Pushy Poodle

I'm frequently asked how to teach children to behave around dogs, but particularly excited dogs. Children move rapidly and tend to be high-energy already, and overly excited dogs can knock over or scratch a small child. It's very important that they learn proper human-dog "etiquette." When meeting any new dog for the first time, you need to teach kids my "No touch, No talk, No eye contact" rule. Do not approach the dog. Let him come to you and the child first. Allow him to sniff and find out who you are. He must be comfortable with you before you reach out and give affection, or invite the dog to play. By practicing this rule, and asserting their position, they will soon understand the basic fundamentals of pack leadership.
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This was one of the more interesting problems thatwe were discussing on our email list. Since I do not have children I personally was at a bit of a loss how to control other people's children when the parents themselves are clueless what to do!

One of the more interesting suggestions that I decided to try was the human version of "claiming the space" that Cesar has discussed and demonstrated so many times from the end of season 2 on. It IS so very important to keep awareness of what is going on around the space one is walking in. If one practices this during the walks, one can really develope that sense when someone's attention "locks in" on you/your group. (I feel this also helps to let one know when they are being stalked by a "real" preditor - animal or dog, because so many people I see are just oblivious to who is watching them when walking).

So one of the suggestions from the discussion, that seems to work very well for me, is that when someone "locks on attention, and starts walking toward me with the dogs, is to step forward, turning the dog away from the approaching human or animal.(Claiming the space).

When I am dealing with a human, I find that raising my hand combined with the sound (I like tsst more the shh that Cesar uses) distracts the human from the dog to me. With children this effect has been even more dramatic to refocus their attention back to me where I can use my energy projection in my voice to direct them what to do next.

If the dog approaching is "controlled" by others, I find that moving my body between my dog and theirs (keeping my dog's head turned away) is effective enough. If the other dog is loose, I make sure that my dog's tail is presented to the on coming dog with no look, no touch no talk. The three times I have had to do this so far, the effect has been like pouring water on a fire - instantaneous dropping of both dog's energy and the ability to move on without confrontation!

All these pieces were learned from watching Cesar in action on the show! (and again and again on the tapes -praise technology!) Really Looking forward to other ideas from the show tonight! Hail Cesar ~ for all the little ways these small changes we make in OUR actions, can result in big differences in both our dogs and other humans!!!!

What is the pushy poodle's owners name in Bennington NE. This is not far from me and I would like to see them.

in april 2006, my family adopted a less than a year old femaile pit mix. at first, anytime another dog came around us she would lay on her back and submit. after a month or so when we went to the beach where dogs were allowed she was just the opposite. she growled and lunged at all dogs. i took her to the beginner dog training class at petco but i still fear her actions around other dogs. after adopting when we brought her home whenever my 17 & 18 year old sons(along at my husband) would come around her, she would growl, bark and the hair on the back of her neck would stand-up as well. she got over barking at my husband, in fact she becomes very excited when he comes home. due to her continuing barking/hair-raising actions towards my sons, 2 weeks ago we hired a dog trainer to come to our home for 6 more weeks of training so that the trainer could see her in action with our sons. the trainer has my sons exclusively feeding her so she may depend on them for her survival but after almost 2 weeks of them doing this i see no improvement. in fact, she is now charging at them. i hope this trainer knows what she is doing because i am concerned that her being scared of my sons will advance to her biting one of them. we have tried trying to nip-it-in-the-bud by shushing her, then we tried ignoring her, then we tried becoming angry and scolding her, then we tried where my husband would put her in a submissive position and when she calmed down have my son pet her, we had our sons walk her in the backyard, give her treats and we even tried keeping her(by leash) in the same area(loft) with them...but the moment she is allowed to get up or leave the area she is OUT OF THERE! i am becoming very desperate. she sleeps in our room in her own bed but if my sons even think about coming in my room to tell me goodbye she goes into her barking explosion(her bark is very VERY LOUD) and it echoes in my room. whenever she is in the same area, no matter where it is, as they are she barks, her hair raises and she charges at them. she is also a puller when she is on the leash. the whole 3 1/2 mile walk i go on when i am pushing my toddler in his stroller i am stopping, scolding or being pulled along with the stroller i am pushing. it is very annoying.

Dear Cesar
I recently attended your seminar in STL and enjoyed it very much. I wish I could say as much about your new season of the Dog Whisperer. I liked the old quiet Cesar who interacted mostly with the dogs. I wouldn't worry about showing more affection to your furry clients. They'll get plenty of that from their owners. It's clear you care about dogs. I wish you every success.

We have a very beautiful 2 year old malti-poo named Bailey and he also is very pushy and has a mind of his own..... he doesn't like being told what to do... but we love him with all of our heart..... just spoiled....
eve and tony

We have a pit/boxer mix approx. 1 1/2 years old. He he wonderful around us and our children, grandchildren; however, he barks and growls at anyone who comes to the door. He is especially nervous around children. He has tried to nip at a visiting child. We are at a loss as to how to train him. We plan to have him neutered in the next month or so, but I don't know if that will help calm him down. When we have guests, I usually keep him on a leash so that we have control. Has anyone had the same problem?

can anyone still add to this one? or is everyone going to the new ones?

I watched the episode of the Pushy Poodle this evening. I have a 8 month old male Wire Hair Fox Terrier named Presley. He is very pushy and thinks my 5 year old son is a toy. My son doesn't want to be his toy and he does not like Presley very much. Presley stays outside a lot so as not to bother my son. I tried the shh and snapping on Presley, of which I forgot from using on a previous dog, and lo and behold what a change. My son was asleep, but I will try it in the morning when Presley's energy and my son's too is very high. Presley likes to dominate my 2 cats. When I shh and snapped, he turned around and left them alone. This was all in 20 minutes, mind you. Not however long it takes to tape a show and edit! Presley is high energy and very curious and doesn't like to be told what to do, but he responds well to this technique. I see him now as a member of our family and not a backyard fixture. I still am working on the walking part. He is not so good at that. He pulls and chokes himself despite the slip lead I purchased. I will keep working, though.

Does anyone remember the name of the dog who was trained for the couple expecting their first baby? My friend is expecting her first and her daughter just bit her father when visiting. I would like to get my hands on this episode if I can. Thanks

OOPS! My friend's DOG just bit her father not her daughter :) sorry I was in a rush! I know the episode I watched would help explain exactly how to "claim" the baby's space and insure the infant was introduced as a pack leader along with the other human pack members. If it was the first season, and the first season DVD contains the entire collection, I can just pick that one up, does anyone remember the episode, the dog's name, or if it is on the first season DVD. Many thanks in advance, they are considering surrendering their dog to a shelter due to aggression... that would be a death sentance.

I have a 4 year old English Bulldog named Bruiser. Ever since we've had him, he's 'humped' everyone -- visitors & family members, ANYONE. Should he see the neighbor when I take him outside, he immediately runs over and tries to 'hump' his leg. We're so embarassed we rarely have company. Anyone know how we can make him stop this behavior?

I have a mixed breed, female dog that's about 6 1/2 years old. I've had her since she was a puppy and have always tried to do the right thing as far as training her. She has many wonderful traits, but has a huge food agression issue. Everything that I've tried to do to correct the agression over the years seems to have only made the agression worse. Recently, I have even tried to just ignore her growling, but that hasn't worked either. The main issue is that when there if food in her bowl, she wants to protect it by growling or hovering over it when someone walks by her bowls, even when she's not there to eat it. Any suggestions? I think I may have tried them all. Thanks

I am having an issue with a new puppy. I have a lab/retriever mix who is the best dog in the world. We just got a new puppy (mix breed) typical puppy. I am very good at training dogs but this one has me on edge He will not stop Playful biting (to humans) as if he is playing with the older dog. He chews everything which i know is part of being a puppy. He takes food out of peoples hands which drives me nuts. Now my older dog is behaving like an untrained puppy. I am pretty sure that she is doing if for attention but i am not able to give the older one attention because the puppy is all over her playing, biting her ears and such. It is rather irratating. If anyone has any help for me please help.

I have a chow mixed puppy named Maggie. I have recently been having trouble with her on walks. Whenever We meet up with another dog, she always seems agressive, but wags her tail. She has recently (whenever I pet another dog in her presence) begun to nip at the other dogs. And whenever we see strangers or other children who want to pet her, she is terrified. If anybody can give me some pointers, FEEL FREE TO!
Thanks,
Audri Spafford

We have a 2 year old cockapoo who at home is mostly loving but highstrung, antisocial, and aggressive when she meets other dogs. She bit my daughter in the face last night when my daughter was lying next to her and put her hand out to pet her. I am heartsick. I am an inexperienced dog owner. Can our dog's behavior be corrected?

I live in the country where the neighbor dogs like to hang out. None of us have a fence. Which is probably of course is usually trouble. There is a Male Siberian Husky-Bandit, my Male Golden Retriever- Howie, my Male Standard Black Poodle-Skooter and another neighbor's female mix retriever - Blondie. All of which have been fixed except for Bandit. The problem here is that the dogs when they get together will chase the neighbor's cows. The other neighbor has two Bucks in an 8ft fenced 20 acre area. Sometimes Bandit and Scooter get in the deer pin and run the deer around vigorously- just to play but the deer don't know that and the deer owner has threated to shoot dogs that go in there. I believe Bandit is the leader of the pack - because it seems that is their nature. The pet (we)owners have contained their pets, except for Bandit. And, i am concerned that that he may be shot, I am concerned that Bandit's owner is willing to take the chance of him being shot. They have indicated that they will find a home for him but have not done that yet. I have offered to help find a home for Bandit. Are the Rescues a good place for someone like Bandit?Obvousley he is a high enery dog and he is soo beautiful I would like to see him be saved and go to happy place where he can be with other dogs like him. I will keep u posted on Bandit.Anyone interested?

We have a Mati-Poo that is about 14 months old. It is impossible to play with him peacefully because he is continuosly biting. How do you train a dog not to bite?
Thanks

I have a Jack Russell Terrier (JRT) and she is a little over a year old. I know that JRT's have a lot of energy, but we can't get her to calm down whatsoever. She jumps on everyone that comes in the door and if the person coming in doesn't pet her or show her affection, she'll tug at their clothes and jump on them until they do. People hate coming over to my house now if they know she's going to be out. And honestly I hate having to lock her up in her crate while people are over. She's been to beginning and intermediate training classes and she still won't even sit for anyone (not even the trainers or me). What can I do? I don't want to get rid of her, but it's draining trying to control my little 10 pound terror!!!

for R blyther

Pit-mixes can seem submissive as pups, (unless they've been encouraged to be unnessessarily vicious),but the instinct in pits tends to be defense, agression, and action.
Your pit girls behaviour could come from early life history and treatment. It seems to be "defensive warning" behaviour, mixed with some fear.
Although I understand why the trainer wants her to be fed by and around your two sons regularly, i would guess she is confused as to who is pack-leader out of you all, but instictively sees you the alpha female (head female).
When she is in the bedroom or house with you and your son or a visitor come in, it is a good idea with most breeds to have a treat (in the form of chicken pieces or beef jerky) readily available in a tub or bag, and get her attention from the object of her fear or agression. Just call her name and pretend to take a piece of meat yourself, give one to your son (or whoever) then give her one or two.
If she barks loudly and you know she hasn't any need, a bottle filled halfway with pebbles or stones can be shaken in a clenched firm hand, in a stong downward motion. The noise should distract her. If she barks again, shake the bottle a couple of times, but don't shout at her or threaten her with it.Then with a firm but level voice tell her
"quiet". If she is quieter, tell her she is a good girl and reward her with a treat.
All pit-crosses have boundless amounts of energy and can be trained (with in-car seperators)to travel out in a vehicle with their owner regularly.
This cures their need for stimulation and also protects your vehicle when you're not in it.
Allways make sure that she has water, and something to chew or play with!
Good luck.

My much loved, and usually gentle 90lb 8yr old yellow lab has started biting people, myself included. I'm going through a divorce, and there has been much tension in the usually quiet house. Any suggestions for stopping this behavior now? Although I would hate it, I am beginning to feel like I have to put him down. Please help dog lovers out there!

I hope I can get a response leaving a comment here?

My jack russell is pretty good & he sometimes smells a child & out of no where he starts barking at the child scaring the child.

Then other times, he's totally good.

I believe when he starts barking at some children, these children may have anxiety or be afraid so he senses it & barks at him.

How do I stop him from randomly barking at children?

Should I maybe use a choke collar & correct the behavior when he begins to bark?

I got me a yeller lab a bout a year back and He barks constanly at the folks who come into my ranch. He's pure bred and I don't want to keep him tied up all the time so what y'all reckon I should do bout it?

I wanted to ask about post # 20 by mldonovan. We are having simiallar problems with our Yellow Lab who is 93 lbs and 4 1/2 years old....Although he has not bitten anyone in our house hold... I was wondering if you were able to change your dogs behavior.

Dear Cesar,

We have a 6 year old Viszla mix named Trixie that we got from the Humane Society when she was 1. She has always been great with kids, except when they are smaller than she is (toddlers). We brought home our new baby boy Isaac in October and did all the things you are supposed to to introduce him (bring home blankets with his smell before he arrives, include the dog when you play or change him, etc.) She seemed to finally be warming up to him, but now that he is 10 months old and crawling everywhere, her nervousness has started.

Trixie is constantly pacing and acting like she is guarding not only her food, but the kitchen and any area that she thinks might have food. Not only is this behavior annoying, but it concerns me. I'm afraid she might nip at Isaac over food; however, my niece (a toddler) was here last year and we found her feeding Trixie her food right out of her food bowl. So I'm unsure of what she will or will not do....

We feel like we've tried everything to change this behavior. Can you help?

Sincerely,
Amy Funke
Greenville, SC

We have a mixed breed we rescued from the animal shelter. She's almost a year old. She constantly goes after my Shih-Tzu's tail and plays tug of war. The Shih-Tzu really doesn't think it is a fun game. I don't know how I can stop her because I can't catch her. She runs away as soon as anyone approaches. Can anyone give me some pointers?

I have a 9 month old siberian husky. Her name is Dakota and she is the cutest dog in the world..she loves to bite and nip but it is only because she doesnt know that she is hurting me. She tries to eat our newborn kittens and she bites other dogs in their neck everytime she gets near them. I know she is a very sweet dog because she comforts me and plays with me but she can go from nice..to really mean! i love her soo much and i need help. please contact me thankyou

We have a 7 year old poodle/chihuahua/pomerian mix, she's around 10 pounds. I have to watch her constantly when my grandchildren come to visit, they are almost 2, almost 3, and 7 years old. Tiffany is a nervous-type dog. I tried introducing them gently to her, but she still growls and bites (fortunately just light nips so far, no breaking of the skin). She does best with the 7 year old, but I still don't trust her completely with him. The age of a child, from crawling to toddler stage is the worst with her. I'm afraid I'm not going to be alert some time and....I hate to think. Might a muzzle work? I don't like the thought but.....I may have to resort to kenneling her for the few hours they're here every Friday night??? I tried speaking harshly to her and she acts sorry but a minute later may do the same thing again! Any help would be appreciated, I love her and I refuse to give her up! But I love my grandchildren and don't want them to get bitten and perhaps have a life-long fear of dogs! Please help!

i have a yellow lab that is two years old and recently she has started to bite my 3 year old son. what can i do about it. she also tries to bite me. please help i do not want to get rid of her. thank you tonya

Dear Ceasar,
I have a 5 year old Shi-tsu who bites people he does not know. He seems particularly afraid of men. He is a smart dog but very stubborn. I am house-bound so he is paper trained. He gets along well with other dogs but has to be the aggressor. I have had him neutered but it doesn't seem to help with his biting people on the leg. I don't want to have to get rid of him because of this biting busines. He will also nip at peoples heels when they are leaving. I live in a small apartment complex and once the other tentants start to complain about it, they will ask me to leave or get rid of the dog. His name is Cubby.
What should I do? Please help!

I have a 7 month old golden retriever. totally sweet, not aggressive, treats me like the pack leader (submits to me no problem) and is all around just like a normal sweet golden, except that he definitely sees my 4.5 yr old daughter as his plaything. he is never aggressive with her, but in play or when she is trying to play, running or whatever, he mouths her and sometimes jumps a bit and ends up scratching her. his mouthing will result of course in her crying. he will sometimse come and sit on her. so he is definitely trying to be dominant over her. how can i break him of this???? this is really the only prob we are having

i have 6 dogs yes my family is crazy. i have 2 chihuahuas 1west highland terrier, 2 yorkie chihuahuas and a golden retriever. the newest member to the family is my 4 month old chihuahua tito. i got him a while back because of a tragety. my other recent chihuahua had been mauled by a stray dog his name was yoda. when i got back home from a school camping trip i found this new puppy tito. we all cant get over yoda but tito is a doll with a few littlew korks he has biting problems he scrapes my arms and hands up so badly i go to school with band aids all over my arms. he isnt the only problem all of the other dogs have a problem with my neighbors dogs they will run back and forth chasing them constantly and my west highland terrier wont stop barking. also my westie will snap at tito if he comes anywhere near him. my other 14 year old chihuahua will get into fights with my westie its hard to stop them. i dont know what to do and niether does my family. we need help it is so difficult and we love them too much to get rid of them. what do we do???

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