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In the wild, dogs don't often separate from each other. They sleep, eat, travel, play, and find comfort with their pack. It's a very different way of life for our dogs. And when I see a case of canine separation anxiety, I find that the dogs aren't mentally or physically ready to be left behind when their owners leave the house.
The good news is that you can condition your dog to deal with your absence. The best way to do this is by leaving him tired before you go. By developing a routine of morning walks or runs of at least 30 minutes, you'll deplete your dog's anxious energy and his body will instinctively settle into a resting mode.
Remember, don't feel guilty for leaving your dog behind. You could actually diminish the effectiveness of your walk by projecting a weak or sorry energy and he could end up anxious all over again! And leave your home without fanfare. This could leave your dog in an excited state without a way to cope with his unexpressed energy.
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so, does anyone have any suggestions on how to get an insecure, couch potato, usnsocial with other dogs dog to be social and playful with other dogs. This is my moms dog who has these issues. I have my own dog, who is well balanced and he needs a playmate sometimes. I just moved in temporarily, and I am trying to make things work betweeen the two of them. I take them on long walks together every morning, then they eat right next to eachother, then I will take them to the dog park for 1 hour, and my dog runs around and plays, but my moms dog hides near me and snaps and acts hostile to other dogs wanting to play with her. She has improved slightly over the last week, so things may be going right, but I still would like to find out if there is more that I can do to socialize her, and encourage her to lift up her head sometimes and be playful. She is with humans, but she cowers at the sight of other dogs. Please help! thanks
My little buddy Tank, a 135 lb eight month old Bullmastiff, has been going to local dog park for four months. His park visits are to help with socializing with other dogs and people. However, Tank has been trying to urinate on the people just standing around. This behavior started about two week ago about the same time he has started lifting leg and marking his territory. Also, Tank is a purebred Bullmastiff and I would like to breed him at a later date, he is currently un-neutered.
Is Tank trying owning or marking these people? What is the best way to get him stop trying to urinating on people?
I like the segments when Cesar travels to people's homes. I notice that sometimes, like in tonight's segment with the pomeranians, he brings along some members of his pack, in this case, Daddy and Coco. I'd like to see what Cesar has to say about traveling with dogs: flying, staying in hotels, staying with family who may or may not have dogs of their own. Keep up the good work on the show, I love it and I don't even have a dog!
Wade and Linda-
Neutering him would definately fix your problem, or at least make it easier to tackle. Not only that but why breed him to make money?? Why not just be happy to have a great dog who is neutered and healthy? there are so many health problems that occur when a dog is unneutered, not only that but he becomes a problem to other dogs at the park, especially if they decide to compete for a female. Sure bullmastiffs are wonderful dogs, but the more breeding that happens, the more dogs that already need homes just get euthanized. If you love dogs, or bullmastiffs, or any type of dog, why not consider preventing more unwanted puppies and spare those at the bullmastiff rescue who already need homes. Now, if absolutely feel that you just have to breed him, well obviously, you'l go ahead and do it anyways, but one more thing to consider is that mastiffs are among the breeds of dog who require someone who knows the breed in order for the dog to be under control. Obviously, you do, but I hate seeing dogs like them who grow up and are tossed out to shelters because these people once adopted a cute puppy, but suddenly they cant handle a big dog. I hope that my opinion is not taken personally, but I just want you to know that is the likely fate of a majority of the puppies. Also, this is something that many people are at least aware of before they decide to breed.
My puppy has separation anxiety and it's horrible for both of us. I know I shouldn't feel bad, but she's so darn cute! I leave for work at 2:30 in the morning so it's not possible for me to take her on a walk. How can I help her get rid of the energy? I live in apartments and it's just me and her. I haven't even been able to have her live with me full time yet because she cries TOO loud and long. She'd wake up my entire apartment building. Everyone I have asked for help just tells me that I shouldn't of gotten her.
I have a year old red-nose Pit Bull and he is the most well behaved, obedient, and friendly dog I have ever seen or owned. He follows me everywhere I go without command and he is extremely cuddly and lovable with all people. However, when I leave the house for any amount of time, he goes through pretty bad seperation anxiety and I feel like he is doing naughty things just to spite my leaving. He has never had an accident in the house or chewed on anything other than his toys while I am home. But, everytime I go out I come home to some new disaster. There is always a small bowel movement on the floor and usually one item has been chewed and/or destroyed.(Today was a bowel movement and 12 rolls of papertowels turned into confetti) He knows that he has done something wrong and runs to lie on his bed when I return. I have tried taking him for extended walks and I would like to not have to crate him when I leave. I adopted the dog from a kill shelter and I refuse to give him up. Does anyone have any advice?
We recently got a 5 year old male Boxer at a rescue. We have had him for almost 2 months. When we first got him, I would put him in a crate when I left, since I didn't know the dog. Within a week or so, after leaving him for very short amounts of time, I would leave him out of the crate to make sure he wasn't going to destroy my home. He did great. But just a few days ago, we came home, he had dragged shoes from each of us, including my kids, downstairs into the middle of the living room and he was very anxious, out of breath even, when I got home. He did the same thing yesterday, only he actually chewed a little on a slipper. He also jumps on the couch that is in front of the window so he can watch us leave, which he is slowly destroying. I'm afraid this is going to continue and only get worse and I do not want to go back to crating him. I know I should walk him more than I do, but sometimes I leave early in the morning, only for a couple hours, and can't walk him at that time. We absolutely love "Booker", he is a 60 pound lap dog, and other then a few other little quirks, he is great. We are getting ready to move into a new home, which will be stressful for him too, and cannot have in behaving like a madman.
I adopted my dog from a shelter about 4 years ago and she has always displayed separation anxiety. However, it has gotten MUCH worse because she has had to have two back operations that have forced me to crate her whenever my husband and I leave the house, to prevent her from jumping up onto the couch and/or the bed. She hates that crate more than anything in the world.She scratches her nails down to the nub and bites at the door which has become rusted due to spit accumulation. I have tried everything including Rescue Remedy (which hasn't worked)! If anyone has ANY suggestions please help! I've tried leaving her in one room that doesn't have couches/beds, but she has destroyed the weather stripping in the door, and scratched the paint off the doors. Also, I leave the house at 6:30 in the morning and don't have time to exercise her-plus she's had the back surgeries so she's limited physically!!! HELP!!
I have a 12 year old female, Miniature Daschund named Dorothy Jane. Generally speaking she is a fairly well behaved dog, and a sweet and affectionate companion. Ordinarily she won't get on the furniture, unless you put her there. When she is home alone she gets on the furniture and urinates. I have a great backyard, and I leave her outside when the weather permits. She does better when she is able to go outside more often. I can't walk her in the morning because I leave for work to early. I work close to home and come home during the day as often as I can. But I have to put barriers on the furniture to prevent her from getting on it while I am gone.
She also has an unusual fear of large trucks. We lived in the country until about 3 years ago when I divorced, and the only large truck she ever heard were the tractors that my ex-husband used on the property. The trash trucks come twice a week, and there is presently a lot of construction going on in my neighborhood, which is not likely to end any time soon, add to that delivery trucks, and a neighbor whose husband drives a refrigerated truck and parks in front of their house 2 or 3 times a week and leaves it running while he is inside. Needless to say she becomes a nervous wreck when she hears them. She follows at my heels when I move around the house, I have stepped on her more than once. If I'm sitting down she sits beside me and shivers or squirms until the noise is gone. I always know when they are in the neighborhood before I can hear them because she starts pacing the house. Any suggestions!!
I have a 16 month old male weimaraner. He is a great dog. He has one big problem!!! He pees on my bed. After a long leisurely saturday, I get ready for bed and I have a big surprise. I screamed at him and ran to his crate. This Saturday he did the same thing. We have 5 acres so he gets plenty of exercise. I work from home so I spend a lot of time with him. I take him in my car on day trips when I have appointments outside of my home. He is un-neutered. He is a champion and we don't want to stop his blood line. I crate him if we are going to be gone and he can't go with us. I have taken him to the doctor and he doesn't have any medical problems. We really need good advice. We love Max, but can't tolerate his one big issue.
I have a 11 week old Chineese Shar-pei. He is so well behaved in many ways. Very well trained already, and pretty much housetrained himself.However, he has a bad case of seperation anxiety. Whenever I leave him in the laundry room gated, he will start to salivate all over himself. He will pay no mind to his treats, toys or food and water. When I get home, his mouth chest and paws are soaking wet from drool, and his treats are untouched. Most times he scratches at the doorway by the gate to tries and get out. Eventually he will settle down, especially if I am gone for over 4 hours. But the salivating concerns me. Can anyone help? Cesar?
I recently rescued a 1 year old small shepard mix from a kill shelter. Madison has separation anxiety in the form of howling and barking for hours on end. I live in a townhouse in the city and the HOA is likley to fine me for the noise or ask me to get rid of her if I can't get the barking under control.
Unlike some of the other entries, I have done all the things Cesar prescribes. Madison and I power walk, run, or rollerblade for an hour every day before I leave for work. She even wears a doggie backpack to carry our water. She heels perfectly too. I feed her in her crate in kongs so she has to work for her food and she has toys/chews to play with, but still the howling continues. You'd think she'd be worn out and want to nap.
I'm at my wit's end about how to help rehabilitate this problem short of getting a trainer, a pet "shrink" or a bark collar.
Since most of us seem to be posting problems without any solutions offered by others on this site, I was wondering if there is a way that some if not all of our issues might be addressed.
OK...So it seems like I am not the only person with a rescued dog who will not tolerate being left home. Like many of you I have crated my dog, Georgie and left toys and a t-shirt with my scent on it with him when I leave. I also walk him 30 minutes in the morning before I leave, he is a small pom mix so I think this is enough. What else can I do!!? I really don't want to get rid of him, he is so sweet and a great dog other than this problem. PLEASE HELP!
I have seen about every show that Cesar's done and I'm telling you, he's done some magic with some dogs but there is NO WAY ON THIS EARTH that he could manage my trio! I have 2 terrier mixes and a border collie mix. Two of my dogs have seperation anxiety and all three drown out my voice when a knock or the doorbell rings. They act like a pack of wild dogs and the only thing we can do is threaten them with a water bottle and lock them in the hallway until they calm down. Also, one of the terriers absolutely HATES children and bit my grandson 2 yrs. ago so I am terribly afraid to take her where there are children at all. I wish I could tape the sound of these babies when my doorbell goes off...and no "shhh" or "snapping fingers" is going to stop it. Our border collie will jump on my husband but doesn't jump on me. He will walk BY MY SIDE but pulls my husband. I can get them to go lay down when we eat, to sit when told, to lay down when told but that's about the extent of it. I am greatly impressed with what he's done with some dogs and I've tried working with mine but am afraid it's a lost cause. If he'd ever like to come to Montana, he's got a HUGE challenge on his hands...I don't think he could do a thing with these critters.
Dear Cesar,
We are not or ever have been dog owners but are fascinated by your program and methods. However, we worry that you are giving dog owners and would-be dog owners a false sense of security about their animals. They may attempt your methods briefly but always revert to their old habits. Your methods seem to be fine for someone who has nothing else to do but discipline and exercise their animals but not for people who work for a living and do not have the time and energy to do all you recommend. Please try to be more realistic in your presentations and reveal that some of these aggressive dogs are dangerous when owners do not follow through with your methods. Our area has been plagued with problem pit bulls including children being mauled and neighbors being terrorized.
I recently adopted a 3 year old beagle/dachshund mix (approximatley one week ago)from the local animal control shelter. At first she appeared to be housebroken. When I got her I immediately took her to the vet and had her evaluated. She was healthy with the exception of some sneezing and then she developed a cough. She is taking benadryl and tetracycline. Those symptoms seem to have gotten better but now we have some other problems. Yesterday I left for a couple of hours and when I came home she had urinated on the floor. Ok so I cleaned it up, told her no and immediately took her outside. About two hours later she did it again however, this time I was in the house. I know that she can hold her urine because she sleeps all night and doesn't have accidents or go outside in the middle of the night. This morning she did the same thing. About two hours after going outside she urinated on the floor and again, I was home. Tomorrow I have to go to work and I will be coming home once or twice during the day to let her out. I cannot have her peeing in the house as it is a condo that I rent. Could the medications be causing her to do this or is it some other behavioral issue? Please advice. I haven't owned a pet in about 11 years and never had this problem before. Thank you
I posted a message a week or so ago, only to see a lot of others having the same problems, the seperation thing... As much as I love watching Cesar's show, and have learned a lot, I cannot help to think that his answer to everything is walking the dogs until they are exhausted or at least very tired, then they'll behave. I have had dogs all my life and hardly ever walked them and never had issues, until I got a 5 year old Boxer from a rescue, I usually start with puppies. I do understand they need the excercise, I know I need it myself, but I hardly think that will solve seperation issues or any other problems. If I walked my kids around the track for an hour, I know I would have a nice peaceful ride home, they would probably even sleep, that's common sense, they eventually wake up well rested... If I walk my dog in the morning, and I happen to leave for 2-3 hours, that gives him time to rest off the walk and start with the seperation problems again.
I have an adorable 2 year old boxer named Dude. He is a very well behaved dog who is obedient and smart. We have started having problems with his seperation anxiety. When he was little, we used to leave him at home with no problems. We have a doggy door so he can go outside or be inside as he chooses. He used to be okay having access to the whole house, eventually he started chewing shoes, clothes or anything that was left in the rooms. We started to lock him out of the rooms but leave him in the main part of the house making sure that everything was put away. He now gets into anything and everything he can. I think that he is angry or nervous when we leave. He goes for a 30 minute walk every morning but it got out of control when I came home to the couch torn to shreds! It has never been this bad. What can I do?
I rescued a wolf hybrid last summer. She's about 2 years old and 50% siberian husky, 25% german shepard and 25% wolf. She is one of the sweetest dogs you will ever meet and one of the most well behaved. She had terrible Seperation Anxiety when we brought her home, but after lots of exercise and training has become so much better. I've read every book on the subject and have tried everything but I can't seem to cure her all the way (she has gone from not being able to be in a seperate room, to only tearing up a few things about half the time we leave). I exercise her on average an hour each night and an hour each morning before work. I know wolves will always fight for dominance, but she is definately a calm-submissive dog and I'm a calm-assertive owner and we practice this daily. She is not anxious when we leave nor do we "make a big deal" of our comings or goings. However, about half the time, we come home and something is torn up. It's either the baskets under the tv, the rugs on the floor or infront of the door, dishes from the sink scattered about on the floor, coushins from the couch spread about. We try to put away most things so that she won't get into them, but she seems to find something.
My wife and I have a baby on the way and need to make sure this behavior problem is taken care of. Is it something I'm doing? Is it built into the dog? Please help us!
My name is Haniah Omar, and i am a student in Singapore. My dog (Simba) He is a 5 yr old, flat coated retreiver (black). I have been living in singapore since july 2006.
Im afraid my dog is having seperation anxiety attacks. He has always been a little difficult, where he showed aggression to others, but he had started to lessen that by june 2006. only recently he has started to show a lot of aggression towards my family. He is growling and is not eating. He was taken to the vet and she says he is physically fit. I cannot let him become worse and as i am in the middle of my Master's semester it is impossible for me to go back b4 august, which might be too late.
Please advise me on what i shud do??. I am a responsible pet owner and i have trained him since he was 4 weeks old. I am sure once he is with me he will not display anxiety anymore. but how do i do this?!?1..
Hi,
This is for "Wolf Owner". I have a wolf hybrid. 50% wolf, 25% Shepard % 25% Great Pyrenees. He too is a rescue. He's about 7 years old. Just on the face of your "seperation anxiety" issue with your pup...it seems to me to have nothing with her being 25% wolf. But has more to her being young. Remember...she's a "teenager" in dog years. I wouldn't look to her being part wolf to be anything involved here. There appears to be no dominance issue at all. Just a bored teen acting up. I suggest that you leave a used paper towel roll out when you are away. She can get out her frustration and you won't loose your furnishings. "Phelan" ( my wolfie boyo) had a little bit of that when I first adopted him. He was about a year & a half. I left the rolls and even a cardboard six-pack carrier out. It all passed within 2 months. Youngsters do act up at times. He has only challenged me for dominance once. He was about two and I told him to lie down.He just looked at me...standing...with that wolfie-head down posture. As if to say "The hell with you Dad." He is a big boy...about 125lbs. I'm 6'4" and about 235lbs. I lifted him up completely in the air. He was shocked. As if to say:"OK, you win. I didn't know you had superpowers." (grin) He has never challenged me again. Once the dominance roll is set and maintained...clamly. Hybrids accept that and are quite happy with it. Anyway, best of luck. Hope my tip is of help to you.
My border collie puppy is 15 weeks old. His training is going very well. However, whenever anybody besides me pets him or speaks to him, he pees all over the floor. How can I curb this "behavior"?
Like Carie, I have a 3 year old Chihuahua whose seperation problems involve urinating on the floor. I walk her almost daily and she is definitely worn out by the end of the walk. This has not helped. Does anyone have any other suggestions?
I have rescued 2 westies ,brothers 5yrs old. They are lovely very easy to correct but when i leave the house ,for not too long ,they urinate on the leg of the kitchen table. I honestly do not know what to do ,please if you can help i would be so grateful .
I have a one year old beagle female that I got when she was just 8 weeks old. She displays such severe separation anxiety that I cant even draw the shower curtain when I take a shower. I must be in her sight at all times or she will cry like a hyena. I have to go to the doctor's once a month and like some others on this blog have tried to put her in a room while I am gone but she scratches the door till the paint comes off and she tears her paws bloody on the door. I live in a senior high rise and cant even take my trash down to the dumpster at the end of the hall way with out taking her with me. My children are becoming concerned because I never go out even to their homes without her and that is difficult at times. Some one help me come up with a way to produce a calm pet even when I am out of its sight please. I have even gone so far as to cancel doctor appointments because her whinning and howling disturbs the neighbors so much.
We have a 2yr old Chocolate Lab/Mix that we rescuded from a shelter who has started displaying significant and distructive seperation anxiety behavior. When we first got him in May he was very sick so his temperment was very low key. Now that he is healthy he has started displaying this unruly behavior. We crated him for the first couple of weeks. First because of the medical conditions he had(we weren't told about by the shelter, found out a day after getting him home and having an emergancy trip to the vet) and secondly because we were not sure of his behavior. He went through two kennels, chewing rugs, towels and toys. We figured we see how he was outside the kennel so we left the house for a couple of hours and came home to a very calm and reserved dog. For the next several months we left him out of the kennel and he was fine. Both my husband and I work full time days. In early September I had surgery and was home with him off and on during the day for 5 weeks. When I went back to work he would take my slippers and chew them. Little bits at a time. After disciplining he seemed to just get worse and then would stop for a few days. As my hours at work increase he seems to be getting worse. He is an active dog, lovable and friendly. He has a few personality(funny) quirks like chasing his tail, chasing shadows on walls or floors but is generally a great dog. Everyone I know says that he is angry at me for going back to work and I'm not sure what else to do. The discipline doesn't seem to work and now he is taking things of our kitchen table just to destroy them. He destroyed a blue ink pen on our beige living room carpet(any ideas how to get out this type of stain?) and in the process of destroying two more rugs. Help!!!
We have a 5 month old male yorkie. He has seperation anxiety. If we leave the room, even if we are in his sight he cries , whines and howls. He is crated when we leave the house and doesn't seem to display that behavior when he knows that we left the house. Although he is neutered he has started lifting his leg and peeing. We are walking him and from what I have read are doing everything correctly but he is still so upset. I have even purchased the dog pheromones. Any suggestions?
we just got a 9 week old chocolate lab. she is sooo cute and so fun, but can be soooo hyper . we had her in the bedroom in her grate for first two weeks and she would have no problem with it but always woke up at 3 or 4 ready to wake up and play causing lots of lost sleep for us . so I decided to move the crate down to the large laundry room downstairs to see how she does. she slept like a dream. was still sleeping when I woke her at 5:30 am to go potty. I think sometimes noises help a dog sleep. when we were in the bedroom with her eveyr little move you made woke her up cause it was so quite. now downstairs she has the quiet hum of the heater, and the dryer and it seems to really have calmed her for a better sleep. I suggest a room with some white noise in it to help a pup sleep better. I am thrilled!!!!
I have a three year old highly intelligent 70 lb. cattle dog Peyton that we got from a family that could not keep him. I think he had not been treated very well as he was very nervous and skittish. This seemed to be more pronounced when he heard my deeper voice. He has gotten much better in the last 4 months and we love him because he is very affectionate and has a great personality. When we got him, we had a retriever that was 13 years old. The retriever was recently put down due to cancer. The first time we left him alone, he destroyed the kitchen, ruined some interior furnishings. Since that time he has repeated this most recently stripping all of our curtains and blinds off the windows. Each time we leave it costs about $100+ in damage. I really want him to grow old with our family but I cannot afford to keep replacing the things he tears up. What can we do to get this otherwise great pet to calm down when we leave.
I have a 10 year old dalmatian, lately he's been really anxious, we left him alone for a couple of hours and when we came back he had scratched the car, ruined my dad's precious plants and had hurt himself in the process, DOES ANYONE KNOW WHAT I CAN DO??!!! i'm really desperate cause my dad's treatening to give him away and i love my dog vey much i can't even bare the tought of giving him away! PLEASE HELP!
i have a 4 month old bloodhound. she has an excessive amount of energy that can't be depleted by a 30 minute walk or run. she howls incessantly when she is in the backyard alone or when i leave her by herself. any tips?
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