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The Challenge of Fearful Dogs: Maddy and Me
In my experience, dogs with fear issues often take the longest time to rehabilitate because it takes time to build their lost self-esteem. These dogs often have owners who mean well, but feed the fearful behavior by feeling sorry for them and comforting them. However, in nature, the weakest pup in the litter would be pushed away by its mother and probably not even survive to adulthood.
I believe that almost all of these dogs can become balanced, but it takes time, patience, and an open mind on the part of the owner to succeed.
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I'm really looking forward to this episode for techniques with my youngest dog. She started out as a confident pup, but my aggressive male made her a bit fearful. Lately (she just turned 1 year old) she has been scared of ALOT of things. Most particularly, skateboards and cars. I don't give her affection when she's fearful, but I'm wondering if I should correct her (or will that make her more insecure?).
I just saw that Cesar, on Cinco de Mayo of all days, is being sued for an injury to a dog at his training facility and is also being sued by a TV Producer on a copyright infringement case. I will only say this, why is it in this country that we love to build up people and turn them into celebrities only to take them down? I feel badly for the dog and its owner and since I don't know the inside story, I will maintain a neutral position on this. The copyright suit sounds like a case of sour grapes to me. Change the name of the show to "Cesar's Way" and I will continue to watch it. Cesar, if you happen to read this, hang in there and keep helping people and their dogs. I am sure that this isn't exactly an easy time for you and your family. Stay strong!
Dave,
Are you sure? What an injustice!
I hate it that in this country everyone has a right to sue, for even the smallest and stupidest things.
Cesar, no matter what, you are a hero loved by many people.
Dave, What a bummer. Yeah, changing the name of the show is a really good idea. Cesar, your fans will continue to be there for you and your family no matter what you call the show! Hang in there. You have been blessed with a great gift by mother nature, and are second to none in my eyes. We hope you know how much we all care about you!
Guess we should have seen that coming, (being sued). I'm sure his fantastic success has ruffled a few feathers in the dog training world.
Apparently, with success you best have a slue of lawyers on retainer...too bad.
I hope this all turns out to be just a bump in the road for Cesar and his family, though it sure won't feel that way in the process.
Hey everybody! I just looked at tonight's NGC lineup, and it's Dog Whisperer ALL NIGHT starting at 7:00! Whoo hooo! I can hear my couch calling me already ha ha ha.
We have become a sue hungry country. I don't know the whole story but I do know that Cesar through his TV show has helped me and my little pack of 3. We are all happier although gosh darn that smartie pants lab pup of mine! Wish she's quit thinking my mini dachshund is a stuffed toy! I continue to learn so much from each episode of the Dog Whisperer. Thanks again Cesar! God Bless.
I saw the news item about the lawsuits as well. Who knows what the real story is behind either of these cases (there's ALWAYS more to it than we hear), but it's not even the point. The point is that so many people in this country - whether it be from jealousy, laziness, a sense of entitlement or whatever - can only profit by trying to take what others have. I mean seeking 5 million dollars for the NAME OF THE SHOW??? That's just absurd. The name of the show has nothing to do with Cesar's success. That is his alone.
I just wanted to tell you how much we enjoy your show. Your lessons make so much sense to us. We had a 100 lb. white Akita who was just a joy to us. We miss him.
Best of luck with those nonsense law problems.
I feel so bad for Cesar & his family. I wish i can protest the lawsuit somewhere,He's helped us so much.Since we're a praying family, we're going to be praying for him to come out of this a better man.
Cesar we are praying for you and your family in this awful time of stress.
We LOVE your show and I am just finishing your book. You have taught us all SO MUCH, Esp. the Dog Psychology part of Dog ownership. Please keep with it.
These people that are so negative in their opionon of you is just nonsense.
Please continue your Good Work. We will continue to support YOU!!!!!!!!!
Hey everyone, one way that you could help is to send letters and faxes with your testimonials to The Dog Psychology Center. As a risk manager of 30 years one thing that is important is the demonstration of due diligence, which Cesar does on all the things he undertakes, along with the demonstration of effort to create a safe and hazard free environment.
You may not have heard my story of Signal Bear, my red-zone rescue of a chow menacing 75 people at a city facilty that I was a contractor for. I used Cesars techniques which I have pictures of on our DW yahoo email list photoalbum AND a more detailed story on my webpage with pictures.
These employees wee trapped in the building and asked to not go outdoors without escort until the pound arrived with their solution - and we all know what that would have been. So not only did I use the tools he provided to help SAFEGUARD these people in a highly hazardous situation, but also immedately moved this dog from his red-zone to a calm balanced and totally loving animals that no-one hardly recognizes from those pictures!
Buy shirts, cups, tapes, collars, send donations if your really care! You know if nothing else, Cesar will use the money for more resuces and rehabilitations of those who would be otherwise killed!
If you care, if he has made any kind of difference in your lives, then respond as you can, and remember your letters may be the most powerful tools there are!
Its time to give back to the teacher who has asked nothing of us! From my heart to yours!
What a shocker!! But on the other hand, it tells how popular "Cesar's way" is becoming. Featured in South Park, sued for name infringement and being asked for five million, etc. etc.
There are always people who are jealous and who want to take advantage of celebrity. I do not know the background of the story and as someone said, there is always more to the story than what is said on the surface.
I pray for you and your family, Cesar!! We love you and we are so so grateful for what you have done for humans and dogs!!
I'm so sorry to hear this happened!!!! I'm gonna die if your show goes of the air!!!! Me and my family will be praying for you!!!
I'm looking forward to episode 16. In the hope that I get some helpful ideas on how to help a scared dog. He is terrified of the outdoors,he ate his way out of a chain link kennel from fear,the only time he goes out is after dark and then if there is a noise he runs for the door. I have never had a collie who didn't like to be outside. I expecred some problems since he came from a rescue but this is hard to understand and has me stumped.
I am so disgusted that some people would try to take advantage of Cesar who has done nothing but good. He has certainly helped lift my self esteem by showing me how to become my dogs pack leader, not to mention helping 2 dogs to become happy and fulfilled. At my house, everything stops for the Dog Whisperer show on fridays. My family and I are behind you Cesar.
I read the news story. It sounds just AWFUL about what happened at Cesars facility. I cant beleive that they would make up MEDICAL RECORDS of the dog dying in an oxygen tent from over exertion and bleading from its mouth and nose just hours after the owner dropped off the dog. Very sad its what happens when the celbrity gets too big and doesn't manage his staff.
Just wanted to say, the south park episode of dog wisperer was awesome!!! I love "The Dog Whisperer" and i thought south park did a great job! The 5 million dollar suit in the other hand is plain stupid!!! Just another way for somebody that is jealous to get a quick buck on somebody that is doing a great job!!! Don't cancel the show, just change the name, everybody will still watch it!
This show sounds interesting, though I'm not as interested as I would have been a little over a year ago when I first got my own dog who, at that time, was the most skittish creature I've ever seen. Now, however, she's made almost a complete turn-around after I've implemented techniques learned from both Cesar Millan as well as another dog trainer; in fact, in only the past few days she has made a tremendous progression with the use of mostly Cesar's methods. Cesar's an amazing dog trainer (which entails owner training as well) and truly a dog whisperer regardless of what copyrights say.
Which brings me to the point of the lawsuits. A dog dying after a few hours, especially like that and with someone like Cesar in charge, sounds purely ridiculous. Only a fool would over exert a dog to that point, and Cesar's no fool. The other lawsuit, I'm not sure about the copyright and all that it entails, but I do know that there are a number of dog trainers that are referred to as dog whisperers. The difference is probably that Cesar is making money of off the title, which could possibly be copyright infringement. But five million? I'd knock that down if I were the judge, at the least. If the title itself is copyrighted, the people in charge of copyrighting have done a poor job as that's not a far stretch from the term horse whisperer, which is now widely used by anyone with gentle methods to rehabilitate dogs. In my own opinion, this is frivolous because the copyright should not have been granted for that term if that is indeed what the suit is over. I'll have to check into that, though.
I wish all the luck to Cesar and his family, he's clearly helped a large number of people, myself included. I'll always refer to him as The Dog Whisperer, I'm sure a number of people will because it's an accurate title. I also thank him for the help that he has indirectly given to both me and my dog, who is much happier and more relaxed than she has probably been for as long as she can remember.
CJ,
Thanks for the idea that we contact the dog physcology center and lend support!
I hope everyone will follow suit! Please people, get behind Cesar.
I remember reading that Cesar had trained someone to take over his center after he decided to travel this year, I'm wonderfing if Cesar was even there when this happend to the lab?
NG, PLEASE stand behind Cesar! His fan base is loyal!
When one considers the number of dogs that have been thru his center, no one could possibly expect everything to go perfectly forever. Wherever and whenever humans are involved...something is bound to go wrong at least once.
i have had a dachsie/chihuahua mix since june 05. she is very special and i have been using cesar's techniques to train her. she still is a bit skittish toward children, but mostly when they come running up to her and startle her. she starts to bark when people come over, but when i whisper to her and talk softly, she relaxes and stops the barking. this all i have learned from watching the show. cesar is very gifted and i will continue to watch even if they change the name...what's in a name? it's still about the skill and compassion of the trainer...who is cesar!!
I hope that Cesar is doing all right. It seems every celebrity gets caught up in law suits sooner or later. I know that Cesar is a truly devoted and good person with alot of things to deal with. And now he and his family have the stress of a law suit. I hate when accedents happen and when people have the ability to sue they try to sue for the most money they can get thier hands on. Some law suits are given justice, but things in this world are so mixed up that right things look wrong, and the wrong things look right. I hope that Cesar will be given justice and he will continue to make the world a better place. He is truly my hero for all that he has done in only 1 1/2 years.
~Chantel
In response to Betsy, let's not jump to conclusions. All the facts are not before us. That's the job of the judge and the legal system. I've been on the receiving end of a business lawsuit, it was ugly and unpleasant in the extreme, and there was a whole lot of lying going on. We don't know all the details of this situation. It is unfair for the general public to automatically assume there was wrongdoing. As for the copyright thing, been through something like that, too. Again, it's just ugliness. As bad as a nasty divorce, or worse. Yeah, in America we sure are "sue happy". Keeps the attorneys employed, I guess!
CJ, what a great suggestion. I'd like to write a letter to the DPC to support Cesar. He has a natural gift, something that he was born with, not something that anyone in Hollywood created. Hey, they can always call him "A" dog whisperer, instead of "THE" dog whisperer! LOL!
Tonight's episode was, once again, excellent.
On a completely different note, if anyone watched the repeat of Stewart and Buddy after tonight's first-run episode... the dog, Buddy (Beagle/American Coonhound), who was afraid of the water hose looks EXACTLY like my Lab/Coonhound, Hector. I mean exactly. Except Hector is like twice the size of Buddy. We sometimes call him "Hector Huge" ha ha ha.
Hang in there Cesar, we love ya, man!
Noah, you're right: we have Horse Whisperer, Dog Whisperer and even GHOST Whisperer! And let's not forget "the Artist Formerly Known as Prince"!!
I just watched tonight's episode. How sad it is that one of those Min Pins was euthanized!! I love Min Pins and they are my first choice (as I posted here before). But Min Pins are not for everybody!! Cesar said it right. You need to choose the right dog for yourself and your family. As one of the owners in the show said, Min Pins would test your patience, try to manupulate (in dog's way, of course) and they have abundance of energy packed in their small bodies. You need to be ready to treat them as if they are big dogs.
I do not know the circumstances why the dog was put down and I hate to criticize anyone when I do not know the whole story. I just feel very very sorry for the dog.
Hey K2 I was just reading up on Cesar, and I have never watched the show. I have never had a reason to, until just recent. If you are wondering why I'am writing to you it is because I also have a Coonhound/Beagle mix STRANGE, because we rescued him Up North next to our cabin. He is just a baby, and when we found him he was laying on top of his dead littermate just the 2 of them in the middle of the woods down off the road. My point we fell in love with him, and have now had him for 1 month he is now 4 months old, and with good reason AFRAID of EVERYTHING, anyway I was going to start watching this show to get some ideas, and I seen that you also had this mixed breed. If you get a chance. Please write back, and give a little information on your pup, you know personailty and such. Much Thnaks : ) Rainy
Does anyone have any suggestions about working with a spouse that is not consistent with supporting training methods? My husband likes to "have a party" when he greets our dogs in the morning when we let them out and at night when he comes home for work, and it has been creating an enormous problem with my dog in a work environment because she expects everyone to want to have a party when they come in the door. My husband enjoys this method of greeting and doesn't see the harm in it and I have been trying for two years to resolve this, and have explained to him what a problem it is creating and how important it is to have a calm greeting ritual and then he can be exuberant after the dogs have greeted him quietly and politely but I'm just not having much success. Thank you for your help, Patti.
Hello Cesar,
I found myself to be very addicted to your new stories you have chosen to share with everyone. Myself as a animal lover feel as if you are making a change in many peoples views when it comes to animals. You amaze meand thank you for being that special someone you are! I have a dog that I would like to ask a question about and need to explore your site better, so that I ask the question in the proper place.
Thank you for sharing the gift you have with the beautiful dogs~
Amy
Patti--
Treat your husband's behavior as something out of your control. A distraction, just like a squirrel or a bike or another dog. Insist that your dogs behave as you want them to, NO MATTER WHAT! Your husband will likely feel bad that the dogs are being penalized because of what he does, and also will likely stop! The only reason the dogs respond as they do is because you relinquish your leadership position during that moment. This is as bad or worse for the dogs than your husband's behavior.
Nicole, unfortunately, it isn't as simple as that but I do agree with your comment. One of the dogs is "my husband's dog" while the other dog is "my dog" and she is the one that goes to work with me. He won't allow me to take a leadership role with his dog in the greeting ritual which does reduce my status with both dogs. I certainly can't be the leader of the pack over my husband and the dogs obviously know this conflict exists. . . . . I do think I have to find some way to get my husband to understand how important this is. We have had other issues with the dogs such as keeping them in the yard and getting his German short-hair to stop jumping on me but he resisted both until he saw that the methods were successful. The problem with the greeting is that he just doesn't see if as much of an obvious problem as the dogs getting out and getting hit by a car or causing an accident or them hurting me by jumping up.
"One of the dogs is “my husband’s dog” while the other dog is “my dog” and she is the one that goes to work with me. He won’t allow me to take a leadership role with his dog in the greeting ritual which does reduce my status with both dogs."
Dogs are perfectly capable of learning that 2 different people have different requirements of behavior. Plus, you do have another choice, if you are unsuccessful in changing your husbands behavior: don't BE there during his "greeting" ritual. Just leave, go out of sight. But you must THEN insist on fair play from your husband...that he do the SAME when it is YOUR turn to greet the dogs.
At the VERY least, he can back off and not be involved in YOUR greeting. Then you can insist the dogs behave by YOUR rules, and acknowledge YOUR leadership role. You don't HAVE to let HIS behavior put YOU is a lesser position. If he chooses a lesser position, that's HIS problem!
I was ver distressed at the end of the show when I saw that one of the min-pins had been put to sleep... it seems pretty obvious that the woman went back to her "I don't want to stop bad behavior because I don't want the dog mad at me" bit, and her refusal to do what was best for her dog cost her dog it's life.
Lets put this all in a different perspective that might cause a little more thought...
Jane Doe has a son, her child is cute and she does not want her child to get mad at her so she lets him do what he wants when he wants, there are no rules in the boy's life. The boy grows up and attacks other children, the mother is usre the other children start it because after all her child is happy and gets praise all the time, her child steals but the mother makes it okay and pays for the things because her son must need those things to keep his happiness at full bore... her son kills someone and she gets very upset when the police want to take him away... can't she just send him to a farm in the country?
Another mother has a daughter with no rules that constantly acts out, the mother will not address the situation and she ends up with a pregnant teenager who hits her any time the mother looks at her sideways... the mother is afraid of children but wanted one anyway to get over her fear instead of dealing with the fear before having a child. The mother decides that her daughter is making her life misserable for her so she has her killed.
I know, these stories seem extreme... I know I am using people to get the point across when we are talking about animals... but how is it that it is ok to kill your pet just because you do not want to control it?
On a seperate note, I would watch Cesar's show no matter what it is called... and as for the lawsuits I think that it is a crying shame... there is no perfection in life but Cesar has done so much for so many... people that he has never met have bebefitted from watching his shows and there are many wagging tails out there in full support!
Dear Cesar- After watching you for hours last weekend and again tonight I'm hooked. Trying to teach my family how to listen to our dogs and be The Pack Leaders. I, along with many of your devoted fans,and followers,can only say ,whatever you call your show,books ,etc. you are Cecar. THE PACK LEADER,the one who teaches us all .Shame on the one who sues=et to Brutus-I want to thank you personally for all your tips and hope you open the lines online again for us all to talk to you soon. Good luck and know I for one
back you 100 %.
Cesar's techniques have made a huge difference in my 4 dog household. I can now walk my two brazilian mastiffs together - 140lb and 115lb and am in control (basically.. lol). They are all behaving so much better... and at the dog park everyone is saying, "well, cesar says..." I don't know what happened in regard to the lawsuit but I don't believe it has anything to do w/ Cesar directly. Maybe someone wasn't watching the dog on the treadmill and his collar got stuck or something. Cesar - we all love you!!!!!! You are amazing. I started rollerblading w/ my very active queensland/boxer mix - initially he did great and now he refuses to go. He sits down on the sidewalk and pulls me towards the house. I so can't figure this one out. This is a dog that can go 10 miles and look at me like when are we going to get started?
This notice was posted to another site originally:
I don't think Cesar had anything personally to do with this, it was one of his trainers.
Dog Whisperer' Cesar Millan Sued By TV Producer
POSTED: 9:00 am EDT May 5, 2006
LOS ANGELES -- A television producer is suing dog trainer Cesar Millan, star of TV's "The Dog Whisperer," claiming that his Labrador retriever was injured at Millan's LA training facility after being suffocated by a choke collar and forced to run on a treadmill.
"Eight Simple Rules" producer Flody Suarez said he took 5-year-old Gator to the Dog Psychology Center on Feb. 27 to deal with fears of other dogs and strangers.
Hours later, Suarez claims, a worker called to inform him the animal had been rushed to a veterinarian. The suit claims he later found the dog "bleeding from his mouth and nose, in an oxygen tent gasping for breath and with severe bruising to his back inner thighs."
The facility's workers allegedly placed a choke collar on the dog, pulled him onto a treadmill and forced him to "overwork." Suarez says he spent at least $25,000 on medical bills and the dog must undergo more surgeries for damage to his esophagus. The complaint claims breach of contract, fraud, animal cruelty and intentional infliction of emotional distress, among other allegations. It seeks more than $25,000 in damages.
Copyright 2006 by The Associated Press:
All we can do is keep watching and reading, the newspapers, other books on training dogs - there are several thousand good ones out there--just do your homework. See what's a right fit for you and your pooch and family. It's hard, very hard. But in the end you end up with a great dog and (if you have children) great kids. And may Cesar prevail through all of this.
First of all, I was refered to the Dog Whisperer by the technician who installed my digital cable. I am an avid fan and have learned so much about my pets and myself. Thank you, Cesar.
I need some help! I adopted a beautiful, clever husky who was an abused, fearful, humane society death-row husky who is now leading a great life and knows her role in the pack. She is polite, smart and fun. The problem: wetting in the house, when I am gone or asleep. I have tried so many suggestions but nothing seems to work. If I walk her more often, the bad behavior is more frequent. I have had several animals, dogs, cats and horses, and always thought I was on top of the pack but this dog has a passive/aggresive streak that I don't know how to counteract. I never catch her "in the act". She will even mess her kennel during the night, on occasion. She is let outside frequently enough (every 2-6 hrs). I have ruled out all physiological issues via the vet. She does well for a while and then--regression. She is 9 years old. Is there any help for us?
Laura,
You might need to wash all the floors, even if you think it is clean there are still enzymes there that she can smell, your washing them with a scented cleaner might seem to her to be no more than your calling card making her think that she needs to re-mark her spot. There are some good boilogical cleaners on the market that will break down the residue and that may help.
Does she suffer from seperation anxiety? I don't think that dogs really understand passive agressive... they do not plot things "I am mad, so the moment they are not looking the carpet by the sofa gets it" but they will hide actions that they get punnished for. If she has an accident do not punnish her for it, simply place a paper towel over it to soak up as much as you can and take it outside where she is supposed to go, bring her with you, show it to her then praise her. She will recognise the scent as her own and it will click that going outside gets praise... never rub her nose in an accident. Yes, this means housebreaking her all over again.
How long have you had her? She might be nervous about her place and trying to mark things to show that this is her place now.
Good luck with her... it will take a little time and patience but as soon as she feels secure and knows that going outside is appreciated I think she will settle down to a more natural routine.
Hi everyone,
The $5 million dollar lawsuit concerns Cesar's former publicist and her partner. They say since they wrote and produced the original pilot for "The Dog Whisper" that they are entitled to a share of the profits. They also say that they were in the process of selling it when Cesar "went out on his own" and negotiated a deal without them, so they are not getting a percentage or making any money off the current series, merchandise, lectures, etc. The suit is claiming breach of contract, copyright infringement and breach of confidential relationship.
Apparently Makeda Smith and her partner Foster Corder make their money from introducing potential "stars" to the "inside" track of fame and fortune.
The bottom line here must be GREED...What do ya think??
The other law suit concerns the injury to a Lab owned by producer Flody Suarez....
What can anyone say....
There are going to be problems with problem dogs!
Surely Cesar and his company are smart enough to have clients sign a waiver and carry company insurance for this type of situation.
I feel certain that the injury was not purposely inflicted or caused by negligence by anyone at the Psychology Center!
If the dog was wearing a choke chain it was most likely provided by the owner.
It is so sad that people now expect Cesar to "perform with perfection." He is after all only human!
The claims seem outrageous and the facts are not in yet but this has become the American way...to have the case tried in the Media first... both cases being filed after Cesar became what they percieve as a "Cash Cow."
Laura, is she a spayed female? You said she is 9 years old. And Husky is a good sized dog. Larger, older, spayed females tend to become incontinent. Is it actual urination, like a big puddle, or is it smaller puddles or spots of urine? My female Lab became incontinent starting about 12 years of age, and it got progressively worse as she got older. Or, it could be another kind of physical medical problem (not psychological). Just remember, she's not doing it to be naughty. If it's incontinence, you can get doggie diapers -- like Depends for dogs! And even piddle pads which you put on the floor (good ol' newspapers worked for me) I had to keep the dog confined to an area with linoleum floors when she was unsupervised -- easier to clean. I even bought a carpet cleaning machine because she had soiled our carpeting in all the places where she slept! Poor thing! The things we will do for our dogs!
Hello Rainy! Welcome to the blog -- hope you can get Cesar's show on your cable or satellite provider -- it is the BEST!! You must love your Beagle/Coon mix -- they are the greatest dogs. My co-worker has a purebred Coonhound. They have the most wonderful disposition. So easy-going and just big goofballs. Mine is a Lab/Coon, so he is very big -- 85 lbs of pure muscle. He was born a week after "9/11" in 2001, on the farm of a very close friend of mine. My Lab/Shepherd actually picked him out of the litter. We went over to the farm, and we had all the puppies there -- they couldn't even see yet, and Hobie walked over and "flipped" this little puppy over with his nose! I said, "That's the one!" And then I visited him every week until he was 8 weeks old and ready to come home. He HOWLED the whole way from the farm to my house in the car. Oh it was heartbreaking. So, I've known him literally since he was born, of which I am very fortunate. The second he came home, he never left the yard, never needed a leash, and always followed me everywhere and obeyed every command. Very smart in some ways, but very goofy in others. He is a master at playing with a tennis ball. He can drop the ball, letting it bounce a couple of feet, and then catches it again in his mouth -- entertaining himself without my help ha ha! It is very funny. I've often thought I should bring him on Letterman and have him do stupid pet tricks ha ha. It is the most silly thing I've ever seen. He loves to play with toys, and he is not possessive over them at all. As for fears, he has quite a few! My friend's purebred has the same fears. They both hate water. I live on a lake year-round, and have a summer place at the ocean. It took about 4 years before he would even get his FEET wet to take a drink out of the lake! Whereas all of my Labs and Lab mixes LIVE in the water all day long in the summer! He's half Lab, but wants no part of it. My Lab/Shepherd loves to go for boat rides. Hector won't even go near the boat. So if we're out on the lake with Hobie riding in the boat, he stands on the shoreline and HOWLS. He is not much of a barker (unlike Hobie who barks constantly). He only barks when necessary (in his opinion LOL!) and if we leave him at home alone, he will HOWL the whole time. He is incredibly sensitive to my moods and energy, and if he senses that I'm angry about something (having nothing to do with HIM) he will run downstairs into the basement and hide. Poor guy! But his fears have never turned into any kind of big problems. He doesn't like hair dryers or vacuum cleaners and will hide in the basement, or in "his corner" of the kitchen. Today when we were on our walk, we had to go by someone with a leaf blower and he was really scared. I had a Beagle when I was a child, and so you may have different challenges because your dog is full "hound" -- Beagle and Coonhound. Whereas mine is sporting breed and hound. Beagles need a lot of exercise and challenging "hunting-like" activity. What size is your dog? Are his paws big? When my vet saw Hector for the first time, he looked at his paws and said "This is going to be a BIG dog!" And yup, he was right! When he was a pup, his paws were enormous. Now, they are the same size as they were then! But I love mixed breeds, they are the greatest and they're so gorgeous -- People ask what kind of dog is he? And I will asy "He's a one-of-a-kind dog!" So, I hope this helps with your questions about personality and breed -- of course every dog is different, but I think that Coonhounds do have a bit of a scaredy-cat side to them, but they are loyal and loveable. He makes me laugh every day!
Laura, ooops, I thought you said "psychological" sorry!
K2
Hi everyone. This is a timely post for me, because I had to get my dog licenced and a rabies shot, and he just freaked out. I rescued him from a shelter last year, and he has really come a long way (as have I from watching this show).
But he cannot go to vets without totally freaking out. I try to stay calm, and "correct it", but then the vet starts to freak out, and he of course wants to confine him. Well, trying to confine this dog is like wrestling an alligator, and I do not feel safe doing it, and neither does the vet.
I feel I need profesional help, and was wondering if anyone knows someone in the south jersey/ philly area who could help me, and the dog.
Oh, I hope this doesn't affect Cesar's show. I love it! I do Yorkie and small dog rescue here in Texas and have learned from watching Cesar.
Keep the show coming. If you do something long enough, one bad thing will eventually happen. That is what insurance is for.
Cesar, I love your show. Keep up the good work.
Luv ya,
Linda Eiswirth
Yorkie and Smal Dog Rescue, Inc.
a 501 (c) (3) Non Profit organization
I second SJS's post and back everyone who has said positive and supportive things about Cesar.
It irks me to no end that there are more and more people "out to get" others whenever they finally achieve sucess.
I came here to get the scoop after reading a scandalous complaint at Bark magazine's blog/site- apparently somebody there has "read" Cesar's Way and trashed it in a review.
I can't see how that would even be possible since it's more of an autobiography and belief system and not a "how to" book.
It's sad that more people in society can't do the adult thing and keep their mouths shut if they don't have anything nice to say. Some people just can't be mature and handle their jealousy in a responsible, acceptable manner.
Cesar has my support, his methods are right in line with other established dog behaviorists I appreciate and follow and I hope that the truths will come to light and his family will make it through this.
Linda,
Would you take a look at the Desert Bulldog blog, entry #138? Yorkie owner needs help badly, and I told her to find someone with knowledge of the breed like you -- thanks!
Dave - did he have a particularly bad experience at the vet's? If you have the patience, you could try bringing him to the vets' and have him just reach a relaxed state (while you help), and then just bring him home. A couple times of that should work. What kind of dog is he?
Hey Laura, is it possible your husky could have a urinary tract infection (curable by antibiotics)? Mine did.
Hey Patty, I agree with Nicole, you could treat your husband's exuberance like a training distraction, i.e. the dog is still not allowed to jump or lunge even when there is a cat or a squirrel in the yard. Teach her to sit/stay for greetings, even if the person is excited. I do this with my dog when we greet children. It takes some corrections, but it works.
Also, don't fight your husband on this. Acknowledge that he greatly enjoys this type of greeting and that it is not a problem for him. It IS a problem for you and your dog, because you bring him into situations where he must greet calmly or not be welcome, so YOU will train your dog differently, without criticizing his way.
That said, I do have a friend who always greets my dogs very exuberantly by inviting them to jump and kiss faces. I do not try to stop this routine because...well because they're just TOO happy. My dogs do seem to differentiate between this friend and the others, where standard rules apply.
As a seasoned insurance litigation specialist, I can tell you that there are always two sides to every story. Clearly the lawyers are seeking to twist Cesar's arm (or his insurance company's arm) by bad-mouthing him in the press.
If some members of Cesar's staff did hurt that dog, I know that Cesar will give them the calm-assertive boot! The law usually limits injuries to dogs to the value of dog (with depreciation, depending on its age), and this might be why the vet bills have not been paid by Cesar's insurance company. Unfortunately, the law sees animals as nothing more than property, and people normally don't get pain and suffering money for damage to their property, as this claimant is trying to do. He just isn't entitled to it under the law. If Cesar's staff did the damage, Cesar will be responsible, but only up to the value of the dog, not the value of the vet bills. It's sort of like getting into a car wreck and having your car declared a total loss, only to find out that the value of the car is much less than the amount you still owe on your car note. If the dog is worth $300, the it is what we call a "constructive total loss". The cost to repair is more than the dog is worth. That is the grim reality. Perhaps Cesar can come to some settlement with this distraught dog owner that doesn't involve lawyers and insurance adjusters.
As for the copyright lawsuit, I think that one will get thrown out. Nobody owns Cesar's skills but him, assuming he didn't contract them away.
On another topic, and as a personal note to Cesar, I want him to know that I am very glad that he immigrated to this country. He is great example of how immigrants have made this country great. To those who fear that immigrants are "changing our culture", let me point out that when our culture stops changing, it will then be dead. Cesar, you have added much to our culture. I am particularly glad that you have proven that even so-called "vicious" dogs do not necessarily have to be put down. You have saved many lives...canine and human.
I just wanted to show support for Cesar. Unlike Fox News, who had a "Dog Whisperer Guilty" headline, I have to believe that he's innocent until it's proven. I personally have a very hard time believing these allegations.
Peace
Matt
BTW the South Park episode this week was hilarious.
Well, here we go...and the Cesar bashers are dancing in the streets, rejoicing in the fact that a dog was injured at Cesar's facility...before even knowing all of the complete facts. I guess they won't have to sit by and eagerly await the dog bites from people trying his techniques at home now. Sad.
These are the people who would much rather have a dog put down, than rehabilitated using method they don't "approve" of. At least they don't have to SEE the dog being killed. That's always done behind closed doors. Outta site-outta mind.
Some of these same folks are already stealing his ideas and passing them off as their own, in a slightly modified form. One person has even trademarked "Dog Psychology Method" as their own. Another hasn't even bothered to change Cesar's wording much, before passing it off as her own idea, and trademarking phrases all along the way.
But hey, do your own "web search", and see what you find...
Trainers are attending Cesars seminars, and claiming to be "trained" by Cesar, while belonging to organizations which condemn him. Good way to get people onto their sites by "namedropping" and hooking into the search engine though.
Yes, in reality, there are also the mathematics of the number of dogs going through rehab at Cesar's center. It is an impossibility that there will not be an "incident" or a failure along the way. There is no such thing as a perfect record when you are dealing with that many "problem" dogs. Something is going to happen eventually, no matter what precautions are taken.
Get in a car and drive enough times, and the mathematical probability that you will have an accident, increases each time you drive. It's only a matter of time.
Cesar's critics don't see this. They are too busy rejoicing and hoping to see him fall. I've long been afraid that he would become a "sacrificial lamb" for some much needed changes in man's relationship with his best friend. And his success coming so fast, has made him a target.
But, his philosophies are right on the mark, the wheels of change for the better are in motion, and there is no turning back now.
Hang in there Cesar, keep the faith, and remember all the dogs you've saved from "death row", all of the owners you have helped, and lives you have changed, (and will continue to change), for the better.
Deb
I dont understand. What happened? Why is Cesar guilty? I do not watch fox news.
ok. nevermind my last blog, I just read about it. That does not seem right at all. Cesar is a good person. I think that the story is way exaggerated, or Cesar has a crooked person working for him. What is wrong with people?!
SJS,
Thanks for the information. It's sad that money is what the world revolves around these days, but hasn't it always? Poor Cesar.....I've heard of some of the stupidest law suits. My niehbors were trying to sue my other niehbors because thier dog got out and went into the other yard so they tried to sue them for "stealing thier dog". Luckily the people who's dog got out lost, hahahha. GREED is deffinantly what must be going on. '
I was sad to hear at the end of friday's episode that one of the min pins had to be put down. I was wondering why they had to put her down. That's too bad.....
Deb,
GREAT entry! I so agree with you. Cesar's critics must be partying after the news (not that it's doing anything for them). Sadly thier dogs are probably imbalanced and not under control.
Your right to say that accedents DO happen, believe it or not. No one is perfect, not even Cesar (I know, shocking). The truth is that all we can do is try, and Cesar has done a great job trying and succeeding in changing our views on dogs for the better.
There are so many dogs that need Cesar's help, it is unbelievable! Cesar can't give up and we can't give up. We can't let the bumpy roads tire us out. We need to keep informing people about Cesar (whether they become critics or fans).
I hope Cesar and his family know that they have support from all of us, and that we believe in Cesar and his ability to change the world.
~Chantel
Dave - Have you tried to see if you can find a vet that will come to your house for the shots? I know some areas do have vets that will travel and this might get your dog accustomed to both the vet and the process in an environment that he feels safe. If the vet won't come to your home, perhaps he will come out to your car at the office (I know some vets prefer that if you dog has kennel cough and maybe they'll be cooperative in this situation)so the dog doesn't have to go inside and you can gradually get him into the actual office. . . .
We had some problems with one of our dogs and we would start taking him to the vet's office after we'd given him a long walk and then we'd give him a special treat like a marrow bone while we were at the office, and just leave. We started by getting him just close enough that we could see him getting stressed, and then we'd do something he enjoyed, and each time we could get a little closer (parking lot, sidewalk, front door, etc). It seemed to work with him because then he did always associate going to the vet's office with something he didn't like happening to him. We would also try hard to find something that distracted him from the stress (our dog happened to go nuts for tennis balls so we'd bring one along and play fetch on a long line in the parking lot and let him carry it around with him). Good luck!
THis whole lawsuit thing is just ridiculous. The copyright thing just sounds like a bunch of people trying to get money. And the guy with the lab? He obviously has no clue what he's talking about either. How do you "overwork" a dog on a treadmill? Even if it was tied, it would jump off to the side. Plus, I don't think Cesar makes dogs run on the treadmill. Don't they usually walk?
And since Cesar has like 6 gazillion dog, he probably has some sort of contract/deal with a vet or two. If a client's dog gets injured, he seems like the kind of guy to foot the bill.
I think this lab's owner is either making everything up... or he tried the technique at home, got frustrated and messed his own dog and now trying to find someone to blame.
I don't care what anyone says about Cesar's methods. A guy who can get 40 dogs to follow him around off leash is obviously doing *something* right. You can argue it all you want, but the results speak for themselves. Unhappy abused dogs don't follow the abuser around..... DUH!
Thanks for the notes to the people who wrote me back here. We will definitely try your suggestions. =)
He is a spaniel/golden retriever mix. He's pretty funny. One side of him is very laid back, and then the other side is like, hyper and nervous and scared. We try to bring out the laid back side of him as much as posible by being strong pack leaders, but he has issues that need to be worked on. Thank you for your support. =)
To all who responded in regards to the incontinent husky, i.e. Penny, K2, Joanna, thank you. My female husky was spade about 1 month after I adopted her (she would have be 6 mos.). Her incontinence is definitely in the form of a puddle. The incontinence has been an issue since day one with her. I don't she does this due to separation anxiety. When I am home and NOT sleeping, she will find me and ask to go outside. Truth be told, I am the third person to adopt this dog from the humane society (hence, her name is Repo-because she kept getting repossessed). I have had her for 8 years. It took me close to year to socialize her to me and my friends and family. Her self-esteem and trust were completely destroyed when I met her. She will remove all exterior diaper aids--in record time. I just had all my carpets cleaned (again) and "pet urine treated" and she blew her good behavior streak within 24 hrs after carpet cleaning. I don't punish her as I am not aware when these events are taking place. I am either gone or sleeping. For a while, I thought she was "cured" until a find a distant corner in the basement office that she decided was her new urinal. Sometimes she knows right from wrong but for some reason, needs to urinate every few hours on some days. I had not seen this topic addressed on the several episodes of Dog Whisperer that I have watched. I didn't know if there is maybe another angle on this issue that I hadn't heard of yet. It is frustrating to not be able to replace your flooring/carpeting or buy a new house, for that matter, due to these lovable four-leggers. Conversely, I hate to confine her to her kennel for hours at a time when the retriever and the cat get to cruise around the house unsupervised. A dilemna that would be wonderful to fix. Thanks.
Ack! whatever the grievance is I'm sure its simply some malcontent out there who wants to depopularize the almighty Dog Whispering Cesar Millan. I mean comeon, in our Dog crazed culture, someone like Cesar is a Canine Messiah! Surefire overnight success...so envy is a unfortunate biproduct of that success apparently. The lawsuit's peanuts for Cesar no doubt, heck I bet what he's getting sued for is his yearly drycleaning bill. However, I believe Cesar SHOULD get some legal protective documents in order to shield himself from any future entanglements such as this.
Laura,
"Get Serious" is a cleaner that works well on everything. It removes All the enzymes so the dog can not smell any trace of urine in the house and it removes all stains.
I have had to deal with some frustrating "pee-pee" dogs.
Here's what workes for me:
I keep the dog on a leash 7-24 for about 2 weeks. When sleeping I loop the leash around my ankle. I also take the dog everywhere with me. This way the dog can not sneak off to pee in a corner. You will be able to catch her in the act. It forces the dog to "ask" to go potty. If you put her on a schedule you have to stick to it. With an older dog I would take her out in the morning and then wait until she "asks" before taking her out again. This may help you recognized what time and how often she needs to go. The are some piddle devices that contain enzymes to signal the dog to go potty. You can put them in your yard in a spot where you want her to go and take her there. With this problem I would use positive reinforcement when she gets it right and a consequence when she gets it wrong. If she is crate trained you can take away her freedom as a consequence. Make her understand that she can get out of the crate when she pees at her pee spot. Don't worry about the other dog having the run of the house. Feed this dog in the morning after she pees in her pee spot. This way she is working for her food.
Good Luck!
First let me say that I have posted my disgust on other boards concerning the allegations against Cesar and the unjust criticism.
I’m so tired of people with negative comments who have never even seen the show.
I think there is a lot of professional and personal jealousy out there and it’s completely uncalled for.
Whatever Cesar has he worked very hard to achieve and no one could watch his show and not see that this man has a genuine love for animals. He is providing a wonderful service especially to dogs who otherwise would have been put down if the owners had listened to other trainers and vets.
This lawsuit may be entirely frivolous but aside from that it was not Cesar who allegedly injured this dog it was someone at the center that was training the dog. I think Cesar runs a pretty tight ship but to hold him responsible at least morally is a stretch.
I have to think there is more to the story than we’re hearing. When Suarez sues for extra compensation because the dog is his production company’s logo, I begin to detect other reasons for the suit.
So Cesar keep up the good fight because you have thousands of loyal fans that know you have done and are doing the right thing.
It is one thing for a trainer to purposely injure a dog. It is quite another, when it's an accident. When one works with as many dogs as Cesar does, accidents can and will happen. they're accidents, not on purposes. Most likely the people sueing, are just people with ugly, pitiful, personalities.
Who is this suarez guy anyway? I don't think I've even heard of him... you're probably right... he's just jealous or pissed off that his TV shows/movies suck and he's not famous. I still think the guy did this to his own dog. He was probably all cocky and thought, "I can do this stupid treadmill thing, what's so hard about it?"
Darla thank you for the excellent information. I have been feeling so sad for Cesar. I have been through what he will be going through with these lawsuits. My family, and our business, was hurt by "sensationalized" newspaper reports (filled with LIES, I might add) about our case. Even in this hick town we live in! It still bites us in the butt every so often -- 15 years later. Unfortunately, the court of public opinion makes up its mind very early, and there are a lot of people who don't change their minds, even when the defendant is cleared. Our business survived, and the truth prevailed in the end, so we got our justice. There are two sides to every story, and yes, accidents and mistakes do happen. The copyright case is just pure greed and jealousy. But if you can see the humorous side, when we were going through our lawsuits, we always said "there's no such thing as bad publicity" LOL!
I am hearing about this lawsuit for the first time. Bummers! Sounds more like someone being an opportunist to me. Keep up the good work Cesar. Your show is wonderful!
Dave-
Try asking your vet if you can bring your dog by when there is no appointment... just walk in, stay for a while, give a treat then leave... if they have a room available then ask to go into the room, offer a treat once the dog sits... then leave. Try making the vet a tasty place to go. My chihuahua pup had the same problem at the Vet (or as he saw it, the while coat that pokes things that are better off unpoked) and we did this for a few weeks. Now he looks forawrd to stopping in for a hi and treat, the vet techs are given treats to give him when we stop by and even the vet gets into the act.
Try making the vet's office just another place to go, but one that is associated with calm fun times and tasty snacks.
Good Luck!
i learned a lot from cesar's show. just to be able to control a great pyrenees while walking is an achievement, however just like one of the poster's said it will happen, accidents happen. i think cesar mentioned n his transcript that he trained some people to man the place when he is out. whether it was him or his people it still HIS place and most probably be responsible for the lawsuit but not as much as vet's bill, meds and stuff. its not gonna hurt him financially (1st lawsuit)but it will be all over the media. one word== settle.
good luck and may god bless you
Dave, have you tried tiring out your dog on a long, challenging walk before going to the vet? Does your dog "know" you're the pack leader? If he is physically tired out, he won't have the energy to protest and his mind will be more willing to respond to your commands. If he knows you're the leader, he will submit to you and not give in to his fear.
Hi again Laura. Here's another thought about your peein' husky. I adopted a dog that would not "go" on leash or with me very near by. She had been scolded for peeing in the house, so she concluded that you should never pee in front of a human cuz they don't like that!
With my big fenced yard privacy is not a problem, but at my parents' house I could walk her for an hour and then she would secretly find a corner in the house to relieve herself.
Is it possible that your dog has gotten the message that you are upset with her peeing, and has over generalized?
A while ago, I posted about a dog I know of whose owners are never home and he never leaves the house (this is a yellow Lab, so a big dog). He only goes outside, on a very short tie-out, for two minutes twice a day to "do his business" and then it's back in the house where he is alone all day long and many, many overnights. This dog is incredibly unbalanced. Everyone in the neighborhood is deathly afraid of him. His owner is out of town right now, and the guy taking care of the dog for the week came over to let the dog out today. The dog got away just as I was stepping out of my driveway with both my dogs for our morning walk. I didn't panic, I just stood calmly, gathered up my leashes so the dogs were close to me, and everything was fine. The problem was the guy -- he was SOOOO angry (when the dog took off, his finger somehow got caught in the choke chain and he said it could've broken his finger). This is a person who uses 1950s methods of dog training, if you know what I mean. He was chasing the dog, and the dog kept running away, and that just made him more angry. We headed off on our walk, and when we were on our way back, he drove by us in his car. He stopped to apologize about the dog getting loose. I said no problem. Then he proceeded to tell me that the dog would not come to him, and he got angrier and angrier, and so he figured he would just pick up the dog (80 lbs dog!) and when he did that, the dog BIT him!!! Then he had to wait until the dog laid down on the ground for about 10 minutes before they could go back to the house (the only thing he did RIGHT!!) I said, "You guys need Dog Whisperer." His reply was "He needs dog BEATING!" (he was joking, I know this guy pretty well and know his "sense of humor" if you want to call it that). He said to me, "I was so angry, I had to leave" (Doggone would tell ya, he missed an opportunity LOL!) I think he really was afraid he would hit the dog, and I know he doesn't want to, but he knows no other way -- it's so sad. All I kept thinking was HE DID EVERYTHING WRONG!!! So I told him, as I stood there calmly and assertively with my two dogs just being so good (!!) I told him about this TV show "The Dog Whisperer" and how it has changed my life, and now I have complete control over my dogs. "I mean, just look at them!" I said. He said, "Yuh, that's the problem, that dog has never been controlled." UGH!! Funny, this is the one guy whom I've always thought COULD handle that dog -- turns out he can't! This guy has to take care of the dog for the rest of the week. I'm concerned that his anger might get the best of him. I feel like giving him "Cesar's Way" to read -- I know him well enough to suggest it. At the worst, he'll just refuse to read it, right? At best, maybe he'll read it and get out of his 1950s way of thinking! But the thing is, he's not the owner. It's the owner who really needs Dog Whisperer -- or, IMPO she needs to give that dog to rehab or give it up to someone who has more time to devote to the dog. The whole situation just makes me so sad, happening right there on my own street.
The dog dying was a clear indication of neglect. It is his center and his rules and his methods. To pass this on to his staff is ridiculaous. A choke collar on a treadmill?
Why are people defending this guy. This is the same guy that put a "backpack" on a dog on Marhta's show to stop the dog from eating tissues. What does a back pack have to do with eating tissue. There are way better trainers out there!
He's done and wasn't all that anyway.
Re: the impending law-suit from the owners of the injured dog that was at Cesar's DPC.
I don't know much about it but it SMELLS like a set up to me! Wait until Cesar is out of town and take advantage of his staff by sending in a very out of balanced dog. Hmmmmmm......
#72,
You're just another one of those people who hasn't taken the time to fully investigate Cesar's philosophy or for that matter, dog psychology. If you had you'd know dogs NEED a job, carrying the back pack gives the dog a JOB and you'd also know that dogs can't do two things at once.
Stop projecting human psychology onto dogs, if another philosophy worked as well as Cesar's then that philosophy would be garnering the success that Cesar's way has found. You need a reality check.
I'm sure you'll be upset for the remainder of your time when you learn that Cesar is NOT done.
To Laura and her Husky - You are not alone!
It is common for Husky females to become incontinent after being spayed. Don't know why, but the vet told me so. Our Husky is 4yrs and she has an incontinance problem. The vet put her on Phenylpropranolomine 2X day and that has stopped the "leaking".
I too have had my carpets cleaned and have learned the hard way that certain cleaning methods leave the urine odor in the carpet pad and it wicks up into the carpet when it dries. The Husky sticks her nose into everything and when she smells that smell in the carpet (that I can't smell) she'll pee there on purpose when I am not at home. My chow doesn't do that at all, only the Husky.
So now I'm on a mission to fully clean the carpet (again, with those enzymatic cleaners) and will put a new area rug over the area has been pee'd on.
Take your Husky to the vet, you might be helped by the Phenyl stuff.
hey #72, -- the dog did not DIE. Get your facts straight and go someplace else to badmouth Cesar.
update on my post #71 -- I tried to get my friend to read the book -- no go. He said "It's not my dog" Oh well! At least he came back to the house to check on the dog again after he (human) calmed down.
k2,
That is a sad situation. The dog should go to a new house, where someone would care for him.
Today I was working on a house (I am a painter) owned by a well to do family. They have anything they want. They also have a dog, sweet Rosie. It's a similar situation to what you described. Rosie is let out of the house on a tie out a couple times a day for a few minutes. I used to work in that house before, and every day I would take her on a couple of walks. She was so happy to see me each morning, she new she'd have a chance to smell the grass.
Well, today the owners weren't home, and the doors were locked. Poor Rosie followed me from window to window as I moved around the house, looking at me with her sad eyes. I was heartbroken, because I couldn't even touch her. It was a really sad day for me, other people would laugh, but I know you guys will understand. I left before the owners came back home, leaving Rosie as she looked at me through the window.
Ewa,
That's sad, and I sure do understand how hard that must have been to leave poor Rosie. But, try and remember what Cesar says, dogs live in the moment, so maybe Rosie didn't mope for long..we can hope anyway.
K2,
Good for you for trying...maybe the owners when they return will be open to reading Cesar's book?
It should be required reading BEFORE anyone takes on the responsibility of owning a dog and maybe have to pass a written exam..lol!
Thanks you guys! Ewa, whenever I walk by the house where that dog lives, he goes BALLISTIC leaping at the windows and barking like mad at me and my dogs. I'm so afraid he is going to go right through a window one of these days. He and my two are the same age, and when they were puppies they were best of friends. But once he started becoming housebound and unbalanced, he started getting really aggressive -- not just towards other dogs, but even to me if I am by myself. I figure he must smell my dogs on me. I've gone over to the house to visit and he growls at me -- he does not like me at all. So, I have thought about offering to walk him, but I don't think it's a good idea in this particular case. I was so surprised today when he just walked up to us and was a nice as could be! It was like old times! But then when the angry caretaker came up behind him, the dog took a snap at my Lab/Shepherd -- and a couple growls, and then he was off and running. Well, maybe when they come home I can loan them the book. I doubt they even recognize what's happening with the dog, to be honest. He has such potential! He has a really sweet side to him that I have seen before (when I'm not too close ha ha).
Its a shame with all this going on with Cesar. He has helped so many animals and thier owners. I think any animal lover who watches his show is touched. If it wasnt for watching him i wouldnt have a career path. I was formerly a dog groomer and now im going to school to become an obediance instructer at a well known school in nc. I realized after watching him, by helping owners with thier "problem" dogs we can stop so many animals from ending up at the pound. I really hope these lawsuits wont effect him or his show in a negative way. Thier is so much more i can learn from watching him. And for all the bashers out there they are just mad they dont have his natural skills with animals.
Hi. This is my first time on this site. I have never had a chance to see the show but have heard so much about it.
I have 3 dogs: A golden retriever, a boxer, and an american bulldog. The retriever is a happy, fun-loving dog and he is always up to any challenge. "The Girls," on the other hand, are afraid of people. I have had them since they were pups and they have never been in a situation that would cause them to be afraid. My husband and I are the only ones that can touch them or even come near them. Any suggestions on how to fix this would be wonderful. I would like The Girls to be as comfortable around people and circumstances as the retriever.
Thanks
#72 "He's done..."
On the contrary, oh most unenlightened one. Hold on to your clicker and bag of super-yummy-treats, and scurry back to your "collective", where you will be safe in your assimilated group mind.
Practice your "happy voice" montra of "Pain, and Force, and Fear, oh my!", and see if you can't come up with just one shred of proof that Cesar's philosopies are not accurate, true, and save the lives of many dogs, which can not be "manipulated" or "conditioned" back into stability with your methods.
Oh darn, there goes my compassion again...
Erin,
Try to see the recent episode with Maddy - you'll get lots of clues from that. Also, try taking your shy dogs out 1 at a time with your Golden, and ask strangers to make a fuss HIM but to completely ignore the Bulldog. You Bulldogs can learn from the Golden how to be friendlier
For that idiot who thinks Cesar is a phony, yeah well a phony can't walk with 40+ plus dogs, breeds including pits, germans and rotts offleash can they?
Yeah so shut up.
I don't see any other trainers who are able to do that.
I tried being very, how you say, confident and like a leader my self with the out look to guide a dog, but what if they don't get it? She just got worse, though... the pity the dog has been cut down alot.
My 3 year old dog is scared of any loud noise, raised voice and just shakes uncontrollably until the noise is gone and it takes us forever to comfort her..but now i read into this it isn't good to comfort her but i am not sure how we can fix this?
I just found out about the law suit against Cesar. Now I´m dissappointed and fearful that we might never get to see Cesar´s show in Mexico. I think many people here in Mexico could use many of his tips. People would be proud to now that Cesar is mexican and would follow his advice. Unfortunately, this is a country where there are too many abused dogs. It think it is mainly because people don´t know how to teach them to be good pets so, they end up tied to a tree or locked in a small area.
Please bring his show to Nat Geo Latin America!!!!
In response to #72.
First, the dog didn't die. What happened was a tragic accident probably caused by an inattentive employee. Martha's dog wearing a backpack was Cesar showing how you can give a dog more exercise when you don't have time for a longer walk. Ideally, Cesar wants us to walk our dogs for at least 45 minutes every day. That's tough for some situations, hence the backpack and the treadmill. I don't personally like the treadmill. Part of the walk is mental work for the dog. Stopping, paying attention to you, the leader, and not other stimuli. It is all part of the dog doing his daily work before getting food and affection. I have five dogs and have not been able to have two of my labs around each other for five years because of aggression issues (vet bills and wounds to prove it!). In the past two days, the two girls have walked together with me, their calm assertive leader and I have had no problems. I am becoming much more attuned to my dogs and their "language". I understand the meaning of their looks, moves, body language and other behaviors that I never understood before. I owe all of this to reading "Cesar's Way" and watching "The Dog Whisperer." I watch the shows over and over and study everything that Cesar does. I am amazed at the little things I pick up on that he does. The best part is that it is all simple, natural and it really works. I have also been able to get friends to save a dog from being put down because they tried dealing with their pack in a new way. I hope someone is passing along some of all of your comments of support to Cesar. He should know that he has a solid fan base of support. My advice is: Pay the vet bills and damages, apologize for what happened and address the problem that led to the accident. We are humans, unlike dogs, we make mistakes...(They just respond to our mistakes!).
Here's a tip for the people (the ones we must train :-) dogs are easy - the owners are usually the problem :-)
The Institute of Heartmath in Boulder Creek California teaches a quick method for humans to put themselves in a no-stress-state. You reframe your own psychological attitude in precisely the way Cesar tries to put owners in a "think happy thoughts" state. The Heartmath "Technology" teaches humans how to shift their attitudes and perspectives very quickly. In the beginning it can take a minute to shift your attitude and perception but taking a dog on a walk every day with Heartmath "Tools" for the human owner will provide you enough practice to be able to shift yourself to calm states in seconds. Heartmath should probably call themselves "Human Whisperers" but, if they did, they'd probably be sued.
Everything depends on the owner's emotional state and Heartmath's tools are for helping you to learn to deal with your own emotional state. It has changed my life: dogs, kids, wives are all the better for me being able to shift out of stress-states. I'm a better father, better husband and it's even easier to live with myself!
It's a one-two punch for success for human pack-leaders :-)
http://www.heartmath.org - Help for human emotions.
PS: I often recommend Cesar's techniques to people with kids as the poor things often suffer from lack of discipline, exercise, and affection. :-) Parents or guardians need to set boundaries and deal with behaviors too someone has to provide the "Alpha Dog" standard for your children as well as your puppy...
Good luck Cesar - - Don't you dare think about giving up. You are much loved and your wisdom is cherished.
Greetings fellow dog lovers: I hope that someone can shed some light on a problem I am having with my border collie Nikki. I live in Philly in the city, and on a very congested street. We have a lot of traffic and I used to never walk my dog, but since I have become a fan of Ceasar's and am reading his book, my husband and I have been taking Nikki out on daily walks around the neighborhood for the past 2 months. Some days she does well, others she gets freaked, but we are consistent.
My problem lies with another aspect of her behavior. She has been peeing on our bed for the past few weeks, in particular, peeing on my husband's "side" of the bed. At first I thought it might be one of our cats, but have come to realize that a cat cannot pass that much water!! Help! I am weary of changing the bed (and thank goodness I have a waterproof mattress pad), but I would sure appreciate some input. My husband seems to think it is a territorial issue. I do not know what to think. Otherwise she is a reasonably "balanced" animal. Anybody have ideas/suggestions? As of now, we keep our bedroom door closed.
Thanks Much!!!
Peace,
Joanie P
Joanie,
The first thing to do is to make sure your dog has a check up with the vet. Urinating in inapporpriate areas, especially where the dog sleeps, is not a normal behavior.
I ALWAYS have my vet check my dogs when they begin urniating in places they would not ordinarily do so.
The last time this happened to one of our dogs it turned out she had diabetes.
After ruling out any health issues, I'll ask next how old is your dog? Depending on how young, young dogs have not always developed the needed muscle control to hold it like an adult dog can.
Next, is your dog spayed? Is she crate trained?
Beyond any biological issues, I'd suggest, if possible, to walk her as close to bedtime as possible, giving her ample time to empty her bladder.
If this is strictly behavioral and terrirtoral, then I'd bet she'll stop this behavior once the pack leader roles of you and your husband are established firmly in her mind.
Yo, #72 that was not what happened.
Dear Jill,
You say your dog shakes uncontrollably at loud noises, voices etc. and it takes so long for you to comfort and settle her down. Cesar says do not feed this type of discomfort by trying to console and comfort. Instead get them interested in something else to take their mind off of their problem. A walk, playtime, one of those toys you can put food in, anything. He says we must get the mimd moving forward. Hope this helps.
Dear JoanieP,
My dog has done this a couple of times. I had her checked out and she is now on Thyroid medication and a special meds for spinal pain. You might want to see you Vet.
Dear Jim H,
I really liked your comment about applying Cesar's teachings to children. I honestly feel that if more parents applied Cesar's way of thinking to managing their households and children, we might not have so many problems in todays world.
Most parents are afraid to be in charge. What a shame! The children wind up suffering from the lack of disipline, self-respect, pride, etc. and parents suffer from lack of respect, honor and being proud of their children. Parents are supposed to be leaders, guiders, support systems for their kids and they must start on day one.
Wouldn't it be wonderful if Cesar could go into the schools and day care centers to teach children his method with handling dogs and in turn teach them how they can put his methods to work for themselves in their own daily lives. Can you imagine having a world full of calm, assertive parents and children? He might be able to change the thoughts and mind set of the majority of the children of today. Help to make them calm, proud, happy, assertive, demand respect for themselves and learn to repect others. We can only pray!!!
Thanks for listening to my ramblings.
GinnyC.
I have nothing but praise to Cesar Milan. I live in a suburb outside of Boston, and we could sure use someone like you in this area. My family and I wait every week to watch your program, as well as learn your techniques with dogs. We are so amazed at how much we don't know about our dogs, but have learned through watching and listening to Cesar Milan. I have two maltese dogs,they're half brothers with two completely different temperments. One is 18 mos, the other just made a year. The older one is very territorial and VERY protective of me, the younger one rarely barks, more playful and doesn't seem to let anything bother him.
I just purchased your book and educating my family with it, as well as the dogs. My dogs are like my two children, yet through Cesar Milan, I have learned to be the "Pac Leader", more so with the older one.
I commend you Mr. Milan, you are truly an angel for a lot of people. I would love to see you come around the new england area, even for a book signing.
Thank you for your knowledge, Lucy
I was sad to hear of the Law suit. No wounder the Dog is fearful what a owner. Has anyone heard of Living with Wolves it's a DVD. they dispel bad myth of wolves and show the ture nature of wolves. Compassionate family animals,both playful and affecionate pack animals. Cesar is right on we the owners are so unprepared for our dogs when we get them.
we need the training it not fair to them they are pack animals we need Cesar's Way
I just read the news and I was shocked. I will say this. Cesar has helped so many people with their dogs, including me. His techniques and his realism about dogs has turned our jack russell into a very obedient, well adjusted friend. His caring is evident in his shows and his book. I am not sure what happened that day but hope that Cesar can/will stand tall with this. God does not give you anymore than you can handle threw him. Hang in there!!!
Help! I have 2 Doberman pinschers. Xena my 2 1/2 yr. female, when off leash, in a dog free area sees an approaching dog, runs toward it like she's going to attack and veres off. When a dog calls her on it she cries and submits. I have tried keeping her on leash, and she shrinks away terrified when they sniff her. I would like to let her run free often, but she's getting worse. My other 1 1/2 male doby loves every one. I read Cesar's book, and watch is shows and have learned a great deal. Any help on this matter of off leash work would be helpful.
I have an interesting problem with my neibor's dog (I walk her). I've been working with her on and off leash, and she's doing great aside from one thing. She is so afriad of moving cars, she sometimes refuses to walk on the sidewalk. I was able to work with her and bring her down from exited-dominant to calm-submisive, but I'm not sure what to do about her fear. I've tried "introdusing" her to parked cars, and that helped a little. But her main fear seems to be with moving ones. Any suggestions? Thank you ^_^
Hi all,
New one on the block. I'm so lost and disheartened about my wonderful Watchman, aka Houdini.He's a mix beagle, lab and something else. About 4 yrs. old. He looks like the sheep dogs in the movie Babe. We adopted him not knowing that he is afraid of any inclement weather( he can feel it coming hours before it reaches us) and also of being left outside in the large dog run, even with our other dog. We tried everything from harness on a lead to the shock invisible fence. He's so persistent and can escape thru and from anything. I watched him wriggle out of a harness I rigged up that was also attached to his legs, so he wouldn't get the harness off(I thought). I hope you don't think I'm cruel. It didn't hurt him, just seemed to keep him at at bay. It didn't for long. He's really a Houdini. It was very amusing but frustrating. Anyway we bring him in when there's bad weather or we have to leave. That's not a problem , but if he's really scared he tries to hide and find somewhere to dig. Taht means he breaks things, digs under desks and pulls out computer cords, digs things out of my closet and hides. If he can open the sliding door and he can, he then runs away. If he's out side he climbs the 6 ft.chain link fence and runs away.
My son will be taking him to his place(it's his dog)but is going to have to keep him in a cage (like a 4ft by 4ft thing)cause the landlord doesn't want him in the house unless my son is with him. I 'm so worried that Watchman will hurt himself trying to dig his way out or something. He will howl like he does when my son leaves for work, until I bring him in or console him.He likes being outside but if he has the chance he will climb the fence and run. People have told me that I shoud give him calming meds. But I really don't want to and besides they cost and arm and leg. What can we do? My son and I are at a loss for things to do. Has Cesar worked with Houdini before?
HELP!!
Sandy,
It's a *possiblity* (and I'm not a vet, so take that as a warning) that your dog is actually having a form of seizure when the weather is bad. A friend of mine had a dog like that and when she went out of the house through a window during a storm my friend thought she'd feel safer outside, right up until the day she went INTO the house through a window.
You can try associating storms with something nice, like playtime or feeding time, or training time. But if he doesn't seem to get any better, you might need to do one, or more, of several things.
I have a dog that, unlike yours, is fine in the house, he just can't be outside during storms...so if no one is home to let him in, he stays in a nice big dog crate with a comfortable bed. That might be a choice for you. Make the crate a pleasant place for him - maybe feed him there every day. At the very least, it'll limit what he can destroy. BUT, and this is a VERY BIG BUT - don't get the kind that has the 2 inch by 4 inch openings in the wire, make you sure you either get a good plastic crate with small, square wire openings on the door, or a wire crate with square openings all over.
The ones with the bigger holes are too easy for a dog to get their mouth caught in, or even too easy for the dog to bend and twist until they break. The ones with small, square openings don't give the dog something to bite. But the good quality plastic crates, like the ones made by Doscosil are probably the best.
The other option is a tranquilizer prescribed by your vet. The main problem with those is that you can't always be home to give them when they are needed, but they can help take the edge off the dog's anxiety.
There are several alternative things you can try - no guarantee they will work though. YOu can try, when he is inside anyway, putting a T-shirt on him. Some people have said this works well for their dog, others say it had no effect...so all you can do is try it and see. Another thing you can try is a homeopathic remedy called "Rescue Remedy"
You can get Rescue Remedy in sugar pill form that is very easy to give, but you have to know that homeopathic remedies are not meant to be absorbed in the stomach, they are meant to be absorbed in the mouth - so you put them under the dog's tongue, you don't shove them down his throat! Any good homeopathic store can help you get the proper dosage. Homeopathic remedies are completely safe (don't confuse them, though, with HERBAL remedies) and you can't possibly hurt your dog by giving them.
If you choose to try those, discuss how often to give them with the store clerk. Or do some study on them first. Sometimes you have to give them quite often - like every 10-15 minutes for the first few times for them to have an effect. It's a bit hit or miss, trial and error, until you find the right amount and the right timing interval for YOUR dog.
Doggone/GA,
Thanks so much for the suggestions. The t-shirt thing sounds good, but like I mentioned he is "Houdini". We dressed our dogs one time for some cute pictures and Watchman got out of the shorts and put his back foot in the end of the shirt, stepped on it, then pullled his front foot thru the armhole and wiggled all over til he could get all feet out and it was hanging around his neck. he probably would have got it all the way off but I was afraid he'd get it on his face and not be able to breath, so I took it off.
As for Rescue remedy, I did try it, but not like you said. I only gave it to him a couple times a day. And , I gave it to him with a piece of cheese.I think I will try it the way
you said.
The cage is wire with small squares. My son told me He is going to build him a dog house to fit inside with his pillow in it. So hopefully, he'll be ok. Today is the first day my son will leave him in the cage while he's at work. I'm really a bit anxious to hear how he does. But feeding him in it and making it a nice thing sounds like the way to go.It's hard when my son has to be away and not able to watch him the first few days.
I'll keep updated. If any one has any other thoughts we're open for help.
Thank You!!
As I live overseas I have been unable to watch the show, but have just ordered his book, online as I need help with my rescued 7 month old min pin. I am trying to pee sheet train her at the moment and when I cannot be with her, I pop her in a pen with her pee sheet tray, blanket and toys. I usually try to cuddle her for 20 mins before penning her, and never pen her for more than 2 hours, except at night (midnight to 7ish). When she starts to get frustrated and yappy, I try to let her cry and settle herself for a little longer. However, at least once a day, she will pee in her bed, in anticipation of me coming to release her from her pen. What can I do to aleviate this? She when we go walking in the am and evening she is terribly agressive to most people and dogs and gets almost frenzied. I have just started trying the shush! and yanking firmly on her harness (not to hurt her though), picking her up and holding her belly up in my arms, but she has not improved. I really want her to feel that I am in control and that she enjoys her walks. I would appreciate anyones advice on what I may be doing wrong... thanks!
We just watched the Mattie episode about fearful dogs, and I wonder if anyone can help with my dog's fear of small children.
Serendipity is my service dog, a 3 yr-old shepherd mix who helps me walk, so she goes everywhere with me. She is often in public settings where children approach her unexpectedly. Her fear is well-based: when she was about 6 months old, a toddler threw a (little) chair at her face. Since then, while attempting to de-condition her to small children, she has had fingers poked in her eyes and up her nose. (If only children could be controled as easily as dogs!)
Seri growls a warning when she becomes upset, and has snapped at children when I have not intervened quickly enough. I try to protect my dog at all times, but it seems impossible to anticipate every situation. Once during a picnic a child ran up behind us and grabbed her tail before I knew what was happening. It is these situations in which I have no control that I find most threatening to my dog. I'd appreciate any suggestions. Thanks.
I have a question about very limited fear aggression. I have a 5 year old neutered male bouvier (about 90 pounds) who has a history of dominance issues, but is currently happily calm submissive.
He has never been fearful of anything EXCEPT:
1)he would bark and whine and push us over when we went to open a window and
2)he goes totally red zone over the vacuum cleaner. He has actual ripped the hard shell plastic body of one of our vacuums. He has never aggressed against us, just the evil hoover.
Using Cesar's methods we have beat the window issue.
The vacuum is still a problem. We've got him to the point where we can take the vacuum out and roll it across the floor (turned off) but the second it's turned on he still goes ballistic.
This is his only problem, but it is shocking to see this calm quiet animal turn into cujo at the flick of a switch.
We're really tired of one of us having to take him out of the house just so the other person can use the vacuum.
Does anyone have any ideas?
We have a 4 year old neutered pug. His peeing "EVERYWHERE" in the house is only getting worse. My husband is in denile, because his dog can do no wrong. Please help.
I have a wonderful purebred Akita, and I would like you to train him. Currently, he lives in a very rural area, however this may change very soon as my husband may very well be reassigned to Dubai, UAE and that would mean we would have to live in a building with other people and dogs and we would need Amir to adjust and behave in that environment. I saw your program and we are very impressed and hope that you would help us and train our dog, because he definatly IS the ALPHA male in our house, he is very spoiled. Please help us unspoil our dog.
Thank you,
Sonia Artino
Hello,
I live in northern California in Sonoma County. I have three dogs. Zephyr (Australian Shepard), Junior (Lab-Akita mix) and Nano (chow mix). I resued Nano in 2001 from a gentelman that was working on my horse farm in North Carolina. The worker was not feeding Nano and I felt it best to take Nano in to my personal care. However, Nano had been seriously abused at some point in his life. Our worker was the only person able to lay their hands on Nano. To say that Nano was untrusting of humans would be an understatment. He was terrified. Nano and I got along very well and he has been with me ever since. Nano has always been very skittish with new people and can be so with me to this day. Nano is extremely well behaved and has overcome some of his timid behavior.
I grew up with dogs and grew up training dogs and horses. My father has passed on to me his years of dog knowledge. My father used to train guard dogs in New York City. At night time my father's dogs would be used in place of a security system. However, the dogs were family dogs during the day. Along with the guard dogs my father bred Great Danes. Needless to say, the love of dogs was passed on to me. I spent 12 years training and physically/mentally rehabilitating horses. Our treatment center was often a last ditch effort by the owners. Thousands of dollars of vet bill and hours of trainers often times had not even scratched the surface of these horses. We would transform these animals. I felt more than qualified to take on an abused dog like Nano.
Our three dogs are a wonderful pack. There are always comments through out are neighborhood about how well behaved our dogs are. Unfortunately Nano has bitten four people. Luckly, we have not yet been sued. I have never witnessed Nano's biting so I am not sure as to what is state of mind is when he lashes out. In fact each situation has been completely different. I feel that if I knew what kind of situation triggers him to bite, that we could avoid putting him in that situation. My husband and I are at a loss. We cannot continue to run the risk of Nano biting another person. I also do not feel it is fair to Nano to keep him out of the contact of outside humans - but the risk is so high. My options are very limited at this point. We have put forth an effort to find Nano another home, but have been unsuccessful - no one wants a biting dog. I do not want to donate him to a local resue as I am not sure that they are qualified to handle him. People have suggested putting him down. It kills me to think that putting him down may be my only last option. I love this dog so, so, so much. I want what is best for him and for my family. In a perfect world I would like for Nano to be in a situation that is good for him for the rest of his life.
Thanks!
Hi Andrea,
After reading your post, I have to wonder about your statement "There are always comments through out are neighborhood about how well behaved our dogs are. Unfortunately Nano has bitten four people. Luckly, we have not yet been sued. I have never witnessed Nano’s biting so I am not sure as to what is state of mind is when he lashes out......" How on earth has your dog been unsupervised so that FOUR times he's bitten people? Something is amiss and you seem to be trying very hard and wanting to make things right for Nano. I think that your own statement provides you the clue as to where you need to begin. If Nano is afraid of people, he should not be unsupervised for his exposure to people. He needs to have positive experiences with people in a 'controlled situation' where you are there as the pack leader. This way he'll build up his own confidence. Good luck. It's a tough situation for you and for Nano.
Dear Aussie Owner,
Our dogs are always on leashes while outside of our yard. Nano's bitting has occured in our control either in our yard or at a friends house. Two situations - bitting out of fear and bitting out of protecting his own territory. It is my belief that Nano has not become as well adjusted as he is because we have separated him from people. People can pet Nano today because he has been exposed. To separate him from people would be cruel. He is a people dog. However the hard place and the rock get thrown in when he bites.
Hence my difficult situation.
Thanks for your thoughts
An update on my prior post:
As for the lawsuit over copyright infringements, it seems to me that the plaintiff is just trying to make a lot of noise and get themselves some publicity (especially after reading one of their comments that seemed more like a plea for sympathy, especially after she brought in her family and her "minority status"). It did say that they made an attempt with a show called "The Dog Whisperer" prior to Cesar beginning "Dog Whisperer" on National Geographic; depending on the wording of the copyright, however, there could be a loophole through this aspect of the lawsuit (the lawsuit also includes breaches of contract and other things). I have a strong doubt that this case is substantial, my feeling is that it's a frivolous case for them to gain publicity.
The case with the dog at the Dog Psychology Center is either a very elaborate scam (which I doubt) or legitimate. It's common, and wise, practice to list anybody and everybody involved as a defendent in such cases; therefore, the Dog Psychology Center as a business is being sued, not necessarily Cesar Millan as an individual. I've only heard that Cesar was not there at the time that the dog was. My honest opinion, and advice based on my limited legal experience, is for the Center to settle outside of court and address the cause of the lawsuit...That means that somebody would be rightly fired. I personally would fire whoever was involved with working with that dog.
Those are my opinions on the cases from the limited knowledge that I have (I have absolutely no evidence from the lawsuit regarding copyrights and contracts, I can only base it on what I've read and heard).
I tell everyone that Cesar is my hero. I bought the first season, and the book and the book on cd. Fridays are reserved for Cesar's show. I don't blindly follow celebrities, I'm devoted because his instinctive teachings have worked for me and my dogs. For years I drove to parks away from my neighborhood to occationally walk my dogs because they pulled my around whenever we got close to another dog. Now, I'm back home again! We walk daily close to home and we are all doing a lot better. Cesar, I know you and your family will overcome this latest problem with the lawsuits. I send all of my love and support to you.
Noah,
Thanks for the update on your previous post and sharing your thoughts.
About the plantiff bringing up her "minority" status...where does that leave Cesar's "minority" status? Seems like that would be a wash at any rate.
we are doing all the 'right' things , i think, but she seems to be
a terribly aggressive puppy! she is biting nipping growling and
barking at us. she bares her teeth when she barks. she bites at the back
of our legs and it's gotten to where we don't want to let her into the house.
we are looking for a good dog trainer to help us with what to do NOW so
things don't get worse but so far, we haven't found anyone. we really don't
know if ther is something WRONG with the dog? or if she has a terrible
temperment? our son has been bitten by another dog we had for a short while
and we don't want to go through that again. help help!!! should we just
give her away? sell her? give up? thanks SO MUCH for any help you can
pass our way.
I've had a rescue dog for nearly a year, he's my 2nd Australian Cattledog (first was not a rescue) and was nearly 2yo when he came to live with us. He had some terrible fear issues which we have slowly been resolving, but he's my first ever shy dog. All my dogs have been bold and unfearful, and he's got me stumped. We were 'interviewed' privately for entry into a very well run doggy daycare facility (for him to become more friendly & outgoing) and he sat trembling next to me during our interview. I've been around canines and done some training over the years to know what not to do (reinforcement of fears) but I'm stumped as to what I *should* be doing. I can't tell if the type of dog he is was how he was born (nature) or how he was raised (nurture) before he was rescued.
Poor Marley.
I don't know where else to post this, but I need to get it off my chest. My husband got me the book "Marley & Me" as a gift. I'm only up to page 21, but I feel soooooo sorry for Marley.
1) The wife decided to get a dog to "practice" for having a baby after she killed a houseplant. A dog deserves to be a dog, nothing more.
2) the couple gave little consideration to the breed or breeder.
3) when meeting the litter for the first time, they chose the most challenging, energenic, assertive pup. This was the pup who ran them over and chewed the husbands watch band on the first meeting. Moreover, the "breeder" told them females are $400, males are $375; oh, that one, he's $350". Of course meaning that she was willing to give the most difficult to place pup with these inexperienced people.
4)On the way home, the husband put the pup in a bundle of towels on the front seat (DANGER!!!) and thought it was funny when the pup struggled to get to the driver seat. More "funny" was the pup becoming excited by being petted while driving. Even Brittany Spears knows better.
I haven't read the whole book yet (I'm not sure I want to continue). The fly leaf talks about the heartwarming experiences this couple had with "the world's worst dog." I have seen some interviews with the author that detail some of the heartwarming moments; they are significant.
I have no doubt why poor Marley became the world's worst dog. The fact that he was able to provide emotional support to his humans in times of need is a testament to thousands of years of dog-human cohabitation and co-evolution.
But I still feel really sorry for poor Marley. And I worry about the impact of this book being a best-seller.
SIGH. I have an extremely fearful rescue dog. The rescue cannot pay $500 for training. I don't know what we are going to do with her. In this state she is totally unadoptable. I wish Cesar were coming to Washington DC to shoot some film, that would be so great for her.
I have a sweet humane society rescue dog that is about 11 months old. She is really turning into a wonderful dog. She is very smart and is being given good care (excercize, food, dog toys that challenge, attention,etc.) but we are having a terrible time with her stealing various articles and chewing them up. We thought it was seperation anxiety but she still does it while we are around her. This morning, she stole a small container belonging to my husband while he was in the bathroom getting ready for work. (Anxiety about his leaving?) Then, while I was working in the kitchen, she found the sewing machine case in the next room over and chewed the whole side out. She was alone for approximately 5 minutes. She steals kleenex,paper, cardboard items, armchair covers, rugs, plastic anything,and 2 days ago, she chewed up the sprinkler heads to our hose in the yard. HHHeeeelllppp! We have tried the pack rules and she is submissive while we are there but it is like she is out to punish us shortly after we stop the session. She hits any time of the day or night and doesn't seem to have created any kind of pattern that we can see to work with.
Andie, Do I dare respond? Well, here goes... I consider Marley & Me one of the top 5 BEST books I have ever read. Ever. I laughed out loud, and cried out loud. I sat and hugged the book and cried and cried for an hour after finishing it. I think you're taking it way too seriously, and seeing all the awful things and none of the beautiful things. The story is a true account of what this poor bumbling couple did with their first dog. I think it was the most touching piece of literary genius I've come across in YEARS. Sure, there were some scary moments during their life together, but haven't we all had frightening moments with our dogs and families? Haven't we all made stupid mistakes with our pets from time to time? I thought the book was a honest, heartwarming account of a young couple and their beloved first dog.
There ya go! That's my two cents. I keep the book on the top shelf of my bookcase, photo up, so I can smile when I walk by. I've recommended it to all my dog-loving friends.
Update on my post #80, above... the people who own that dog moved away and they now live in a place with a big fenced-in yard, so he's no longer tied up on a short rope and they're at home all the time now so they get to spend tons of time with their dog! I guess my silent prayers for him were heard! You know what dog is backwards!!!! LOL!
K Miller, I would suggest a "nothing is for free" policy on toys that DO belong to her, and keep everything that does NOT belong to her out of reach. When my dog was in the first two years of life, he was the same way. He tore up anything he could get ahold of. He didn't destroy furniture, just small things. Books, shoes, paper, TV remotes, towels, underwear, socks, etc. If she has toys or chewy bones or whatever, keep them in a toy box that she can't access and make her sit or do a trick before she can have one. Keep all HUMAN belongings in closets, or high up where she can't reach them. Close all closet doors, etc.
Get the books by Patricia McConnell. She has written one that is about things like this, I can't remember the name of it, I'll re-post when I find it. But just go onto Amazon or anywhere and look for Patricia McConnell. Her books are very common-sense and written in perfect explanations of how things should be done. She has a lot of the same techniques as Cesar Millan.
McConnell's book is called "I'll Be Home Soon" - it's about separation anxiety from minor misbehavior (like yours) all the way to severe separation anxiety. I highly recommend her books as complimentary to Cesar's Way and Cesar's DVDs.
Thank you both for the help. I will get the book and get to work. She only stole a washcloth and a plastic bottle today. Your suggestions are much appreciated.
Shirley (post #100),
My suggestion is to NOT allow your female dobie off leash until you have thoroughly socialized her with other dogs. It doesn't seem like she has proper social skills with "unfamiliar dogs" and is overcompensating by approaching the other dogs dominantly. And as you said, if another dog shows true dominance, she shrinks away. This can easily make her a target and I would be very careful in allowing her around unbalanced dogs. I would take her, on leash, to places where other dogs will be and walk her with another dog. After BOTH dogs are tired, I would allow social time (still on leash) to smell each other and if all seems well, now is the time for off leash socialization. You just have to make sure that both Xena and the other unfamiliar dog are TIRED from the walk. Good luck!
Chiharu(#101),
I have the same problem with my female boxer. She is terrified of cars, bikes, and basically anything moving with wheels. My suggestion is to have her sit in a calm-submissive state in an area where alot of cars will pass by. She will probably panic a little, but you have to stay calm and get her into a calm-submissive state. This will probably take MANY times of doing this before you see any results, but she should eventually realize that you are calm, and nothing happens to her when she's around the cars. Good luck!
Vivi (#105),
When you put her in and let her out of her crate, are you making it a big deal? As in, are you excited and talking to her in a high voice/baby talk? If so, she might not be able to handle that state of arousal and hence, pees in her crate. Are you placing the pee pads IN her crate with her? If so, she will always associate going potty with being in her crate. I would suggest not putting any pee pads in her crate if she is going to be in there for only 2 hours at a time. I assume at 7 months she can hold it for 2 hours (of course this will depend on her weight, but she should be fine).
With her aggression on leash, is she walking behind/beside you or way out in front? If she is way out in front, make sure to correct that behavior first by keeping her behind or beside you at all times on the walk.
It sounds like she is controlling the house and is the ALPHA. Start by controlling everything she does, feeding, toys, and especially walks. Do not tolerate any aggression on leash. Give her a firm "Sht" or a quick jerk and make her sit with her back to other dogs until she is calm-submissive. She should eventually get the fact that she no longer has to protect the pack and that you are in control.
Sonia (#109),
Cesar does not answer questions on this blog and probably does not read it.
However, if you've seen the shows and read his book, you will know some techniques on how to assert yourself within your household. First and foremost, you will need to master the walk, which means walking your Akita with him beside or behind you and not pulling. He should be in a calm state and should not get distracted by anything. If he does, a quick jerk on the leash should be used as a correction.
Secondly, you need to control all aspects of his life. There is a program called NILIF (Nothing in Life is Free) that you can institute. This means that he must work for everything that he gets, toys, food, treats, affection. The "work" can be as simple as a "Sit" command or anything else he knows how to do. Most importantly, he needs to maintain a calm-submissive state of mind before he gets any type of reward. Also, it might be a good idea to withhold affection for a week or so until he gets the message that you are not in control. It would be wise to seek out a professional to help you institute these policies and get him under control before the move. Moving can be very stressful on a dog and especially so if he feels the need to be in control. Best of luck on your upcoming move!
Kyra (#116)
It sounds like things have escalated to the point of where you are scared of your dog. How old is she? What breed? When did you get her? I would seek out professional help immediately since it seems like you cannot control her.
A couple questions: Have you been walking her? As with many dogs who are not walked and are HIGH energy, they get frustrated and if that frustration has no outlet, they become aggressive. You said that you son has been bit before by another dog, could it be that the family is treating this new dog as if she will eventually bite as well? If so, this can become the exact situation you all have predicted.
If you feel comfortable doing so, start taking your pup on structured walks for AT LEAST 45 minutes a day. If she has alot of pent up energy, she could require more than that. Introduce a back-pack for dogs into the walk and slowly add weight to increase the intensity of the walks. Include your entire family in the process so that she sees that everyone is the pack leader.
What are the "right" things that you have been doing thus far?
Vivi #105, are you my friend Vivi from Bordeaux, France who once owned the Golden Retrieve, Winston???
I need some help. I have a five year old mastiff/rott. mix who has developed a fear of firecrackers over the last two years. The problem started when our new neighbors moved in next door and they used firecrackers in their backyard to celebrate the fourth of July. We have another dog that is 7 years old and did not have a problem with firecrackers before and now both the two dogs are so afraid of loud noises that the become highly aggitated. Last fourth of July we left a dog sitter with the two dogs over fourth of July holiday, The dogsitter had given both dogs a sedative which we had gotten from our vet, but the mastiff became so fearful even with the sedative. that he ate the door frame off the back door, and damaged the door handle from his attempts to get inside the house. I don't have any ideas what to do to calm our mastiff so he does not damage the house or himself. If I'm home, he still becomes fearful and seems unable to calm down until the firecrackers/fireworks stop. What can I do to teach him not to be fearful especially if I'm not home at the time. He is a great dog but I'm afraid he might hurt himself.
Hi Vicky,
Cesar addresses this issue of fear of thunderstorms/firecrackers in the Live Chat transcript. You might want to check that out.
But just to add on to what he says, because I have a dog who is also fearful of firecrackers and thunderstorms. What I have found to work for my pup is a distraction of something he REALLY loves. He happens to love tennis balls, so I do not let him have any tennis balls until a thunderstorm comes (or people start setting off fireworks). Then I get out the tennis ball and actively engage him in a game of toss in the living room. I just throw the ball up a little, he catches it, drops it, and then repeat. I wouldn't suggest making it a game of fetch with a ball in the house unless you have space for this. But definitely keep his/her attention on you and his favorite toy and NOT what is going on outside. It really helps to calm my guy down and it also tires him out, which is great anyways!
I've been having trouble implementing this technique lately b/c all the thunderstorms have been in the middle of the night and there is NO WAY I am getting out of bed at 2AM to play catch with the pup:)haha.
Good luck with your situation, another suggestion that some have proposed is to put a t-shirt on the dog. Seems to calm down some dogs. Didn't work for mine though, but the distraction technique works GREAT so long as the distraction is REALLY enticing to your pup.
Hi everyone!
This is the first time I have ever done this (written on a blog). I have a 4 year old american bulldog, 150lbs. I rescued him from a very abusive and neglectful situation. He was beaten, starved, and left in a small room all day. He lived in his own filth. he also had a lot of physical problems such as a double ear infection that took 3 months to clear up. (The vet was as horrified as I was and said he would lose some hearing because of it.) Anyway, he was very fearful of everything. He has gotten alot better....until recently. He has become very aggressive with his fear, and has bitten 2 people in the last week. I am very distressed, obviously because 2 people were injured, but also because he can be so sweet and well behaved. This behavior scares me, which doesn't help, but geez, my head fits in his mouth! Both bites were not as bad as it could have been, and out of fear. I have considered submitting a tape, but I don't want to be on the show (I prefer to watch!). any suggestions would be appreciated, I would rather not give him up or use euthenasia.
Esther,
I would suggest consulting an animal behaviorist. Fear aggression can be a diffult situation to deal with. First and foremost, you know from watching DW that you need to step up and be the pack leader to your bulldog. These are "gladiator" breeds and need TONS of exercise and discipline. Also, you MUST NOT feel sorry for him because of his past abuse. That only projects weak energy and he will feel the need to be the pack leader. Continue to watch DW, get his book, and watch the DVD. They will help you to become the dominant one in your pack and that will allow your pup to feel more secure in his pack. You will also need to address his fears, but I would work on asserting yourself with him first. If you'd like to post more specific questions, there are some great people on this blog that might have better suggestions! Please keep us updated!
Hi Vicky, My Lab/Shepherd is terribly afraid of both thunderstorms and firecrackers. I admit that I am responsible for his fear (dislike) of firecrackers/fireworks, since I am extremely intolerant of them. We live on a lake, and people around light off fireworks constantly, year-round. I get angry, and the anger translates to my pup. It is so bad that on the 4th of July and on New Year's, I've actually brought my dogs to my office (5 miles away) and WORKED on those nights just to keep him from clawing the skin off my legs and arms. I have actually slept on the floor of my office building on more than one July 4th weekend! Another way I dealt with it before finding Cesar Millan was to crank up my music really loud, and run all the fans in the house (I don't have a/c) and "drown out" the sounds. This would eventually soothe him, but at first he'd be scared of that too. Another thing I did was to go down into our laundry room in the basement (which I dubbed "the Bomb Shelter") and sit down there and read a book while he slept on the cool floor. The fireworks can't be heard over the washing machine. But it's gross down there, and there's no TV!! LOL Basically, I don't recommend any of these tactics, as I now know I was doing everything wrong. I was nurturing his behavior by changing our environment and reacting badly to the fireworks myself and giving him affection when I felt bad for him.
I have heard that taking the dog for a walk or ride in the car during these events is actually helpful.
I'll share what happened to me last night... there was a glorious thunderstorm here (I LOVE thunderstorms, so I'm not responsible for making him scared about those). Last night's storm was the most incredible I'd ever seen. The sky was orange, we had a double rainbow over our back yard, and the lightning was spectacular. Before it began, BOTH of my dogs were really nervous. I was working in my home office, and I was really engrossed in what I was doing so I wasn't reinforcing their fear because I was too busy. When the storm began, my boyfriend and I both went outside and stood out there marveling at mother nature and the gorgeous rainbows and the lightning bolts that were striking pretty close to us! Well, the dogs came outside with us, and they were completely calm! It was the weirdest thing! They were afraid inside the house, but not outside in the thick of the storm!
Years ago, a friend of mine had a Belgian Shepherd that was so afraid of fireworks, the dog ate the entire interior of a Chevy while her owner was at a town fireworks display. They left the dog in the car (duh!) and she ate all the upholstery, armrests, even the panels of the doors. The entire inside of the car was in shreds, and the dog was bleeding. It was horrible.
The best advice I've heard is to act calmly yourself, take the dog outside for a walk if you can, and/or a drive in the car, and don't give tons of affection and feeling sorry for the dog, this will only reinforce the behavior. There are also tranquilizers and things like that, but I don't advocate the use of that stuff. Exposing him to the fearful object is probably best, just do it in little baby steps.
Esther-
I agree that you need the help of a canine behaviorist, we can offer tips and suggestions but without actually seeing the triggers and reactions in person no one can help you best deal with and help your dog, but there are a few general things you can try.
Your dog never got the benefit of early socialization with dogs or people, so to him this is a whole new world with strange rules that he just doesn't understand, and what we don't understand we tend to fear. And with dogs, fear becomes fear agression... they want to scare off what they are afraid of.
When your dog exibits the starting indicators of fear, tucking his tail and hindquarters, lowering his head...etc, you want to avoid coddling him and moving to protect him. Instead you want to do gentle things to snap his mind out of it, to distract him... carry a squeaker from a squeaky toy in your pocket and when he starts tensing squeak it once... the noise will distract him as you continue to walk as if nothing happened. Before he knows it he will be past the object of fear and he would not have had his usual bad experience because his mind was elsewhere... wondering where that squeak came from.
My pup, Loki, had some fear issues, and this is a very bad thing in Service Dogs and one that shows fear can never be considered for Service Dog work, but I discovered by accident that if I make a game of the scary thing he forgets that it is scary... the first time he heard my cell phone ring he freaked, scurrying away peeing the whole way... the next time it rang I made a huge fuss "yayyyy... woohoooo... yipppyyyyy" and he got so caught up in my excitement that he forgot he was scared of it... the next time it rang he looked at me with his tail down and again I cheered the phone and he immediatly started barking and running around with his tail wagging like mad... the cell phone doesn't bother him at all anymore and he can even hold it when it rings.
Inside that dog of yours is an animal that very much wants to live in your life... he just doesn't know how, but he will take his cues from you... act calm and he will be calm... act nervous because of how he acted in the past and he will grow nervous and defensive... act excited and he will get excited.
Don't make him a victim of your sorrow over his past, he lives in the now... now he is well fed... now he is clean... now he is taken care of physically... now he has to learn how to be a ballanced dog when he never had the chance to learn before.
#116 Kyra-
How old is your pup?
Remember that puppies go through a 'nippy play stage' and play growling is often involved...
Here are some simple tips:
Don't hit him on the nose, he will think it is all part of the playing... think about how he played with his siblings... those needle puppy teeth hurt yet they keep playing, so a whap on the nose will do nothing but encourage his biting, instead... when he nips get up, look at him in disgust and leave the room. Your pup wants attention and if you leave he will not get it. Go back when he calms, but every time he starts nipping repeat the disgusted look, add a "SHHHHT" or an AHHHH (think of a gameshow buzzer for wrong answer) and leave the room.
No playing tug-o-war... it is a game that builds agression, especially if you let the puppy win... letting him win gives him the mindset that he is stronger and therefor in charge.
DO THE WALK... yep... walk that pup and work off that extra energy so that he can have a calmer mind... and remember the rules of walking... he walks beside you or behind you so that you can physically be his Pack Leader
#108 Elizabeth-
Where is your crate?
Your dog needs to go through potty 101 again, not only for your sake and the sake of your health but for your dog's sake. It is not natural for a dog to want to 'mess' in it's home.
#132 Vicky-
Read my post #137... it could help you as well...
When home, do the distraction... squeak a squeaker when the thunder rolls... any noise that breaks through the fright barrier and gets the dogs attention... to make him go "huh?" and once you have his attention, distract distract distract... get his mind on something else. It would be a good time to offer him a soothing massage once he is distracted and calmer... the massage will release endorphines.
I do not believe in sedating a dog for fear... it only masks the problem but does nothing to help... it is a crutch for us, something to make us feel better, not them.
Try making a huge fuss, clap your hands and dance around like a fool when a storm hits... make it a game... when the thunder rolls you have a party... he will grow more interested in joining you, after all, you are the Pack Leader and if you say it is fun then it is fun... slowly wean off the party but still keep upbeat when storms come... in his mind storms will be associated with romping and fun... with good energy... and as you slow down on the bouncing and loud cheers he will slow down until all is normal and thunder will be no more than a sound to him.
A word on sedation for dogs...
Remember that dogs are not people, they do not know the reason that they are all of a sudden more tired and sleepy, all they know is that something scary is happening and they do not feel good enough to react to it... they feel doped, lethargic, out of touch... you can't explain to them that the pill will make things easier to handle, instead your dog will not only fear the innitial trigger, but the new sensations that are happening.
Immagine yourself in a foreign country, you do not know the culture or the language, you get hurt or sick and someone babbles something at you and forces medicine on you, you can't ask what it is for and you are scared, you have no idea what is going on and now you are drugged... you cannot protect yourself if something happens... this is how your dog feels, they can't understand why they feel loopy, they just know that not only are they scared but they are now helpless.
You will never hear a dog owner say "my dog ran up to me and begged for a pill because fireworks were going off" but what you will hear is "I had to hold my dog down and push a pill down their throat before he would calm down"... if the pills really worked the way they do on humans then a dog would get the association over time and WANT the pills, but instead they run from people when the trigger happens because people force things down their throats and things get worse.
Fear behaviors are deeply instilled, they take patience and time, they take dedication and understanding... you might not know what started the fear, but you know it is there and you probably know the triggers. You can interrupt the cycle of fear by replacing the sensations with something positive, but it will not be an overnight cure.
Just remember, sedating a fearful dog makes things easier for US... not for THEM... if you are out for the best interest of your dog then you have to do it the hard way... it will be time consuming and there will be setbacks, but there will also be a better understanding and trust bond that makes every minute well worth it.
Penny, I couldn't agree more about the sedatives! Very well said!
Since this blog is on fear of dogs, I figured I'd ask advice here:
My dog is afraid of loud noises....what do I do? While my other dog is afraid of the keyboard slider and won't even go in the same room!! And they both are afraid of the vacum...what do i do?
* Since this blog is on dogs having fears .....lol sorry didn't mean having a fear of dogs.
Jackie-
Look at post 140, you can use these same techniques
thank you penny
I also rescued an abused corgi mix dog (female/ 4yrs.old) and while she is somewhat fearful of people and noises it is her interaction with other dogs that is most concerning to me. She is curious about them and wants to sniff them but if they make a move toward her or try to sniff her she will growl or do a fearful snapping motion with a bark toward them. How do I socialize her without injuries to anyone? Or should I just wait a while until she is less fearful overall? We've had her a month. Thanks for any help in this matter.
I have to admit, I initially avoided the TV show (my spouse told me about one episode that I decided to catch, then watched it regularly). The reason for avoiding it was that I am SO TIRED of everyone copy-cating "The Horse Whisperer" by calling themselves the Whatever "Whisperer". The dog whisperer. The cat whisperer. The bear whisperer. The sheep whisperer. The pidgeon whisperer. (I made up some of these, but you get the point.) It has been rampant. Geeze, how unimaginative. As though the only reason someone should listen to you is because you call yourself "whisperer", trying to cash in on a book/movie success. No one is a trainer or a behaviorist, they are a "whisperer". So the title turned me off. However, after seeing the show, I was impressed with the *person* so started watching it *in spite of* the title.
What a refreshing relief to see his book titled "Cesar's Way". Now THAT is creative. I like a little play on history and it would not have worked with any other name. Way to go! The book is a very interesting read, too.
Years ago, while wandering through one of those mall petstores, I spied a papillon pup cowering in the back of the cage. He was about 6-8 weeks old, had just arrived the night before by plane from somewhere (probably a puppy mill, since no reputable breeder would have removed a papillon from it's mother this young, much less sold him to a pet store) and was in a state of sheer unmitigated terror. I've never seen anything like it.
I took him into the "little room" where prostpective buyers can interact with the puppies. He dove under my winter coat, shoved hiss head down the armhole and spent the entire time there. He did NOT want to come out. I just stayed calm and let him settle down, no moving or talking or petting; finally after about 20 minutes he stopped shaking and you could feel him relax. Until they put him back into the cage, at which point he was in total terror again.
Over the years, I've often wondered whatever happened to this dog. So many families would be wrong for him and I wonder if he found someone who could nuture his self-confidence, or if he turned into a fear-biter.
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We got a dog named tyler about a year ago he was abused as a puppy and was scared of every thing he got use to the family but when every we put hiim in the kennal and leave he barks and cries and we get fines for it when ever someone comes over he hides he gets scared to easily.
We also got a dog named pete he was a good dog for about a half a year but he always runs off and now we don't let him any more but now if we try to touch him when hes out side he tries to bite us so we have to let him run but then the neighbors call the cops cause he is running around .
Please help. I have to mini doxies Punpkin & Pretzel. Pumpkin is "petrified" of thunder and lightening storms which we get a lot of here in Florida. It is heartbreaking to see her so afraid. I have tried everything. I simple don't know what to do. "HELP"
Pretzel is fine. You could drop a bomb and she would not care bpoor Pumpkin gets so stressed out I am afraid she could have a heart attack.
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Eileen-How old is Pretzel? One of my dogs is a Lab who is 13yrs old, she was never afraid of storms till she got to be around 10yrs. I then came across an article that stated that a dog will sometimes tense up during storms and doing this in older dogs can cause pain when they tense. If Pretzel is a young dog have you tried to play with her during the storm? You could also record a storm and play it back at lower levels then the storm itself and praise her for being calm then gradually make it louder over a week or so as she improves.
I am heading out to the bookstore to buy "Cesar"s Way". I have 2 shelties 15months old who are brother and sister. The male I obtained at 3 months and the female at 6 months. Max is well adjusted and Isabelle came to me as a neurotic mess. Unwittingly, I have been reinforcing the neurotic behavior by attmpting to reassure her that she is well loved. I think she might be a result of the chaotic atmosphere in the breeders home--the breeder"s illness, multiple older dogs as well as grandchildren. Max on the other hand had my undivided attention in the form of training for the first 2 months.
Susan, Cesars book is great and one that he recomends at the end of his book to read is "How To Be Your Dogs Best Friend" The Monks of New Skete wrote it and they also wrote another which I haven't read The Art of Raising a Puppy. Good lock with the Shelties.
Jen
Thanks for the response. Pumpkin is about 8yrs old. I got her from an animal shelter on the west coast of Fl. I will try to distract her if the storm is during the day when I am home. However when the storm is early hours of the morning and she wakes me up it is difficult to be in the mood to "play" She is such a sweetie I hate to see her so streesed out. Thanks again for your imput.
P.S Do you know anything about the problems situation that happened at Caesors kennel in Calif.? What happened to one of the dogs.? I can't imagine Ceasor allowing anything to happen to any animal deliberately.
Hi Eileen, I hope it all works out with Pumpkin it is sad to see a dog that upset during storms. If you still can't get anywhere with her I know my mothers vet gave her Corgi medication to take as soon as they know a storm is coming. She said it works very well for the Corgi, he is about the same age as Pumpkin. In the other blog they talk about the lawsuit and from what i read Cesar was not there at the time of the incident. One of the staff had put a dog on the tread mill and the dog fell off hurting his leg, the owners of the dog are asking for twenty-five thousand for damages. I think that the love for dogs that Cesar has this didn't have to go this far I feel he would of paid all the vet bill without question.
We have a 5 yr old female cocker spaniel. She tends to act submissive initially around some people and barks when she is around others. Even after acting submissive, she can instantly growl and snap and anyone, children or adults. Concern on our part as she leaves us apprehensive about her behavior in many situations. She has not bitten anyone yet; but has put her teeth on them.
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Regarding the comment about the lawsuit over the title of the show: You can't copyright a title or an idea. They are going to have to provide a lot more documentation of stealing intellectual property than that to have any case at all! I hope these negative actions bounce off all that positive energy you have, Cesar. You have made a difference in my life! Thank you.
I just found out about Cesar by watching a few of his shows this week and am wondering where I can buy that special double collar he uses... the one where one collar is high on the neck and the other is low with a piece in between to keep the two apart. I need one of those because my dog shakes the collar down to his shoulders before attacking another dog and is too powerful for me to handle.
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