Fearful Aggression vs. Dominant Aggression with Special Guest Patti Labelle (Airs, Friday, February 2)
Fearful aggression in dogs is often mistaken for dominant aggression, but the two are very different, as are the ways they need to be handled when it comes to rehabilitation and balance.
If you happen to be walking and spot an aggressive-looking dog in a gated yard, a fearful dog will first back away without focusing on you. He may bark, but will only become aggressive if and when he finds himself cornered. Stop all movement when you see the dog back up. Don’t make eye contact. If he doesn’t sense a threat, he won’t go into that aggressive state.
A “red zone” dog just moves forward without hesitation, almost like he’s got you in his sights. Again, if you’re walking by a gated house and a dominant-aggressive dog rushes towards you, don’t panic and don’t make eye contact. Stay calm, don’t move, stand firm, and own your space until the dog backs off.
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62 Comments
I have 2 yellow labs named Bella and Hunter that are 2 years old and are litter mates, 1 male and 1 female. The female is showing signs of being aggressive. She has never growled at me but will growl if my kids try to hug her at times. She also doesnt like any strangers and will growl and put her hair up if anyone comes to the door. Last week we had her spayed and each time she goes to the vet they have to muzzle her because she is so bad. They sedated her when we got there and i waited with her until the medicine kicked in but she was still growling at the vet and after the surgery I had to come get her beacause they didnt want her to stay the night! She is totally devoted to only me and was wondering what would make her like this? The male lab is totally like the lab that will let you do anything to him, he is so lovable to everyone. Please help!
Laura
Ceaser, I need your help I have to of your favorite breeds, a 5 year old female Rotty (Spaded) and 10 year old Pit Bull. My pit bull has killed two dogs in the past with the help of his now deseased mother(died of diabeties) My rotty still goes in the house. I lived in GA for two years and have moved back to NY and into an apartment. Prior we were always in a house. My dogs are pullling me down the street and I have a herniated disc in my cervical spine and a torn Rotator cuff. The Rotty is messing in the house when I am not home but only on the carpet. The pit bull is constantly lying on the furniture so I must put chairs on it.When I walk them they go after any dog they see and then the Rotty attacks the pit. I love my dogs and I have had them forever, I would like to be able to keep other dogs safe and my dogs and home safe. Its getting so bad that I am afraid my landlord will smell the mess the Rotty is making or they might attack a dog. My son is so tired of coming home to a pile of mess. Help us please I hate to have to give then away and who would take them at this age. I live in Queens N.Y I can furnish a video of my walking then and of my pit lying on the furniture but the Rotty is very sneaky and moves her bowels or urinates when we are not home HELP
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Sorry for the errors deceased not deseased
Laura
This is just a general comment regarding the skates Cesar uses during the show. They are called LandRollers.
I have what I believe could be a red zone dog. I work with a rescue group and have a pit bull who has displayed aggression from the time he was 3 weeks old until current. He's almost 4 months old and was sent to 2 homes before I took him in. He's been with me for a month, and while I have no troubles with him, he's displaying aggression over toys and this worries me. I am going back to the books to read again what I can hone up on. My worry is my bulldog who is 1 week younger and they seem to lock horns constantly. Any advice and help???
Your episode with Nasir tonight gave me new hope for our dog, Kiba. Kiba is a mixed breed; half German (from Germany) Police Dog (His father works for our local sherrif's dept.) and half Great Pyreneese. He weighs close to two hundred pounds now. He's not aggressive, but he is hyper active. Very hyperactive. He's too strong for me to handle due to an injury, but I've tried some things I've seen on your show during feeding time, and I've actually got him to sit down before I give him his food.
He gets loose sometimes. He's a great escape artist. Because of his size I've been told he needs to be put down.
But your show gives me the hope that one day Kiba can be the wonderful dog he's meant to be.
Until then, thank you for your program.
Sincerely
Laurie Giampietro
Sparta, TN
Patti Labelle is a freaking idiot. She shouldn't be allowed to own a dog. Hey Patti, walk a dog without the high heels and get rid of the Hummer.
What a beautiful dog Nassir is! The producers have done it again... I was crying happy tears. Cesar is the best!
I have watched Ceasar for over two years. I happened to be up later than usual 2-2-07 with my 2 year old, and spotted the episode with Patti Labelle and Nassir. It really hit home. On 12-20-03, we decided to get a dog for my year old. We wanted a large dog that would be good with children, but one also for protection. We found a 16 week old female english mastiff in the paper, went to look at her, and brought her home. It is a very long story, but she looks identical to Nassir, with the same traits, except she is much worse off. We can not take her out.(only in the back yard). When she goes to the vet, she has to wear a pinch collar, shock collar, muzzle, and is only allowed in through the back door when no one else is there. We have bought all the correction devices, videos, and had trainers come in, because she was not welcomed at their facilty; but to no avail. My daughter, now ten has not had a friend spend the night since we got her, nor can never have anyone over; unless the dog is in her outside kennel, locked down with her collars on and the door pad locked. However, she refuses to get rid of "Grace" because she is her dog and loves her. I cannot fantom the idea, because she is a wonderful family dog, a real big baby; but also because I know she would be put down for her aggression. I know that we have failed as pet owners, but I would love to be able to take her a walk, and allow my kids to have a normal childhood. I feel I am cheating them, and making her make a choice -your friends or your dog. I tried to send a video in in August, but could not get anyone to walk into my house to show you her aggression. She is now 3+ years, and I wonder if my 10 year old will ever be able "to walk her dog like everyone else does"? Many people, even my brother-in-law, who is a K-9 handler, have said to me that "even Ceasar could not help Grace". After seeing Nassir gave me hope that maybe Ceasar could. Will there be another chance to send videos in again to receive Ceasar's help? I honestly believe he is our dogs only hope. Thank you, Amy Lasley
I agree. I totally agree. And you're right when it comes to aggression.
I have three dogs, one is a german shepard,poodle,and a wheatland. My sister gave me the wheatland which she could not handle because of the aggression that she had and the wheatland would attack other dogs,and bite us when playing with toys. I of course watch Cesar, and became her leader,putting her down on the ground when she would go after big dogs( calm submissive). and claiming toys,and we run with my other dogs everyday because of my three dogs breed. Now we are working on her licking. I really enjoy watching Nassir.becuse the wheatland was cooped up in a house all day, I think they just liked looking at her because she is so cute! I think that was the same as Nassir,he was just so cute to look at.I want to thank Patti's trainier for stepping up and knowing that the dog need more and calling Cesar!!. Thank you Cesar!!!!
I do find myself getting a little frustrated with the episodes that feature "stars" - they just never seem up to the task of taking care of another living creature. I remember the episode with the woman who had adopted a fearful/aggressive mastiff - she had a couple others - and she was focused, willing to learn, consistent and affectionate. But to celebs - is everything disposable when it's too much trouble? That attitude is why so many dogs - especially larger dogs - wind up in shelters. But I can't complain too much, because that's how I got the two best dogs in the world.
I have two adopted dogs - a female lab/shepherd/husky we adopted when she was 3 1/2 and a male shep/rottie that we adopted when he was 10 (never lived outside a shelter or foster situation). They are both big dogs. The female had aggression issues - food hoarding, growling if we approached the dish, male aggression, dog aggression. She is not 100% - she is still dog aggressive, but handle-able and the rest has subsided; the male is extremely docile but had to adapt to a pack. In other words, they had issues, but the best strategy is to attack them immediately, be consistent and convey to them that you are the boss. Daily walks are not optional - even my older dog, who literally cannot sit, who has hip problems and is on daily supplements gets walked every day.
Sometimes I think the problem with puppies is that they are so "cute" that we treat them like what they look like, not like what they're going to become.
I am a big fan of the show, and a supporter of Cesar Millan's philosophy and approach to changing dog and human behavior.
Unfortunately, I was really disappointed with what I saw to be a soft-pedaling of Patty Labelle's clear mistreatment of Nasir. Just hearing that she was thinking of having Nasir euthanised because she could not get personally engaged with him was outrageous. He was built up to have all these issues with aggression in the set-up for the segment, and not even for one second did he exhibit even a bit of aggression toward Cesar, his crew, or any dog with whom he came into contact. In fact, he was clearly more balanced and submissive than any of the dogs he was going to be living with.
"Miss Pat" has no business having a dog in her life. Period. And I wish that Cesar had given her the straight talk that he has delivered to so many other owners when they were clearly not being a responsible pack leader.
Best of luck to Nasir and his new family, and Cesar - please speak truth to power...er - uh, celebrity.
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I have a six month old South African Boerboel, he weighs 113 lbs. and is the most loving guy in the world. For "Miss Pat" not to have ever looked into her boerboels' eyes, for 3 1/2 years is terrible. Boerboels are loving, smart and want to please. They love children and guard/protect their family and home; that's their job.
We, at The Canine Sanctuary love your approach and have used many of your common sense methods long before we heard of you...and we have learned a tremendous amount more from watching your show and will continue to do so.
It is discouraging to read disparaging remarks about your rehabilitaion methods.
I have not read any other solutions or suggestions for specific problems shown on any of your shows, only complaints from jealeous types.
You do not rehabilitate one dog at a time...you rehabilitate many many more through The Dog Whisperer show.
Yesterday two dogs off-leash charged my on-leash dog. One back away when my dog tried to go after him (only because he was on the leash and I stopped him) the second - a small white dog - charged too and got in too close my dog turned (he is very fast) and got him in his mouth by the next. I was able to get the white dog free and I don't think my dog and serious damage.
My question is is my dog red zone? He was provoked but is this the sign of real aggression. If a big dog challenges him he backs down but not to a small dog. Any thoughts or help would be appreciated
Sorry I meant "had him in his mouth by the white dog's neck" not next.
Hello God-gifted Dog Whisperer,
Yesterday my husband and I adopted a 7 week old Boxer/American Bulldog mix. She is loving and affectionate, just a baby pup. 24 hours later (today), we were in the park with "Mi Mi" and our 1 year old American Cocker Spaniel "Lu Lu" when a pitt bull/ German Sheppard mix about 6 months old ran at full speed towards us and began harrassing both our dogs.
We know this dog, and know she has absolutely no training so her out-of-control behavior is understandable-- its certainly not the dog's fault. This dog has attacked other neighborhood dogs and consequently is getting a very bad reputation. She has no collar, no tags, etc. and we presume she has had no shots, vet visits, etc.
Here's what happened: She was relentlessly coming after both dogs and my husband (being a devoted DW fan) tried all tactics in a calm/assertive way-- "SHHHHT"-- to bring her down from the behavior she was displaying. Then we were shocked to see (in a split second!) our puppy jump on top of the pitt mix, pin her down, and bite her ear so hard she bled. We were completely stunned by this. The puppy is at least 3 times smaller then the dog she bit. The dog ran away and stayed away for awhile, but then came back, at which time we both agreed it was time to call animal control. The park is visited by many children, and we fear the dog's lack of training and unpredictable behavior could result in a child or other dog being seriously hurt. Our major concern, however, is the vicious behavior we experienced in our 7 week old puppy. She was growling and showing her teeth like an adult dog who'd had enough harrassment. I am very aware of the necessity to exhibit calm/assertive energy at all times, in all situations, but I must admit Mi Mi's aggressive display shook me up. I'm worried about how we can remain pack leaders when she is grown-- Her Father is the American Bulldog (approx. 80 pds) and he's enormous and looks quite intimidating, although in reality he is a sweet dog-- regardless, he has been known to show powerful aggression towards random dogs. Her Mother is the biggest female full-breed Boxer I have ever seen. The owners are avid Cesar fans (as are we), and made it very clear that we MUST train and socialize this puppy immediately. Of course, we knew this was true, and have already begun the process.
Fear #2: Our Cocker is very docile and submissive. Its only with this puppy that we have ever seen her attempting to dominate. Surprisingly, the puppy submits without question. Their play never gets too aggressive. We are concerned about how this healthy dynamic will change when Mi Mi gets bigger-- much bigger-- Her Boxer Mom is 65 pds. Her ABD Father is 80+ pounds.
Oh, and did I mention we live in a 1014 sq. ft. house?
Absolutely any input/suggestions/etc. would be enormously helpful, and my husband and I would be over-whelmingly grateful.
Kelly
I agree completely with Mark's comments. I think Cesar has done wonderful work, but he seems less willing to confront celebrities than we commoners - with non-celebrities, he does not hesitate to chastise them when they have contributed to their dogs' problems. I know that celebrities have "put him on the map" so to speak, but it is frustrating to see them not confronted for the very attitudes that result in overcrowded shelters.
A dog trainer told me once that if another dog charges your dog and you are absolutely unable to intervene, you should drop your dog's leash and let them fight it out - what will happen most of the time is that the dominant dog will pin the weaker one and that will end it. If the dominant dog is genuinely agressive and you have to intervene, improvise (throw your coat over it, find something to use as a barrier) but absolutely report it afterward. If your dog is a lot smaller, you may have to pick it up.
I walk my two dogs together, one is dog aggressive, one is very docile (sort of like Cesar's Daddy) - a few times we have been charged by other dogs - none has seemed really dangerous, more often playful - but my hyperalert one will lunge on the leash - what I have done is to drop the leash on the docile dog, who goes into the "hey, we're both dogs, let's sniff each other" ritual, which seems to calm things down. Just as aggressive dogs often trigger aggressive responses, sometimes a very docile dog will "defuse" a hyper dog.
What kind of dog does patti labelle have? please email me! I know its not a bull mastiff, its some kind of african dog?
I love your show but Miss Pat needed to hear the truth from you.
She has no business owning a dog. She actually didn't own Nasir.
Miss Pat was a joke in her high heels walking the dog in her 80's shirt.
Nasir was one of the most beautiful dogs I have ever seen.
I have a 8mo. male lab .All he likes to do is bite me . I can take him for a walk an all he does is jump an bite me. I need help . Please tell me what to do.
HELP ME!!!!! I have two American Bulldogs who are a little over a year old. One is COMPLETELY blind and the other can only see out of one eye. They are sisters that we got from the human society, they were abused and they will never regain vision. We love the dogs very much but the blind dog is getting out of control with eating everything she can. She has eaten through a metal cage, glass, and is now eating the basement stairs. We have taken then to dog training courses and worked with them at home. The are taken outside 3 times a day, and one 1 time for at least a half hour of hard running. We have tried scented dog toys and ropes but nothing seems to work. Please help me I don't know what else to do!!! yours truly
Jessie Jo
I have a Jack Russell Terrier who is 5 years old. He is often aggressive and has bitten some of our friends, and even people within my family. He thinks he is the alpha dog, and we have tried training him, which worked some what, but he is still aggressive. He only does this with certain people, but is very friendly with others and is normally a great dog. He is becoming a dog that is so unpredictable that we don't feel safe having him around anyone who comes in our house. Please give any advice you have as to what to do next.
After watching your show (we never a miss an episode!)with Patti LaBelle, we were completely enamoured of the type of dog she had - the Boerboel you took and worked with at your wonderful re-hab facility. Being dogless for the last four years due to my husband's illness, we felt, after reading everything we could about the breed it would be a great companion dog for my husband, and we could apply all the training lessons we have learned through Caesar's show to introduce a new dog into our home. However, it is such a rare breed here in the states, we knew it would be a while before this would happen.
Imagine my surprise when my husband told me that same night there was an 18 month Boerboel on line being given away free to a good home in our metro area - lively and needed strong hands! Although it was late, we called and set an appointment for the next day to see what we hoped was our next dog.
We went to the home, very tiny and inappropriate for a dog of this size...loving family, but moving to a townhome and unable to take this huge dog with them. He had been tormented by local kids running and kicking at his chain link fence so he had "foot and shoe" issues. He "nibbled" at hands, but generally was a good dog. When we walked in, he made a beeline for my husbands shoes, and hands, but stayed away from me. The second time he did this to my husband (6'2" 220#'s) I used the famous Dog Whisperer "shish" noise, and he backed away. Two more times, and he completely stayed away from him. Then I asked if we could take him for a walk; got him on leash, used the quick touches on his side to keep him focused and felt this was a dog we could love and easily work with.
Before introuducing him to our home, we stopped about a mile away to run him so we could release some of his energy and have him be in a calmer, more submissive state of mind - execllent with this size of dog and 3 cats to be dealing with - once home with us, he immediately responded to me and our youngest daughter - respectful, always waiting for us to let him know what to do - we clearly had established who the dominate "pack" members were - however, he was still slightly aggressive and insecure with my husband. Even growling once! It was clear he had been unfortuntaely trained by some physical force and flinched his head whenever my husband tried to pet him. We fixed that on the second day by having my husband put the collar on from the side and take him on three long walks - after that -(we are now on day 4) he is my husbands best friend, and has assimilated into our home like he grew up here. We constantly use the training we learned from Caesar and feel we are blessed. We want to thank Caesar for coming in to our lives and teaching us how the "pack" - our family can live and help "problem" dogs. It has helped us all as humans as well. We have lots of acreage, and if you would ever would like to open a Mountain Region Dog Pyschology Center - let us know! :-)
Thank you again, Lydia
Hello! I own sweet pugs. Jerome is my stud (sired 23 puppies). My daughter has a yorkie named Harriet. Here's my problem. Jerome will walk up to Emily and pee on her leg! He runs into any of the bedrooms and pee's on ends of beds, couches, etc. Any advice?? (Jst a note of humor, I am a Pittsburgh Steeler Maniac, and Jerome is named after Jerome "the bus" Bettis on game day he wears his jersey, Haha.
Hello Ceasar,
I absolutely love your show!!! I just watched the episode w/Patty Labelle (thanks to Tivo). Although Patty is a celebrity and very wealthy, she's still human. I hope your viewers aren't too disappointed in her decision. Patty is another example of an inexperienced dog owner who purchased a dog "out of her league". And from her lack of experience w/large breeds, she became fearful of her pet at an early age. Unfortunately, people do this all the time and the dogs are chained up, in shelters or are euthanized. At least Patty found a suitable home for her pet.
Nassir is a BEAUTIFUL boerboel. I hope to own one myself in the near future. I currently have a boxer/mastiff mix and absolutely enjoy her. And I'm getting a lot of educated support from watching your shows.
I believe celebrities should be addressed in a "different" manner than us "common folks". For example, people generally would address their supervisor, the mayor, etc. in a different tone than another co-worker or neighbor. "Most" celebrities have earned a certain level of respect. Keep up the good work Mr. C!!
Just my opinion.
I have a major problem with my 2 alfa dogs, they fight! I lived alone with my four dogs 2 chihuahuas, a shar pei and my alfa dog pit bull. Then my boyfriend moved in with me when we found out I was pregnent and along came his alfa dog australian shepard, which caused major fighting problems. We have tried training classes, new choke collars, muzzles, etc. I need help.........
I have two Jack Russell "Terrors", a male and female. My male, KC, is 3 years old, and my girlie, Sadie Mae, is 2 years old. KC started showing signs of aggression about a year ago, and now it has gone full blown. He used to be aggressive with just his toys, but now he gets aggressive over toys, food, treats, or even being in his cage. I cannot shut his cage door, (he goes in there for bed at night or if we are gone for a couple hours), because he constantly tries to bite me. He has attacked sadie several times, even when he has his muzzle on. He has pulled chunks of hair out of my 7 year old kitty. And just recently, he bit my best friend, who he loves just as much as us, in her face. He jumped up on her lap, and bit her for no reason. A few days later, he leaned against me, and showed his teeth at me then growled. I beleive i have a red zone dog, but i have cesar's book and i watch his show, but kc could care less what i do to try and correct it. Its gotten to the point where kc just ignores me and walks away. I am really torn because if i cant get this problem fixed, we need to get rid of him. He is mean to kids, to where he needs to be in his cage. My girlfriends cant come over with their kids because of this. What is gonna happen when i have a child?? I really dont know what to do and its horrible... I have never felt so un-incontrol... i want to send him to cesar.
I can't believe Labelle would neglect a dog for this long, no one should get dogs only because they are "pretty" they are not art or decoration!! But I don't think Cesar believes in moving backwards and bringing up the obvious especially since the dog is leaving her, so I can see there is no point in telling her she has abused this animal. YAY for the dog trainer girl!! she is a such a great person and I was SO happy for NAsir in the end!! I am a new dog owner and am dealing with biting and aggression with my 6 month old Jack russell/blue heeler, i was greatly moved by this episode. i still need help with my jrt, it has been upsetting the past month, major possesion agression!
ps: this show has helped so many dogs and people, it is a great thing Cesar!
A few suggestions - Karin - 8 mos is still a puppy and, like babies, they "teethe" - they have a chewing urge (and some leftover nursing urge) and they nip and bite a lot. Labs love walks and by 8 mos, he should be able to get a really good walk in - not around the block but a good long one - you may find that after 10-15 minutes, the jumping turns into walking. But keep moving forward.
Jessie Jo - Eating material that could cause an obstruction is dangerous - a vet should evaluate them for some kind of vitamin or mineral deficiency. One control method I have used is the "coffee can" - put a handful of coins in a metal coffee can and when the dog begins the bad behavior - charging the door, barking inappropriately, chewing, etc - give the can a hard shake and say, "NO!" - this was recommended to me by a dog trainer and I saw Cesar use a version of it (he had a plastic bottle) on one show. With my dog, it became so effective that all I have to do now is to say, "Coffee can!" and she stops. (PS - don't put the can where the dog has access, even to sniff it)
Sharon - Do you live next door to me? My neighbors have a Jack Russell that is absolutely fearless - she will charge my female dog that is 5x her size, on sight, no hesitation. Why does he think he's the alpha?
Nancy - Has Jerome been neutered? Dogs will mark territory (this is my bed and this is my chair and this is my rug) - also to express dominance. Try the coffee can trick if you can catch him when he's lifting that hind leg.
Nicole - Cesar did a show with a couple who had a few dominant dogs (shepherds or mixes) and they were expecting a baby - try to check out that show.
my name is Sergio buenrostro and i have a yellow lab and it's two years old,and my sister in law is planning to move in soon mean while they re-do her house and she owns rott whiler seven years old and we're triyng to introduce both dogs but they seem to always get into it but we have them on a leash. is there a quicker way or better way for them to get along.
I would just like to say i love all your shows you do great work and if i decide to get another dog I hope I can help him/her as balanced as possible because it would be great to have a dog a sweet as big daddy seems on your show.
We need your opinion. Max is a yellow lab, great pyrenees mix, (about 125 lbs) who will be 3 in March. Everyone loves him and he is very submissive most of the time. But we have had two similiar incidences now and brought it to our Vets attention because of our concerns. Our Vet, who we respect very much, gave us an article on Dominate Aggression from Tufts University. We have been trying to be consistant with our obedience and Max is responding. We have to be retrained. The first incidence happened last summer when we were in our driveway, with Max on his leash, when for not apparent reason lunged growling at one of the women that was standing next to me, no damage was done. Second was three weeks ago when we had a committee meeting at our house and he did the same thing to one of the women at the table, but this time when my husband tried to take him out the room he kinda of turned on him. Neither time did he make skin contact but you can hear the gurgling in his throat and he gets a glazed look.
The night of our meeting one of the guests gave Max a braided rawhide, which he is not accustom to having, and I wonder because of the high content of protein could that have sparked the onset of his aggression? Also, both women wear glasses, and I notice myself when looking at Max with my glasses on he starts to get a stare look on his face. We just had another meeting and Max was fine, but we are so afraid that if it happens again he may hurt someone. Max is our boy, we have no children. He does socialize at the park and is very well behaved with other dogs, although he does not like other dogs near my husband and will let them know it. We could not imagine our lives without Max. Max has had 3 surgery's on his knees since he was 1. I sometimes wonder if all the anesthia did something to his brain? Please any comments are welcome.
Skip is a Tri-colored Sheltie. If he bites me one more time, it's off to the pound.
I need your help soon!
Thank you for reading!
For "Max" - I don't think its the rawhide or the glasses. Max probably regards you as "his" - did the women get between you and him? For some reason, Max may think that the women are challenging his status in the "pack", and it sounds like he is in charge. It really doesn't matter why he does it, what matters is that it stops, and it should be addressed the minute you hear the "gurgling" - don't wait for the lunge or the bite. Same with your husband in the dog park - Max is telling the other dogs that this is "his" man. I have found that touch is more effective than yelling. Cesar often gives a consequence for bad behavior, making the dog lie down in a submissive posture - if this is an option, it should be done immediately. I think that's the key, and something that Cesar stresses - discipline begins immediately at the first hint of trouble not when it gets out of hand.
Hi All, It is sad that so many people don't understand that this is not a dear abby for dogs.....hey guys, Cesar is not going to answer your questions and pleas for help. I want to say that I just started watching a couple of months ago, but I am a lifetime dog lover and owner, and I am absolutely blown away by the wisdom, spiritually, and strength of this man. I have never written to or about a celebrity or even been on a blog before, but I am compelled to praise this man.
I have 3 dogs with ages that range from 15 (golden retriever mix, 7 cocker spaniel (shy), and my 4 year old terrior mix. I NEED MAJOR HELP. The first one is old doesn't want to be bother, the second is still young, but shy and loves to play rough with my 4 year old. Problem, the 4 year old is about 40 lbs heavier then him. My poor Bailey (4 year old) is a big mush, but can be aggressive at times. He is used to being let out in the backyard and not being walked on a regular basis. we cant have people over without him going crazy and possibley attacking them. He has on occassion bit us and yes even a little blood, but didn't bite down to "bite". We are having a baby in 2 months and my mother who lives with us is freaking out because my mother in law will be coming over to take care of the baby. How can i control him. When he is walked he pulls and pulls and pulls!! Of course he was great with the "ex" who would walk him and wrestle with him and fight with him, which I blame him for his aggression. Since he has been an "ex" for over a year, the dog has calmed down alittle but still needs a little help. Is there anything natural that i can give him to calm him down a little? So not only does he weight 120 but he is about 5'0 when he stands on his back legs.
Can a trainer really help him? He has been aggressive with the Vet and the vet just says the he is "crazy". ANY HELP IS GREATLY APPRECIATED!!
What do you do when your dog snatches up something of yours (hairbrush, pen, etc.) and runs around with it til you finally catch him? Saying "NO" sternly only has exacerbated the problem and I can't find a way for him to DROP IT unless I resort to giving him a treat.
First of all I want to thank National Geographic for sponsoring The Dog Whisperer. I was first introduced to Cesar on the Oprah show and bought his book last summer. I was so impressed with his concepts and could immediately see how to put it into practice, but I grew so much more by SEEING him put these concepts into practice. Over the years I have invested time and money on classes and private instruction and no one has ever approached dog behavior like Cesar. I am extemely greatful to him for showing me a much better way to be with my dogs. I have watched and rewatched his programs and taken many notes and begun putting into practice what I saw. I have been absolutely thrilled with the results. My two black labs have made such a transformation. Our walks are now very enjoyable and they are continuing to grow into the role of calm-submission. My youngest lab who is 6 years old does still posess a trait that I am having difficulty getting under control. She puts up a protest by "back talking" just like a child. I have remained calm assertive with her when attacking this issue, but she does not give up until I put her on the ground in a submissive state. Even then she has to have the last word with a quiet but definite sound. I would love to know how to approach this problem. Any suggestions? Thanks again to Cesar--My Dog Hero.
WE have a 5 month old female yellow lab. From the day we brought her home she has been a nipper. She bites on arms, legs pants back of jackets, etc. She will bite on skin as well. We have done everything including having a trainer come to the house. We have placed her in puppy K and she has another class starting in 3 weeks for manners. We have done all the tricks. Yalping, holding her muzzle, shaking her by the scruff. Using a water bottle giving her a time out in the crate. Nothing works!!!!If anything these just excite her more and she bites again. Help! We are running out of ideas, and can't afford the personal trainer.
Kristen, you are treating your dog like a child, no dog understands what a "tiime out" is. And physically shaking a dog by the scruff is a good way to reinforce defensive behavior. A dog will bite if it is hurt, frightened and cornered...I would not do it. 5 months is still a baby. She will not be a "dog" till she's about a year old. When she starts the excited behavior, pay special attention to what YOU or HUSBAND is doing. Get ahead of the dog, in the command position, and correct the behavior immediately. watch the video of the dog and the motorcycle... to see a physical correction. Your dog probably wants to have you happy, They are by nature, animals who like to belong, like the "pack"... Dogs are loyal, and social and they are also, great listeners... lol... good luck Kristen.
"Janer" I don't think I live next door to you. Shadow will not run to attack other dogs or humans. He is normally very good with other dogs, and we have two cats that he gets along great with. Sometimes he even acts less aggressive towards people when he is with another dog that is friendly. He will wag his tail and jump up and then when you go to pet him he bites you. He recently bit my family's close friend on her hand, and the situation is getting bad. He began thinking he was alpha ever since I went away for a weekend and my friend who was dog sitting gave him anything he wanted never disciplined him, and let him sleep on their bed. Ever since then, even after alpha training that we did with him, he still bites. If he bites anyone else that we are good friends with, I don't know what will happen. Please help!!
Hi, I rescued a 5 yaer old German Sheppard that wieghts 121 pound,10 months ago.today I took him to the mail box with me and my neighbor was walking her German Sheppard and my dog Jack saw him and rushed over and started biting her dog right away. AFTER A FEW MINUTES I GOT HIM TO STOP BUT HE DIDN'T WANT TO QUIT FOLLOWING THEM .What can I do to make my dog jack friendly with other dogs?
Hi! I have read one of Cesar's books, though I have not seen the show, and have read a lot of website articles. I have had my small poodle mix girl Grace, fixed , for about two months. She is a 2-3 year old rescue. I am walking her a lot and she is really good at home. She is not possessive with her food or toys, and she jumps a little, but I am working on that. She lets me go through doors first. One problem is that she pulls on the leash about 50% of the time. I don't let her ahead of me, she is small enough to keep beside me. I am trying to be calm and assertive. The main problem is that she gets overexcited when we pass by other dogs who are walking. She really barks and she pulls to greet them. If I let her meet them, she usually sniffs at first fine, but sometimes starts barking aggressively. She has no dog socialization except for these occasional encounters. What should I do? She really flips out when dogs go by. She is great with people.
I have an 8 week old english mastiff puppy who is very energetic, outgoing and stubborn!! My problem is when I discipline him, and I always make sure I do it firmly and calmly, he lashes out, snapping at me (my hands or my face). How can I deal with this?
What a sad show to watch Patti Labelle lock a dog up for 3 1/2 years and state it was the dogs fault? Oh dear...some people should not own animals...thank goodness for a warm hearted trainer and for Mr. Milan. Ms. Pat should be ashamed of her animal treatment and get a "new attitude"!
Hello.
I have two dogs, one is a male tri-color Pembroke Welsh Corgi (not intact) He's about two years old and his name is Buddy. My other dog is a red merle mini Australian shepherd (intact) and her name is Jo-Jo, although the corgi is younger he was the first dog. (So he's supposed to be the alpha I'm told)
Any who, Ever since Jo-Jo has come into my family's house hold she's been dominating and attacking our corgi. He doesn't do anything to cause the attack that I'm aware of, like for example my mother left me alone with the dogs. I was with buddy when Jo-Jo was far away, half way across the house I has put up one of those baby gates, I believe their called. So there was no easy way if at all she could get to buddy. But right as I got up Jo-Jo pushed her way out of the gate and knocked it down. Then ran over and attacked Buddy then forced him on his back, I tried to get her attention with a treat (a suggestion) but it didn't work. So the only thing i could do was to grab her away from him, When i tried to grab her she almost bit off my fingers. So i had to literally had to throw her off him, when i finally got her away I went back to Buddy. He was terrified, he was shivering, I felt so horrible I couldn't of stopped it sooner. My poor baby was now scared half to death and also that had been the most aggressive 'attack' I've seen since we got her.
What should I do? I'm trying to train the dog's properly but no matter what i do she's always nasty towards him.
Thanks, Julia.
we own a golden retriever who is 4 months old. he is aout 60% of the time a good dog, however, the other 40% is so wretched that i find myself looking for reasons to not spend time with him. I dont believe this is his fault. I am sure it is mine. I have a hard time telling the difference between being assertive and aggressive- to me they feel the same. When cesar mentions being "calm", "assertive", i try to put off this energy but i truly have no idea what it feels like and therefore, i just end up letting the dog run me ragged or am too stern.
for example, i just got back from a walk with hurley where, after watching a good episode of the "dog whisperer" i had felt prepared to walk my dog as a pack leader. however, the trip was a disaster! hurley was distracted by everything and could not follow one direction!!! i even tried getting him to sit, in the middle of our walk so we could finish in a calm submissive state, but he wasnt having it! as soon as i let him start to walk again, he would run, pull on the leash, get distracted from our path or chase human beings to get their affection. i love my dog very much but feel frustrated by his lack of respect for my boyfriend and i as his pack leaders. I feel that everytime we make a command on his walks, he thinks we are joking and playing. he does not take us seriously.
anyone have any suggestions?
I had a problem a little like yours,once Cass. Except it was with a labradoodle puppy. The critter acted like any and all commands were a game.
Perhaps you have to do the commands a little more hmmm,intense?
I'm afraid that's all I can say.
Good luck with your pup. ^-^
PLEASE HELP!! I have an eight year old Airedale Terrier named Delilah. Ever since we got Delilah she has been very fearful and anxious about going for walks. We got her when we had another, older and very sweet Airedale. We would walk the two dogs together and it was very noticeable that Delilah would become afraid being outside and would look to our other dog for reassurance in order for her to continue walking. Since then, we've had to put our older dog down and Delilah is on her own. Its been about 3 years since we put our older dog down and suddenly Delilah refuses to walk. She gets very excited and jumps up and down when she knows shes about to go for a walk, but she'll get about half way down the road and she starts to panic. If there are any noises or smells she has a massive anxiety attack and tries to pull out of her collar and rears up. She becomes so panicked that the only thing we can do is turn around and go home. Somedays she's fine while others, she can't get down the driveway. PLEASE HELP US!!!
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My mom adopted a dog from the pound, he was suppose to be part Gorden Setter and some other breed as well, found out that he's probably Cocker Spaniel.
He was going deaf, and blind which we don't know if that is true either.
We were also told he was 8 years old,
My mom adopted a dog from the pound, he was suppose to be part Gorden Setter and some other breed as well, found out that he's probably Cocker Spaniel.
He was going deaf, and blind which we don't know if that is true either.
We were also told he was 8 years old, the vet told us that he's probably around 12 years old if not older.
None of that bothers us, what is heart breaking is that no one ever told us about the problem with his mouth.
He has an infected area that goes clear down to the bone in his jaw.
We were told that he has cancer, but his blood work and biopsy didn't show any cancer.
The vet still feels that it's cancer, and so does my mom.
He's a real sweet dog not perfect, but that is what makes him special to us both.
He is also starting to have trouble with shaking legs off and on, they have put him on 3 medication one for pain, one that's an antibiotic, and the third for arthrist.
I don't care if he has cancer or not, I just want to help keep him feeling more like getting around, any suggestions about doing some physical therapy we can do ourselves to keep him going would be really appreciated.
Ruth
I am a Mastiff Foster mom. I am currently fostering a South African Boerboel. We have had her for 2 months. She is 17 months old and we love her so much. They are very dominant dogs. I have not doubt in my mind if I would have acted scared the first time I tried to take a toy from her and she growled it would have been all over and she would be running the show. They need a mentally strong owner. You just need to let them know you are the pack leader. If I had would have had no experience with big dogs then she would have been very intimidating. Once she new I was the leader she was perfect. They are so beautiful and so sweet looking that when they act up with other people it is hard to scold them, but that is exactly when they need direction. I also use Cesar's "Tshhh" sound with her. I have noticed that she is very focused when she is in protection mode. She will charge at our backyard fence when someone walks by. But if I clap and tell her to come she will. But I have to get her attention when she is so intensely focused on what she wants. She gets a little better every day, but I am thinking of using a whistle, not a dog whistle a regular whistle. One short whistle should get her focus off her barking long enough for her to look at me. Once I get her attention she is GREAT!! These dogs are so eager to please us. Some dogs absolutely need a strong pack leader to show them what is acceptable and others dog are just happy being in your pack and not the leader. A South African Boerboel was bred to protect and that is what they do. We are teaching ours that it is ok to bark at someone, but only a few barks are acceptable. After that we call her to us and tell her she is a good girl. She is even able to sit by my side quietly while I talk to someone walking by that she initially barked at. We let her alert us of someone near our home or yard, but then she needs to calm down. The trick is to get her attention when she is focused on running to the fence and barking.
Pattie Labelle maybe is just better with less dominant dogs. I think it was a case of her just initially being uneducated about the breed and then she was scared and scared to send the dog to live with a different family for her fear of the dog hurting them. But I am very happy that Nasir has a wonderful pack and leader who love him and he can be a dog and not be afraid of.
T
We mistakenly gave our Rotti to a friend when I thought I couldn't take care of her anymore due to her strenght. In the meantime she got out on them. When my husband asked how she was they informed him that she got away the night before. From 100 miles away I found her by making 4 phone calls. They shelter said she was found 10 miles from the guys house and on the direction to where we had her last. We haven't even heard from the friend since we told him we might have found her. It has been 4 days and no phone calls. I made the mistake once do I give her back if the guy really wants her. I DON'T want to. I DON'T want her to ever leave my side again. What is the right thing to do?
Thank you,
Worried about my Rotti
Sir,
We have a beautyful min. snouzer male with a great dispisition. We purchased a four month old female from a pet store and on the ride home she wanted to sit on my head as I was driving. She growled at my son when he tried to place her in the kennel and today after having her only 4 days she tryed to bite our vet. My son has already been attacked by a dog and has perminent scaring on his face at 6. The vet said that she was a dominant agresser and was probably wired wrong to be that agressive. The dog had a treat on the exam table, is that any excuse? We are trying to determine if we should keep her or if she would be better suited for people with no children. What is your professional advice?
Hello i'm looking for a great guard dog for my property,I own 90 acres of land and have a problem with people breaking into my home while my wife and children are asleep and also a problem with coyotee, is there a dog you can recomend to me that will be a good man stopper but aslo a good family companion? Few of my family members told me that American Pitbulls are to people friendly to be a good guard dog, they aslo mentioned that a African Boerboel would be the best man stopper that you can get in the world today is this true? Sincerly Allan
Dear Cesar,I have a Jack Russell,3yrs. and I would like to know why he shivers so much.I watch your show all the time and I have learned so much from you.But I have never seen this problem addressed.Charlie says let's do it my way,but we say NO Cesar says we'll be doing it his way, right Charlie,and he says O'K!!!
I have a three year old dog who is boxer mix: when we got him we were told boxer/pitbull mix but he doesn't display any of the pittbull looks. We have suspicions that he has wolfe in him he has alot of those mannerisms and looks, but he also looks like he has lab in him. My problem is that he is territorial . We have another smaller dog, also a heinz 57, he attacks her from time to time. Sometimes over food, sometimes when they are outside and there are strangers he feels are a threat. He has really hurt her before to where we had to take her to the vet. There are times he attacks for no reason that we can see.He is the sweetest dog to us but very protective. I am his master and he knows it he listens better to me than my husband. What I want is to be able to walk him without fear of him going into attack mode on a person or a dog. When he does attack our other dog we are able to grab him by the collar and pull him off without him bitting us. My fear is that he is going to kill our other dog. I love him so much and I raised him from six weeks old, so I don't want to get rid of him, besides he would just be put to sleep and I couldn't live with myself for that. I just want to train him, he learns quickly, so he won't do this.
My dog didn’t do it; he doesn’t deserve to die!
I appealed the vicious dog determination but the Animal Control Board was predetermined to affirm the decision before the hearing started. I was ready to do the right thing and put my dog down if evidence proved it was him. To my surprise the evidence convinced me that Dohja didn't even do the bite, the victim targeted me because she saw a dog loose in the neighborhood. If deemed vicious, Dohja must be turned over to Animal Control or he has to leave the county permanently.
The bite was not at the same location on the body or the same size as the previous bite from the dangerous dog determination. The victim contradicted herself about the location of the bite, her initial report from the location she testified in court. I had evidence of another dog that better matched her and the other witnesses’ description. Needless to say this is all a big mess.
Since he was deemed dangerous a year ago, he has undergone rigorous rehabilitation. He now sees me as pack leader. He was evaluated by a dog behaviorist, Rena Murray (MODERATOR'S NOTE: Personal information, such as telephone numbers, are not permitted on this blog.), as a level 3. He is learning to obey on the first command though sometimes he needs a firm correction. He passed Rena's evaluation with horses in view, numerous dogs barking and 3 nervous officers. Rena says that he is insecure, so he is a fearful, dominant, then aggressive and with proper rehabilitation (6-12 months), he could be a “normal” dog. He is eager to please yet I have been his only owner. He doesn't deserve to die; I just need someone who will take the time to teach him what he needs to know.
He is no longer stressed or anxious. He is calmer and enjoys life more like he did when he was a puppy. He is an 8 year old, neutered male. I will be happy to talk to you about him, our situation and options. I would love to keep him if I can, but if the decision is not overturned then I have to find him a new home. Please help me find him a new loving home or a temporary home for rehabilitation to come back to me at a later date or to be a protection dog, or a dog with a definite job. He just needs some guidance and someone else to care about him, not just me.
Dear Cesar;
Your program is great for people who do not understand dog psychology. I have been blessed with two extremely easy to train German Shepherds. I am a dog lover to an extreme, everytime I see a dog I want to pet it, hug it and love it!!!
My issue is with the Patti Labelle episode. Nassir is an awesome dog!! Even in the "scary" footage you could tell he had been abused to some extend, especially when the trainer commented that Nassir would shy his head away when approached by a stranger and even more so when he was completely submissive during the introduction to your pets, his tail down and not sniffing the others back.
Patti Labelle seemed to have a number of caged dogs. The kennels were a disgrace! Ms. Labelle could use some more guidance in animal care and may want to talk to Oprah on animal treatment.
My concern is for the other dogs now. Are they getting the required love and attention? Nassir is lucky to have his new home, but what about the others?
Sincerely,
K~
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