries in the world that treats its
animals like humans -- and we need to get back to basics.
We can love them at the same time -- in fact, I love them
more now that I understand them!
We have a cat and it meows at night and wakes us up. She is about 11 mounths old and spayed. Her name is Sweetpea. she looks like a siamayse. Her mother had her under our potable building and had a black brother and a gray sister. the black one we let go in a park that my unckle eats lunch at every week day and the gray one got pegnant so we had to give her up, her name was Marsha. Sweetpea and Marsha played a lot together untill we had to give Marsha up. Sweetpea has some friends that live around here. As I said she meows ALOT and we can't stop her. I know that you usally work with dogs but can you PLEASE help us?
Beau,
I'm sorry, I must not have been very clear. I wasn't suggesting your dog be put in a crate, but rather pointing out that the dog views the entire house as a crate. He's acting out in both house and actual crate.
You can order Cesar's DVD on his webstie: http://www.dogpsychologycenter.com/
His book is available in book stores and on Amazon.
Your boy needs exercise, this will burn off alot of his excess energy. Mastering the walk will go a long way in establishing you as the pack leader. Learning Cesar's techniques and understanding dog psychology will go a long way in creating a peacful household and a balanced dog.
Exercise and learning to become the pack leader will go a long way in solving these problems. It can be done, that's the good news.
I can't stress the importance of getting this boy out and walking enough.
A coule of tips on the walk; have your boy sit and wait at the door while you exit first. Use a short leash and keep him at your side or behind...never, never in front as you walk. When he acts up, give a short yank on the leash and say "shhh" or "no" and get his attention back on you, keep moving forward. But, if he becomes too unruly on the walk and the "shh" doesn't work at first, stop and have him sit and begin again.
You must be calm and assertive, dogs pick up on the energy we project.
When I had a shih tzu, I found the V harness to work better than a regular collar, because of her size.
Good luck...
Lori,
My cat meows all night, too. And sleeps all day. She
is 15 y/o. I've always figured there's nothing I can
do about it!! Cats are very independent animals, and
I've never been able to "train" them to do a whole lot
of anything (I used to live on a farm where there were
28 cats!). I haven't been able to figure out what the
meowing means. I thought maybe she was "complaining"
about the litter box if I didn't clean it or something...
but she does it in other rooms too, so that's not it.
Sorry I couldn't be much more help other than to say
you're not alone, it seems to be a common thing.
Julie, Kate, and K2,
Thanks for the advice. Julie, I am crating the new puppy and the dogs do relax just fine. They even like to relax together (well Sasha does, Gatsby tolerates it). Kate, I walk them together and I will try to make Sasha wait for things. I did see on another website for dog jealousy to give the dominant dog things first though in order to respect the order that the dogs have established. K2, I have also tried petting Gatsby while putting my back to Sasha to indicate that she is not to interfere at that time, but she pushes her way in and I move her away so it is not all vocal. I have never taken any of those things you mentioned (yoga, dance, or martial arts) so I am not sure how to project my energy in that way. I haven't been able to watch Cesar's show because we didn't have the channel, but we are getting it on Saturday so I am looking forward to seeing if watching it will help me. Thank you all for your advice I will try to use it as much as I can.
Hi Jenny,
When you bring a puppy into a household that has an established "older" dog, it can get quite frustrating for the existing dog because the puppy wants all the attention from you and the dog and Gatsby isn't too trilled having a 5 year old trust her affections on him. Crate training is an excellent idea. It should create a "den" effect for Shasha and never be used as punishment.
As far as bringing a new dog home to another dog. Unless you bring a rescue home, it is best to bring your dog to the rescue first for a meet and greet. It would be best if your dog could help select which dog it prefers. If that isn't possible, they should meet in neutral territory.
I would also suggest a baby gate to separate the dogs sometimes. The puppy is overwhelming Gatsby and and will continue to do so. Are the dogs separated when no one is home. If they aren't, you could come home to a bloodbath. The puppy may send Gatsby over the edge. I have 3 rescues, 1 puppy and 2 adults and it took several months before I let the puppy really socialize with the older dogs because of his puppy energy. They all get along well (although my 12 yr. old female really puts the puppy in his place and he doesn't test her).
Have you enrolled your pup in a puppy class? That really helps with training your baby girl and will help you gain control over her. Most pet stores, like Petco offer them on their property or ask your vet for a referral. The more training you can do for Shasa, the more Cesar's DVD and programs will help you.
Good Luck!
Beau,
I know you have an extreme case and I've been thinking about you and your dog, I know it must be so frustrating.
I was looking around on the net and found this quote from Cesar:
"The frustration, panic builds up and there's a lack of release for energy. ... When symptoms are ignored, the traits are brought out to the extreme."
"There's no such thing as a bad dog. Pit bulls are not bad. Personalities are created by humans; dogs are not born that way."
Sometimes the answer is as simple as giving an animal more exercise. At other times it's wise for owners to seek retraining.
"My way is not the only way," Milan said. "It's worked for 80 percent of people (on the show). The ones that don't, it's because they don't follow through or keep focused."
And do Millan's dogs always listen to him?
"Now I'm insulted," he said, bemused. "Of course they do."
I just thought hearing more of Cesar's beliefs and practices might encourage you and help.
Best wishes.
Karen,
Congratuations on getting your puppy. Are you aware that puppys do have to go potty every 1 or 2 hours at first. Wnen I got my puppy, also at 10 weeks, I put his crate on the bed with me and kind of slept with one eye open. If I heard any fussing, I took him out, to same place everyday. I used a halter and leash for him because he was so small and everytime he did his business, I praised him and gave him a cookie. Your puppy is not being walked enough if she is doing her business inside her cage or the cage is too big for her. Dogs do not poop or pee where they eat. That is an an instinct thing. If she is in a larger pen or crate, resize it so she can just have her bed or whatever she sleeps on and her bowl and just enough room to stand up and turn around comfortably. With too much room, she doesn't know where the boundry is. After eating, she should be walked 30 minutes after. Also, she needs to go out right after a nap. If she is in a larger area, put wee wee pads down. They are plastic backed sheets that attracts dogs and they actully go potty on them. Afterwards, just throw them away. You might try using a couple, then gradually eliminate the area where she can go.
The rule of thumb is pups can hold it 1 hour per month old - 1 month, 1 hour - 3 months, 3 hours, etc.
Bottom line, read or view all the informaton you can, besides The Dog Whisperer because you never know what will work for you. Any tools you use will be helpful at some point in your puppy's training.
Good luck!
Doggone/GA.....Yet another question from me!lol
I am having a hard time getting Roman to not be such a spaz when someone comes to the door and he finally gets to greet them. He has an invisible line he is not allowed to cross until I say okay and then he rushes over to greet the new guest.
He LOVES company!lololol However...is there a way to start teaching him to relax and not be so darn excited at greeting them???? I watch him like a hawk and am having to CONSTANTLY make sure he does not jump up or will finally force him to go away or he will go away by himself, but comes right back with a toy in his mouth for the new person.lol
I love that he loves new people, but I would like him to learn polite greetings maybe???lol
Any suggestions???? Thanks!!! :) KathyB
Good Day KathyB,
Roman sounds like a loverboy all right but he might be feeding off your anxiety of him being respectful of your invisible line. Dogs are not perfect but they come pretty darn close and the sight of your pup with a toy in his mouth must be very cute. He should be kept on a leash so you can correct him when he gets overly stimulated. And, remember what Cesar says (you should advise your guests), no touch, no talk, no eye contact. They should be able to get inside your house before Roman goes "spaz" on them. It's a very good thing your big boy is such a sweet boy too.:)
Hiya Cockers x 3!!!
Yes my poor guests/Roman love victims (hahahaa) are not spazed out on until I tell him ok/free. BUT he still is so happy that he cannot wait till he can get to them!lol
I have a client/friend coming to the house at 3pm, so I have put on Roman's older check chain (not as much room as his new one, so he can't walk around and put it in his mouth) and will put his leash on right before I know my guests will be here so I can try what you suggest!!!
I agree and all my guests know the rules when they walk through the door....I am thinking that I may start telling my guests to do what Cesar does and that is being calm but letting Roman know that a certain "space" is theirs?
The client who happens to be coming over today is afraid of dogs, so this should be interesting!hahahahaa
Hi Karen!
May I also suggest....potty training has been pretty easy for me whenever I had a puppy.
What I did when I had a puppy is I would time it and every 30 minutes (if they are awake) I would make the puppy (if a bigger dog like a pitt, rott, husky, etc.) follow me out the door. Smaller puppies (toy poodles, etc.) I would carry to the door and then put them down and make them walk out the door. I would not say a word to them until they did their business, then I would praise them IMMEDIATLY as that's when they start to put two and two together the more you do it.
If the puppy is sleeping and wakes up I immediatly do what I mentioned above....if they are up playing and are awake I time it and every 30 minutes I did what I mentioned above.
Good Luck and have a BLAST with your new family member!!!! :)
Has anyone seen if there has been a Dog Whisperer episode that works with special-needs dogs? In particular blind dogs? I have a blind 2-ish (maybe) year old yorkie mix, supposedly blind from birth. For the most part, he's doing sooo much better behaviorally than he was when I first got him 18 months ago, but he still has a vew issues to work out and I'm always interested in knowing the best way to handle working with him in general.
Deanne,
I don't believe Cesar has done an episode on special need dogs, but that would be very interesting.
If you go to his website and email making a request, he may just be interested enough to do one. Can't hurt to ask.
Good luck with your sweetie.
Thank you all for you help. I will try to use all of your suggestions. I have one more question that I would love help with. Sasha (the 6 month old Italian Greyhound) is crated at night. We have only done this for about a week so far because my husband trained a puppy in the past who turned out well so I thought he was an expert. He said that we should keep the puppy in our bed so that we can tell when she gets up and needs to go out. I got tired of that and started looking at this website and decided that I needed to tell Sasha where to sleep and that it would be in her crate. She can hold her poop for twelve hours during the day (not because we don't take her out, but because she just has times where she won't poop for 12 hours). However, when she is in her crate at night she poops twice a night. Usually we are sleeping and we wake up to the smell. I then have to get up and clean it and put her back in. I have heard from many sources that dogs do not do things because they are mad at their people so it must not be that. I just don't understand why she can decide not to poop for so long during the day, but at night suddenly she has to go twice. We do take her out right before we go to bed and if I wake up and hear her moving around I take her then too. Does anyone have any idea why she is doing this? I thought she might think that I will let her out if she messes up her cage, but I never do. I always clean it and put her right back in. Can someone help me get a good night's sleep?? :)
Jenny,
Talk to your vet. I can't believe a puppy can hold her poop for 12 hours only to eliminate in her crate at night. You should check to make sure nothing else is going on with her, medically.
Italian Greyhounds are such lovely dogs but are very sensitive to things. As I posted earlier, if you can place her crate on the bed so she can see you or know you are nearby, it might help. This is just temporary until she settles down in her crate at night.
Please have her checked out at your vet as well.
Cockers x 3 and Kathy B.
Thanks for the advice! I think her crate may be a little big for her. I'll try a smaller one. Also, I'll try not speaking to her before she does her business, then praise immediate. Hopefully, soon, she'll make it longer than 1/2 hour between outside pottys. I'll let you know!
Cockers x 3,
Thanks I will have her checked. She did fine when she was sleeping in bed with us and could go through the whole night. Maybe she is just nervous about being in the crate right now.
Jenny, it could be just nerves that is causing her to
eliminate in her crate overnight. I've never used crates,
so I have no experience with that. I used a baby gate,
keeping the dog in the kitchen and put newspapers on
the floor -- yup, like the olden days! LOL.
I have a major problem on my hands. I am new to this site and hope that I will find the help that I need here. I have a 7 yr old lab/chow mix named Jack. I got him from the humane society when he was 4 months old. Without giving every detail, he was socialized from the get go and always got along well with other dogs (ie. entered doggie daycare without hesitation/aggression). A few years ago, he was attacked by a pitt bull (the other dog was off of a leash). Thankfully he "won" and was not injured. I was super nervous walking him in my neighborhood after this event. I had NO idea the longterm effects that this attack may have on my dog. In short, Jack is now agressive towards new dogs. I can't take him to the dog park, I can't let him approach another dog on a leash (he is super aggressive toward them). THe kicker is that he gets along really well with the dogs he has known for a long time. I now live in another state and there is not one dog that he can play with. I do not trust him to play nice. PLEASE give me any suggestions to get started. I hired a dog trainer here (I am limited with choices here b/c I live on Maui) and she basically 'gave up' and said that his genetic package and the attack have made him defensive. I refuse to give up on my dog! Thank you for your help!!
We adopted a collie/german shepherd cross 3 weeks ago from a reputable sanctuary.She has a severe traffic phobia so street walking is traumatic and dangerous.Shes about a year old and is actually at the vet today being spayed.We are now wondering whether any classes can help to overcome this fear once shes over her op as we are beginning to think the basics of walking our dog may never be achieved!She is a good house dog and is settled when left.She receives visitors quite well and loves travelling by car.
Good Morning Susie Claire!
I am not one of the "pros" here, but by your post could it be that you may be projecting your nervousness onto the dog?? They feel our emotions....excitment, frustration, tension, etc. Maybe also he/she could be the "pack leader" or thinks he needs to protect YOU and is acting that way because of it? Just some thoughts to throw out there to think about!
I know if I am frustrated or having a bad day...my walk with Roman is frustrating or nightmarish UNTIL I finally acknowledge what I'm carrying around emotionallly, let it go and continue on with the walk and BAM all is fine. Good Luck & I am sure you will get alot of great help here!!! KathyB
Good Morning Karen!
Hope your having a blast with your new puppy! :)
Something some people don't know....a friend of mine, a long time ago got a new puppy and could not figure out why in the world he was peeing every 15 minutes...she took him to the vet and SOME puppies have this virus or "bug" in their urinary tract/intestines and after some meds he was fine!!!!
I agree with everyone who has suggested taking your new little one to have a check up and let them know about the potty thing! Have fun......I LOVE PUPPIES!lololol KathyB
In reference to numerous comments I've read on this blog about allowing one dog in your pack to be dominant over another, where is this information? I would like to read more about it.
It seems to me that Cesar rewards the dog that is most calm-submissive, and not dominant. And another example was making the dominant Katrina dog (the Akita mix) wait the longest to join his pack.
I try to make my dominant dog wait the longest, so that it is reinforced even more so that I am the leader. However, if the dominant dog is calm-submissive and my other dog isn't, I reward the dominant dog. How does everyone else handle this kind of situation? Thanks for the input in advance!
Thanks, Kathy! The lady we bought her from did mention to me about her possibly having a urinary tract infection. I have an appt for her in the next 2 weeks. However, maybe I should reschedule for an earlier appt. and have this checked out!
Good Morning Kate G:
When there is a pack mentality in the household, you do not determine which dog is the dominat one, they do. Once you observe the behavior of your dogs, the ones that submit (roll over and expose their belly), then you can assert your role as pack leader and choose who eats first by watching their behavior at feeding time. If your dominat one is also calm, he/she will eat first. If your dominant one fusses or acts out, he eats last. You must watch your dogs and how they relate to each other to determine the roles they play. It is very interesting and you will learn a lot about dog behavior and this will help you in the outside world because you will know your own dog's behavior - you just have to keep an eye on that other dog, and how that owner relates to their dog.
Keeping your dog(s) safe is the main thing.
I want to thank everyone for all of your help and I thought I would give you an update. I took Sasha out last night at about 11:30 and she pooped before bed. I removed the crate from our bedroom and put it in the living room (I did this two nights ago because we couldn't sleep with all of her fussing). And she made it all the way until 6:30 in the morning when I took her out again without going in her crate! Yea!! I am wondering if she knew that since I wasn't in the room to see her mess that she would have to lay with it for a long time. Maybe that helped her decide to hold it. Anyway, for now removing the crate from our bedroom seemed to help. We will see what happens tonight. I also took the other dog's bed and put it in the living room so that Sasha didn't feel like she was being "banished" and that the other dog was above her.
Kate G,
Was my comment one that you were referring to about giving the most dominant dog things first? I read that on some website when I was trying to get help with Sasha's jealousy. It might not have been reputable, I just google searched "dog jealousy". I am sure whatever way Cesar does it is right and will work just fine.
Jenny,
Yours as well as others I have heard say the same thing. The other times were referring to Cesar's pack, however. It was mentioned that the french bulldog was the most dominant dog in the pack. Thanks for all the input!:)
Kate
Viv, I truly believe that you can train any dog, at any
age, "the walk." But you have to be 100% committed to
learning and mastering the walk. I see that you mention
that she rides well in the car and greets visitors well.
That is really good, but dogs are meant to walk, and
riding in the car is sort of un-natural to them as far
as nature goes. If you can try to get your hands on the
episode of the Dog Whisperer where Cesar helps acclimate
the young Viszla to city life after he moved to the city
from the country with his owner. That dog was afraid of
everything in the city, and the owner was unable to walk
him. Cesar had a lot of really great ways of helping the
dog overcome its fear.
Another really great episode was the one with the Standard
Poodle who spun around in circles every time a car came
by, strangling herself on the choke collar and putting
herself and her owner and the car drivers in great danger.
Try to see both of these episodes. I think they will be
on the Season 1 DVD that comes out at the end of May.
One of them may be from Season 2, however, and those will
be being run in repeats over the summer (I think!)
Susie Claire said: "I was super nervous walking him in my neighborhood after this event. "
Viv AND Susie Claire: I suggest that you both may be
projecting your own nervousness to each of your dogs.
Remember that Cesar teaches humans that dogs live in
the moment, and dogs do not anticipate what the traffic
is going to be like before he leaves his house, or whether
that pit bull or another dog is going to be around the
corner. But we humans do, and I have learned from Cesar's
show and book that I need to stop thinking about that
stuff ahead of time. I was literally immobilized for
almost two years because of thinking about what "might"
be outside prior to leaving the house for my walks with
my dogs. It has been really, really difficult to re-train
MYSELF (LOL!) to stop projecting about what's going to
happen. It has taken months of practice, and I still
messed up last night and got dragged down on the ground!
The dogs definitely pick up on that energy, just with you
THINKING and imagining bad stuff might happen. I speak
from my own experience. If I so much as think there might
be a dog up ahead, my dogs both perk up ears up, tails up,
looking left and right and forward, pulling me. And all
I did was think about the possibility. It is not easy
to rid yourself of that, but it will help if you can do it.
I'm up to about 70% of the time. Pretty good for a stupid
human (LOL!)
I think mastering the walk will actually help you both.
Watch Cesar's show as much as you can so you see the
techniques. Seek professional assistance if you think
you have to.
Good luck! Thanks for sharing and keep us updated!
Thank you for your posts. I am definitely projecting my nervousness on my dog while we are walking. I have a hard time NOT being nervous when I have seen my dog attack a small dog (literally thrashing him about, shaking his head) which he did months after he was attacked and on the same street! I would love to seek professional help, but I am very limited with where I live. The only dog trainer that I know of is the one I referenced in my earlier post that basically gave up on us. (I live in Hawaii on a pretty small island). I am going to buy Cesar's book tonight and get reading. I don't have the NG channel so I've never seen his show (just clips online). I have a lot to learn I know. I am really fascinated by his approach. Thanks again.
Thankyou for the reassurance and advice.Its quite a relief to know its our behaviour causing problems because I knew deep down we've got a great dog here! We also don't have National Geographic but found the site here by chance.I'm going to have to get Cesar's book.I know our dog has been generally more responsive when I take control of my own reactions!She was very aggressive towards other dogs in the vet's waiting room yesterday morning when I took her to be spayed.On collecting her in the afternoon I told my husband about what I'd read and seen on this site and suggested we receive her back without emotion and unnecessary words.As so many of your posts have stated- we must remember that dogs live in the moment!I plan to learn from that!
Hi Susie Claire & Viv, What a drag that you don't have the NG channel -- the show has given me my life back. I was
quite positively paralyzed by fear, and in a lot of
physical pain because my dogs kept dragging me down
on the ground on our walks. Prior to their adolescence
and now adulthood, our walks were the highlight of my
day because I have a very stressful job and I used the
walks to burn off my stress. Once I became so afraid I
would get more injuries (and other dog owners angry
at me when my dogs got away from me) I shortened our
walks to only what was absolutely necessary. After
watching Cesar's show, and remembering that the things
he teaches were exactly what I did with my previous dog,
I was able to get back out there. One thing Cesar has
recommended on the show is you just have to go out there
and do it. You have to walk right into the situation
that you fear the most (of course if your dog is near
red-zone behavior, then don't put you or your dog or anyone else in danger Be sensible.) But as far as getting out there & doing it I think that's true in a lot of
things in life (not to get philosophical but...) "the
only way out, is through". I have still not been able to
exit what I call our "safety zone" -- the neighborhood
block which is a 40-minute walk. When they were younger
we used to walk everywhere in town for hours, especially
on weekends. So, I'm still a bit immobilized but I
figured out what Cesar means by "mastering" the walk --
and mastering anything takes lots of practice so we've
been practicing as much as possible! LOL! I'll know
when and if I'm ready to go further.
If you can get the season 1 DVD set, it comes out in
May. I pre-ordered mine online so it will be delivered
the week it comes out. I have learned so much from Cesar it will be great to be able to watch the episodes as many times as I want. Think of it as a special present to yourself!
Ask your cable company to add NG channel. They may do it
if demand is high enough.
I have my own petcare and dog walking service,threw word of mouth have gotten to be the one to call if you have a large breed, not very well trained, shy, agressive, or unruly puppy or dog.I've had much success in dealing with most problem dogs,but have 2 dogs from the same household with 2 very different problems.Otis and Ashley are Rotties and from the same litter with very different personalities, they are now just 2 years old. I've taken care of them since they were 14 weeks and are well socialized and happy dogs. The problem came about with Otis when he was about 18 months, he now thinks men standing still are challenging him or are some sort of threat and will lunge at them.After putting him into a SIT! I have enlisted some brave souls to walkup to him, let him sniff, pet him and then give him a cookie.I'm figuring this way he will realize men standing still can be good things. He will then be fine with that person and actually greet him the next time we meet, but the next stranger will get lunged at.Is this the correct way to go about this? He is actually a very friendly and lovable dog with everyone who is just going about their buisness, it is just men standing still looking at him!! I can't tell men to keep moving and don't stare, so I have to deal with him! Got any hints? His sister Ashley on the otherhand believes it is her job to rid the world of birds and squirrels. I have never worked with a dog that is so fixated on a bird that she will bark, cry and try to climb the tree to get to it! At this point she will not respond to her name, come, sit, a bump from my leg, a tug on her leash, and I even tried the wimpy way out and mentioned the "cookie" word, to no avail. Is there something I am missing as a way to get her attention? They have always walked wonderfully, but now she has gotten so bad with this it is impossible to take them for a walk in the park without her pulling me, so the walk just becomes miserable for all involved. Any clues? I need some help!
Deborah,
The behaviors you describe (obsession with the squirrels,
trying to climb the tree, not listening to you when this
is going on, and the other one with the men standing
still) are the type of problems Cesar addresses in
his book which made me realize that my dogs were
APPROACHING red-zone behavior if I didn't do something
to change their obsessions. My dogs' obsessions are
different from yours, but similar. Any time a dog fixates
on something, it shows that the dog is unbalanced. Right
now, your dogs' behavior (and mine too) is not all that
much of a problem. However, if left untreated, they
may become more unbalanced and could turn into bigger
problems. As with every bad behavior, Cesar recommends
mastering the walk, and walking "the walk" as long as
possible every day. As soon as I read about it in the
book, yet another lightbulb went off in my head, and I
realized that my dogs were heading for trouble in the
future if I don't put an end to this. I started right
away the next morning after reading that chapter, and I
haven't let up. I am back up to walking them twice a
day for 45 minutes each walk. That is what I used to
do, until I got injured and had to reduce our walks
considerably. The walk (as long as possible, and mastered
in the way Cesar demonstrates) will result in making
the dogs more balanced. It's worth a try! I urge you
to get Cesar's book and watch the show. I learn something
new every episode. Tonight I found myself nodding my
head about 40 times during the show "Yes, yes, yes! I
get it!!" LOL
Sorry Deborah, I didn't realize these are your clients'
dogs -- wonder if the clients are walking them ever other
than having you do it ?????
i just have to say thanks, i own three 70+lb dogs and they are all pretty good dogs,but a few months back my dog's killed another smaller dog that wandered onto my property and ever since then i have been apprehensive when they get around other dogs. since discovering your show my mind has been opened to a whole new way of seeing my dogs. i've only seen seven or eight episodes, but i have learned something new in every one.keep up the great work you are an inspiration to dog lovers everywhere. i am learning to trust my dogs more and utilize better techniquies to control them thanks to you.
greg in florida
Hi Cesar,
I have the most beautiful dog, inside and out. She is the perfect companion. I have tried to use all the great information from your programs but the problem we have with Lexy is her seperation anxiety when we leave. She spins, jumps on blinds and is very distressed. I would love to have you visit but if that is not possible can you give me some advise? I think what you do is incredible!
Best regards.
Brenda Thomas
Bakersfield, CA
hi:
i really need help,i bought a shih tzu from a kennel,her name is barbie and she has 1 years old but i have a big problem every time i call her she lay on the floor and make pipi and sometimes poo too.one time i carry her in my hands and she make pipi all over me.what can i do i can't talk and when i walk her she walk with her tail between her legs and never goes.and when i call her she never come neither, how can i train her i'm loosing my patience.when she is with my husband her behavior is totally diferent.please help!!!thanks in advance.
Hi! I own a 7 yr.old chihuahua/rat terrier. I adopted her 5 1/2 yrs ago.The one problem I have had all this time is that when I put on a collar, just around the house, she lays her head down, drags her head & remains on the bed, floor, wherever & won't move. If I put a leash on, then there is no problem. I have kept the collar on for hours & even 1day onto next. She will not eat or go outside. She holds it until I remove the collar. When we walk, she takes her halter just fine, as long as a leash is attached, but once removed, down goes her (P-Nut) head. I feel like she feels she is being punished by putting on her neck collar. License wise, she doesn't wear one around the house nor the yard. I am always concerned she may one day get lost & won't have any I.D. because of her "PHOBIA". WHAT TO DO???? I have no way of knowing if this may having something to do with her 1st parents treatment.
Ada,
How 'bout getting a microchip implanted? At least then
she'd be identifiable if she ever got lost.
"The one problem I have had all this time is that when I put on a collar, just around the house, she lays her head down, drags her head & remains on the bed, floor, wherever & won’t move"
Try this: whenever you take her for a walk (with collar & leash) put *2* collars on her. Make sure the 2nd one is very light weight - even just a piece of string tied so that it can't choke her. When you come home, take off her regular collar, but leave on the 2nd one.
If she tolerates that (basically, if she doesn't notice it) keep doing that and gradually over the next few weeks, increase the weight of the 2nd collar - you could try string beads on it, one at a time, for instance.
When the weight of both collars is about that same and she seems find wearing the 2nd collar, then start taking THAT one off and leave on her regular collar.
Lori
I have three cats. I feel that maybe your cat is bored at night not knowing what to do with itself. I've heard of someone making a cat play area- obsticle coarse-with things to climb up on or dangling toys. Cats are intelligent creatures and if they are not outside /inside cats you have to provide some sort of stimulli. My cats are let out during the warmer months of the year and kept in during the fridged weather(minnesota burrr). They meow and complain for a few weeks but finally get over it and start entertaining each other at night. So my point is that maybe the cat is bored. I,ve had cats for 10 years and I'm learning more just being around them.
A runner's worst fear, a dog, can also be a runner's best training partner. A K9 running partner offers many benefits for a runner. A dog adds a sense of security. A dog is always ready and willing to run. A dog never criticizes your running form. A dog does not chatter on about personal problems. A dog does not mind running the same boring route every day. A dog does not complain if you spontaneously change your daily route.
Here are some common sense guidelines for selecting a K9 running partner: http://shepherdguide.blogspot.com/
I was wondering....if a dog gets bores walking the same rout every day?
I was very pleased to see Michael's post that a dog does
not mind running the same boring route every day. So, I
figured it applied to walking, too. I've been feeling
really bad because I keep making my boys walk the same
route twice a day. I even say "same ol', same ol'" to
Hobie when he "asks" me to go left instead of right! LOL!
That's my signal "Same ol', same ol'" and then he knows
we're going the same old way. So, it made me feel some
validation. On the other hand, I also am glad to think
that the dog doesn't complain if you spontaneously
change the daily route!
Deanne,
I also have a new little dog that, while not totally blind, is visually impaired, somewhat hearing impaired, has a poor sense of smell and is not very smart. However, he is the cutest, most loving boy there could be and want to help him be the best he can be. But neither do I want to baby him. I also would really like to see Cesar do a show on "special needs" dogs and e-mailed him yesterday about this topic. I hope you and anyone else with a "special" dog will do the same. He and our other dog (female) are doing fairly well together, but I can't get him to walk on the leash so there is no power of the pack yet. The female also is dominent and will go after the little guy at times. They also have to be fed separately. We're working on this and have made some improvement but have a ways to go. If anyone has any advise or knowledge about this type of situation I would really appreciate the info.
I need help with my "Sammy" he is really regressing back to when we got him from the pound. He is so sweet natured and My Handsome Boy ( which he answers to when called by me ) BUT he is snapping at anyone who comes near me, my husband, my kids. HELP
Dear Gone Crazy:
Guess who the pack leader is? You got it,"Sammy" your Handsome Boy. You've lost your leadership role. HE OWN'S YOU GIRLFRIEND. His sweet nature eludes him when anyone including your family comes around you. It's time to tame your "Handsome Boy" again for the rest of his life. You must get back to the head of the pack and that includes your immediate family members also. He can't be allowed to rule any of you. Remember what Cesar says: RULES-BOUNDARIES-LIMITATIONS and EXERCISE-DICIPLINE then and only then AFFECTION. Your handsome boy is being a bad boy. You must nip this in the bud now.
I have an almost 2 year old English Bulldog and whenever we take him out for a bathroom break, he dawdles around and will not poop. He pretends to be looking for a place to go and then he will dart around the yard to play. We will spend sometimes up to an hour waiting for him, then when he finally goes, it's like he can't hold it any longer. We usually praise him afterward and play with him, so that he doesn't think he has to go in right afterward. Sometimes he just does not go and so we put him back inside, but on rare occassions he will go in the house only minutes after we have brought him in. Does anyone have any suggestions?
Bulldog Lover
Interesting site. Useful information. Bookmarked.
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