Sweet and Sour Candy

As I’ve said many times before, our moods and emotions are huge factors in the energy we project toward our pets—and people—in our lives. Becoming self-aware and conscious of the energy we are projecting can help us live a better life.

If your dog sees you as pack leader, she can lend an emotional hand (or paw) when you’re feeling low. But if your dog is the dominant one and doesn’t see you as pack leader, she may react negatively to your bad moods.

Remember, our moods are language to our dogs and while we can fool another human with lip service, we can never fool our animals!

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I have a beautiful 24 month old male German Shepard. Problem: he has not learned to lift his leg yet. Cleaning his front legs is getting old. Any Ideas?

Your lucid explanations here and on the TV show about the pack leader concept have made life with our peekapoo 100% better for our entire family!

I love my dog dearly but I feel we might be shortening her life by the stress we cause with our daily arguing. When my husband speaks to me she cowers and clings to me sometimes shaking as if she is cold. I know this is fear. We would never hit her or intentionally mistreat her but she reacts to our moods as if we had. Let me clarify that, she reacts to my husbands tone to me. I have told him we have to temper our conversations but he says there is nothing he can do about her reaction. I hug her and try to reassure her that everything is fine - but she knows the truth even when I do not. What can I do to convey to my darling dog that I am fine and she is also?

I have two crazy dogs one s name is pepsi and the other is named girlie.About pepsi she digs in the trash and girlie she does not listen to my mom and I.She refuse to be house trained after 4 years. She jumps on people who comes through the door and she barks all the time. PLEASE HELP US

I have two out of control dogs, Ozzy & Moose. Ozzy is a happy Golden/Great Pyranese and Moose is a Mastiff mix. They are great dogs but Moose has some aggression issues. He is terrified of children and it scares me because i plan on having children in the near future. I desperately need help with this. As for the two of them, they jump on people and will bolt out the door if given the chance and i am affraid i will lose them. They will not listen to my husband or I at all. If they get out of the house, they will not come back. This happened once and i was affraid they would get killed or never come back. I love them both dearly and they are wonderful dogs but the aggression with Moose and the running from both of them are major concerns of mine. I need help, bad. PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE HELP ME!!

In relation to this last story, it makes me feel better to know that others look at darker coated dogs like I do, I was bit by a rotweiler approx 5 years ago, my relationship with dogs has never been the same since. I really love animals but now i am scared of looking them in the eyes for fear that will get them mad and they may bite, I am getting a yellow lab puppy april 5th, any advice on how to not show that I am scared of the animal? thanks so much
Jenn /new york

Everyone is afraid of our dog. She is a large powerful dog (80lb blue heeler/huskyX). Some say its because she shows no expression. I think it's the funky colored eyes. She is a light brown dog with (I think) beautiful eyes, one almost blue/white the other half blue/white half amber. Strangely people don't have the same fear of our neurotic black border collie male. Of the two, I trust the heelerx more, although she needs a very firm hand. She is calmer and more controllable than her partner who is half her weight. She reacts to peoples fear of her, but has only shown real aggression when she felt the kids were threatened. It is the border collie that is extremely dog aggressive and unbalanced (and uncontrollable on a walk), but it is the heelerx that instills fear in everyone. We've come very close a few times to euthanising the border collie out of fear for our preschoolers safety, yet it is the heelerx everyone else thinks should be euthanized.

I have 2 new puppies- one is 8 months old and the other is 2 months old. I have noticed with my last dog- he was a lab retriever mix, as well as my new puppy- that she gets really scared if anyone is yelling or angry....
Not sure how to handle our everyday family life when there are disagreements and the dogs are around.

Again, I have 2 new puppies and the older one(8 months old) gets a little rough in her play with the puppy (2 months old). She also wants all the attention.. We try really hard to give them both equal love and attention, but they both have some needs that are at different stages still. The puppy gets really angry with the older pup. My vet says they are learning to discipline each other and let each other know what is ok... but when do I step in- I don't want either one to get hurt. ???

Jenn in NY start by taking pupppy to puppy kindergarten then keeep going to classes for older dogs. Puppys love to use their mouth to learn and to chew it is not out of agression so puppy class you will see this with all the other dogs. A pup sounds to me like a good idea because of your last experience.A great book to read is The Art of Raising A Puppy by the Monks of New Skete. It is very fast reading and you can learn alot that will help get rid of some of your fear. Good luck, Jen D

Maiyana, What kind of dog is Pepsi? Have you used a crate for her? This may help because most dogs will now go to the bathroom where they sleep. I would also leave a leash on her when you are home so you can say only once off or what ever word you choose that make her get off. Saying off over and over will not work because she is seeing that it does not matter she can do what she wants. Jen D

Hi,
I have a two year old Doberman Pincher, I have a problem with him going bark crazy when people leave my house. I have tried every correction I have been told. Nothing seems to work. Please help me. It is very stressful when I have company or even when I am trying to leave.

Commenting on "dogs pick up on our moods" this is so true. When feeling a bit depressed or have the "Monday morning" blues, we put on a smile and face the world. This never fools my dog who seems to be able to sense if I am having a bad day. He becomes very quiet and follows me around giving me gentle nudges as if to say "Cheer Up"

Dear Cesar, i would like to see reference in one of your shows about how to correct one dog without using their name when you have more then one dog in the room. How is the dog who i am correcting going to know i mean her without the other one thinking i mean her? we have two doxies and we are trying to break them of excessive barking which drives my husband to yelling at them because he is ill and it makes his nerves fray. sometimes it is only one dog barking. i cannot stand the yelling and it builds tension between us. his yelling is worse then their barking. HELP! thank you cesar

hi,
i have a 10mth old Chihuahu/fox terrier named mason. He is a great dog and is verry smart. He knows how to sit, stay, give pall, and dance. But I am having a major problem with him going potty outside. He knows that he has to go outside, somedays he will be good then somedays i will take him outside after being in his crate all day and he will just stand there and stare at me for a hlf an hr.I try to pull at him to go in the grass but he just doesnt want to budge. I can get him to go # 1 but not #2. He will want to go back inside and then when i am not looking he will go in the house. I have tried confining him to the kitchen but that didnt work. Now i have him on a leash with me arround the house but the minute i hook him to something so i can go to the bathroom myself he goes #2. He knows he is bad but i just dont get why he keeps doing it. Please someone help me i dont know what to do!!!

In response to Lori, I think it's your mixes eyes. I have a nine-year old Siberian Husky, Sabel. She's small for her breed, weighing only 40 lb, but that doesn't stop people from being a little weary of her blue/white and blue/amber eyes. As far as euthanising your other dog, Please, please, please don't. I had an English Spaniel mix when I was 8, Joey. He was a great dog, but at seemingly random would choose one neighborhood kid to pick on. He eventually bit a neighbor, so my dad gave him to a friend who needed a good hunting dog. Joey lost his aggressive behavior after discovering his knack for hunting, and lived a very happy life with his new owner.

we have a 10 yr old retired seeing eye dog, who was my mother-in-law's until she passed away one year ago. She has been with us for 10 years. We also have a 3 month old rat terrier, who joined our household 1 month ago. The puppy plays very aggressively with the older dog. At first the older dog seemed confused, but eventually began to engage and sometimes seems to be attempting to put the puppy in her place. However, the puppy is relentless and pretty rough-a lot of nipping, tugging, snarling. We usually end up intervening after a while to give everyone a break and restore some peace.

Is this normal behavior? Sometimes I wonder if there is some kind of territory struggle going on.

hi im from London England and need to know how to stop my lovely westie highland terrier from barking at everything!! its a nightmare ,,,people have suggested electric collor ,,,but surely this is a harsh thing to do ?

Please advise As soon as possible as this is a living hell aggghhh!! :-)

Kind regards

Laura

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