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Locked Up Abroad: Cuba

Kahlilah Saleem gets caught smuggling a bag filled with cocaine through Cuba in a desperate attempt to be reunited with her daughter.

Did you see the show or read the online interview with Kahlilah? What do you think about her story?

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    ali
    June 3, 2009 10:32 PM

    why didn't she just got a ticket back to miami with the money he gave her?

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      Wes
      June 3, 2009 11:05 PM
      Replying to ali

      She couldn't go back b/c Roy had her daughter...

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      Kahli Saleem
      June 7, 2009 9:11 PM
      Replying to ali

      Abu Ali'
      What could I do when my child's life was in jeopardy..

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        avandoren
        June 17, 2009 10:54 PM
        Replying to Kahli Saleem

        Kahli, I suspect there are details you really can't tell the world in order to protect yourself in the eyes of your daughter. What matters is that you learned a hard lesson and paid the price. Hopefully your story will save someone else from making a similar mistake. Good luck with your life and keep your daughter away from drugs - they are destroying our society.

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        Onerevolutionist
        June 18, 2009 5:28 PM
        Replying to Kahli Saleem

        Ms. Saleem,
        Your story is both moving and heartbreaking. I find the story of what you and your daughter have been through to be fascinating as well as horrifying. I'm sorry for what you have been through.

        I am the CEO of a film and television production company called One Revolution Entertainment. We would like to speak to you and/or whomever represents you about the possibility of developing your story as a feature film.

        Please contact me and I will fill you in on further details.

        Thank you for your time. I appreciate this opportunity.

        Dean Miller
        CEO One Revolution Entertainment
        www.onerevolutionentertainment.com

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    Gerard
    June 3, 2009 10:37 PM

    How is your daughter doin now?

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    Radie
    June 3, 2009 10:39 PM

    I am sorry, but a lot of this seems very fishy.

    And her COMPLETE lack of accepting ANY of this responsibility is disgusting. I am not saying that she is a bad person. But she is not by any means innocent in all of this.

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      Radie
      June 3, 2009 10:41 PM
      Replying to Radie

      Then again.. she did mention earlier that the "mind is a powerful thing" (paraphrasing).. she might have convinced herself that she did nothing wrong.

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        Gerard
        June 3, 2009 10:52 PM
        Replying to Radie

        innocent? maybe maybe not

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          Radie
          June 3, 2009 11:00 PM
          Replying to Gerard

          She is not innocent in this... she risked her chil'd life by moving to Miami with a stranger... granted, that I agree with her in that it would have been hard to turn down..I probably would have went.. but that doesnt mean it is right and that you dont deserve the blame.

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        Dreadtight
        June 3, 2009 11:25 PM
        Replying to Radie

        I think within her mind she didn't feel that Roy would leave her in any danger. She believed that their relationship was somewhat good because he took her to Panama after apologizing.

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      Kahli Saleem
      June 7, 2009 9:25 PM
      Replying to Radie

      Radie,
      No I am not completely innocent, some have it some acquire it, and some never get it I had to learn my lesson the hard way. Age does not always parallel maturity.I have many regrets and I'm doing my best to start a movement, using my truth to help others. See everyone can form opinions and persecute but who "Pray do tell "will step up and make a commitment to help.

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    smonday
    June 3, 2009 10:41 PM

    I think you are beautiful. What was your upbringing like that you didn't pull yourself together and think?

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      Gerard
      June 3, 2009 10:44 PM
      Replying to smonday

      I guess she was blinded by the attention and money that was given to her before this crazy aituation

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      Dreadtight
      June 3, 2009 11:27 PM
      Replying to smonday

      I too think that she is and was a very beautiful person. Growing up in the surrounding areas of Baltimore you can sometime be side tracked by people like Roy who come in and make you feel that they can offer you a better life. Kahlilah was very young and she made poor decisions based on her feelings/desire to leave the state of mind that she may have been in there in Baltimore.

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    Gerard
    June 3, 2009 10:42 PM

    I watched the show and think its a very interesting and i can see it being an emotional ride for Kahlilah

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    KONTENDER
    June 3, 2009 10:45 PM

    I WOULD OF WENT BACK TO MIAMI

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    Radie
    June 3, 2009 10:48 PM

    Now she is blaming Laura? Odd how everyone is at fault except her. Soon she is going to claim that the drug dogs conspired to get her.

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      Gerard
      June 3, 2009 11:02 PM
      Replying to Radie

      seem like she admits it was her fault in the end

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        Radie
        June 3, 2009 11:38 PM
        Replying to Gerard

        No she doesnt... she admits that it was her fault for not FINDING A WAY OUT...

        If I kill someone and then blame myself for not escaping from jail or for not figuring out how to get away with it... is that really accepting blame?

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      Dreadtight
      June 3, 2009 11:36 PM
      Replying to Radie

      Did she really blame Laura or did Laura snitch to save herself. I think she made an interpretation based on how Laura spoke with the security and how she was stopped. Why is it that everyone wants to see what they want to see. The whole drug game is a blame game and Laura also did what she had to do to get through. Kahlilah admitted that even though things didn't seem right, that she never knew what was in the BAG.

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    Radie
    June 3, 2009 10:51 PM

    Also, anyone pissed about how the commercial portray this show?

    "Fact is better then Fiction"

    Really? Then why are you using every trick in the book to make it look as fictionalized as possible? It feels WAY too stylized. Pull it back a tad.

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    Radie
    June 3, 2009 10:57 PM

    I am VERY relieved to hear that the daughter is okay. I didnt want a child to suffer because the mother made some bad choices.

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      Sparkling
      June 3, 2009 11:36 PM
      Replying to Radie

      Radie, would it have been a bad choice if this man had married her and took her on a honeymoon to Panama? Many people who already have children and meet someone and have a good relationship with them, do leave their children with a relative to have a moment with a partner on trips and such. This woman isn't a bad mother, she did this to save her daughter.

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        Radie
        June 3, 2009 11:46 PM
        Replying to Sparkling

        I dont fault her for her choices... and readily admit that I would probably have done the same... but again, that doesnt excuse her for runing off with a stranger...

        What would marriage have to do with it... In fact some would argue that if you marry a guy you met 3 weeks ago, that in itself is putting your child at risk...

        If they were married for a long time, then your point holds true.. but there is little difference in being married or not married if you still only known the person for 3 weeks.

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          Sparkling
          June 6, 2009 6:38 PM
          Replying to Radie

          She didn't put her child at risk, she made a wise choice by leaving her daughter in the states and with her mother. What if this man had taken both overseas and she got locked up and her daughter would have been at risk for being in a country where God only knows what would have happen to her. I'm just making a point of why she had a reason to make a choice as she did. So what she only knew this guy for three weeks, she felt some trust in him where she felt comfortable and made the trip with him. Its the same if someone met someone and went on a date and have no idea where they going to get hurt or killed. My point about marriage was just and indication and many people do marry if they only knew someone for a short period of time. We can't not blame this woman for following someone she believed in and I don't agree that she put her daughter at risk.

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    Athena
    June 3, 2009 11:07 PM

    As a single mother who was living on peoples' couches...when one is given an opportunity to have a better life for your child...one will take it. Kahlilah's story is one of consequences from choices that we make. It is unfortunate, yet she learned soo much about herself through this process. I could not imagine what I would be willing to do for the safety of my children. As a mom, our first instinct is to protect our children. She thought that's what she was doing.

    I too, am really glad that her daughter is okay. I only hope that Kahlilah will continue to share her story so she can heal more and be able to live.

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      Dreadtight
      June 3, 2009 11:41 PM
      Replying to Athena

      Athena, your point is very well taken. Unless you have lived under the same circumstances or life has taken you on a very similar road most have no idea what it takes to make it in this rough world. Not taking sides with anyone but most people want to believe that there is no reality in the truth unless the truth is their way of thinking.
      I can think like a rich person but yet I be poor! I can think like a poor person, yet I be rich and never have to endure the pains of poverty. Can we atleast consider that Kahlilah was looking for a better way when she met Roy. Maybe not the way she thought but better than the surroundings of Baltimore, Maryland.

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      Radie
      June 4, 2009 12:26 AM
      Replying to Athena

      Your comment contradicts itself...

      Was she doing whats best for her daughter or was she protecting her daughter by letting Roy give them a good life?

      Because they are certainly not the same thing.

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      whozurdaddy
      June 4, 2009 12:44 AM
      Replying to Athena

      She was taking an easy way out because this guy had money...dont buy the fact that she thought he was a record producer, she knew what was up!!! And she put herself and her daughter in that situation, she knew he had money from doing something illegal, and she moved to Miami after 3 weeks. That's not trying to make a better life for yourself, thats turning a blind eye to a BAD situation, that is going to end in a BAD way!!!! If you want to make a better life for yourself, then you go out there and do the work to attain that life!!!!

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    maximuszen
    June 3, 2009 11:10 PM

    learned helplessness

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    annalsa
    June 3, 2009 11:15 PM

    I think she is an example of a young person in America who is completely clueless on how the world works, has never had the opportunity to travel and therefore really didn't know the rules of the world. Unfortunately for her she had to find out the hard way. It seems as though Laura was a pro and this may not have been her first time doing this. I am very happy for Kahillah and her daughter now.

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      Dreadtight
      June 3, 2009 11:30 PM
      Replying to annalsa

      I agree with you 100% annalsa. She made some very bad choices but did she really know any better then?

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      MzT
      June 3, 2009 11:35 PM
      Replying to annalsa

      True,

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      Radie
      June 4, 2009 12:13 AM
      Replying to annalsa

      I actually agree with this comment more then any other. She is certainly a victim of not knowing the world. But it doesnt take a world traveler to understand that people dont just go and pick up women and move them to Miami with out having some sort motive...

      If anything, you should be more on your toes looking for something suspicious, rather then the opposite.

      Fact is, she got caught up in all the benefits and good times.. in the "dream" world. That is her major fault. When you have a child to care for, you cant do that. You need to remain in the real world so that you can protect them.

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    MzT
    June 3, 2009 11:16 PM

    I believe that girl snitch on you... Do you think so?

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      KONTENDER
      June 3, 2009 11:23 PM
      Replying to MzT

      yeah that girl snitched if she get by the dogs, the other girl had to snitch what every happend to roy?

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        MzT
        June 3, 2009 11:30 PM
        Replying to KONTENDER

        i dont no.. i wish i had his last named i would look him up..
        damn, i forgot america most wanted have an up date.. she is going to get what coming to her- snitch..

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    Sparkling
    June 3, 2009 11:29 PM

    As soon as he left, I would have gotten a plane ticket straight back tothe U.S. But, we can not blame her for this unfortunate nightmare that happened to her. Sometimes people don't think in ways that should have been obvious at the moment until later. I felt bad for her and wish her all the luck in the future with her daughter.

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      MzT
      June 3, 2009 11:32 PM
      Replying to Sparkling

      Same here.. i am glad he took the little girl to her grandmother.. i could have been worse.. Young and naive.. also for the love of money.. but i glad both r safe..

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    MzT
    June 3, 2009 11:40 PM

    Another thing, if it was just me and my daughter its a packing, he would have got her a ticket to Panama tooo.. Who kept the daughter when they was away??? I must of miss that part

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      Dreadtight
      June 3, 2009 11:51 PM
      Replying to MzT

      Mzt, if you have children, have you never went on a vacation and left your children with someone else.? It happens everyday, so please don't make it seem like she made a bad choice by going away without her child. I am just thankful that he took her back to Kahlilah's mom and that they are all ok today.
      6 years of this woman's life was waisted on trust. Trust in someone who knew what his whole intent was. He intended to draw these foolish young women in with the things that entise us all. Now let's be real.........please!

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        MzT
        June 4, 2009 12:00 AM
        Replying to Dreadtight

        No to get hostile, I don't have any kids.. For me i will be protected if i did as looking at this sititution.. I am protected over my niece and nephews , friend kids...NOOO.. she just met this man not that long... U no i do feel for her, she made a mistake but no she rebuilding..

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        MzT
        June 4, 2009 12:02 AM
        Replying to Dreadtight

        I feel it would be hard for me leave my child to be honest..

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    Sparkling
    June 3, 2009 11:42 PM

    Her Mother kept her daughter

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    Lois
    June 3, 2009 11:57 PM

    Saw the show. Found it very interesting that if she was suspicious that the bag contained drug, why didn't she just dump it off.

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      tytiannah13
      June 4, 2009 12:18 AM
      Replying to Lois

      When you no someones has your daughter and you can't tell noone.... you don't know where he's holding her.... you follow direction and pray your child does end up DEAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    tytiannah13
    June 4, 2009 12:01 AM

    I am just glad my little cousin made it back home safely to her daughter. When you grow up like she did all Roy's look good to a young girl with a baby. No her choice was not the best for her daughter but when he gave her all the things she wanted it all looked good at that moment. Her life story can help the next young girl that run across Roy because there is more of him in the world. YY

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      MzT
      June 4, 2009 12:04 AM
      Replying to tytiannah13

      True

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      MzT
      June 4, 2009 12:07 AM
      Replying to tytiannah13

      Did she write home or call.. to tell about her well-being..

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        tytiannah13
        June 4, 2009 12:14 AM
        Replying to MzT

        In Cuba we had to send everything throught the Embassy and some things she would get and other they would keep. If she wrote us on Monday we would get her mail a month later... But we never stoped praying for her release.

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        Radie
        June 4, 2009 12:20 AM
        Replying to MzT

        Thank you for COMMON SENSE...

        She isnt a bad person, but lets be real with some of these comments...she didnt teach anybody any good lessons... except that you cant just take the easy way out.

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          MzT
          June 4, 2009 12:31 AM
          Replying to Radie

          U Welcome, but its like this now days.. Love or Lust.. Money or Life... That Y women should have a strong mind, this is a good example.. Thats it!!!

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        MzT
        June 4, 2009 12:23 AM
        Replying to MzT

        Your reply to Lois is so true.. It is said but done.. I was afraid by watchin that was going to happen.. That how the game goes...

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    tytiannah13
    June 4, 2009 12:11 AM

    Your daughter is beautiful..... Put God first in all your choice and you will never take that trip again in life......

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    MzT
    June 4, 2009 12:20 AM

    Well I am glad she is home...

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    Curiouskat
    June 4, 2009 12:22 AM

    @Randie,

    Didn't she say at the END that SHE took responsibility for her PART in the whole thing.. C'mon... give her a break! What would you do if you were faced between rock and hard place...

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    whozurdaddy
    June 4, 2009 12:38 AM

    This girl knew all along what she was getting into, I don't buy one minute that she had no clue. She put her life at risk, and most of all her daughters life at risk, when she moved to Miami. Then the whole, "I didnt know what was in the bag?"...COME ONNNNNNNN...the only one I feel bad for is the daughter, and her mother should never be allowed to see her daughter,

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    serialx334
    June 4, 2009 1:44 AM

    Kahlilah how was the trip to my beloved dominican republic...sssshhhh...i wont tell...hope better than cuba..beautiful i bet...i have a bad story too...and believe u me ..never again...! u have a good one

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      kevgto39
      June 4, 2009 2:27 AM
      Replying to serialx334

      she was in cuba/panama/coasta rica! never went to dominican republic??

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    kevgto39
    June 4, 2009 2:22 AM

    why when she when't over the panama/costa rican boarder she only had 100.00 dollar's? and then she bought plane ticket to paris? something fishy goin on????????

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    agemt
    June 4, 2009 3:01 AM

    I'm a retired DEA Agent, and after having spent many years involved in international and domestic drug interdiction investigations. Its enlightening to see inside the minds of couriers as they attempt to smuggle drugs.

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    pfeltovich
    June 4, 2009 3:01 AM

    Hmmm...I'm very glad that Kahlilah is back home and getting her life back together! I'm also hoping that every day the relationship towards her daughter strengthens as well...

    Something seems fishy here...how could a "complete stranger" show up at a family gathering? Maybe he was a "friend of a friend" sent to wisk Kahlilah away into Florida paradise?!?! He's a "famous music producer?" Id've ask who he's produced, and checked any type of refrences/recordings he's made..

    Moreover, I wouldnt've taken the back out of the hotel room! Id've called the police, and have them take the bag for investigation. Then nark on Roy! (He had stolen her return ticket for proof of association!!)

    Pretty Crazy!!

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      MzT
      June 4, 2009 6:16 AM
      Replying to pfeltovich

      U r right!! Devil can recognize weak and naive people a mile way. Who can say that friend of the family spotted her out send a message, this work many ways!!!

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    Pinnocchio
    June 4, 2009 9:18 AM

    This was an elaborate set-up on a person who happen to be a very vulnerable single parent. I have a lot of sympathy for Kahliah.
    After all in her mind they were holding her daughter hostage.
    I had so much empathy for this women that I wept.


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      tytiannah13
      June 4, 2009 11:53 AM
      Replying to Pinnocchio

      I wept as well.... Her and my daughter are very close and when this happened to her my child was sick for weeks. Until this happens to someone you know..... you will never know what it feels like to be stuck between a rock and a hard plate....Especially when you have children.

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    tsaleem
    June 4, 2009 1:18 PM

    first off there is alot of ignorance and intelligence here- as with any message board- so I will not argue with a fool because a passerby...

    My sister made some mstakes and paid 6 years for her mistakes.

    My niece graduated from 8th grade today.

    The sorry people that manipulate people into situations and disregard multiple human lives for monetary reasons- eh?

    Also we didn't know she was "Locked up Abroad" I picked up my niece at the airport and the American Embassy informed me 3 months later.

    @tytiannah who are you?

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    Lynz24
    June 4, 2009 3:59 PM

    My husband & I were touched and amazed by Kahillah's story- The wrong Decisions we ALL make in life and then the "Right Ones" where God overrules as we recognize our need to turn ourselves toward Him. "We know that in EVERYTHING God works for good with those who love Him, who are called according to His purpose." Romans 8:28" I like to rephrase, to those who STRUGGLE to love Him- Forgive my "religiousosity"- I mean no disrespect to those who believe differently or don't believe at all.
    Also, how is Kahillah doing financially, can we in some small ways contribute? If so How??
    thank you, and I hope not to have offended anyone-

    Lynz24

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    kevin7r
    June 4, 2009 7:38 PM

    Okay. Allot of folks are passing judgement on this woman and don't have a clue of what she was going thru in Philly. As you sit in your suburban home typing on your laptop sipping Starbucks, don't Tavis Smiley her. Watch the show, listen to her side of the story, and accept the fact that we sometimes make the wrong decisions in life and hope others will learn from our mistakes. I'm glad she was able to get thru this and be able to reunite with her daughter. Many don't get this chance. Wake up folks! "Some of us weren't born with silver spoons in our mouths Ms. Hawkins".(Nino Brown, New Jack City) kevin7r@yahoo.com

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    Jbeezy
    June 4, 2009 7:55 PM

    Okay, coming from brokenss so to speak and this dude throwing all this money around I can understand going to Miami, but leaving your daughter was wild. I like her though, glad she made it through. I need to get her number.

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    Jbeezy
    June 4, 2009 7:59 PM

    Putting myself in her shoes: if I'm constantly struggling financially with no stable residence with a child and someone sweeps me off my feet a trip to Miami is understandable, but leaving my daughter is like whoa! I like her though, glad she made it through. I'd like to meet her in person.

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    annalsa
    June 4, 2009 8:43 PM

    Kahlilah, I know this was an ordeal for you and your family. I am not sure what you are doing now job wise, however use this as a way to help others who are currently in this position. No one knows (except other cubans) what Cubas prison system is like, you do. At the time this event occured you were the only female American locked up. Why don't you find out if there are any more Americans (males or females) imprisoned in Cuba and see what you can do to help them. Of course the system is a difficult one, but maybe letters or clothing or food items or whatever the Cuban system would allow may give them something to hold on to until their time is served.
    What do you think Kahlilah?

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      Kahli Saleem
      June 7, 2009 10:00 PM
      Replying to annalsa

      Annalsa'
      I am looking forward to helping other prisoners abroad because no one knows when they may be in the same situation with no family, friends or political help. Regardless of what I did the point is I was lost and alone.Great Britain has a organization for their citizens who are in need of financial help, I never expected that my own country would abandon me as I'm being trailed, I never expected to be a political prisoner in a country that will not even give me a fair trail. I am here now trying to get my truths to a broader audience so that changes can be made in this outdated system..

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    pfeltovich
    June 5, 2009 1:18 AM

    This episode of Locked Up Abroad was BY FAR the most moving! I must say that I was a bit misty-eyed towards the end of the program, esp. when they showed current pics of Kahlilah and her daughter!

    I hope that someday I could meet Kahliah and her daughter, and see how they're doing..

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    Pinksugr
    June 5, 2009 12:09 PM

    It's so easy for people to have an opinion about what she should and should not have done. The reality is that unless you're in the situation, you have no idea what decisions you will make. Khalilah, I commend you for acknowledging your mistakes and moving on with your life. It could have been worse. Best regards to you and your daughter!

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    smonday
    June 6, 2009 8:01 PM

    What is your life like now as far as making it goes?

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    grafittix
    June 7, 2009 7:09 PM

    How did she gain entry to Cuba on an US passport without an exception for journalism or religious/educational mission? Also, I would think an American woman imprisoned in Cuba would be an international news story, but when I Google it I get nothing bit this episode of Locked Up Abroad. This is very odd.

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    Secret
    June 7, 2009 7:27 PM

    I followed the different stories of young women her age at the time 22 or older, you have made similar choices. Young lady meet, nice man, has lots of money, promise the world, women on a plane, then here goes the story.
    Women have gave "On line Lovers" thousand of $$, this is recent news. This show would never had existed if the "ex Locked Up Abroad" had took the drug off them, never accepted that fancy vacation, follow their gut instinct etc. The comments were always of pity, compassion and understanding.
    It's always so easy for us to log on to google and check out the story, find the flaws. Maybe she got paid for her story?
    Ask yourself this question, How low can you go? How much pain can you endure? What is your price?


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    Kahli Saleem
    June 7, 2009 9:07 PM

    Dear Viewers,
    Please excuse my lateness but I am somewhat computer illiterate.I had learn how to blog once I came home.Computers were not as common as they are now so I had to learn a lot when I came home. You don't get such privileges in Cuba.For those of you that sent me your blessing I kindly Thank You ..I'll start off by saying my daughter is just fine through the mercy of God..I am not asking for sympathy all I ask is that you listen to my story and accept it for what it is,not what you precede it to be..My life consist of strife and struggle and I was tired of fighting.

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    hailyloren
    June 7, 2009 10:30 PM

    How did she get out of it all, How did she get her daughter back, How is it possable that she just never heard of Roy again??..That part make no scens..its bazzar

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    Nixxie
    June 9, 2009 10:33 PM

    I was so moved by this story. Of all the stories I viewed, this one gripped me the most. All I could think was "there before the grace of God go I." I don't have kids and I don't know what I would've done in that situation. I was just so happy that Roy took her daughter to Kahlilah's mother's house and that Kahlilah didn't have to serve the full sentence, in Cuba no less. Kahlilah, thank you for sharing your story. For me, it solidifies "the game" that people play when looking to use others. This ordeal must've made you a stronger mother to your beautiful daughter. Not many people get a second chance. I'm glad you did. May God bless you always.

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    Myrna
    June 10, 2009 10:03 AM

    I posted a comment on Monday, June 8. It was very lenghtly and I don't see it. Does anybody know how and when it will get posted? Concern.

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    Myrna
    June 10, 2009 10:09 AM

    You see Kahlilah when you met Roy you looked vulnerable and desperate so he thought I got the right one and took advantage of the situation. When it sounds too good to be true IT IS. You said 3 weeks later you and your daughter went to Miami. What were you thinking you are a single mother and in three weeks you and your daughter go and live with this guy. Let me just explain something to you, when you meet someone it takes years to really know that person and sometimes you still may not know them all that well especially if they keep certain things from you that they don’t want you to know.

    Question:

    What happen to your mother when you and your daughter were homeless because you said towards the end of the show that when Roy left you in Panama he took your daughter to your mother’s house? While locked up your mother raised your daughter until you got out of jail. Thank God for your Mom. You know Kahlilah one day when your daughter is old enough to understand; you seriously should think about telling her everything that happen to you in full detail so in the future this never happens to her by anyone.

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    ngc_user
    June 17, 2009 7:16 PM

    Kahlilah, thank you for sharing your story. I won't even begin to make judgement. It's easy for me to sit on my laptop and say what I would have done, but never know what would have happened in reality. All bets are off when you are in another country. Any thoughts on writing a book?

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    Tay
    June 25, 2009 2:11 AM

    Kahlilah, I can only say that I know all to well the emotions that your feeling. I saw your story and by the end I was in tears. I never thought that I would hear a story so much like mine. It's been about 5 1/2 years that i've been home now and I can't shake the what if question. I think how would my life be diffrent or my daughters for that matter. Like you I also have a daughter and what still hurts the most is the guilt of being away from her, how when I left thinking I would only be gone for a few days she was my little girl and how only in a year and a half I had missed so much. I know my year and a half doesn't compare to your six but you and I both know any time away from your kids is a life time. After all this time my guilt is still heavy and so like you I choose who I tell but the heavest of my guilt is for my daughter in a lot ways I still feel like i've let her down and most of all I feel like I lost a part of who I was. I just wanted to say thank you for having the courage to tell your story.

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    Kahli Saleem
    June 29, 2009 9:49 PM

    Tay,
    Your so beautiful,your comment made me cry.Boo I know it"s hard to let go of the guilt and I know for sure how it feels to feel like you've lost apart of yourself....I just keep it moving that's all you really can do because when it comes down to it we can make plans ALL DAY LONG but the only one that knows without doubt is GOD All Mighty!! I can "reassure" you though that as long as you had a strong bond with your child before you left there is no time in the world that can break that...Please send me your e-mail address so we can wrap...May God Bless You & Your Baby Girl,she will ALWAYS BE! your baby girl I know you live within her..One Love..
    Kahli Saleem

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    Trisha Denise
    June 30, 2009 12:52 PM

    Hi Kahli!
    Despite the negativity goin on here - I thought your story was interesting. I'm a Bmore native - we have to chat more (not in this public thing) I am dying to know how life was like when you came back. This city does not welcome people with open arms so I can only imagine how life was like...let me know if you want my personal email.

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      Kahli Saleem
      July 2, 2009 3:19 PM
      Replying to Trisha Denise

      Hello Trisha,
      Yes I'm still in this crazy City of Baltimore,making my way out of no way!! I wonder if I will ever feel comfortable enough here to ever truly call it "un"Home..People just stare at me Alla' Time, I don't know if they're trying to figure out if I'm pretty or Am I some kinda of purple~ Alien!! LOL!!! I stay mainly because my daughter has a really good circle of friends that were there for her when I couldn't be..Over the 6 years I learned that everyone needs someone reliable in their corner they can truly relate to,even if it's simply a listening ear.. I do enjoy having Yin's "girls" around because they remind me that l not an alien & also I'm still a Really Great Mom!!! It's crazy to be an adult now with all I know about corruption & feel my most humane when touched by their innate innocence...Yes there's still that burden of guilt that I fight on a daily basis, Come now, No sympathy cards people~!! We all go through our bouts of self doubt, I'm just humble enough to admit it!.... Trisha,like you, I too question "If" it never happened would Yin & I have a more stable foundation than we do now.. And my answer is No~! See a lot of my guilt has to deal with the fact that I had to learn a hard lesson that you never turn your back on "He" Who Created You... I'm by no means super religious now,but I know for certain a Higher Power exist that will personally "save" you even when your not on your knees praying for help, but you must remain Faithful to Him.. Keep The Faith Sis!! Remember if God has brought you thus far then "He" has a better plan for you otherwise He would not have saved you..I would like your personal e-mail address how do I get that??

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        Trisha Denise
        July 8, 2009 5:17 PM
        Replying to Kahli Saleem

        I am trying to figure out how to give it to you without giving it to everyone who visits this page....ummm I guess it wouldn't hurt.
        dynamicyouth48@yahoo.com
        Just put a post on this public forum to let me know you sent me something. I know people are going to blow my email up. LOL
        Talk to you soon.

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    KIM
    July 18, 2009 5:32 PM

    KAHLILAH I HAVE SO MANY QUESTION ABOUT YOUR STORY IF YOU CAN HIT ME UP AT KIM85102003@YAHOO.COM

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    bigscoob
    October 16, 2009 8:03 PM

    Hey Kahlilah...are you still taking questions or comments?

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    Chris
    October 16, 2009 8:10 PM

    Where did your daughter's biological father step in throughout this whole ordeal?

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    samjung23
    October 17, 2009 2:06 PM

    This chick is a liar and a great story teller. I didn't believe a word she said. She did this purely for the cash. Everything else was said to make her look good. She's probably still a criminal.

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    Andy
    October 29, 2009 4:13 AM

    Just watched it here in NGC and one thing I don't understand is, why didn't you went to the US embassy in Panama straight after Roy left? They could have given you legal advise and contacted authorities in Miami to make sure your daughter is safe before turning their attention on Roy.

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    King
    October 29, 2009 5:38 AM

    Kahil,

    I just watched the story about your imprisonment in Cuba and was deeply touched and moved. I am not here to judge you based on the choices you made in your twenties. We all made bad choices in our twenties and who is to say that your choices were worse than anyone else. What is important is not what happened in the past but rather who you became as a result of what happened. In watching you talk about your ordeal I saw a very intelligent woman, who articulated herself very well, and even though I don't know you personally I can tell that you have grown significantly from this experience. Life is about making choices everyday, and what makes a person a success or failure is how they respond or handle the ramification of the choices that they have made. I admire you for being able to spend six years in prison in Cuba, a country that you were in for only a day, knew nothing of the custom or language and today you emerge as a stronger person for it. You made time serve you as oppose to you serving time. I enjoy watching the Locked-Up Abroad series, not to try to and figure out why people made the choices they did and judge them for it, but to see the strength of the human spirit when it is tested with adversity. So my sister learn from this experience and take pride in the fact that you discovered what type of person you are and you now know the true meaning of the expression that "What doesn't break you, makes you stronger."
    Peace and Love.

    King

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      Kahli Saleem
      October 31, 2009 4:20 PM
      Replying to King

      King,
      I Thank You Very Much for your comment.. I still go through bouts of strength. I've been diagnosed with post dramatic stress. These other negative responses that I see I am not concerned with because none of those people were there when I went through my many growing pains. I don't do anything illegal at all nor do I associate much with people I once considered friends. God choose to save me, he took me completely away from all the negativity so that I can be a stronger & wiser person.. Amen

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        King
        November 11, 2009 7:09 AM
        Replying to Kahli Saleem

        Amen is right. I can you feel the change in you from your interview and replies written on this message board. I also noticed that you are one of the few if not the only person to have a question and answer session with the Producers of the show and create a forum. My advice for you for dealing with PDS is to write a book about your life. It will help you to put the past in the proper perspective. Since your life was interesting enough to create a show around, I sure that it is interesting enough to write a book about. Your story is compelling and should be shared, so that others may learn from your mistake. You have to choices you can either look at the past with regret and discontentment or you can choose to embrace your past for being just that the past, build on it, learn from it, and use it to empower you to become the great person you are destined to be. I would like to leave you with this statement. "This is my wish for you: Comfort on difficult days, smiles when sadness intrudes, rainbows to follow the clouds, laughter to kiss your lips, sunsets to warm your heart, hugs when spirits sag, beauty for your eyes to see, friendships to brighten your being, faith so that you can believe, confidence for when you doubt, courage to know yourself, patience to accept the truth, Love to complete your life.”

        - King

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    ssv
    November 5, 2009 5:51 AM

    Kahli, incredibly moving story. I'm so happy to see that you don't reply to stupid comments.
    But please, sis, take your email addy of this board. You'll get even more retarded emails, not to mention bots and hackers.

    peace & light,
    ssv

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      ssv
      November 5, 2009 5:53 AM
      Replying to ssv

      Meant to say, take your email addy 'off' this board.

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