Cesar-

Please do an episode on a person that is considering having to re-home their dog.

I know there are alot of people that struggle w/this issue as they work during the day & feel that they do not spend enough time with their dog and feel that their home may not be the best situation.

I think there is a need for information on this.

It is needed to educate people. Maybe there may not be so many dogs sitting in apartments/homes 8-10 hours a day waiting for their owners to come home.

Cesar, my husband and I are HUGE fans of yours and we love any opportunity to see the dogs at your rehabilitation center. We both especially love Daddy. Take care and all our best for your continued success!

I can't tell you how happy I am that I found you.I have purchased all of your DVD's to date.I bought your book first,and it was extremely helpful,but,seeing you in action has been wonderful.I have a two year old Boston Terrier,she has always been the pack leader,but,she has improved so much,people don't believe she is the same dog.She has a hearing problem,she hears very well,but,she doesn't know where the sound is coming from.It is some glich that happened as the hearing senses were being formed??? Anyway,I have followed all of your suggestions,they work,and she has become a much happier dog.

I have a 6 month old pug who is adorable, until given run of the house. He is in the kitchen (12x20) during the day. When we get home we would love to spend time with him relaxing watching TV after his walk. As soon as we take the gate down, he starts to RUN and RUN and RUN. He runs in circles, he runs up and down furniture, up and down stairs. He chews and grabs anything along the way he can. It takes two of us to catch him. He will not sit down quielty with us. Is he too young to train? We have tried the techniques on TV, he pays no attention. There is not a mean bone in his body but we can't seem to stop the "puppy biting" habit he has and the constatnt grabbin at us is wearing thin. I would love to see a young Pug in one of your episodes.

I was brought a mix of some kind last night to my house. They knew I was the Animal Control Officer. He is sooo cute. Small to medium terrier/schnauzer mix. My daughter named him "Scruffy". We give them all names so we have something to call them.He is an unaltered male. I have a dog at work with me most days. Belongs to the pharmacist down the road. I dog sit for him so he likes to come to my office. He is an altered male lab/retriever/husky mix.
The temperature today is over 100. The Town Dog Pound is not heated or cooled. Even with cement floors I knew it was going to be hot and humid. I brought the stray to work with me and crated him. He is so good! Except for wanting to lift in the office if I let him run. The pharmacy dog is up to date on his rabies so I let them sniff for a minute. The stray started to get aggressive . I gave a quick tug on leash and a quick noise. He stopped right away. If he starts crying in the crate I give that quick noise and he stops. THANKS CESAR!!!

He is so ugly that he is cute. He loves attention and seems to have been socialized with people but not other dogs. He has either been running loose for a long time or was not taken care of. It amazes me that no one has called looking for him yet.

Anyway, I just wanted to thank Cesar again for teaching me better ways to handle stray dogs and give them at least 5 days of happiness. Then if he is not claimed, he goes to our Humane Society which has an exceptional staff. They even have a guy there that the staff calls Dog Whisperer.

I would like to know how to re-balance a dog that recently lost her sibling/companion that she had been with since birth. Since the loss, this dog is very scared and aggresive towards strangers. I'm sure it is a reaction to being "by herself" so to speak, one dog instead of two. But I would like to know how to get her balanced again and comfortable being an "only dog"

Also, please keep watching the dog whiperer because there is always more to learn if you just focus on Cesars way of handling any situation.

I would like to see something on training small dogs not to jump all over you when you come into a room. My friend has a dog that does this and it tends to scare little kids and annoy me because the dog is all over you scratching with her nails. The licking I don't mind but the scratching leaves my arms all red. I have tried ignoring it but how can you when the dog is in your face and won't leave you alone. I love the dog but I like a calm dog.

Hola Cesar:

Te felicito, por haber alcanzado este exito de la manera mas noble contribuyendo a la vez con la madre naturaleza, es un orgullo que seas mexicano y ayudes a esta sociedad que necesita la ayuda de gente experta como tu, o mejor dicho los perros de esta sociedad te lo agradecen, supe que hace poco diste una conferencia en saint george, utah, no tuve la oportunidad de asistir, espero tener el placer algun dia de saludarte personalmente y por supuesto no me pierdo un episodio de tu show.

que sigan los exitos, felicidades.

eduardo rodriguez

I just recently discovered you, Cesar and what an epiphany! We had a dog for 12 years and the
last 5 or so were a struggle, We had 3 kids and Millie (the dog) seemed to just be another drain -now I realize how WE were the problem and I cried thinking we didn't give her what she needed. She was a Rott mix and we let her become the leader as we did not assume that role. As I look back and think she was begging us to take leadership. We thought of her as our first baby and not the great DOG she was... We stopped walking her on a regular basis... I could confess on and on! A few months ago we adopted a Lab rescue and started on our old track of talking to him like a baby... getting mad (nervous weak energy) at misbehaviors. Thankfully I saw your book and now your show and our whole family in on board. My kids love your show and love to see your tips work instantly! You could definately borrow Dr, Phil's " its a changing day in your life" You changed ours ... for the better. Our second dog has someone he can count on to be even keeled, disciplined, and a calm assertive leader. I know Millie is in dog heaven.. smiling. OK so there I go making them human, Thanks so much, Cesar.

Cesar,
My Father-in-law has a red-zone german shepherd mix that I think he seems to enjoy. I say "think" because he won't do anything about her nasty behavior at all, and he seems to like being the only one person who can control her. She has bitten my husband even when my husband followed you're rules, no eye contact etc. and all my Father-in-law does is put the darn thing outside and ignore her behavior. I gave him your DVD on how to train people for xmas, but he thinks he knows everything there is about dogs and won't watch it. I know he takes her for long walks and gives her lots of exercise, but when my husband and I visit, or any other member of the family for that matter, the blasted dog goes bullistic and won't stop barking or tring to attack. Dad just smiles and says to ignore her, it's really starting to annoy me and my husbad that Dad won't do anything about the nastyness that misty spews out. How the heck am I going to convince my Father-in-law that the dog is dangerous and needs extensive rehabilitation? Do we have to wait until the thing severly bites someone? I am afraid that, if she gets away from him, she'll really hurt someone and he'll get sued. HELP!!!!!!
Donna Ballard

Please address on one of your shows how a human should act or react when accidentally hurting their dog, such as stepping on their tail or paw, especially if the dog screams or howls.

We had a wonderful lab/setter mix for 14 years; he died 11 years ago and we still mourn for him; how do humans get over it? Do dogs get over losing a human or another dog? You say they live in the moment, but do they seem to remember people and things.

My question is to anyone who might be able to help.
Three days ago we lost our American Eskimo to a heart attack and her companion Natosha is not handling it very well. She is a four year old Lab/shepherd mix and has never been alone. She was always with Cloud, who was actually the dominate one. Just yesterday she growled at my three year old son and actually nipped at him. I of course did what I thought best to correct the situation by telling her I was boss and that he was mine, for lack of better words. She has absolutely never shown any sign of aggression before and I know I need to correct this now before something happens to my son. I do not want to ever give her up but I can not put my son in danger either. I am thinking that it is the adjustment and that she is confused as to where her place is as she will gladly listen to me no matter what her problem is. She does know that my husband and I are the dominants in our household but I am not sure where she has placed my seven year old daughter and my three year old son. If someone can give me some pointers I would greatly appreciate it. I have no idea how to correct this behavior. Thank You!

Cesar,I have been a Dog Trainor-Behaviorist for the past Forty Years on the East Coast.I have also Bred,Shown and Rescued dogs during this time.I Cannot Begin to tell you,how you have
Inspired my Soul-Journey with Dogs.Everything I have ever said to my many students and adoptive parents,You Have Confirmed. Thank You.God has Truly Blessed You with a Wonderful Mission in Life and as a True Friend to our Beloved Companions.It is also My Fervent Wish that People Who Really Should Not Be Called Dog Trainors,start Raising Fish and let the True Professional's,like yourself,do the job.

Sandy-

Also, about your last paragraph, dogs do not forget, but they do move on, given that their owner moves on with them. You should read my post #12 or #13, I forget which one it is, but it is up there, and it addresses how a dog feels about death.

Hello, I was wondering if anyone has any suggestions about the French Bulldog breed? I know that Cesar stresses the importance of the "walk", but this breed is not that athletic and does not do well in the heat. Does anyone know of any other excercises and information for the frenchie breed? Also, Cesar Millan should do a show about the bulldog breed, that would be great! Thanks!

Ceasr is the man, no question about it!

he nevers back down, love your show man!

April (Post #22),
It sounds like to me that your dog is just reacting to OTHER dogs RUDE behavior. In order to prevent another dog from running up to her and trying to dominate her, I would step between the other dog and your dog and block this dog's rude behavior. You can make a sound like "Go on" or even just stand there and claim the space from the other dog. It sounds like you have a wonderful girl who is just trying to warn the rude dogs from disrespecting her.

However, if my perception of your situation is incorrect and it is actually your dog who is actively the aggressor in these situations, then you will need to better socialize her with a calm-submissive dog. If you have a friend who has a mellow dog, I would start walking them together to get her familiar with a balanced dog. This can be a daunting task though b/c if you're like me, I don't know many calm-submissive dogs:)haha.

Good luck!

Karleen,

"She has a hearing problem,she hears very well,but,she doesn’t know where the sound is coming from.It is some glich that happened as the hearing senses were being formed??? "

Most likely she is deaf in one ear. That's the most common reason for dogs (and people) to have problems determining where a soung is coming from.

Suzanne, (Post #36) Stop feeding table scraps, put the cat food someplace that Mattie can't reach, and make his food available to him. My 16 mo old Standard Poodle, Charlie, went through a period when he wouldn't eat either. My husband also would feed him from the table and sneak him treats. The Vet told me to continue to feed him at his regular times and he would eventually eat. No treats, no scraps, nothing available but his food. It took 4 days before he ate. Now, Charlie doesn't get anything but his dog food. Whoops, he does get two meaty bones after playing ball with my husband every evening. but that is it. We now know that Charlie is a grazer and munches from the dish at various time. His food is always gone by the next schedule feeding time. He weighs 54 lbs and is a very healthy and happy dog. Cesar has opened my eyes to the importance of letting Charlie be the wonderful animal he is and to stop trying to turn him into a human child. I think we are all happier because of this.

Loretta,
"I think Cesar’s show is far and away the best thing on TV, bar none. I watch him every night."

I couldn't agree more!! I watch the show every time it's on, AND I tape it LOL! I'm hooked!! Nobody can talk to me when the show is on ha ha.

Enjoy your last years with your spoiled-rotten dog, life is too short.

Cheri, #30, all I can say is, watch Cesar's show -- watch his body language and how he acts with unruly dogs -- particularly when he enters a client's home. You'll see how he "ignores" the dog for the first few minutes. This really works! You can do it throughout your day if you have to. My dog is a "demand barker" as I call it, and I have at 6 1/2 years of age actually broken him of this annoying habit (which was once very CUTE, but now that he's all grown up it isn't cute anymore -- well not that much LOL!) Practice, practice, practice. Be his pack leader. YOu can definitely change this behavior.

Oh, and I'm reading into the "hyper" description as my #1 question: HOW MUCH EXERCISE IS HE GETTING?? If he's "hyper" then you're not walking him enough. Fish need to swim, birds need to fly, dogs need to WALK!! A tired dog, is a good dog. All that barking is him trying to communicate with you: translation? "I am bored! Give me something to do!"

Vicki #25, My first reaction is EVERY human is pack leader to the dog. The 3 year old has to be considered pack leader by the dog.

Now, with that said, probably everyone in your household is still grieving over the loss of the AED. Humans grieve longer than dogs. Dogs move on. If you are all showing sadness or projecting ANY kind of negative energy toward the remaining dog, she is picking up on that I guarantee you. For example, if you are just THINKING about how she is going to act because she'd never been separated from the AED, or if you are just THINKING about "what's she going to do?" she is picking up on that energy and seeing you as unsure of yourselves, as weak. Dogs pick up on our internal weaknesses and they will naturally "take over" as leader if they feel that the human who's supposed to be doing that job is taking a break from it. Most of the time, the dog does not WANT the job, but in his natural world someone has to be leader of the pack, so he will DO the job, even if he doesn't want it. I think that's what you're seeing. I hope, hope, hope you saw the re-run last night about Hudson the Great Dane who was adopted into the home because another Great Dane had passed away from cancer. It addresses the very issues you're describing, only your dog is nipping which is very bad. You need to just buck up, get strong again, get past the death of the AED and become strong pack leader of the remaining dog. Also, don't forget to keep her occupied and busy and tire her out every day. Just because the older dog is gone doesn't mean that doggie care stops for the one left behind. In fact, she probably needs more challenge and positive attention than EVER to assure her that everything is ok. One last word, it is not natural for a dog pack to be separated with ONE pack member left behind, so when you go to work/school/whatever, be sure to make your departure a positive and safe experience for her. I hope you saw the new episode of DW on Monday night that addressed separation anxiety, it was beautiful, and much-needed as a lot of people (PEOPLE!!! NOT DOGS!!) have this problem. Most of these problems boil down to people just NOT KNOWING HOW to deal correctly with the dog. Once you learn how, you never have to think about it again. These episodes I mentioned are going to re-run again this week throughout the week, so try to catch a viewing if you can. You will learn a lot.

Just a comment on last night's episode "The Power of the Pack". It was the best show I've ever seen of The Dog Whisperer. I think Cesar is a gift not only to the dog world but more so to the human world. I feel blessed to have Cesar working his magic with dogs and humans alike. I truely learned so much about the power of the pack and how dogs can rehabilitate each other. Thank you Cesar for sharing your gifts!

Firstly, Cesar, LOVE THE SHOW! I am totally hooked! Your common sense and authority with animals is very inspiring. I can honestly say that I feel like a much better pack leader and I have a much better understanding of the dog/human relationship...except for one area...

We have a sweet, loving beagle girl 8 years of age. We hired a trainer when Brandy was a puppy which was very helpful instilling good manners from puppyhood. She can be very calm and submits to me or my husband, most of the time, when we assert ourselves as the pack leader. The only time we seem to have very little impact, is upon the arrival of guests in our home. Whenever guests arrive at the house, especially family members, she goes into an absolute "WOO WOO" tirade, baying at the top of her lungs and barking incessantly. While we do our best to remain strong, calm and "ignore" this behavior and at times, instruct her to go to her bed even "shoosh" her, it doesn't seem to help and consequently, we resort to verbal scolding. We've even insisted that our guests also ignore this behavior, as we know it only fuels her reaction. Nothing seems to make a difference. Of late, we have a new grandbaby in the picture, and Brandy went absolutely crazy with the non-stop baying/barking upon the baby's arrival into our home.

We sure would appreciate some guidance to discontinue this behavior.

THANKS!!

April @post#22-

I totally hear you! My dog is absolutely great and follows right behind me without a leash and I do not even have to use words or voice at all to have him follow a command, yet his one flaw is his reaction to dogs who do not sniff him before jumping all over him. He has never sank his teeth in another dog and hurt them, but he does bare his teeth and quickly turn around and bark or give a "fake" bite just to make the dog back off. I dont get this because he is not of dominant nature. He never has even thought of mounting another dog, person, or object. I have taken him to dog parks, and he likes to play with other dogs. Ive noticed that he like to befriend the smaller dogs, more submissive dogs, and the calmer dogs. He does not react well to dogs who try to push him around. I too just wish that I could place him in a balanced dog pack for a week. Wouldnt it be nice if all of us in here with balanced dogs had our own dog park put together?? I have noticed that when I take my dog to the dog park, he plays nice the majority of the time, its just that there is too much dominant excited energy being passed among the dogs, and that just makes a whole nother side of my dog come out. He wears me out just watching him because he gets too excited, and acts like he is herding and goes after the other dogs when they run and he tries to stop them. When he plays with another dog or two that are well behaved, he plays nice and does not act rough. Kate g had some great advice and I too am going to try a few of those things. ;)

Hey all,
I have a Boston Terrier puppy who has proven to be what the breed promised: very affectionate, rare barker, and very intelligent. He is six months old, so I try to keep in mind he's a puppy, but I want some advice. He absolutely loathes the crate and will even pee/poop in it, though I heard that is not common. I am gone at work all day during the week (10 hours in total) so I keep in penned in the kitchen w/ toys and newspapers. When can I get rid of the newspaper and trust that he'll know to go outside? How do I get to this step if I do have to work all week and can only take him out 3 times a day?

I won't vote, one way or the other, because I already have my opinions on these subjects based on years of experience and Cesar's attitudes for or against won't change what has worked for me. But I do have some comments that might help, unless or until he does a show:

"1. Leaving your pet home alone - (how many hours a day alone is acceptable without having an adverse effect on the dog"

Years ago a scientific group did a study of domestic canines. They treated the study just as if the dogs were wild. They set up observation blinds in trees and had no interaction with the dogs they were studying. You will have obviously caught that this was necessarily a study of dogs that were outdoors most of the time.

During that study one thing they determined that came as a surprise to ME was that dogs rest and/or sleep for a good part of the day - something like 20 to 22 HOURS!

So your question on "how long?" can't be answered outright. It depends on whether your dog is outdoors or indoors, alone or with company, confined or not. I know someone who has 4 Whippets and they stay indoors while she is at work. She does not crate them, but she does have a "dog room" that is gated of and they stay there.

When I have puppies to raise I have always put up a roofed "ex-pen" with lots of newspapers, an open crate, food and water, and toys in it and that is where they stay while I am at work. They come out when I am at home. My guys have always been happy, healthy, and well-adjusted.

On the other hand, I have an older adult Whippet that will dig out of the yard if there is thunder, fireworks, or any other loud banging noise and the rule here is: if no one is home Freckles is inside, in a crate. It's a BIG crate and has a nice soft bed and a water bucket. He sometimes has to stay in it as much as 8 hours - but he seems fine with that, sometimes he doesn't even bother to wake up until I actually open the crate door!

"2. Crating - is it a good thing or a bad thing?"

You will have gathered that I use crates. The proper question is not "is it good or is it bad" - because that is blaming or praising the TOOL. The proper question is: what is or isn't proper USE of a crate?

I use crates a good deal, because I have 10 male dogs. So at night they come in to be fed. They each have their own crate and they get food and water there and they spend the night in their crates. I also travel quite a bit with them, and each has his own crate in the van.

Proper use of a crate is to confine the dog when it is safer for him to be crated than not. Improper use of a crate is to get the dog "out of sight and out of mind" or using it instead of training the dog.

"2. The pros and cons of considering to re-home your dog because you feel that you are not available enough hours a day w/your dog (due to work schedule that requires long hours or a long commute time etc.) "

Personally, I would be more inclined to get my dog a companion than to rehome him. In the past 20 years I have only rehomed *1* dog - and that was because he hated being "one of the crowd" in my pack of 8 (at that time) - so I place him in a family home where he was the only dog.

I would say that the time to consider rehoming happens when your long schedule interferes with your ability to properly exercise and train your dog, and that depends greatly on the dog. A young, hyperactive terrier or poodle is going to be more demanding of your time than is a more sedate, calm breed.

We love your show, particularly when we get to "visit" the Psychology Center. It's fun watching you work with your dogs, feeding them, hitting tennis balls, etc. I'd love to see you work with them in your obstacle course. And what a treat to see your wife and son sometimes, too.

Cesar, I have a black lab mix that has black on her tongue. People (including the SPCA) would not take her because they say she has chow or some other aggressive natured dog in her. I was going to give her up because she shows aggressiveness toward anyone (including other dogs). She shows her teeth and grawls like she is going to bite them. As long as I am around she will heel to my command and stop the aggressiveness. What can I do to stop this? She is insecure. FYI I have a Boston Terrier (male-not fixed)which she loves and a Beagle (female-fixed)that she will fight with and neither will give up. I have to pick one of them up by the tail and push the other away with my foot to stop the fight. HELP!

I have the best black lab! He is 2 years old and I got him from the humane society. He is so lovable. Almost to the point of too clingy. We can't sit on the couch without him being right in our face.We've even tried to push him away and it doesn't do any good. When we walk in the door he jumps on us. He licks way too much! When walking him he drags me. Well I have worked with him all summer so far and he is making a little improvement but not much. He does not like any other dogs except our other lab/husky mix who was here first. He tries to get aggressive with other dogs. He is very afraid of thunderstorms and paces around with his tail between his legs. Please help me with my Hecter!

cesar
i have 3 pitbulls i have one rednose male wich is satan and the female rednose is diamond and a blue nose pitbull which is king i have a problem with king everything he sees he wants to bite i seen your shows many time i practiced some of your techniques but still he acts the sam and when i walk him he walks me and it look funny cause he 6 months old iam 16 6foot and about 250 pounds an he wlks me what do you recomend

Cesar,
I have two dogs(one Golden retriever and one miniature Australian shepherd). The Aussie is the youngest at 22 months. She is a high energy dog, and was driving me nuts...I had arranged for her to go to a new home to live and when that fell through I was forced to try something new. I started watching your program again this past week and bought your book plus training DVD. The first thing I learned was that the dog was not the problem, I was! In just a couple of days I noticed changes is both dogs behavior. The Aussie was calming down and the Golden was more responsive to me. I have become the leader of our pack!! Thank you for sharing your gift with others. I wish you continued success with the call on your life.

Thanks to you, the Aussie will remain a part of my pack and we will all have many years to share together.

I have a 4 yr old female Wheaten Terrier (Maggie)and a 2 yr old male Wheaten terrier(Elmo) neither are fixed as I breed them. They are sweet dogs and usually loving to each other. When Maggie was pregnant the first time, she became very possesive of a bannana peel she had found in the garbage and attacked Elmo, leaving him with a small rip in his eyelid and ear. After that she controlled him with a sneer and a growl and he would slink out of the room. I assumed it was all the normal process of pregnancy because once the pups were a few weeks old she was back to her old self. Yet the fighting does still happen on occassion. Usually set off by Maggie thinking Elmo is a threat to something she feels is hers (a toy, food, my lap, her spot under my desk, etc.) The fights can be bloody and Elmo is equally aggressive now. I can usually hold them apart by the collars if I can get into the brawl fast enough. But then I'm stuck holding two snapping, growling, straining 35 pound dogs until I figure out a way to pick one of them up and move them to another room or separate them some how. After the fight, they lick each other's wounds and cuddle like best friends. Should I just let them fight or is there something I should be doing?

I have a question, I love the show rocks.
I got my puppy from the SPCA when I first saw it, it was love at first sight. I read that dogs that are sleep are usually the mellowest. Now, the dog is becoming more and more aggressive, what can I do to bring it back into balance?
I took it to one of those stores that offer obedience classes, but the dog just became unnerved after the instructor handled it.
Any suggestions, I walk it three times a day so its not like it does not get exercise.

I too appreciate Mr. Milans making the public aware of "mean dog" rep of the pitbull and rotts> I have 2 rotts myself, Max 3yr old male and Maddie a 2 yr old female. Neither of them have a vicious bone in their body. Both are gentle, intelligent, and most importantly calm submissive with my husband, grandchildren and myself. I truly believe humans are the problem, not the dogs. Thanks Mr. Milan your wisdom works on children and employees as well.

I have just begun watching this show and I absolutely love it, but I'm not convinced that the average person could use these techniques without Ceasar being present. It seems that his techniques make sense, except when I try them. I say that because I have tried some of them with my boyfriends dog, Sophie. Sophie is a 2yr old lab mix and very energetic. I have learned through watching the show that she has no respect for me and does not see me as a pack leader although I am the only one that walks her 1 to 2 times a day. She has calmed down alot since I started walking her, but she still go "Psychotic" when I try to put her leash on to walk her.

She is an extremely smart dog and listens to my boyfriend sometimes, but I find that we both end up yelling at her alot in order to get her to do anything. The only other time she listens is when we say "Get in your House".

I just moved in with my boyfriend and I am starting to rethink it because of this dog. I will keep watching the show along with reading the books and hope Sophie will come around, otherwise this arrangement is not going to work.

I'll keep you posted..... Lost in Translation!!!!!!!

I would love if he did an obession one again. I have a border collie who is OBSESSED with water. We've tried EVERYTHING with her and its incredablity annoying.

Or if he did one on barking. We can't get both of our dogs to stop barking whenever anyone knocks. Or if they THINk they heard something. Its rather annoying..

those are my only complaints about my pooches.

My husband and I have been watching "Dog Whisperer" for approximately 3 months. When we were being frustrated (daily) with our new yellow Lab puppy, our son wrote just 2 words in an email to us after receiving yet another "report" from us: Dog Whisperer. From that point on, we either watched or taped every show. Three things have taken place since that two word advice from Kevin. 1.) I am now the pack leader when Savvy race-walks with me for my (and her) exercise. 2.) Quite often, we say, at the end of each show---"Savvy looks pretty good, doesn't she?", and 3.) We have no doubt that Cesar has been blessed with an incredible, God-given talent. Perhaps years of work and dedication are a very large factor. Nevertheless, when we watch him with both people and dogs, we see a man who has an inner strength and knowledge that can only be categorized as a gift. We've learned far more from watching the show than the 2 basically silly obedience classes we attended with Savvy (where she made a fool of herself and us). And as for being compared to Dr. Phil? That really isn't doing justice to the talent and art of you, Cesar, The Dog Whisperer. Phil is fixated on himself. You appear to be a selfless, focused-on-the-problem expert. We love your show and we love you. Thank you!!!!

Tia,
I noticed one thing in your post that I thought might help with the leash situation. My young girl goes nutso when I get out the leashes as well. However, now that I take the leashes out more often, for when they are NOT going for a walk, she has calmed down about the leash. Just put it on her and have her walk around the house with it. Desensitize her to the excitement the leash creates.

Another technique that I just started using and it's amazing is to have my dogs put their heads through the collars. Instead of me chasing them all over the house to put the collar on them (with them moving their heads all over the place and making it very difficult), I now just stand by the door and hold the collar out and open enough that they can slip their head through. It has become another structural aspect of the walk for us and it's a great way to start! Hope some of this can be of help to you!

KC (#64),
It is most likely the case that your puppy has a higher energy level than your 8 yr. old dog. You need to make sure to step in the middle of that situation and correct your puppy from getting to physical with your 8 yr. old. Also, your pup is going to need much more exercise than your 8 yr. old to tire her out enough to behave calmly. I would suggest walking the pup first and then ending the walk as a pack by incorporating your older dog.

The correction to the pup should be as simple as a No, and if that isn't getting a response, step in between the pup and the dog and repeat "no" with some body language. If the pup continues, then you will need to introduce a physical touch, such as the two-fingers to the throat thing or maybe a hand bite. The correction should match the intensity of the pup's behavior. But do keep in mind that it is a young puppy that is going to need alot of patience to learn the new rules since your dog is not showing him/her the ropes:)

After watching the episode last night (August2) with the Daschunds, Chocolate and Cinnamon, I have to ask.....dogs bark and growl when they are protecting us and our homes. Isnt that what Cinnamon was actually doing? Why would we want our dogs NOT to act this way around strangers?

Dear Cesar,
Hello I have a male german Shepherd he is 9 weeks old we have only had him for about a week he is very smart listen good to me because i work the most with him. But he has this thing he either plays in his water bucket or likes to spill it over he will do this all day untill i foundly take and set up the water bucket but believe me he has water ever where. I was told by the breeder i got him from that his mother dose the same thing and that they do it too cool them self off Is there any why for me to break him of this i breed cats and i also have a small dog that use the same bucket to drink from and i dont like to take it from them if i dont have to any help you can gice me would be great. Thanks alot

I would like to say that Caesar's techniques of being the authority figure has really helped my relationship with my Chihuahua-mix, Maya. Before, she was definitely my husband's dog (even though I was the one who wanted her in the first place). She would be openly aggressive with me, especially when my husband wasn't around (he would discipline her when he saw the behavior)

My parents turned me onto the show because of my problems with Maya. I figured that I had nothing to lose. I have since begun taking her on 2 mile walks every day, just the two of us, which has become a major time for bonding. I have also been aproaching her with a "This is what we're doing" attitude.

My husband has always had dogs and he always told me that she thought I was the bottom of the totem pole and needed to take charge.

I am shocked by the difference I have seen in her. She has become OUR dog. Now, she comes to me when she is called even when she is sitting with my husband across the room. I haven't had an aggressive episode since I began aproaching her with authority. It is amazing how a dog can change if the human just changes herself toward the dog.

We recently had to put our very old dog to sleep we had just gotten a new dog a rescue from atlanta. If you have two dogs is there a better chance of them both being balanced. I do not want my dog to be aggressive and we have trouble getting her to answer when called. I think because when she has chewed something we have said her name sharply. What do you think. Dogs take alot of work but our children have just about gone soon to leave and my husband and I have a fond connection we did not know we could have with our new dog. I have watched Cesar's programs and I am alot more confortable with dogs now. I love my dog she is good company.

Hello All,

I'm very sorry to say I am giving up Lila, my 1 year old Dachson /Lab mix. I don't think that she is the best dog for us nor do I think we are the best family for her. The red-zone aggression has really been a real problem. We have been trying to get help from several different trainers but they are all too expensive or far away. I'm posting this here for trainer that is interested in taking her. I don't plan on giving her to anyone who is not experienced in dog psychology. Lila is a great dog who loves to fetch and go for long walks (what dog doesn't?) and she is a total cuddle bug!She has such a sweet disposition. She really does learn quickly,I have taught her some tricks. If anyone is interested in some more information on Lila, just let me know and I can send you more info with pictures. Thank You! Any questions are welcome.

Jackie

I watch your show all the time. When I realized we were seriously considering getting a dog (me being a cat person) I started watching alot. I've always had "bad dogs" and didn't want another. Now I know what to do!! And do it!! I chuff at Max (9mnth old part-Blue Heeler) and he LISTENS to me! He knows I'm the Pack Leader and FINALLY my husb started to watch your show when he saw that what I did was working with Max and what he was trying to do wasn't. I even use some of your ideas with friends' dogs and it works, even if only btwn ME and the dogs -- and not with the owners. Silly humans... I keep telling them to watch your show!! Now if I could just get Max and my two stubborn cats to get along... Sigh... I guess I can't have everything.

Keep up the great work, I will keep watching.
Thank you so much. Sandy T.

Hi,

I have a problem I am hoping some others reading might deal with also. I have four dogs who are not the most balanced dogs in the world but I have been trying to take Cesar's advice and some things are working, and some things aren't.

My major problem is with two of my dogs Mikey and Honeybear, brothers, who are twelve years old. They have never spent a moment apart but just seem to hate each other. Literally since they were puppies, they go up to each other at least once an hour and growl and show their teeth, and place their head on each other's shoulders and put on this huge (loud) display of dominance. Anything can set this off - if one gets up to get a drink the other one will come and start this, or sometimes one wants to go get a drink but he will walk over to the other and seem to "wait" for the drama to start -- then he will go get a drink.

If Mikey is laying on my bed and I try to get my blanket out from underneath him for example, it will cause him to jump up and run to wherever the other one is (even if he is in another room) and start the growling, etc. This is making me an almost prisoner because I try not to disturb Mikey so Honeybear won't have to deal with the aggression. I try to break it up, I try to distract them and get them in a different state of mind but nothing stops it until they are ready. They are really posessive over me as well.

I understand in dog packs there is the alpha, but do dogs fight for other "ranks" in the pack as well? Neither Mikey or Honeybear would be considered "alpha" but I would consider Honeybear lowest in the pack.

I'd like to say I am the leader but I can't be, otherwise there would not be all this unbalanced aggression going on. I think at least once a week I tell them, "I wish I could send you to Cesar!" :)

Seriously though, this behavior has driven me crazy for 12 years and it is getting worse. Has anyone had any experience with this?

My 10 month old lab/dane mix was attacked by 4 boxers this afternoon at the dog park. I dove into the fight covered my dog (not the right or safe thing to do I guess, but my dog was down, belly-up, and screaming and the attacking dogs were not letting up) and very aggressively told the initial agressor "NO!" when he tried to come near my dog again. I then quickly checked for cuts (half a dozen small ones on his ears and wrist and a scrape and tuft of fur off his neck), let his heartrate come back down a bit, leashed him and took him home. It was several hours before his tail came out from under him and he's pretty clingy with me tonight (there's 2 other alpha humans). My question is whether I handled the situation in the best way for him to get over an attack. I'm afraid my own fear of his attack might make more of the incident in his head than it needs to be. Also, how should I handle returning to the dog park or seeing these dogs again. If I change dog parks that does not guarantee that we won't run into the same dogs or a different household of dogs won't be aggressive.

Cesar, I've been teaching in the public schools for 30 years. A little guy with some really difficult kids. I am the pack leader there. However, it wasn't until I started watching your show that I really "got it." I did dog fostering until I got Keely, a rhodesian that suffered from some minor brain injury due to abuse. I've been the stable person in her life for almost 4 years now. She isn't food responsive to training, so it's been about developing the reward of attention. When I started walking her, I did it my two other dogs. The first summer was a struggle. Then I saw some of your shows and began putting it all together. Today in the vet's office, an older woman who was with her husband said to me, "I don't get it, you have 3 dogs who are so calm, and it takes two of us to handle a little papillon." Well, they weren't as calm as I'd have liked them to be, but they surely behaved better than the pedigreed guys who we encountered. We walk 2.5 miles every day and every day Keely gets a little better. She loves that walk so much that after 3 years, the sit command is clicking in because she doesn't get her leash on until she's sitting. In fact when she hears me getting the leash, she'll walk up to me, paw at me, then promptly sit as still as she can.
I would love for you to do more detailed shows on how to extinguish strong prey drives when the dog has killed (my shepard mix has done in a squirrel and a chipmunk). My touch and "shush" don't phase my otherwise obedient Finola if she spots anything smaller than her 20 pound pack-sister.
By the way, when a service guy was at my house today, I asked him to look at me, and let the girls do their smelling/greeting. He was fascinated that they then trotted off to the yard, did their business, then came back in the house and basically ignored him.
You may rehabilitate dogs, but remember that dream of being the best dog-trainer? Your training tips would likely be more valuable than anything I've paid for where the main factor was getting the behavior you want with food. I always thought that if a dog could get rewarded from finding out that his position in the pack was secure, that his behavior could be shaped? eh?

I was (we were never familyuntil a a pitbull that I was given, along withmy first born 1998( 12 year old girl also 12 year old pitbull 40 somthing pounds but full of love.). Next up 9 year old daughter still having the same pitbul, old girl can run like a fox 3-5 miles at a time) she sundennly slowed down at 10 ) our answrer was get a young dog to keep her pumped up she said kiss my ass she at first ran like usually but later on I realized that I was given the new big boy too much power accordinly to your book that I could control both K-9 I mainly focused on the new pit not, the big boy becuase ( he had the look and the fear as well amongst everboby) and he (SONNY)did it!!. And we all allowed it80_ 90 poundunds of pitbull what we did was adopt a pit from the local pound at 6months and all was good till he grew, grew and, grew still really obiendt dog but he weighs 90- 100 ponds and puts the fear of the good lord in my wife I told her kick his ass but she still takes it out on me.I hope this answer some questions of what it takes to kick a pitbulls ass!! IF this would happen tell them You know SPINELLO

Cesar-

I hope that you are able to find the time in your busy schedule to at least read the postings here. Your teachings have started a revolution in proper dog (PEOPLE) training...which is much needed and long overdue!

My concern about this blog, is that well intentioned readers are stepping in and trying to solve people's dog related problems here...maybe not always a great situation.

After seeing that someone had written in about her dog being attacked at a dog park, it reminded me that it is a very important topic that would be good to address on your show sometime. I am a professional in the animal world and sadly, I hear MANY stories of people's dogs being attacked in dog parks. It happens for various reasons...but can devestate the dog and the owner. If at all possible, I would like to see this issue addressed. The public really needs to be educated on this.

Keep up the good work!

I have a golden retreiver named Mia. She is definatly a follower of the pack and respects other dogs. But she doesn't have full respect for me. I train her, exercise her, and love her. On walks she is horrible! At first glance of another dog she starts to pull on the leash, and she gerks back and forth when meeting another dog because she wants to play!Also when I walk her I try to keep her next to me, but she pulls forward, so I'll give her a quick tug, but she's basically choking herself because she never stops pulling. I, also, really want to ride a bike and run with her at the same time. But I know for certain she will bolt away from me, no matter how much control I have over her. She's stronger than me. I've been dragged three times by dogs who were stronger than me. Help!

Sincerly, 14 year old friend Allison

Cesar,
My wife and I are dog people, (we have four), and we watch your show all the time. I'm happy to say they are well behaved as I am the alpha, so no problemas. Here's why I'm posting though.

I'm disabled and sometimes stay up to watch TV and fall asleep in my lazyboy. When I wake up, I'm watching the TV show where the Humane Society and the ASPCA take mistreated animals from people who don't care for them. In the process of saving these dogs, they do a test where they put a bowl of food in front of what has been a starving dog, and then they try to take it away using a mannequins arm. If the dog bites the arm, they are euthenized. (pardon my spelling)

It seems to me, that with just a few corrective instructions, and some discipline, they could alter this behavior and save these dogs, instead of putting them down. Couldn't you do a show where you deal with an animal that has been through something similar and show these nitwits how to do it, so they wouldn't have to put these animals down?

I hate it when someone acts like they care about animals and then justify putting it down because they are afraid of it.

Who is Kate G and why is she giving the "answers" to problems or situations that are clearly meant for Cesar?

My parents have a beautiful 3-year old German Shepard. He is well trained to obey hand signals as well as verbal commands. Unfourtunately I feel that he has a fear problem as he has bitten 6 people, I myself was #5. My parents are in disagreement about what to do about Jack, my mother wants to "put him down", my father feels that he can be rehabilitated. After watching your show, I know my father is right, but how can we be sure? who will volunteer to be #7? The last bite resulted in 3 punctures to the hand and a broken knuckle.

Well, I think I might have to forego the dog park today. I don't think that I am ready to go back and I worry about transferring my fear to my puppy. I didn't get much sleep last night because I could not get the fight scene out of my head. When I finally did fall asleep, I had nightmares all night. Seems that staring down a 90 lb boxer face to face effected me more than I had initially thought. Funny thing - I was worried that my 10 month old pup would have nightmares about the fight, but he slept 9PM to 7:00 AM without a peep or sleep growl (maybe he did dream about it, but no indications of such). He seems to be dealing with it alot better than me. We will go back when I am more confident that I can be a calm and positive leader for him.

Has anyone gotten their Illusion collar yet?? Mine is on the way and I want to know what people think about theirs and how well it works.

Lori Brock #61 -- my black Lab/Coonhound mix is named Hector!!! OMG!!!! And, he (and my other dog) did/do exactly the same things you've described. Please watch Cesar's show and practice what you learn there -- you can change these behaviors. It's easy. If I can do it, with two big Lab-dogs, anyone can!!!

One thing: when you want him off the couch or away from you, don't PUSH. You have to take a dominant position by standing up and "inviting" him to move to where you want him to go. Pushing is like a game to him. You push, he comes back for more.

The pulling on the walk is very easy to learn how to fix. Just watch how Cesar does it in every episode of the show. Also, get the books by Patricia McConnell, she explains in very simple ways how to get your dog (and YOU) to stop pulling. If you notice, we humans tend to pull in the other direction. There is a way to stop doing that, and it will result in your dog not pulling either.

I'm still working on the jumping on people, the thunderstorms and the aggression toward other dogs, but I have gotten it much, much more under control by practicing every chance I get. I found Cesar last November, and I have been practicing every day and the changes are incredible. I never would've believed that little ol' me could accomplish so much in such a short time. Like I said, if I can do it, anyone can.

Ceasar,
I just wanted you to know that my wife loves your show and has gotten me interested. We have been working with our dog who is only 16 months old and very rambunctious. He loves to bite and chew and he runs through the house when playing. My wife tells me that I should not encourage that behavior but he enjoys it so much. We are worried that he may do this with the grandkids and they will get hurt. He also stands on his hind legs and when he does he is almost as tall as me(5'6). We need to get him to stop this and the trying to run out the front door when it is opened. Can you give us any tips?

Darlene #76, Your dog sounds like a DREAM come true! If it ain't broke, don't fix it! From your description, she sounds like a wonderfully balanced dog. Congratulations! We should all be so fortunate! You've done a great job with her.

Oh, Jackie, how sad. I'm so sorry that you ultimately reached this decision. Please would you get in touch with CJ Anderson at the Dog Whisperer Fans group on yahoo (she also checks out this blog once in a while) -- maybe you can find a new home for Lila through the people there.

In response to #109 - 112, the blog guidelines clearly state that Cesar does not answer questions here. I joined this blog when I found Cesar Millan's wonderful TV show last fall, and so many wonderful, wonderful people helped me with my problems with my two dogs that were dragging me down on the ground and being aggressive to small animals. Of course, we should seek professional help AT ONCE if our dogs are dangerous in any way. I did seek professional help, but I got MORE help from the people here, the people in the yahoo DW Fans group, and practicing what I saw on Cesar's show (those techniques that I personally was comfortable with -- there are things that I will NOT do, such as rollerblading or biking w/my dog, alpha-rolling them, etc. because I know my limits).

Now, it is my turn to help others by responding to their questions if I have experience in the same area. I have been congratulated for this by other group/blog members, even though I am not a professional dog trainer or anything like that. I have friends who now come to me desperate with their dog problems because they know that I will know what to do, and I will be able to show them what I have learned. What a wonderful thing.

I always give suggestions based on my own personal experience. If I do not have personal experience in the area being discussed, I don't contribute.

Other posters can take my advice/suggestions, or leave it. I'm here to help people if I can, and I take great enjoyment out of being able to do that. Kate G and others have helped me enormously. In fact, we have all helped each other from time to time. My dogs are my life, and I know others feel the same way. I enjoy being a part of this.

Hello Cesar Milan i watch your show constantly.
I was wondering if you can give me tips or help me with my dog.
Me and my family have adopted a (male)Chiuahua Mix named Spike.
Spike is 2years old and he viscously barks at any dog that he sees! wich scares me and he bites our family members.
How can i train Spike not to bite and fight family members and other dogs!!
somtimes my mom says she wants to give him away because of his behavior but i ask for a chance and im asking you if you can help me how to train my dog!! Please Cesar can you help me!!

Cesar, you rock!

Hi Linda P. (115)

We have received two of the Illusion collars and we love them! They provide great control, a little better than a choke chain. What we like best, tho, is that with a choke chain we found ourselves holding the leash tighter than it should be because as soon as you let it go completely slack, the way it should be, the choke collar would slide down and we'd have to stop and readjust. With the Illusion collar, it stays exactly where it should no matter how loose the leash is. You'll love it!!

katie3,

Thanks so much for letting me know how you like your Illusion collar! It was exactly what I was hoping to hear! We don't use a choke chain but a pinch collar (I do have a choke chain I use but don't use it much). I also have to stop and readjust the pinch collar, which is a pain. Gosh, now I can't wait!!

You're welcome, Linda P!

One of our Illusion collars is for Moe, our Great Pyrenees. He's our son's service dog, and we're delighted that with the Illusion collar Paul is able to "steer" all by himself! That's a lot of independence for him and it makes him very happy. Moe is happy too because he HATED the gentle leader! I know you will love yours!

Linda P. I just got my Illusion collar about a week ago and absolutely LOVE it!! I have an 8 month old boxer female who I have been walking for about 4 months. She pulled and tugged no matter what collar I used, but with the Illusion collar it has been amazing the difference. I do have to correct her some, but it is nothing like it was before. Our walks are much better and I feel so much more in control now. I hope you like yours as much as I do!!

Hello Cesar,
My family has just discovered you and we think you are dead on when it comes to correcting dogs and their owners/pack leaders. We recently adopted two rat terriers. I have not owned a dog in over 25 years, when I was 11 years old. Do you have any advice on how to handle a dog that seems too submissive? Max, one of our puppies, seems to cower anytime we come near him. We have tried approaching him from the side and not making eye contact but how do we get near him with out seeming too aggressive? He just rolls over on his back and whimpers. Again, thank you for sharing your knowledge with others and opening our eyes to a new, healthier way of treating man's best friend.

Cesar is the greatest. I am a huge fan of the show and watch it every chance I get but I haven't seen the new episode on separation anxiety. Can someone please help me on how to deal with that. My mother-n-law is staying with us for a couple of months and her miniature poodle will not let her get out of his sight nor will he go out to potty without her. It is awful, I have been trying to work with him on this problem and (teaching mom) as well. For starters, I am training him with basic obedience because he has none. Mom treats Bubba like a human and refuses to treat him like a dog so it is up to me and my husband to work with both of them to be balanced. I took my black lab, Lambeau to a professional trainer 7 years ago for one on one training and he is so well behaved and now I am using those methods that I was taught and learnt on Bubba. He is doing good with his commands but how do I proceed on getting him past having to be with mom constantly? He shakes and cries when he is not with her. (I take him out to potty most of the time to get him away from her). Please pass along ideas to help me.

hi cesar. i really enjoy your show. i have a little problem with my pup. when we go walk he would sometimes jump at me and run into the back of my legs and i cant make his stop and just walk along side me. any advice would be greatly appreciated. thanks.

In response to PUG MOM I want to say I'm am in no way a trainer or professional but just wanted to say I think your pug runs around in circles at full speed because he's locked up all day. When you get home from work you have been working all day, your dog has been stuck in a small kitchen with NO excercise. Take him on a walk, run him, get all that energy out, the walk will also help you relax after a long day at work. When you come back the dog should be ready to relax while you watch TV! Just a thought, I hope you read this and hope it helps!

Count me another ardent Cesar watcher! :)

Someone asked for opinions on crating, and I couldn't resist! In short, I'm against it. To paraphrase Doggone/Ga: nothing anybody ever says will change my mind about it. Again, as Doggone/Ga rightly points out, crates are blameless tools; it's the practice of, to which I refer.

Excepting travel, I believe that it's inhumane to confine a dog for hours at a time to this extent. I know it's lauded as an effective method of house-breaking, (among other things) but to me, if a person cannot take the time, then they should forego owning a dog. Cats are also excellent companion animals (I have several) which, while they have their own quirks, do not usually need 'breaking.' (Though admittedly, they also can be quite hard on personal possessions!)

And just an FYI: In my experience, adopting an older dog (read "not a puppy" here) makes house-breaking close to effortless.

Please note: the above is merely my personal opinion, not to be confused with anyone else's!

I, too, have had dogs for many years. All my life, in fact, and I'm rapidly closing in on the half-century mark. ;)

I currently have a small (for me) pack of four dogs, all foundlings or personal rescues. All are non-aggressive, social, and, to borrow Cesar's term, balanced dogs. They have a couple of fenced-in acres to run in and come in and out of the house as they choose. They also sleep where they choose. Interestingly enough, two sleep in the same spots every night and the other two never do so!

Now, if only Cesar could become a "Brat Whisperer" and offer parenting classes... ;D

OkieFan

I won't try to change your mind, but I would like to point out some alternative opinions to what you've said, so others can make up their own minds.

"Excepting travel, I believe that it’s inhumane to confine a dog for hours at a time to this extent. I know it’s lauded as an effective method of house-breaking, (among other things) but to me, if a person cannot take the time, then they should forego owning a dog."

Have you ever seen the inside of a wild canine's den? They are amazingly small and cramped. It is natural for a dog to find such conditions soothing and comfortable. And if it's OK when they travel, then it's OK at other times as well. Remember what I said about dogs sleeping or resting as much as 20 - 24 hours a day? There's no difference between them doing that in their yard and doing it in a crate. In either case, they stay in the same familiar sleeping area - they just can't leave a crate when they want to.

The reason crates are usually good housebreaking tools is because a normal dog or puppy won't voluntarily soil it's sleeping area. So using a crate to begin the housebreaking process is using the dog's natural instincts to your advantage. But to work effectively it does have to be small enough that the puppy can't divide it into a sleeping area and a toilet area.

" Cats are also excellent companion animals (I have several) which, while they have their own quirks, do not usually need ‘breaking.’ (Though admittedly, they also can be quite hard on personal possessions!)"

Now see, I've had cats too and have never had problems with them being hard on my personal possessions. They've also been crate trained. And if you ever get a kitten that is very young - such as a rescue situation - they DO need "breaking" in that they have never had a chance to learn proper toilet etiquette and they DO need to be taught HOW to use a litter pan, even to the extent sometimes of having to take their little paws and make them cover up their droppings!

"And just an FYI: In my experience, adopting an older dog (read “not a puppy” here) makes house-breaking close to effortless."

It's easier, I wouldn't say it's effortless. It depends on the dog and the situation under which it was raised. The animals rescued from animal collectors, in particular, who allowed them to live in filthy conditions inside a house, or dogs raised in very small fenced pens, can sometimes be nearly impossible to reliably housebreak because they have ALREADY been conditioned by previous experience to living in their own filth. It's not a natural condition for dogs, but like people they can adpapt to a lot of unnatural situations. But it does make it MUCH more difficult to teach them NOT to use the house as a bathroom.

"I, too, have had dogs for many years. All my life, in fact, and I’m rapidly closing in on the half-century mark.
I currently have a small (for me) pack of four dogs, all foundlings or personal rescues. All are non-aggressive, social, and, to borrow Cesar’s term, balanced dogs. They have a couple of fenced-in acres to run in and come in and out of the house as they choose. They also sleep where they choose. Interestingly enough, two sleep in the same spots every night and the other two never do so!"

And I am over the half-century mark and I currently have 10 dogs, all Whippets, and all males. Some of them are neutered and some are not. Because I work an hour away from my home they are outside all day, everyday. I, too, have a couple of acres, but it is fenced and cross-fenced into large yards and I keep them in pairs in each section.

Mine don't have the run of the house and whole yard and they DO go into crates at night to sleep and to eat. Dog fights over food I don't need - or even insecurities over eating, so they each have their own crate for nighttime.

I travel a lot with my dogs as they are performance dogs as well as my pets and companions - straight racing, oval racing and lure coursing mostly...sometimes dog shows. So I also have crates for each of them in my van.

I have a personal distaste for hearing people say that something, or some tool, is inhumane when it isn't. My first reaction is to wonder if the person is projecting their own dislike of something onto their animals. Yes, crating CAN be inhumane...but it's not INHERENTLY so. By labeling it such with no qualifiers as to HOW the crate is used, you ARE blaming the tool and not the person using it.

Altho my Sheltie/mix has absolutely no problems as far as dominance or
aggression, he IS a spoiled brat! He would NEVER allow me to brush out
his tail or his britches....clipping the consequential mats out was
ok.But he would NOT hold still, he would turn his head and grab the
brush(not my hand) with his teeth...no snarling, just letting me know
he wasnt having anything to do with this! Also, no way would he allow
me to trim his nails. Cesars' techniques work on spoiled brats too!
First I took Mattie for a 15 minute walk, then we played in the back
yard for probably another 20 to 30 minutes....I brought out the
grooming tools, put the leash back on him, and put him down on his
side, using the biting technique. It didnt happen instantly, but after
a few times of not being able to get up, he got it. I am ELATED to tell
you, I totally brushed out his tail and britches, also did his nails...
I was in SUCH a wonderfully positive frame of mind, that I decided my
female Maine Coon cat was not going to be the boss of me any more
either! Would you believe pinning her down and being the "alpha" cat
for once, did the trick with her as well? Only I found out that you
cant use the "bite" technique with cats, for them you have to "bite" on
the backs of their necks as their mothers would do. WOO HOO !!!

Smart man you are Ceaser.........

Shrimp

I have a question. My mom has a dog that is almost 2. He is a Beagle/Chow Mix. I would like to know how would be the best way for her to become his pack leader? She has to have other people do any walking with him because she is disabled. The only time the dog gets to go outside for a walk is when my 10 year old spends the night. Any help would be deeply appreciated. Thanks!

I hope Jackie checks back in and goes to the yahoo group, or at least gives us an update on if she found Lola a good home!! Jackie, where are you?

Hi Cesar!
I just recently started to watch your show and I think you are amazing! I have never seen or heard any other dog person like you.

Anyways, I wanted to tell you about My dog Thor. He is suposidly a rotwhiler/golden retriver mix, 2 years old, and some where around 90 pounds. He is very energetic and is extremly oraly fixated (loves to pick up anything lying on the floor then chews on it or hides it).

But that's not all. I have been watching your shows and how you should only give affection to a dog when they are in a calm submissive state, but when ever he is quietly lieing down and we go to pet him, hug him, whatever, he will growl at us and sometimes bear his teeth. He will even try to get up and walk away.

We got him when he was 9 months through a rescue program and he never acted like this before until a year later. It is very worrie some and we are affraid that one day his bahavior might esclate to where he is biting.

My sister also loves to rough house with him, but once she gets him wound up he won't stop. When we try to get him to stop we will often yell at him to settle down and hold him in our hands. He also becomes agressive in this state too and it seems to be getting worse.

We do not take him for daily walks like you suggest because my family is full of lazy people (including me). If we started walking him every day, how long would you suggest for a dog his size?

I would love to learn how to help him so he dosen't have to be put down in the future for his bad behavior.

Thank you very much!

Hail Cesar! I am learning to be a better dog owner. My mother has a terrier mix that constantly marks inside her home. My mother is also a big fan of the Dog Whisperer. I would like to see a show that my mother can relate to on this subject. Mom is a psychologist and lives in a very pricey home. I'd like to visit her without my nose burning with the scent of dog urine.

Donna,

I can't give much dog advice (I'm still in training), but I have a couple of suggestions for your father-in-law. My husband didn't want to watch Cesar at first either. I put the show on when company was over & when they became engaged he couldn't help himself but watch it. The show is interesting & if you can get him in the same room for a couple of minutes, he'll probably watch it on his own. Second, if he still refuses, your family should refuse to come over unless he puts the dog away when you're there. You really shouldn't tolerate his putting your family in danger. I know it sounds harsh, but I believe he's the one being unfair.

What a great, educational show. I especially appreciated the pitbull segment on this episode.

I'd love to see a show (or hear others' opinions) about PLAYTIME parameters. On the show, Cesar advises keeping the dog in a calm/submissive state to prevent negative behaviors. Is it ever ok to encourage a higher energy level during playtime? What kind of activities are appropriate?
We have a wonderful 5 year old pitbull. She's an only dog, so I feel like playtime is important to her mental and physical health. She has a designated play area and we get on the ground to play with her. Whenever we stand up, she knows playtime is over and playtime behavior stops. Is it inappropriate to get on their level, even if they've never exhibited aggressive behavior only playfulness?
We don't allow her to play 'mouthy' because of the breed stigma, but we have a friend with a lab that does. He believes the dog will never bite viciously and feels he is in control. Is this inappropriate behavior?
How does a pack leader play with the pack?

Having been a professional petsitter for 12 years I have lots of opinions in all areas of animal care and handling. I would like to address the crate issue. The crate is the dog's "safe place", "cave", etc. I suggest crate training/acclimation for many good reasons. I have had people "get rid of" a destructive puppy because they "did not believe" in crate training. However, when household items were destroyed the dog was destroyed. How sad AND stupid!
I also need to emphasize the need to have all your animals acclimiated to a crate whenever you live in a state that has hurricanes. I live in Florida and in order for a shelter to accept you and your animal....it has to be in a crate or cage.
We are also advised by hurricane experts to crate our animals even when we might be riding out a storm in our own homes. Limbs and other debris can come flying through the roof, windows, etc. and a frightened animal would be long gone because of pure panic.
Yes, indeed, I have heard several horror stories about people leaving animals crated for an ungodly number of hours. Then again, in 12 years, I have heard and seen just about everything. In my world, "You Can't Save Them All" is applied to the two leggeds not the animals. The animals have much more wisdom and common sense than 80% of the two leggeds I have met. I PREFER to spend 24 hours out of 24 with animals rather than most egotistical, fluff brained two leggeds. Actually, I do manage to do just that!

Cesar - thank you so much. I thought my dog Molly - a doxie/lab mix, was very well behaved until I started watching your show. After watching for a while, I realized that there were times when she was the leader of the pack, which we now know isn't healthy for her. She loves to go out to the mail box with me and before she I would open the front door and she would run out ahead of me. Now, she understands that she has to wait until I step out the door and tell her she can come out and if I tell her to stop before we get there, she stops and waits. Molly now works as a therapy dog with children and everyone is amazed that when I take her off leash, she will stay at my side until I tell her she can go off with the kids. Watching your show has definately given me some great examples to follow with Molly, making her a well behaved and loving dog, who makes a big difference is a lot of young childrens lives.

i have a yorkie that for no reason from a sound sleep will attack our maltese..they are both females...after waching your show we are now be coming more intune to solving this night terrory...we'll keep waching for more tips.

This is for Linda #48
She wanted to know if there was anyone out here that got the Illusion collar. I got mine about a 2 weeks ago and it does back the walk with my ESS a lot better. She was always trying to put her nose to the ground. She can't do this with the collar. It helps make our walks more relaxing and enjoyable.

This is for Engstorm #159
Cesar suggests that the dogs be walked for up to an hour every day. I take my dog for a walk after my husband goes to work at 6:00 in the morning. Then several times after I get home from work and after supper I go out with her and just walk around the house with her and get her to run before it is bed time to get the energy worked out of her.

This is for Kaye #141
Are teaching your mom to do the training with her dog. When she isn't there with you the dog will probably go back to his old ways if she doesn't do the training with him. On the show that Cesar just did on separation anxiety. The people kept on putting the dog in a confide area and before they would close the door they would always say good-bye to the dog. No, don't do that. He stayed in front of the door and whenever the dog tried to go out of the little area he made the noise that he makes and pointed his finger and the dog went and layed on his bed. He closed the door but stayed in the apartment and when ever the dog made a noise Cesar made his noise. Next he brought in a crate and had the people put the dog in there. They put some padding in the crate and the little girl put something of hers in ther with the dog so it would have something with her scent on it to make it feel more at ease. Now that is where the dog stay when they are gone and there hasn't been any more complaining from the other tennets in the complex.

We have a well mannered 10 yr. old Std. Poodle. The only real problem is she's terrified of noises ... car doors being closed in the neighborhood, thunder, shooting at Camp Pendleton, etc.
Her body language changes immediately - head down, tail down & walking deliberately toward our car (if we're at the park). She shivers uncontrollably. Any advice?

I have a problem with my 1 year old dog ( half Husky, half German Shepherd ) since huskies are used in alaska, its in her blood for her to be used to cold weather... well, its so hot this summer and she isnt very happy about it!!! (shes an outside dog) so does anyone have any tips to cool her down??? And is it ok to spray her with the water hose???

Ceaser,

I too live with a pack (of 8) dogs, owning a dog training facility and compete with 6 of these dogs in competition dog sports (both agility and flyball).

I've reciently been asked to take in two rescue shelties that would not make good pets due to their excitment level. One of the dogs from New Jersey has worked her way into the pack over the past few months, but the new fella from Denver is extremely high energy, and has taken a bit more hands on, as he slowly works his way into the pack.

It's exciting to take on these special cases and to see them assimilate into the pack. I take on very high drive dogs that most people can't handle as they make very good performance dog, with a lot of positive renforced training (I use the clicker which is an awesome tool in training dogs).

How do you facilitate getting your pack enough exersize on a regular basis? I know that each dog requires different amounts of exersize. My dogs get at least one hour of playing fetch with a chuck-it each night. And are free to roam around my property when I am present to facilitate being the pack leader over them. When I'm not home they are confined to kennel runs in combinations that I know are safe with each other.

I know you spend a lot of time now filming for the television show, which limits the time you have to spend with your pack.

I work a 40 plus hour a week job and teach classes in both dog sports to both 4-H children and adults. Plus, do a few private lessons a week. This limits my time spent with my own dogs and the amount of exersize I can offer them, never mind individual training sessions with my own dogs.

I do notice when the weather has been bad for a few days and the dogs don't get enough exersize that it's pandamonium around here.

I was just courios as to how you handle your pack with the added time involvement with the television show and working with others and their dogs.

I've sometimes found it hard to leave enough time in the day for my own dogs needs, and have finally learned to say NO to people, when it's at the expense of my own pack and it's stability.

I love living with a pack of 8 and wouldn't change it for the world. I hope people considering living with a large number of dogs realize the committment it takes to caring for a large number of dogs. I couldn't do what I do, which is compete with my dogs if I didn't have the 4 acres that I do and the facilities that I've built for my dogs.

MariAnne

My husband and I have 2 dogs; a golden retriever and a choc lab...both 18 months old. We are both attend obedience classes and consistently watch your program...the problem is that I have learned that as much as I love these girls, they ARE dogs. My husband still treats them like little human girls with fur! Our discipline is at opposite ends of the spectrum. I walk the girls about 3 miles every morning and exhibit the alpha mentality. I offer lots of affection at approp times while he RARELY to NEVER disciplines them and would give them affection 24/7 if he were awake all that time...QUESTION...how do we create well-behaved girls out of these two under the circumstances? He maintains the golden while I work with the lab. My lab is soooooooooooo well behaved(we are working toward therapy dog status) and learns very quickly while his golden is your "typical blonde"; beautiful, but not the sharpest tool in the shed (why should she be with him as her ??LEADER????)...how would you manage this or better yet, might you consider a segment on this or a similar issue. We are both retired and have time to work with these girls and I would certainly benefit from such a program. "Thank You" seems inadequate for the contented life you have given back to so many that you have already helped as well as those you will help in the future, but THANK YOU!.

Hi!

My family has a Dalmation who is a very good dog when it comes to our family, and although usually a little wary of adult visitors, she usually gets over it within seconds, as soon as they allow her to sniff them... but we've noticed that she's getting even more wary of adults as she gets older... and she always has this wary look on her face like we're going to hit her (which we never do).
Also, When we first got her, there were some kids who lived near our house who would beat her with a stick when she went out to go to the bathroom. We have a very large yard, so we didn't realize at first that this was happening (we give our dog free range of our yard because she doesn't leave it, and comes when called... plus we have horses, and our dog, true to her breed, gets along wonderfully with them). Ever since, we cannot trust her with children, and seeing as how she is a Dalmation, that makes things very difficult, because little kids think "OH! Disney's 101 Dalmations!!" and want to pet her, but she's very skittish around them and tries to run away, and will nip if the kids approach her on terms that are not her own.

Finally (as if that weren't enough) she has a very scary reaction to being hugged. If you wrap your arms around her chest area (sometimes even draping an arm over her) she yelps, sometimes makes a nipping motion and jumps away. As far as I know, no one has actually been nipped yet because of this behavior, but it is very scary... now, I know the logical advice is "Don't hug your dog"... and we don't, we're very careful to not put our arms around her... but strangers don't know this, and admittedly, sometimes we'll accidentally place an arm around her and get this reaction.

I consider the hugging thing, more than anything, to be really strange behavior, and I'm wondering if it doesn't date back to those children who beat on her because they would wrap their arms around her too.

I would appreciate any advice you can give on this. This is the first dog we've ever had that we have to guard our motions against, and I don't like the feeling of being nervous around her because of that.

Thank you!

Thank you Caser for helping so many dogs and people. I am a fulltime RVer who volunteers at shelters all over the US and they desperately need to use your techniques. In our travels it seems that the majority of dogs we meet are not well socialized and need balance. I tape your shows and have your book, which I loan out but wish there was something geared strictly for shelter workers I could donate to shelters I visit. Do you do training classes for shelter workers? That would help SO MANY dogs!! I am your devoted deciple and tell everyone to watch your show, but get very frustrated watching so many people encourage unstable behavior.

Cesar, I am so happy to have cable now just to be able to catch your show. I enjoy watching you in action as much as grabbing one of your books for reference. I especially love the props and shout outs for the pit bulls!
The first thing I was taught when I started training dogs, was to be a fearless pack leader. Just like anything, or anywhere else we go, we cannot show fear :)
We immedietly became known as the "bully breed" trainers of Chicago after showing new and old dog owners that the pit bull(in particular), the rott, and the shepards are safe, smart LOVEABLE animals. Trust and respect is key :)
I have three rescued pitti's myself and would be honered if we would be able to come and visit your facility. I found my first dog in the garbage after a fighting ring was broken up, (Chloe :)) the second (Maya) was left behind from a family who brought her to our bootcamp and decided against the breed. the third (Layla) was found here in Long Beach ca.
Thank you for being so infomative to dog lovers around the world, and allowing the primitive nature of the dog to be loved and known for the wonderful things the animals give back to the humans.
Much like you, my family and my dogs are the most important to me. My dogs have been a HUGE inspiration in finding myself and a job I LOVE waking up for every morning.

Looking forward to meeting you and seeing your facility. I would be interested in volunteering too!

Sincerely,

Anni Milian

barking business
long beach, ca 90802
(549) 787-1107

Glenda #185, I have two reactions to your post. The first being, if the Golden is behaving well, despite not using Cesar's methods, then if it ain't broke, don't fix it. If, however, she is acting badly, then you should ask your husband to reconsider and have an open mind and just "think about" trying Cesar's methods with her. It should be the case that all family members are pack leader.

My second reaction is that Cesar works with "good dogs gone bad" and that usually means full-grown, adult dogs whose owners don't know what to do about the dogs' bad behavior. You are training two 18 month old puppies, who are big, yes, but they are not fully developed behaviorally yet, and Cesar's methods are a great thing to incorporate into your training (I think ALL trainers should do BOTH pack leadership AND positive reinforcement, but that's just my opinion -- wouldn't the world be a beautiful place? ha ha).

I heard Cesar say the other night: "Be your dog's pack leader FIRST, and THEN train him using verbal commands." That about says it all. Your husband being affectionate could be translating to the dog as though he is pack leader, especially if she's behaving well despite all the affection. Perhaps his energy is right, for example. Just remember that, as puppies, these two don't know any better and your responsiblity right now is to mold them into good dogs. I thank God I found Cesar when I did, as my fully-grown dogs were on the brink of "going bad". We're doing really well now. But when they were puppies, I always spent a lot of time walking and training them, even though I'd never heard of Cesar at that time. You should do what comes most naturally to you and don't over-analyze or try too hard.

Dog-Gone & K2,

Thank-you for the heads-up about the "dog park" episode! Sadly I missed it. Unfortunately, I don't see all of of the shows due to busy schdeule and don't always have the forsight to tape it! I would be very interested in seeing it and hope it does address the whole attacking issue. I know that Cesar's philospophy applies to the entering and conducting oneself in a dog park or pack environment to prevent trouble...I also hope it addresses the "post-attack" issues, which is what can change a dog forever if not dealt with.

If anyone could please tell me the name of the episode, so I can watch for it to air again...I would greatly appreciate it!
Thanks!

I thought that the power of the pack episode was the best I loved it!im wondering though how to control my poodle he is real good untill he goes under stuff were you can't reach him then he growls and tries to bite because he thinks its his own little hideout and I can't reach to get under things he gets under to clame it asmine i need advice

Hi Chelsea,

Have you tried having him drag a leash while he's in the house? A lot of times they won't even try stuff like hiding under the furniture once they figure out you have that control.
Hope that helps!

I love your show! I have two yellow lab puppies and they have been doing very well utilizing the 'pack leader mentality' to train them. They are aggressive with each other at times and it is a hard behavior to break and we are still owrking on that. That had me thinking that I would like to see a show on how to train younger dogs to prevent them from becoming bad in the first place. Train the new mommies and daddies please.

Hi Teri, The dog park episode is Duke, Lulu and Sparky.

Dog attraction

I adopted a Chocolate Lab that I named Daisy when she was a puppy. In the process of socializing Daisy I met Virginia who had a Australian puppy named Addie. We started hanging out and ended up getting married. The dogs are great friends so we have not had many problems. One problem that I wanted help with is that when I got Daisy she smelled like waste. Daisy is used to eating her waste and others. I would like to know how to get her off of this pattern. I have tried many things with no success. Next I noticed that Cesar likes to use a bike to help the dogs exercise. I think that it is a great idea but Addie is freaked by the bike and I think she needs to run the most. Does anyone know how I could get Addie used to running next to the bike? Thank you

Hey all!-

I just started my new job working at a kennel in vet clinic. I think they want me to become manager. I eneded up explaining a little bit about dog phsycology to a fellow co-worker, and did not think much of it, but later he told me that he gained a whole new perspective on dogs after our conversation, because he was not much of a dog person before. Anyway, It seemed pretty cool because that is how I felt when I learned that dogs use energy for language and all of that other good stuff. Well, thought that I would share this because I am so happy to have learned so much from ceasar and to hear that many more are learning as well. ;)

I just started watching this show this weekend; I'm so amazed with the knowledge Cesar has with dogs. My boyfriend and I tried one of the methods from the episode with the little dog that was afraid of the toaster. My little wiener dog Lain hates the vacuum and barks at it every time I take it out of the closet, within minutes she was over it. I can't believe how easy it was. I love it!!!!

please help me: I have a 90 pound boxes that is very agressive toward stangers. He is 6 years olda we have had him since he was 3 months old. We adopted him from the humane socitey. We had his sister for 6 weeks after also. After that she went to live with my neice in Illinois. That was the plan all along. After she left he was very depressed even though we had two other dogs. He finally got more settled and seem to be getting along pretty well until our neighbors started teasing him and throwing things at him and our Boston terrier mix. Because of the teasing he became very leary of strangers. As long as I am with him and reasuring that a person is OK he is OK with them. But if someone he does not know well approaches him when I am not their he get very aggressive. He had not bitten anyone until yeasterday. My son-in-laws parents and uncle had came by and I put him and the terrier out side because they get very excited when company comes and I didn't want them jumping on them. With out me knowing my son-in-law father went out back where the dogs were. I had a gate up to keep them off the deck and he reached over the gate and tried to pat him. This was not the first time the dog had seen him but it had been a while. He bit his hand he did not draw blood but you could see where the tooth hit his hand. It really scared me and him. I don't want to get rid of him but I have to small grandchildren and I starting to worry. This is not the frist time the has nipped at someone but is the first time he has every left a mark. Please help me if you can I really love my dog but and getting worried.

Hola Cesar espero que hables espanol. Yo tengo un pastor aleman de 6 meses de edad y me resulta muy dificil pasearlo por que el siempre esta jalandome y quiere hacer todo lo que le da la gana y tambien a la hora del bano y cortarle las unas necesito un consejo de usted para haber que puedo hacer. Muchas Gracias por su tiempo.

i have a small dog that bites little kids, we're working on some of cesars tips but she is still really nippy, its now coming to someone telling us what to do or putting her to sleep..any ideas would help greatly! thanks

Megan-

First, ask yourself how it is that you view your dog. To you is she an animal or your baby? It is easy to view dogs as our human babies, but putting out that kind of energy does not fulfill the dog as the dog should be fulfilled. The first step is allowing the dog to be in tune with itself, because until they feel as though they are treated as a dog, and following a stable calm, assertive pack leader, then they can and will move forward and start to place their trust in humans. You did not exactly specify what the kids are doing to get bit, but heres a little information that I hope may help you. First thing to keep in mind when you and your dog are around kids is that kids have high pitched voices, they are closer to eye level with the dog, and they tend to be more energetic than adults. All of the above things are viewed as unstable to a dog. Here is a situation where you have to be the pack leader of the kid(s) and the dog. First rule (this must be made clear to the kid)(hey kids need leadership for their own safety too right?!): the only way that you will allow anyone(kids really) to pet your dog is after they relax, sit down, dont make eye contact, and let the dog sniff them first. After the dog has sniffed, then they may gently pet the dog, if the dog seems to want to allow this. Meanwhile, you can encourage the dog with your voice like "go say hi! its ok!", but do not pick the dog up, or pull the dog towards the kid if the dog does not feel ready, otherwise you could be asking for a bite, and/or associating kids with more negativity. If the dog does not seem ready to be touched by children yet, do not force it, this sort of thing takes patience. Tell the child "maybe next time, shes just a little too shy at the moment" and thank them for cooperating. Inform them that you are trying to help rehabilitate this dogs behavior around kids, so youre working on him, and maybe next time she wont be so shy. I hope this might help you. I have a dog who used to be scared of kids, and he never bit or anything, but he would growl and try to hide behind me. Well I tried all of the above and just took my time in rehabilitating him, and at this moment, you would never think that he was scared of anything because when he sees children now, he starts jumping around thinking that its playtime, but as soon as the child approaches him, he wags his tail and sniffs them all over then rolls over on his back. Hes a totally different dog in many ways. Please, I urge you not to get rid of your dog, just take time out to introduce new things, and people to her. Shell come around with patience.

I watched 2 hours of your show and everyone of them helped me! i never realized that my dog goes nuts in the car because he is a hunting/ herding dog! And he used to completely ignore me when i said come because i was always nice about it! all i had to do was show alittle pack authority! when i walk him he is posing a danger to himself. he pulls so much that he started to loose oxygen so we switched him to a harness but he gets chafing and they turn into sores. i will look for an episode that can help me or i will look in one of your books.
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR HELP!

I know Cesar won't answer me, but it seems like there are many others here who are knowledgable enough about Cesar's ways that y'all can help.

I have just recently been introduced to Cesar Milan's way of doing things. I have requested his new book from the library and I am waiting to receive it. Our 4.5 year old chocolate lab has been "to school" to learn proper manners, but he still has a hard time walking on a leash and coming when called when he is off leash. I have started "walking the walk" with him on short walks and he is doing better. We may not go for a long walk every day, but we do play ball every day. I throw, he gets. Is this enough exercise? He comes in a flops on the floor like he is exhausted and he has lost some of his excess weight since we started this. My husband also plays with him by hiding the ball and having Dozer "hunt it up", but I'm thinking this is no longer good because it creates a dog that is not calm.

I need him to come when called. I haven't seen anything that addressed that (I have to admit that I just started watching last week and I have watched all the video clips on National Geographic Channel's site.) He also is dog aggressive, but if I make him sit when another dog approaches he will come down, so we are still working on that.

Any suggestions on things to try and tips about exercise will be appreciated. He lives in a house with two humans and two male cats which he adores and they adore him.

Hello,

Here is my story about my boxer and me (a little bit long):

Since I can remember, I have been afraid of dogs, small medium or large ones, just the sound of a dog barking would get me scared, not to mention the laughs of everyone around me when the dog barking is a 10 inch tall lhasa apso. Anyways, I grew up avoiding dogs as much as possible and I was very successful, and I knew for sure that the last thought that was going to cross my mind was to ever get a dog.

I got married 6 years ago, and my wife has a huge heart and she loves all animals, so it was always her dream to have a dog, specially since she never had one when she was a kid and she was just looking for the perfect timing to get one. Due to our jobs we had to relocate to different places frequently and we had to live on small apartments so I used that as an excuse not to get a dog. Finally, last year I got relocated to Houston,TX and it seems like we would be here for a long time, so we decided to move to a big house and the first comment that came from my wife was "Now we can get a dog"

I avoided the "dog" topic for a while, and I explained to her my fear of dogs, and she always replied that it was just stupid, and I would just needed to overcome that fear by having a dog. Then, slowly she worked me out and started talking about breeds and started bringing dog magazines and started asking what dogs do I like, and one day I said "...well, boxers are good looking dogs, and I know they're playful and loyal".

On December last year, some friends told us about the Dog Whisperer show, and I started watching and became the bigest fan, it was amazing. Then I thought that if I followed what Cesar says in his shows, I could actually overcome my fear and even better I could have a dog. I recorded all his shows, re-runs, bought his dvd, read all the different websites where he writes.

One day in February my wife joined the Her idea was to slowly introduce me to boxers first by helping their organization, then maybe working as foster a family and then adopting a boxer. After 2 pr 3 weeks in the organization, my wife got a call that there was a boxer that was going to be euthanized if no one took care of her, and in the rescue they were full, they didn't have more space to take her, so my wife volunteer to keep her for a weekend.

I told my wife that we would get her in the house with my rules, and by my rules I meant Cesar's rules. So we picked her up on a friday evening and that was it, that is when Alex came to our lifes. She was very playful, and I did as Cesar says, before she got to our house I walked her for almost 2 hours, then I put strict rules in the house, specially around food. She couldn't get in or get out the house without us telling her to do so, she couldn't start eating or even getting close to her food bowl. After a week with Alex, we fell in love with her and decided to adopt her (so much for slow introduction) she was (and still is) the perfect dog for us.

Once we adopted her, we found out she was heartworm positive, she had a mast cell tumor in her head and at least 2 broken teeth. So the next 2 months she spent it in and out of the vet. First, one month in the house for the heartworm, then another month after her mast cell tumor surgery and her teeth extraction (actually she had 6 broken teeth). After the Doctors decided that she was ok, I started walking her again, and playing. And although she is not a high energy dog, she likes to play, but I always kept my rules in the house.

I guess since it was a little bit cold for the winter, no one took their dogs out to walk specially at 6 AM which is the only time of the day I can do it, but after the weather started to get better more people was walking dogs in the morning, and that's when I discovered Alex's main problem "ANIMAL AGGRESSION"...and it is bad...very bad. She doesn't bark, she just goes in attack mode ready to snap.

After we realized of the aggression problems, I looked at Cesar's techniques of correction using the leash, and they worked to some extent. Now alex is not aggressive towards cats, squirrels, armadillos. But dogs...she has a major problem with Dogs. Every time she sees another dog, I try to control her, but she is in a state of mind where she doesn't listen, and I have tried to be more proactive, but so far no luck. I guess now it is partially my fault, since I know I get very nervous when I see another dog and Alex doesn't know who's the leader.

Then, we decided to call a behavioral expert, highly recommended. He came to our house, and after I explained my problem to him..well, he was reading his blackberry while I was explaining..the first thing that came out of his mout was "dogs don't need to walk, they don't need physical exercise, they only need mental exercise". At that point on, everything was downhill with him; he suggested to stop all the rules I have in my house, and start praising Alex all the time so when I wouldn't praise her, she would understand that she did something wrong, and I thought, that technique doesn't work with human babies, I don't think it's going to work with dogs, plus...Alex needs her exercise. So I decided to tell him to leave (of course after he tried to sell me all kind of special leashes, special dog food which amazingly he was the only person in the US who can sell it)

At this point we thought "okay, there is more than one expert in houston, so let's keep looking" then, we saw on the news a dog behavioral expert team that could handle any aggressive dog. We called them immediately and we made an appointment. Two ladies came, one of them got in the house with us and Alex and she explained how their program works, it made sense. Then she showed me some things that Alex could learn with them by making weird noises with my mouth, however Alex already knew those things just by following my rules and without the weird noises, in the house Alex knows who is in control and she doesn't dare to do anything if we don't tell her to do so. At this point, I believe that the trainer thought that Alex was going to be the easiest money she would ever make in her life. Then we went out and after 2 minutes they brought out their dog, and that is when Alex second personality came out. They tried all their techniques, some chains making noise, water, more weird noises with the mouth, and after 2 hours...nothing. If anything Alex was maybe more aggressive than before.

Two weeks later they came back, with another person with more expertise. This time they decided that Alex couldn't go outside for 2 months and that we couldn't praise her or let her in our furniture until she understood that she couldn't be mean to dogs, I didn't see the relationship between those 2, but I let them continue with their session. Then, they showed to me (again) a bunch of things thata Alex already knew and charged me $500 dollars and that they would come 5 weeks later to see the progress.

I decided that I wouldn't let Alex without her morning exercise, it is very important for her. Her body starts shaking with a lot of energy and she can't sleep if she doesn't go out every day, she gets anxious. But I started following the exercises the trainers recommended. After 2 weeks making the weird noises I realized that they weren't helping Alex's aggression problem, so I stopped.

Now, I walk Alex and I try to control her better when I am walking and we meet another dog, I've seen some progress when I see the dog ahead of time, but sometimes she goes very aggressive. I guess it is a long process and I need to keep working with her. Also, I guess we just have to wait until Cesar decides to stop by Houston since I trully believe he is the last resource for our baby.

Nevertheless, having Alex has been a wonderful experience, and I know that with exercise and discipline she would be even more wonderful that what she is right now.

What a great story, Santiago! It sounds like you are doing everything RIGHT! And go with your gut instinct, if the trainer doesn't feel right to you, he/she is probably NOT right for your dog. Your story is very inspiring and I'm so glad that you were able to face your fear of dogs!

Thanks for the comments!!. I will start practicing tomorrow morning.

Cesar,

I've been trying to put some of your actions into play. My German Shephard-Golden Retriever-Chow mix SCREACHES when she sees other dogs. It's not aggressive to be mean, it's aggressive because she wants to play. It's embaressing because people think I'm beating or killing her. I can't figure out how to "block" that train of thought. I've tried "biting" Lacey before she seems to get excited, but she ignores it...and trust me, I mean it. She listens in all other aspects expect that one. Also, you talk about how important the walk is, but I use the walk for both exercise AND bathroom time. How do I know when to give her leeway to smell for her spot? We are still working on me being pack leader while walking...but she just keeps pulling me.

Melissa & Lacey, I have to use the walk for both bathroom time & exercise, too. Cesar lets his dogs out in the yard to "do their business" BEFORE the walk. I do that now that our yard is fenced in, but one of my dogs won't poop in the yard (neurotic!) so I have to let him do his biz on the walk. Let the dog relieve itself once or twice, and then go 10-15 minutes under your control, and then let her go again. You'll get used to the timing of it. Also, try stepping in front of her and blocking her view the FIRST immediate second she sees another dog and wants to play. My dogs are exactly the same way. If you block the view, make her sit/stay (if you can -- it takes a lot of practice!) and even walk in a different direction like off to the side or back the way you came for a few feet, just to let her know you are in charge. That will block her behavior enough for you to get her under control. Also, let her greet once she's under control -- as Cesar recommends seek out the one thing you're afraid of. If you keep avoiding other dogs (this is what I've been doing) your dog will never learn how to behave correctly. I'm still not there yet. You need to feel safe enough to do it. If you think you might be injured or anything, seek the help of a pro.

COULD SOMEONE PLEASE ANSWER MY QUESTION: IT IS NOT RELATED TO A DOG PROBLEM. I SAW THE SHOW ON AUGUST 6TH (I THINK) ABOUT A DOG WHICH I BELIEVE WAS NAMED "FELLA". THE DOG ALMOST GOT THE OWNER ( A WOMAN AND HER DAUGHTER) GET KICKED OUT OF THEIR APARTMENT FOR BARKING WHILE THE OWNER WAS AT WORK.
I WOULD VERY MUCH LIKE TO KNOW WHAT BREED OF DOG FELLA IS?
I DIDN'T KNOW HOW ELSE TO FIND AN ANSWER, SO I WROTE HERE. HOPE THATS ALRIGHT. THANKS FOR ANY HELP........PLEASE EMAIL ME IF YOU HAVE AN ANSWER/I'D REALLY APPRECIATE IT. DONNA

Donna,

I don't think they said what breed Fella is, but he looks like a Rat Terrier

I have a 12 wk old soft coated wheaten terrier. The breeder was sick w/cancer at the time of her birth and died shortly thereafter. Consequently, she received very little human contact. We love dogs, have two bichons, and thought we could socialize her and she'd warm up to us. It's been 1 1/2 weeks and when we approach her she runs to the corner of the room and looks away from us, won't even take a yummy or piece of cheese from us. She does attempt to play w/the other dogs but they won't give her the time of day. We cuddle and love on her but she is as stiff as a board when we are holding her. Will she ever warm up to us,is it too late for socialization. Does anyone have a suggestion?

I just wanted to share a break-through I had last night with my male boxer, who is aggressive. Okay, so I was taking out the dogs to go to the bathroom yesterday afternoon and my neighbors were outside grilling. I didn't notice them until Oscar did and he went after my other boxer, Lucy. I was holding both of my arms up in the air attempting to keep them seperated (which I'm sure what a funny sight to my neighbors :) haha). So I finally was able to grab Oscar and I made him lay down on the ground and stay there while Lucy went potty. I felt like jumping up and down! This is the first time he has ever submitted in front of our neighbors (at our new house OR our old house). He got up and started getting riled up again and I made him lay down (this time took more effort on my part) again. Then I let him get up and he went about his business and only required a few leash corrections when he would look at the neighbors!!

There is hope out there guys. Just stick with these techniques and they really do work!!! :)

I just wanted to thank Cesar. I recently started watching the Dog Whisperer and have come to realize the mistakes I've made in the past. I had two bearded collies for 8 years that I adored, but who had severe separation anxiety issues and aggressive tendancies towards eachother and later towards me. I rescued them when they were about 7, and I was not a good pack leader. Our lives together could have been so much better.

I now have a small dog and have chosen to make sure that he is as well adjusted as possible. I have watched the show and tried to set limits, provide discipline and then give affection. IT WORKS. He is my baby and I take him everywhere. But the little guy is so much happier when I'm a better pack leader, and remember that he is a dog first. It took him about 5 minutes to fall in line on his first walk and he loved it. Now I know what behaviors I should look for and stop immediately, and I know how to stop them so that he listens and remembers.
Thank you for sharing your knowledge.

Rachel,

I can't remember the name of the dog, but the show was on a couple of times this past weekend. It's a Beagle owned by an older couple who live in a retirement community and the man has MS and has to use a powered wheel chair. You REALLY need to see that show as it will teach you how to claim your possessions from your dog.

But, at the same time, your dog is just a puppy and he's energetic and inquisitive. Keep your shoes out of his reach! And make sure he has plenty of his own toys that he is allowed to play with and chew.

Rachel,
hitting the gog or yelling at him for chewing the shoe is the worst thing you can do. Even more, if you discipline your dog after the fact, he can not make the connection between you disciplining him and him chewing on the shoe. Even if it's few seconds later it's too late. The only time to discipline your dog is when he is actually chewing on the shoe, not even seconds later.
If you yell or hit the dog, he will only be fearfull of you and you will make everything worse. Sometimes people say: "I got home, looked at the mess my dog made and then looked at him and he looked "guilty". It is not a guilt you see but rather him being fearfull of you because he can sense that you are mad.
So please, do not listen to your farther and sister and do this:
There might be few common reasons for your 6 month old puppy chewing up your shoes but I would guess that he feels little separation anxiety when you leave so it's only natural for him to chew something that smell like you. He is bored plus if you leave him in your house he will be getting in trouble because all that energy and anxiety he has. Try to exercise him every day before you leave ( I would suggest to take him for a 45 min morning walk - I assume you know how to correctly walk your dog)and than feed him and crate him. That way he willl be tired when you leave and will be in confined space without chance of destroying your stuff. Crate is actually natural for dogs as it simulates the den where dogs are born in nature. The crate should be big enough so he can confortable lay in it and turn around. Leave him some chew toys and don't make a big deal about you leaving. You should actually walk him first (the more the better), then feed him, let him go to bathroom and crate him. Then go about your business and leave with making as little deal about it as possible. Do not respond to his whining. When you come home, ignore hime for 10 min. You should try to let him out within 4 hours but adult dogs can hold it for 8 hours usually.
When you are home, try to condition him by having him on leash and claim your shoes by correting him every time he wants to get it. Little corretion with leash and your body posture should be enough. Every time he want to get it just "bite" him with you hand or push him away. Don't say anything.Just be confident and patient as he will try to over and over again. If he gets mouthy or aggressive with you put him on his back but be careful since you said he submissively pees. You have to remain calm and assertive. If you yell, hit or get mad at the dog they will not listen and it will only create conflict in his mind. You can also get a tredmill and teach him how to walk on it so you can use it as an addition to your walk but be sure to still walk him every day as this establishes your leadership! Remember, dogs need EXERCISE (45min walk twice a day minimum)and rules. Affection is for people! Not dogs. Do not feel sorry for him when you establish rule that he does not like. Just be firm and do not let him push you around. And tell your father to never, ever hit him or be too physical with him as he is already very submissive. Instead, be patient and follow through with exercise, rules, crate training and do not give him affection when he is not calm submissive. Good luck!
Ivo

I began recording and watching Cesar's wonderful, informative show once I found out about it. I have a question of anyone who might help. My four-year-old bichon frise, Jack, is well-trained on lead, gets a long daily walk, and is generally a dream dog and much loved. However, off lead he doesn't listen to anyone. Because of the safety factor, I am most concerned about him being out front and running across the street to see our neighbor; Jack is very fast. I have taken him out front on a long lead, and even a string once (so it would be lighter in weight), hoping to correct him if he goes beyond the sidewalk. But Jack knows he's on lead and just lies down and refuses to move, even if the neighbor is present across the street. Jack and I have had good solid training together, but I need some pointers here. My husband, who has a hard time being dominant with the dog, gets mad, chases Jack down, carries him home, and puts him in time out (!), and of course the dog doesn't get the connection. But I am with the Jack all day and am a consistent trainer (if I know what to do). I would greatly appreciate any help, experience, or website/other resources anyone can offer. Thank you!

Dear K2
I thak you for taking the time to help me and my fury friends...
I have tried the desensitizing thing with the dog that is sick.
It worked some but, not completely.. I am going to try the walk before the car and possibly the vet I really like that idea...And I am starting to get them to know I am the leader. Cheyenne is the sick one and she will lay down and submit to me and I thank Ceasear for that one.. I guess like most people I am looking for the magic pill... I will plug on and keep working it .... again thank you for your time and wonderful suggestions...
have a great night.
Charlotte

Hi,

I caught my first episode ever of The Dog whisperer, and what I learned from that one episode has helped me get a considerable handle on my five year old dachshund, who is actually a mule in an itty bitty body. She barks uncontrolably out the window in the evening, and is out of control in general. She's been queen bee of this hive for far to long.

I tried that staring down, pointing think with that "fisk" noise and she instantly drops her ears, shuts up and goes into a submissive stance. I have done it in front of people who know her and they actually have to cover their mouths to keep from laughing. It is really amazing.

Thanks, my Tootsie, is no longer the Tootsinator!

Sincerely Dianne